Ua haʻi ʻia aku iā ʻoe he maʻi ʻaʻai umauma kou? Pono anei kākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka manaʻo lua?

Ke haʻi aku ke kauka iā ʻoe a i ʻole kekahi āu i ʻike ai he maʻi ʻaʻai umauma, he mea maʻamau ke kaumaha a loaʻa nā nīnau he nui. 'He aha kaʻu e hana ai i kēia manawa?', 'E hoʻomaikaʻi anei kēia?', 'E loaʻa anei iaʻu ka lāʻau lapaʻau maikaʻi loa?' Hiki i nā mea e like me kēlā ke holo i loko o kou manaʻo. ʻO kekahi nīnau a ka poʻe he nui i kekahi manawa e like me kēia, 'Pono anei au e nīnau i kekahi kauka ʻē aʻe e pili ana i kēia? He manaʻo maikaʻi anei ke kiʻi i ka manaʻo ʻelua?' ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻōlelo pinepine nā kauka oncologists, 'ʻAe, he manaʻo maikaʻi ia.' Ma kēia ʻatikala, e kamaʻilio kikoʻī mākou e pili ana i ke kumu o kā lākou ʻōlelo ʻana pēlā, he aha nā pono āu e loaʻa ai mai ka loaʻa ʻana o ka manaʻo ʻelua, a pehea e hana ai.

No ke aha he mea nui loa iā mākou ke kiʻi i kahi manaʻo lapaʻau ʻelua?

He mea maopopo ke kaumaha ke ʻike ʻoe he maʻi ʻaʻai umauma kou. Eia nō naʻe, hiki i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka manaʻo lua ke kōkua iā ʻoe ma nā ʻano he nui. E noʻonoʻo i kēia mau manaʻo.

1. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻoia pololei i kāu hōʻoia.

E noʻonoʻo i kahi kauka e haʻi aku ana iā ʻoe he maʻi ʻaʻai umauma kou. He mea kaumaha loa ia? No laila, ke nānā aku kekahi kauka ʻike, he loea maʻi ʻaʻai paha, i kāu mau hopena hoʻāʻo a ʻōlelo, "ʻAe, ua pololei kēia hōʻailona," he mea nui ia, ʻeā? A laila ʻike ʻoe he mea kēia i hōʻoia ʻia i hoʻokahi manawa a mau loa. I kekahi manawa, ʻoiai he kakaikahi loa, inā he kānalua i ka hōʻailona mua, hiki i ka manaʻo ʻelua ke wehewehe. Eia kekahi, e nānā kēia kauka ʻelua inā he wahi ka ʻoihana nāna i hana i kāu hōʻailona i loaʻa ka ʻike maikaʻi i ka ʻike ʻana i nā ʻano maʻi like ʻole a me nā pae maʻi.

2. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻoia a hoʻonui paha i kāu hoʻolālā lapaʻau.

"He mea nui e loaʻa ka lāʻau kūpono i ka manawa mua," wahi a ke kauka maʻi kanesa ʻo Megan Cruz. E nānā hou ke kauka manaʻo ʻelua i kāu hoʻolālā lapaʻau o kēia manawa e ʻike inā ʻo ia ka lāʻau lapaʻau hou loa a maikaʻi loa no kou ʻano maʻi kanesa. Hiki paha iā ia ke hoʻohui i kahi mea i kāu hoʻolālā o kēia manawa a i ʻole e hāʻawi i kahi koho ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. E hōʻoia kēia e loaʻa ana iā ʻoe ka lāʻau lapaʻau maikaʻi loa.

3. Kōkua ia iā ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo maikaʻi i kou maʻi.

I kekahi manawa, ke kamaʻilio ʻoe me kāu kauka mua, ʻaʻole paha ʻoe i maopopo i kekahi mea, ua poina paha ʻoe e nīnau i nā nīnau, a ʻaʻole paha ʻoe i maopopo i ka mea i ʻōlelo ʻia. He mea maʻamau kēia. Ke loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi manaʻo lua, hiki iā ʻoe ke nīnau i kekahi nīnau āu, ʻaʻohe mea liʻiliʻi. ʻAʻohe mea e like me ka 'nīnau lapuwale.' E nīnau a hiki i kou maopopo ʻana i nā mea āpau. A laila e loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi ʻike maikaʻi o kou kūlana a me ka lāʻau lapaʻau.

4. Hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo e pili ana i nā lāʻau lapaʻau hou ma ka pae noiʻi (Nā Hoʻokolohua Lapaʻau)

ʻIke paha ke kauka nāna e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka manaʻo ʻelua e pili ana i nā lāʻau lapaʻau hou āu i lohe ʻole ai, i kapa ʻia he mau hoʻokolohua lapaʻau. ʻO kēia nā lāʻau lapaʻau e noho nei i ka pae noiʻi a hiki ke lilo i mau lāʻau lapaʻau maʻamau i ka wā e hiki mai ana. ʻOiai ʻaʻole kūpono kēia mau mea no nā mea āpau, hiki iā lākou ke lilo i koho maikaʻi no kekahi poʻe.

