Nuƒoƒo le aƒeme, gake ɖoɖoezizi le sukua? Esia ate ŋu anye Selective Mutism!

Ðe viwò si ƒua du nɔa fefem le aƒeme ɣesiaɣi eye wòtsɔa eƒe nuƒoƒo ƒoa ame bubuwo ta la, zia ɖoɖoe zi ɖeka abe kpememe ene le suku, le ƒometɔ aɖe ƒe aƒeme, alo ne edo go ame yeye aɖea? Aleke kee nèɖabia tso esi be wòaƒo nu o, ɖe wòzi ɖoɖoe henɔa eɖokui si, abe ɖe wòle vɔvɔ̃m enea? Dzila geɖe susuna be esiae nye ɖevia ƒe ŋukpe alo dzimesesẽ, gake ate ŋu anye nane si de to wu ema. Egbea míele nu ƒom tso ‘ɖoɖoezizi tiatia’ sia alo, le atikewɔwɔ gome la, Selective Mutism .

Kpuie ko la, nukae nye Selective Mutism?

Selective mutism nye dzimaɖitsitsidɔ si dzea ɖeviwo dzi. Le nɔnɔme sia me la, ɖevia te ŋu ƒoa nu nyuie, gake le hadome nɔnɔme aɖewo me (le kpɔɖeŋu me, le suku, le ƒometɔwo ŋkume) la, womegate ŋu ƒoa nu kura o.

Le aƒeme, le nɔnɔme si me wosena le wo ɖokui me be yewonya nu tso yewo ŋu eye yewole dedie (kple dada, papa, nɔviwo) la, ɖevi siawo ƒoa nu ŋutɔ. Gake ne wodo go le nɔnɔme ma godo, le kpɔɖeŋu me, ne woyi sukuxɔ me, ne nufiala bia nya aɖe la, wozi ɖoɖoe keŋkeŋ. Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, woate ŋu aƒo nu blewu ale gbegbe be xɔlɔ̃ aɖe koe ate ŋu ase wo.

Nukawoe nye ɖevi si ŋu Selective Mutism le ƒe nɔnɔme veviwo?

Nɔnɔme siawo ate ŋu ato vovo tso ɖevi ɖesiaɖe gbɔ, gake nu ʋɛ aɖewo li siwo woate ŋu akpɔ le ɖekawɔwɔ me.

• Nuƒoƒo le teƒe siwo míenya nyuie: Le aƒeme la, mate ŋu aƒo nu kple dzinyelawo kple nɔvinyewo kuxi aɖeke manɔmee.
• Nuƒoƒo manɔmee le hadome nɔnɔme aɖewo me: Nuƒoƒo nu tsona keŋkeŋ le teƒewo abe suku ene, kplɔ̃ɖoƒewo, alo le ƒometɔwo ŋkume.
• Dzimaɖitsitsi ƒe dzesiwo ɖeɖefia: Ðevia vɔ̃na eye meɖea dzi ɖi ne mete ŋu le nu ƒom o. Ame aɖewo léna ɖe wo dada alo wo fofo ŋu. Mo ƒe dzedzeme trɔna, edzena abe ɖe wofa tsikpe ene.
• Nuwo zazã ɖe nyagbe teƒe: Togbɔ be womate ŋu aƒo nu o hã la, wodzea agbagba be yewoaɖo dze to ta ʋuʋu, asiɖeɖe le nu ŋu, alo nuŋɔŋlɔ me.
• Nɔnɔme sia nɔa anyi wu ɣleti ɖeka: Enye nusi sɔ be ɖevi nazi ɖoɖoe hena ɣeyiɣi aɖe le suku yeye ƒe ɣleti gbãtɔ me. Gake ne ɖoɖoezizi sia yi edzi wu ɣleti ɖeka la, enye nusi ŋu wòle be woatsi dzi ɖo.

Ðe esia nye ŋukpe ko? Alo ɖe wònye nane si de ŋgɔ wu ema?

Esiae nye kuxi gãtɔ kekeake si le ame geɖe ŋu. Dzila geɖe susuna be, "Vinye kpea ŋu akpa, esia tae meƒoa nu o ɖo." GakeSelective mutism kple general shayness nye nu eve siwo to vovo.

