Huhū paha kāu keiki? E kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i kēia!

Ma ke ʻano he makuahine a makua paha, e noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe i kekahi manawa, 'No ke aha lā e hana nei kaʻu keiki penei?' Ke hoʻomaka koke kāu keiki liʻiliʻi e uē, e ʻuwā, a e ʻōwili paha ma ka papahele, hiki ke hoʻonāukiuki loa, a i kekahi manawa huhū. He mea maʻamau loa ia. Akā, ma kahi o ka nānā ʻana i kēia mau 'pilikia' he mea hoʻonāukiuki a mea ʻino paha, pehea lā inā ʻike mākou iā lākou he manawa kūpono e aʻo aku ai i kā mākou mau keiki i kekahi mea a hoʻomaopopo iā lākou?

No ke aha e hakakā ai nā keiki ʻōpio e like me kēia? He aha nā Temper Tantrums?

I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, ʻo kēia mau huhū huhū, a i ʻole e like me kā mākou e kapa aku ai iā lākou ma ka ʻōlelo Pelekania, he ala ia no nā keiki e hoʻokuʻu ai i kahi manaʻo ikaika, e like me ke kaumaha, ka huhū, ka hoʻonāukiuki, a i ʻole ka makaʻu, i loko o lākou. Ua like ia me ka lua pele liʻiliʻi. ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻopaʻa ʻia i loko a pahū koke. ʻIke pinepine ʻia kēia mau mea i nā keiki ma waena o hoʻokahi a me ʻekolu mau makahiki, i kekahi manawa ʻehā . ʻAʻole ia he mea nui inā he kaikamahine a he keikikāne paha, hiki i nā mea ʻelua ke hōʻike i nā ʻano like i kēia makahiki.

Huli pinepine kekahi mau pēpē, a i kekahi mau manawa i ka lā. Hana pinepine kekahi i kēia, e like me hoʻokahi manawa i ka mahina. Eia nō naʻe, pono kākou a pau e hoʻomaopopo mua he pae maʻamau kēia o ka ulu ʻana o ke keiki . ʻO ia hoʻi, mai manaʻo ʻino ʻoe ʻo kāu keiki wale nō ka mea hana i kēia. He mea kēia e ʻike ʻia e kēlā me kēia keiki liʻiliʻi o ka honua i kekahi ʻano.

No ke aha e kipi ai nā keiki? E nānā kākou i kekahi o nā kumu.

ʻAe, e nānā kākou i ke kumu e hoʻomaka koke ai kēia mau keiki liʻiliʻi e hana penei. ʻAʻole hoʻokahi wale nō kumu no kēia, he nui paha nā kumu.

He mea maʻamau anei kēia no ko lākou ulu ʻana?

ʻAe, ʻoiaʻiʻo nō. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e kahaha i ka lohe ʻana i kēia. E like me kā mākou i ʻōlelo ai ma mua, ʻo nā huhū huhū kekahi hapa o ka ulu ʻana o ka naʻau o ke keiki. He ʻāpana lākou a pau o kā lākou huakaʻi e hoʻomaopopo i ke ao nei, e ʻike i ko lākou mau manaʻo, a e aʻo pehea e hoʻokele ai iā lākou. Ua like ia me kahi mea kanu liʻiliʻi e ulu ana a ke hāʻule nei kona mau lālā. Ke hoʻāʻo nei lākou e ʻōlelo, 'Ke ʻeha nui nei au i kēia manawa, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻomanawanui hou i kēia, e kōkua mai iaʻu!'

Nā kumu liʻiliʻi no ka hoʻokahuli aupuni

I kēia manawa, e nānā kākou i nā kumu liʻiliʻi ʻē aʻe o kēlā me kēia lā e hoʻomaka ai kahi keiki liʻiliʻi i kahi kipi.