5. E ʻike ʻoe i kahi manaʻo nui o ka hōʻoluʻolu a me ka hilinaʻi.

E noʻonoʻo i kou ʻoluʻolu a me kou hilinaʻi ke hāʻawi mai nā kauka ʻelua iā ʻoe i ka manaʻo like e pili ana i kāu hōʻailona a me ka hoʻolālā lapaʻau. Ke noʻonoʻo ʻoe , "ʻAe, aia wau ma ke ala kūpono, ke loaʻa nei iaʻu ka mea maikaʻi loa," loaʻa iā ʻoe ka ikaika nui e kū i kēia pilikia i mua.

Āhea mākou e loaʻa ai kēia manaʻo ʻelua?

I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, i ka hikiwawe loa. ʻO ka manawa kūpono loa e kiʻi ai i ka manaʻo lua ma hope o kou hōʻoia ʻia ʻana, a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kekahi lāʻau lapaʻau. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e loaʻa i kahi kumu kikoʻī e kiʻi ai i ka manaʻo lua. Eia nō naʻe, he mea nui loa ka loaʻa ʻana o ka manaʻo lua ma nā kūlana aʻe:

• Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi ʻano maʻi kanesa kakaikahi .
• Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe ka maʻi ʻaʻai umauma e kū hou ana .
• ʻO ka mea i hōʻike ʻia iā ʻoe e hana, he lāʻau lapaʻau pilikia iki a paʻakikī hoʻi .
• Inā ʻaʻole hāʻawi kāu lāʻau lapaʻau o kēia manawa iā ʻoe i ka hōʻoluʻolu āu e manaʻo ai .

I kekahi manawa, hiki ke lōʻihi ka manawa e loaʻa ai kahi manawa no ka manaʻo ʻelua. Inā hopohopo ʻoe ua lohi paha ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka lāʻau lapaʻau, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kāu kauka o kēia manawa e pili ana i ia mea a loaʻa kā lākou ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo.

ʻAe, pehea lā mākou e loaʻa ai i kekahi e loaʻa ai kēia manaʻo lua?

"Makemake ʻoe e ʻimi i nā inoa o kekahi mau haukapila a me nā kauka i loaʻa ka ʻike nui loa i ka mālama ʻana i ka maʻi ʻaʻai umauma a ua kamaʻāina i nā mea hou loa i ka mālama ʻana," wahi a Kauka Cruz. Eia kekahi mau ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kōkua:

• E noi i kāu kauka o kēia manawa e ʻōlelo aku i kahi loea maʻi ʻaʻai umauma.
• E hoʻāʻo e kelepona i nā haukapila maʻi kanesa a i ʻole nā ​​​​kikowaena lapaʻau maʻi kanesa ma kou wahi.
• Eia kekahi, e ʻimi i nā kauka i waena o kou mau hoaaloha a me kou mau hoahānau i loaʻa nā ʻike like a ua loaʻa nā loiloi maikaʻi . He waiwai nui ko lākou ʻike.
• I kēia mau lā, aia kahi mea i kapa ʻia ʻo 'Virtual Second Opinion.' ʻO ia hoʻi, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopili me kahi loea kaulana o ka honua ma ka pūnaewele mai nā wahi āpau āu e noho ai, malia paha ma kahi ʻāina ʻē aʻe, a loaʻa ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo.
• Ua koho kekahi mau hui maʻi kanesa honua, e like me ka National Cancer Institute ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa, i nā kikowaena e hāʻawi ana i ka lāʻau lapaʻau maʻi kanesa hou loa a kiʻekiʻe loa. Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa ka ʻike e pili ana i kēlā.

ʻO ka mea nui loa, ʻo ia ka lawe ʻana mai i kāu mau moʻolelo lapaʻau a pau, nā hōʻike lab, nā hōʻike kiʻi, a me kēlā mau slide pathology me ʻoe ke hele ʻoe no ka lua o ka manaʻo. Inā ʻoe e hele ana i kahi hālāwai virtual, e hoʻomākaukau i kēia mau mea ma mua.

He aha nā nīnau āu e nīnau ai i ka wā e kiʻi ai i kahi manaʻo ʻelua?

Ma mua o kou hele ʻana e ʻike i ke kauka nāna e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka manaʻo ʻelua, he manaʻo maikaʻi e kākau i kekahi mau nīnau āu. Ma kēlā ala, ʻaʻole ʻoe e poina i kekahi mea i ka wikiwiki. Eia kekahi mau laʻana:

• "Ke ʻae nei ʻoe i kaʻu hōʻike?"
• "Manaʻo ʻoe he maʻi ʻē aʻe paha ia? A i ʻole he ʻano ʻokoʻa paha ia o kēia?"
• "Ke ʻae nei ʻoe i ka hoʻolālā lapaʻau i hāpai ʻia mai iaʻu? A i ʻole he mau lāʻau lapaʻau ʻē aʻe paha āu e manaʻo ai?"
• "He aha nā pono, nā pilikia, a me nā hopena ʻaoʻao o kēlā me kēia lāʻau lapaʻau?"
• "Pehea ka holomua e hiki ai iā mākou ke manaʻo e loaʻa kēlā me kēia lāʻau lapaʻau?"
• "Manaʻo ʻoe he pono anei kekahi hoʻāʻo hou aʻe?"
• "Aia kekahi mau hoʻokolohua lapaʻau i kūpono iaʻu a hiki ke pōmaikaʻi iaʻu?"