Bu eŋu kpɔ, ne ɖevi si kpea ŋu yi teƒe yeye aɖe la, wotsia anyi kpoo le gɔmedzedzea me, gake le ɣeyiɣi aɖe megbe la, nutoa me va zu numame na wo la, wodzea dzeɖoɖo gɔme vivivi. Gake ɖevi si ŋu Selective Mutism le mate ŋu awɔ ema o. Le nɔnɔme ma me la, nuƒoƒo ƒe ŋutete meganɔa wo si kura o. Enye nusi dzi womate ŋu aɖu o.

Ðe esia nye autism? Alo ɖe wònye nuƒoƒo ƒe heheɖemegbea?

Esia hã nye teƒe si ame geɖe tɔtɔna le.

• Autism: Ðevi aɖewo siwo ŋu autism le ate ŋu ahe ɖe megbe le nuƒoƒo me alo awɔ nu siwo menye nyagbɔgblɔ o. Gake autism nye tsitsimedɔ si keke ta wu dzimaɖitsitsidɔ. Ate ŋu alɔ dzesi bubuwo hã ɖe eme, abe hadome dzesiwo gɔmesese sesẽ, seselelãme ƒe nyawo, kple nuwɔna siwo wogbugbɔ gblɔna ene. Zi geɖe la, ɖevi siwo ŋu Selective Mutism le te ŋu sea ame bubuwo ƒe mo ƒe dzedzeme kple seselelãmewo gɔme.
• Gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe Heheɖemegbe: Ne ɖevi si xɔ ƒe eve megblɔ nya ɖeka pɛ hã o la, míate ŋu abui be enye gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe heheɖemegbe. Gake ne ɖevi si xɔ ƒe ade ƒoa nu nyuie le aƒeme gake le suku koe la, anɔ eme be anye Selective Mutism.

Nukatae ɖeviwo xɔa nɔnɔme sia?

Womeke ɖe nusi tututu gbɔ esia tso ŋu haɖe o, gake numekulawo xɔe se be nu geɖe ate ŋu ana wòdzɔ.

• Dzimaɖitsitsi ƒe Nɔnɔme: Wodzia ɖevi siawo dometɔ geɖe kple hadomedzimaɖitsitsi ƒe nɔnɔme.
• Ƒome ŋutinya:Dzimaɖitsitsidɔ alo ŋukpe si gbɔ eme le ƒomea me tɔ aɖe ŋu, vevietɔ dzilawo.
• Nuƒoƒo kple gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe kuxiwo: Nuƒoƒo ƒe kuxi alo gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe kuxi aɖe ate ŋu anɔ ɖevi aɖewo ŋu, si ate ŋu ana woavɔ̃ be yewoaƒo nu le ame bubuwo ŋkume.
• Nya veviwo: Esesẽna na ɖevi aɖewo be woanɔ te ɖe amehawo kple toɣliɖeɖe sesẽwo nu. Le nɔnɔme mawo me la, wozia ɖoɖoe abe mɔ si dzi woato akpɔ wo ɖokui ta ene.

Aleke ɖɔkta awɔ anya dɔléle sia pɛpɛpɛ?

Ne èsusu be dzesi siawo le viwòa ŋu la, nu nyuitɔ si nàwɔe nye be nàyi ɖeviwo ƒe dɔdala gbɔ.

Ðɔktaa wɔa afɔɖeɖe geɖe tsɔ dea dzesi dɔléle sia.

1. Lãmedodokpɔ: Gbã la, wowɔa dodokpɔwo be woakpɔ egbɔ be ŋutilã me kuxi aɖeke mele ɖevia ƒe to kple nuƒoƒo ƒe ŋutinuwo (nu, aɖe, gbeɖiɖikawo) ŋu o.

2. Tsitsi Ŋuti Nyabiasewo: Woabia nya tsitotsito wò tso viwò ƒe tsitsi, eƒe nuwɔna, kple eƒe ƒome ŋutinya tso edziɣi vaseɖe fifia ŋu.