• Luhi: Ke luhi lākou i ka pāʻani ʻana, ka holo ʻana a puni, a me ke aʻo ʻana i nā mea hou i ka lā a pau, hiki i nā mea liʻiliʻi ke manaʻo nui iā lākou. E like me ko kākou huhū ʻana i nā mea liʻiliʻi i kahi lā luhi loa.
• Pololi: Inā ʻaʻole i hāʻawi ʻia ka meaʻai i ka manawa kūpono, e emi ana ke ahonui o nā keiki ʻoiai ke pōloli nei lākou. ʻAʻole ʻoiaʻiʻo ka ʻōlelo "Hula ka diabolo i ka wā e pōloli ai".
• He pilikia:Inā paʻa nā lole āu e ʻaʻahu nei, a pulu paha ka diaper, a i ʻole ʻoe e hou ana a huhū, ʻoiai he mea liʻiliʻi e like me ia ke kumu o kahi loli nui. E noʻonoʻo, pēlā nō hoʻi kākou, ʻeā? ʻOiai ʻaʻole ʻike nā pēpē pehea e hōʻike ai me nā huaʻōlelo, haʻi mai lākou iā kākou ma ka uē ʻana.
• ʻAʻole loaʻa ka mea a lākou e makemake ai: I kekahi manawa makemake nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi i kahi mea pāʻani, kahi mea ʻono a lākou i ʻike ai ma kahi hale kūʻai, a i ʻole kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni e nānā. Inā ʻaʻole lākou e loaʻa koke, hoʻomaka lākou e huhū. Uē lākou a uē, 'Makemake au i kēlā! Makemake au i kēia manawa!'
• Ke kiʻi ʻana i ka nānā: I kekahi manawa, ke kelepona nei ʻo Māmā a me Pāpā a paʻahana paha i nā mea ʻē aʻe, a pono e kiʻi koke i ko lākou manaʻo, hiki i nā keiki liʻiliʻi ke hoʻomaka e hana ʻino. Ke ʻike ʻole lākou pehea e ʻōlelo ai, "E Māmā, e nānā mai iaʻu!", hoʻāʻo lākou e kiʻi i kēlā manaʻo ma ka uē ʻana.
• ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻoikaika i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e hana i kā lākou makemake: E noʻonoʻo, ke paʻa nei kou kaikuahine i ka papa ma kona lima, a makemake kou kaikunāne iā ia i kēia manawa. ʻAʻole e hāʻawi kou kaikuahine iā ʻoe. ʻOiai i kēlā manawa, huhū paha kou kaikunāne a huhū. A i ʻole, inā ʻōlelo kou makuahine 'ʻaʻole' i kekahi mea, a ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻoikaika iā ia e ʻōlelo 'ʻae', hiki ke hana ʻia kēia.

ʻO ke aʻo ʻana e hoʻomanawanui i ka huhū a lākou e manaʻo ai i kekahi manawa e like me kēia he mākaukau a lākou e hoʻomohala ai i ka hala ʻana o ka manawa. ʻO ke ʻano kēia, ʻaʻole ia e hana koke ʻia. Pono mākou e hoʻomanawanui a kōkua iā lākou me kēlā.

Ke hiki ʻole iā lākou ke ʻōlelo pololei i ka mea a lākou e makemake ai ...

ʻO kēia mau huhū huhū, a i ʻole nā ​​huhū huhū , ka mea maʻamau i ka makahiki ʻelua o ke ola o kahi keiki . ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻike pinepine ʻia lākou ma waena o nā makahiki hoʻokahi a me kekahi mau mahina a me ʻelua mau makahiki. Ua ʻike anei ʻoe i ke kumu o kēia i kēlā manawa? ʻO ke kumu nui o kēia, ʻo ia ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kā lākou mākaukau ʻōlelo e ulu i kēlā manawa. Hoʻomaopopo lākou i kekahi mau huaʻōlelo a hiki ke ʻōlelo i kekahi mau huaʻōlelo. Hiki iā lākou ke hoʻohana i nā huaʻōlelo maʻalahi e like me "makuahine", "pāpā", "pēpē", "meaʻai", "wai".

Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole lawa ka nui o kā lākou huaʻōlelo e hiki ai ke hōʻike i nā mea a pau a lākou e noʻonoʻo ai, nā mea a pau a lākou e makemake ai, a me nā manaʻo a lākou e manaʻo ai (nā manaʻo paʻakikī e like me ke kaumaha, ka huhū, ka hauʻoli, a me ka makaʻu) i loko o kahi ʻōlelo piha. Aia nō kā lākou mākaukau ʻōlelo i kahi pae mua loa.

E noʻonoʻo, ua pōloli loa ʻoe, akā ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike pehea e ʻōlelo ai 'Ua pōloli au, e hānai mai iaʻu'. A i ʻole, inā huhū nui ʻoe no kekahi mea, akā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike i kēlā kaumaha ma nā huaʻōlelo i kekahi, pehea kou manaʻo? Pēlā nō ia e hana ai i nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi. Loaʻa iā lākou kekahi pilikia, kekahi pono, akā ʻaʻole lākou i ʻike pehea e kamaʻilio ai i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e hoʻopuka i loko o nā huaʻōlelo. ʻO ia ka manawa e puka mai ai kēlā mau manaʻo me he wili lā me ka huhū e kūkulu ana i loko o ko lākou mau puʻuwai. Ua like kēia me kā lākou ʻōlelo, kēlā ʻano. I ka holomua mālie ʻana o kā lākou mākaukau ʻōlelo, e ʻike ponoʻī ʻoe e emi mālie ana kēia wili.

