What is the best care for your loved ones with memory loss? Let's learn about Nursing Home and Memory Care

Have you ever noticed that your mother, father, or someone you love is slowly losing their memory? Sometimes they get lost, get angry, and behave in an erratic manner when they leave the house. Only the person who does it knows how difficult it is to take care of them at home at such times. So, in such a situation, we start thinking about a place where they can get the special care they need. Two names that we often hear here are Nursing Homes and Memory Care Centers. Although these two seem similar, there are big differences between them. Let's talk about them today.

What are Nursing Homes?

Simply put, a nursing home is a place that provides 24-hour care to people with various health problems and disabilities who are difficult to care for at home. The residents are assisted with daily activities such as feeding, bathing, and dressing.

For example, a nursing home can be a great service for someone who needs special care for a while after a major surgery, or for an elderly person who is not too ill to be in a hospital but cannot live alone. People with memory problems can stay in such places for a long time.

In addition to this basic care, nursing homes also provide occupational health services. For example, physical therapy, occupational therapy, etc. Also, since nurses are present, medical care such as administering medications, cleaning wounds, and giving saline (IV) is also provided.

So what are Memory Care Centers?

Memory care centers are like the next step up from a nursing home. They also provide 24-hour care and help with daily tasks. But the main difference is that these places are specifically designed for patients with memory loss .

That means there are staff here who are specially trained to care for people with cognitive impairments like Alzheimer's or dementia. They know how to deal with these patients and how to calm them down.

These are often operated as separate, well-guarded units within a nursing home. This is done to prevent someone with memory loss from accidentally wandering out and getting lost. Sometimes these are also located in separate buildings.

The environment here is also designed to be easy for patients. For example, pictures and signs are used to make it easier for them to find their room and the bathroom. There are enclosed courtyards so they can walk safely outside. Also, activities that are especially beneficial for those with memory impairment, such as listening to music and drawing, are included in the daily schedule.

Signs that your loved one needs memory care

Making the decision to send a loved one home to a place like this is not easy. But, sometimes it's the best thing you can do for them and for you. See if you can spot these signs.

1. Security issues

"I'm afraid to leave mom/dad home alone and go out even for a little while. Will they turn on the stove and forget? Will they be unable to find their way out if they open the door?" Do you have this kind of fear? If you constantly worry about their safety, it means that the home environment is no longer safe enough for them.

2. Difficulty performing daily tasks

As memory declines over time, even simple tasks like bathing, getting dressed, and using the bathroom become a challenge. If you need someone to help you with these tasks regularly, you may need the help of someone with special training.

3. You too are tired as a caregiver.

Taking care of a loved one is a big commitment. But doing it 24 hours a day can be physically and mentally draining. Your health is important too. If you feel like you need a break, it's not wrong to consider seeking professional help.

How to choose the best center?

Okay, now that you're thinking about making a decision, don't just hand them over to one place. You need to research them carefully.

• Definitely visit: Rather than talking on the phone, visit the place yourself over a period of two or three days, at different times. Especially if you go during meal times, you can see things like cleanliness and the quality of the food.
• Talk to the staff: Observe how the staff interacts with the residents there. Are they kind? Are they patient?
• Ask other families: If possible, talk to families who are already living there. Their experiences are invaluable to you.
• Ask questions: Don't be shy about asking every question that comes to your mind.

Cost and options

In Sri Lanka, such care centers are often run by the private sector. Therefore, the cost can be relatively high. The family has to pay for this. This cost has to be covered by pensions, savings, children's contributions or other assets. The cost varies greatly depending on the location chosen, its facilities and the level of care required. Therefore, be open about the costs and payment methods with the management of the center you choose.

Sometimes a Memory Care Center may not be necessary. There are other options:

• In-home care: Hiring a trained caregiver who comes to your home to help.
• Adult day centers: Places that provide care, social activities, and some health services only during the day.
• Respite care: Services that provide care for your loved one for a short period of time if you, as the caregiver, need a break for a while.

Whatever decision you make, it is important to speak with your family doctor (physician) to get advice on which option best suits your medical needs.

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