Sometimes it's very difficult to live with the sadness, loss, and helplessness that you feel. At a time like this, the only way to get help, especially if you decide to see a psychiatrist, is to seek help. So if you're ready to take that step, that's a really good thing. But if you go to the doctor with a little preparation, you can get the most out of that appointment. Let's see what you need to do about it.
Be actively involved in your treatment.
The most important thing to understand first is that this is your journey to recovery. Therefore, the more involved you are in your treatment, the better the results will be. The doctor will guide you, prescribe medication, and advise you. But you are the pilot of this journey. It is very important that you are proactive, ask questions, and be honest about how you feel.
Imagine that you have booked an appointment with the doctor. But you may still have some questions and fears. That is very normal.
You can call the doctor's office and clarify these things. For example, knowing in advance about the doctor's qualifications, experience in treating this type of patient, and the fees charged can greatly ease your mind.
Make a list of questions and things to talk about.
When the doctor comes in, sometimes we can suddenly forget what we wanted to ask. This is normal due to the nervousness and anxiety that we experience at that time. The best solution to this is to write down the questions you want to ask and the things you want to talk about on a piece of paper or on your phone beforehand.
When you are prepared like this, nothing will stand in your way. You can talk and explain everything that is on your mind. To help you with this, see the table below.
| Good questions to ask the doctor | Topics you should discuss with your doctor |
|---|---|
| What treatments do you offer? (e.g., medication, talk therapy) | Symptoms you are experiencing (e.g. feeling sad all the time, feeling lethargic, not sleeping, not eating) |
| What medications will I be given? Do they have side effects ? | About other medical conditions you have (e.g. diabetes, high blood pressure, thyroid problems) |
| How long does it take to feel better after starting treatment? | Stressors in your life (e.g., work problems, family conflicts, financial problems) |
| Can I contact you in an emergency outside of an appointment? If so, how? | Have you received treatment for this condition before? What helped and what didn't ? |
| What books or other resources are there that I can read to help? | Who is there to help you (e.g. friends, family, support groups) |
| How can I actively participate in my treatment? | Being honest about whether you use alcohol or other drugs. |
Increase your knowledge a little.
This is not mandatory, but if you can, do some research on what depression is. Once you have a basic understanding of this, you will be able to understand what the doctor is saying better. It will also be easier for you to ask questions that come to mind.
But remember, not everything you find on the internet is accurate. Therefore, use this information only as a starting point for a conversation with your doctor. Final decisions and treatment plans should always be discussed with your doctor.
Things to bring without forgetting
1. Your list of questions: Write a list on paper or on your phone.
2. Other medications you are taking: If you are taking medication for any other medical condition (e.g. diabetes, high blood pressure), bring that medication and its prescription with you. It will be a great help for the doctor to choose the right medication for you.
3. Previous medical records: If you have previously received treatment for this condition or another mental health problem, bring any related records with you.
Going to the doctor with this preparation will give you a lot of confidence and will not waste your time. These things will help you a lot to make the first step on your healing journey a success.
Take-Home Message
- Before you go to see the doctor, make a list of questions you want to ask and things you want to talk about. This will make your appointment more productive.
- Talk honestly and openly with your doctor about your symptoms, the stresses in your life, and the people who are there to help you. Don't hide anything.
- If you are taking any medications for other conditions, be sure to inform your doctor about them.
- Remember, asking for help is not a sign of weakness, it is a sign of strength. You are not alone in this journey of recovery. There are doctors and loved ones who can support you.
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