3. Woaɖoe ɖe Nuƒoƒo ƒe Dɔdamɔnufiala: Woate ŋu aɖo wò ɖe Nuƒoƒo ƒe Dɔléleŋutinunyala gbɔ be wòada viwòa ƒe nuƒoƒo kple gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe ŋutete kpɔ.

4. Kpekpeɖeŋu si tso susumedɔdala gbɔ: Esi wònye be nɔnɔme sia do ƒome kple dzimaɖitsitsi ta la, ele vevie ŋutɔ be woatsɔ ɖevia ayi susuŋutinunyala alo tagbɔdɔdala si bi ɖe ɖeviwo ƒe susu ƒe lãmesẽnyawo me gbɔ. Woawoe nye amesiwo ate ŋu aɖo kpe edzi be nɔnɔme sia nye Selective Mutism vavã eye woawɔ atikewɔwɔ ƒe ɖoɖo si sɔ na ɖevia.

Aleke nàte ŋu akpe asi ɖe eŋu abe dzila alo nufiala ene?

Dzilawo, nufialawo, kple ƒomea ƒe kpekpeɖeŋu le vevie ŋutɔ le nɔnɔme sia dada me.

Nusi dzilawo ate ŋu awɔ:

• Gɔmesese: Nu gbãtɔ si gɔme wòle be míase enye be menye ɖevia ƒe dzimesesẽ ƒe nyae esia nye o, ke boŋ be ele nya bubu aɖe gblɔm le dzimaɖitsitsi si dzi womate ŋu aɖu o ta.
• Mègazi viwò dzi o: Mègazi viwòa dzi gbeɖe be wòaƒo nu o. Ðeko esia wɔwɔ ana ɖevia ƒe dzimaɖitsitsi nadzi ɖe edzi. Mègagblɔ nyawo abe, "Ʋu nu nàƒo nu!"
• Gbɔ dzi ɖi: Nɔnɔme sia xɔa ɣeyiɣi hafi wòhaya. Gbɔ dzi ɖi na viwòa. Kafu eƒe dzidzedzekpɔkpɔ suewo (e.g., alɔgbɔnukoko na ame aɖe, ta ʋuʋu).
• Wɔ ɖe atikewɔlawo ƒe aɖaŋuɖoɖo dzi: Wɔ ɖe mɔfiame siwo viwòa ƒe ɖɔkta kple atikewɔla na wò dzi pɛpɛpɛ.

Nusi nufialawo ate ŋu awɔ:

• Ðevia ŋeŋe aɖaba ƒu edzi o:Ne ɖevia mele nu ƒom o hã la, se egɔme be ele klass eye wòle to ɖom nusɔsrɔ̃awo.
• Mɔnu bubuwo nana: Ðe mɔ na mɔnu bubuwo abe nuŋɔŋlɔ, nutata, alo ta ʋuʋu ene be woaɖo nyabiasewo ŋu.
• Nuto si me dedienɔnɔ le wɔwɔ: Wɔ nɔnɔme si me viwòa ase le eɖokui me be yele dedie le le klass. Na woanɔ anyi ɖe xɔ̃wò aɖe si dzi nèka ɖo la xa.
• Nyanya: Ðe nɔnɔme sia me na ɖevi bubuwo le mɔ bɔbɔe aɖe nu, eye nàde dzi ƒo na wo be woakpe ɖe ɖevi sia ŋu eye womagaɖee ɖe aga o.

Nusi nɔviwo kple xɔlɔ̃wo ate ŋu awɔ:

• Mègaɖe viwòa ɖe aga o: Mègaɖe viwòa ɖe aga o, tsɔe de fefeawo me. Ne meƒo nu o hã la, ate ŋu aƒo fefe kokoko.
• Takpɔkpɔ tso anyrawɔwɔ me: Ne ɖevi bubuwo le fewu ɖum le ɖevi sia ŋu kple ŋkɔwo abe "mumu" ene la, ƒo nu tsi tre ɖe eŋu eye nàna nufialawo nanya.
• Kpekpeɖeŋunana: Ne ehiã be ɖevia nagblɔ nya aɖe la, kpe ɖe wo ŋu woagblɔe na wo (ne ɖevia lɔ̃ ɖe edzi).