"Makemake au, makemake wau e hana iaʻu iho!" - Nā moeʻuhane nui o nā kamaliʻi

Ma kahi o hoʻokahi a me ka hapa a ʻelua paha makahiki, hoʻomohala nā kamaliʻi i ka makemake nui e hana i nā mea āpau ma o lākou iho (kūʻokoʻa) . Makemake lākou e kāohi i ko lākou wahi noho. Manaʻo lākou i nā mea e like me, 'E ʻaʻahu wau i koʻu mau kāmaʻa ponoʻī', 'E ʻai wau i kaʻu meaʻai ponoʻī', 'Makemake wau i kēlā mea pāʻani', 'E piʻi wau i ke alapiʻi naʻu iho'. He hōʻailona maikaʻi kēia o ko lākou ulu ʻana. Ke aʻo mālie nei lākou e pili ana i ke ao nei a ke hoʻāʻo nei i ko lākou mau hiki.

Akā, makemake lākou i nā mea i ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o ka mea hiki iā lākou ke hana maoli. ʻO ia hoʻi, he kiʻekiʻe ko lākou mau manaʻolana ma mua o ko lākou hiki kino a me ka noʻonoʻo. Ke manaʻo lākou, 'Hiki iaʻu ke hana i kēia me aʻu wale nō!' a ʻaʻole hiki ke hana, a i ʻole ke manaʻo lākou, 'Makemake au i kēlā i kēia manawa!' a ʻaʻole loaʻa, huhū nui lākou a hoʻonāukiuki. ʻO ia ka manawa e hoʻomaka hou ai kēlā hoʻohuli. Ua like ia me ka ' hakakā mana ' ma waena o lākou iho a me ko lākou mau palena. Hoʻāʻo lākou e lanakila i ke ao nei, hoʻāʻo lākou e loaʻa i kā lākou makemake, akā i ka wā ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou, hoʻāʻo lākou e lanakila ma ka uē ʻana a i ʻole ka huli ʻana.

He aha nā mea a nā keiki e hana ai ke loli ke ʻano?

I kēia manawa, e kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i ke ʻano o nā mea a me nā ʻano a nā keiki liʻiliʻi e hōʻike ai i ka wā e huhū ai lākou. Hiki ke ʻokoʻa kēia mai kēlā kanaka a kēia kanaka. ʻAʻole like nā huhū o nā keiki a pau. He mea liʻiliʻi loa kekahi mau huhū, a ʻo kekahi he koʻikoʻi loa.

• Ke ʻuwē nei kekahi poʻe, e huki wale ana a huki wale ana, e uwē ana me he mea lā ua coma lākou.
• Ke uē nui nei kekahi poʻe, me ke kahe ʻana o nā waimaka.
• Ke hoʻōho nei kekahi poʻe, me ka leo nui e lohe ʻia ai i ka pāʻani holoʻokoʻa, malia paha mai ka hale e pili ana.
• Inā e ʻoi aku ka ʻino, e kīkē paha lākou, kuʻi , a kuʻi paha i ko lākou mau mākua, a hoʻolei paha i kahi mea ma ko lākou mau lima.
• Moe ihola ʻo ia ma ka honua, e ʻōwili ana a puni , e hāpai ana i kona mau wāwae a me kona mau lima.
• ʻO kekahi mau keiki, he mea paʻakikī iki kēia e nānā aku, a he mea e hopohopo nui ai nā mākua, ʻo ia ke kāohi ʻana i ko lākou hanu (Breath-Holding Spells) . Hoʻōki koke lākou i ka hanu ʻana, i kekahi manawa a polū ko lākou helehelena. Ma hope o kekahi manawa, hoʻomaka hou lākou e hanu, a i kekahi manawa nalowale lākou i ka ʻike. Ke ʻike nā makuahine i kēia, makaʻu loa lākou. Akā ʻo kēia (Breath-Holding Spells) he hōʻailona nō hoʻi ia e hōʻike ʻia e kekahi mau keiki i ka wā o ka hoʻololi ʻana, ʻoiai ke loaʻa ʻole iā lākou ka mea a lākou e makemake ai. He mea kēia e pono ai mākou e kamaʻilio ʻokoʻa, no ka mea, he mea kūikawā iki ia, a i kekahi manawa pono paha e ʻimi i ke kōkua lapaʻau.