He hoʻomaka wale nō kēia mau nīnau nou. E nīnau i nā mea a pau āu e noʻonoʻo nei.

He aha kāu e hana ai ma hope o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka manaʻo ʻelua?

Ma hope o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka manaʻo lua, e kamaʻilio me kāu kauka mua e pili ana i kāu mea i aʻo ai. Makemake paha ʻoe e ʻike inā e kōkua ia iā ʻoe e hana i kekahi mau hoʻololi i kāu hoʻolālā lapaʻau. E hoʻomanaʻo, inā he ʻokoʻa loa nā manaʻo o nā kauka ʻelua, pono paha lākou e kamaʻilio kekahi i kekahi a hiki i kahi ʻaelike.

ʻO kekahi mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo ai: ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o ka manaʻo lua ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo e pono ʻoe e hoʻololi i nā kauka. Makemake paha ʻoe e hana pēlā - no ka laʻana, inā ʻaʻole i loaʻa i kāu kauka o kēia manawa ka lāʻau lapaʻau kikoʻī āu e pono ai. Akā i ka hapa nui o ka manawa, ʻaʻole ia ka hihia.

"ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o ka manaʻo lua he manawa kūpono ia e ʻike ai i ke kauka nāna e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka manaʻo lua a me kahi ʻike ʻokoʻa e pili ana i kāu hōʻailona a me ka hoʻolālā lapaʻau," wahi hou a Kauka Cruz. "ʻAʻole kēia manaʻo e pono ʻoe e hoʻololi i nā kauka. I ka manawa pinepine, hiki i ka manaʻo lua ke kōkua i nā mea maʻi e hilinaʻi iā lākou aia ma ke ala kūpono a loaʻa ka hilinaʻi i ke kauka a i ʻole ka hui ma ko lākou wahi."

Nā ʻŌlelo Hope Loa e pili ana i nā Manaʻo ʻElua

ʻO ka mea hope loa, hiki paha iā ʻoe ke manaʻo iki i ka ʻoluʻolu ʻole a me ka hopohopo e pili ana i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kāu kauka mua e pili ana i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka manaʻo lua. Akā, mai makaʻu i ia mea.

"ʻAʻole loa e huhū a hoʻonāukiuki paha kāu kauka iā ʻoe e noi ana i kahi manaʻo ʻelua," wahi a Kauka Cruz. "He mea maʻamau loa ia, a he mea hoʻoikaika maoli nō hoʻi. Ma ke ʻano he mau kauka, makemake mākou e lohe i ka manaʻo o kā mākou mau hoa hana. He mea hōʻoluʻolu ia. Akā inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake maoli, ua maikaʻi no ke kauka e hāʻawi ana i ka manaʻo ʻelua e haʻi aku i ke kauka mua. ʻO ʻoe wale nō ke ʻike i kēlā manaʻo."

Eia nō naʻe, ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o ka manaʻo lua e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hilinaʻi hou aku e pili ana i kāu mau koho lapaʻau a me nā hoʻoholo, a kōkua iā ʻoe e mākaukau e like me ka hiki ke kū i ka pilikia o ka maʻi ʻaʻai umauma.

ʻO ka mea nui loa a kākou e lawe ai mai kēia moʻolelo mai (Leka Lawe-Home)

I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o ka manaʻo ʻelua no kahi maʻi koʻikoʻi e like me ke kanesa o ka umauma he mea kōkua nui ia iā ʻoe iho, a ʻo kou kuleana ia.

• E hōʻoia pololei kēia i kāu hōʻoia.
• Hiki iā ʻoe ke nānā pālua i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hoʻolālā lapaʻau maikaʻi loa a kūpono hoʻi .
• E loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi manawa kūpono e hoʻopau ai i kāu mau kānalua a me kāu mau nīnau .
• Hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo e pili ana i nā koho lapaʻau hou, e like me nā hoʻokolohua lapaʻau .
• Ma luna o nā mea a pau, e loaʻa iā ʻoe ka hoʻomaha nui o ka noʻonoʻo a me ka hilinaʻi ikaika e neʻe i mua .

No laila, mai makaʻu a hopohopo paha e noi i kahi manaʻo ʻelua. He kuleana hoʻoikaika a waiwai nui ia i kāu huakaʻi olakino!

ʻO ke kanesa o ka umauma, ka manaʻo lapaʻau ʻelua, ka mālama ʻana i ke kanesa, ka hōʻailona, ​​​​​​ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo lapaʻau, ke olakino o nā wahine, nā hoʻoholo olakino