No laila pehea lā mākou e nānā ai i kēia hoʻololi hou ʻana?

No laila, ma hope o ka lohe ʻana i kēia mau mea a pau, maopopo paha iā ʻoe ʻaʻole kēia mau keiki liʻiliʻi he mea a lākou e hana ai no ka mea he mau keiki maikaʻi ʻole lākou, a i ʻole e hoʻāʻo wale ana lākou e hoʻonāukiuki iā ʻoe a hoʻonāukiuki paha iā ʻoe.

He ʻāpana kēia o ko lākou ulu ʻana. He ala ia no lākou e aʻo ai e pili ana i ke ao nei, e hoʻomaopopo i ko lākou mau manaʻo, e hoʻomanawanui iā lākou, a ma kekahi ʻano e hoʻāʻo ai e hoʻopuka i kēlā mau manaʻo.

No laila, ke hana hewa kekahi keiki, ʻaʻole pono kākou e ʻike wale ia he 'pōʻino' a he 'pilikia' paha, akā, he manawa kūpono ia no kākou e aʻo aku ai i ke keiki i kekahi mea, e hoʻomaopopo iā ia, a e kōkua iā ia e hoʻoponopono i kona mau manaʻo . ʻAʻole ia he mea maʻalahi e like me ka mea i lohe ʻia, a he mea paʻakikī iā kākou ke hoʻomanawanui i ka wā e uwē ai ke keiki a ʻōwili paha ma ka papahele. Eia naʻe, me kēia ʻike, e maʻalahi iki iā kākou ke kū i ke kūlana.

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ʻAe, eia kekahi o nā mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo ai mai kā mākou i kamaʻilio ai i kēia lā:

• He mea maʻamau loa ka huhū o nā keiki ma waena o nā makahiki 1-3 (i kekahi manawa 4) . Mai makaʻu nui a hilahila paha.
• Hiki paha i ke keiki ke hana hewa no ka mea ua luhi lākou, ua pōloli, ua ʻoluʻolu ʻole, ua loaʻa ʻole ka mea a lākou e makemake ai, ua makemake i ka nānā ʻia, a i ʻole e hoʻokuʻu i ka huhū a i ʻole nā ​​​​manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole ʻē aʻe .
• ʻOiai a hiki i ka wā e ulu ai ko lākou mākaukau ʻōlelo , ʻoi aku ka nui o ko lākou ʻike ʻana i kēia ʻano loli no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hōʻike pololei i kā lākou makemake a manaʻo paha ma nā huaʻōlelo.
• Loaʻa i nā kamaliʻi ka makemake nui e hana i nā mea ma o lākou iho (kūʻokoʻa) a e kāohi i ko lākou wahi noho (mana) . Ke ʻoi aku kēia ma mua o ko lākou hiki a ua hoʻopau ʻia kēlā mau mea i manaʻo ʻia, hiki mai nā haunaele.
• Ke huhū ke keiki, hiki iā lākou ke hōʻike i nā ʻano hana like ʻole, mai ka uē ʻana a i ka uē ʻana, ka ʻōwili ʻana ma ka papahele, ka hoʻoluliluli ʻana i ko lākou mau lālā, a me ke kāohi ʻana i ko lākou hanu (nā hana kāohi hanu) .
• ʻO ka mea nui loa , ʻaʻole e ʻike i kēia mau loli ma ke ʻano he mea maikaʻi ʻole i ke keiki, akā, ma ke ʻano he manawa kūpono e kōkua ai i ke keiki, e hoʻomaopopo iā lākou, a e aʻo iā lākou e hoʻokele i ko lākou mau manaʻo .

No laila, i ka manawa aʻe e hoʻomaka ai kāu keiki liʻiliʻi e huhū, ma mua o kou huhū ʻana, e noʻonoʻo iki, 'He aha ka mea a kaʻu keiki e hoʻāʻo nei e haʻi mai iaʻu? He aha kāna makemake i kēia manawa?' ʻO ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kēlā ka hana nui loa i kēia huakaʻi paʻakikī akā nani. Inā he mau nīnau hou kāu e pili ana i kēia, hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio me kāu kauka ʻohana a i ʻole ke kauka pediatrician.

` Nā huhū o nā keiki, nā huhū huhū, ke ʻano o nā keiki, nā mākua, ka ulu ʻana o ke keiki, ka hanu ʻana, ka noʻonoʻo o ke keiki