Koj tus me nyuam puas hais lus qeeb? Cia peb tham txog Kev Hais Lus qeeb!

Koj puas xav tias koj tus ntxhais uas muaj ob xyoos thiab ib nrab hais lus tsawg dua nws tus muam laus thaum muaj hnub nyoog li ntawd? Tej zaum koj paub tias cov menyuam yaus me me txhim kho kev txawj hais lus, uas yog, yuav hais lus thiab nkag siab li cas, ntawm ntau lub sijhawm thiab ntawm ntau qhov ceev. Qhov no muaj tseeb txawm tias rau cov kwv tij neej tsa hauv tib tsev neeg. Yog li ntawd, ua ib tug niam lossis txiv, nws yog qhov tsim nyog heev rau koj kom muaj kev ntshai thiab kev ua xyem xyav me ntsis hauv koj lub siab. "Kuv tus menyuam puas hais lus raws li qhov tsim nyog rau nws lub hnub nyoog?" Qhov no yog ib lo lus nug uas ntau tus niam txiv muaj. Yog li, hnub no peb yuav tham txog qhov kev qeeb lus no, lossis '(Kev Ncua Lus)'. Cia peb tham meej txog qhov "ib txwm" rau lub hnub nyoog no thiab thaum twg peb yuav tsum ceev faj ntxiv me ntsis.

Peb yuav tsum xav li cas los ntawm ib tug menyuam muaj ob xyoos?

Tam sim no cia peb saib seb peb yuav xav tau dab tsi ntawm koj tus me nyuam hais txog kev hais lus, uas yog, kev hais lus, thaum muaj ob xyoos. Tab sis nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias cov no tsuas yog cov lus qhia dav dav xwb. Tsis yog txhua tus menyuam zoo ib yam. Tej zaum qee tus menyuam yuav nyob deb ntawm cov no me ntsis. Ib txhia hais lus ua ntej me ntsis, ib txhia hais lus tom qab me ntsis. Qhov no feem ntau yog qhov ib txwm muaj. Txawm li cas los xij, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev rau koj thiab koj tus menyuam kom ua tib zoo mloog cov no.

• Pib hais cov kab lus luv luv uas muaj ob lo lus: Thaum muaj hnub nyoog li no, tej zaum koj yuav pom koj tus menyuam sim hais cov kab lus luv luv los ntawm kev muab ob lo lus ua ke xws li "Niam, mov," "Kuv xav tau dej," "Muab lub pob rau kuv," "Tata, mus," thiab "Me nyuam, tsis tau." Xav txog, thaum nws xav tau ib yam dab tsi, yog tias nws sim hais nws ua ob lo lus lossis nrog kev nyuaj siab, nws yog ib qho cim zoo ntawm tus menyuam txoj kev loj hlob lus. Cov kab lus me me uas qhia nws cov kev xav tau, kev xav tau, thiab kev tsis nyiam xws li "Kuv xav tau ntau dua," "Tsis yog, tsuas yog li ntawd xwb," thiab "Kuv lub pob" poob rau hauv pawg no.

• To taub thiab ua raws li cov lus qhia yooj yim ob kauj ruam: Koj tus menyuam yuav tsum nkag siab thiab ua raws li ob cov lus qhia yooj yim ua ke. Piv txwv li, yog tias koj hais tias, "Coj koj lub tsheb ua si thiab muab tso rau hauv lub thawv ntawd," saib seb nws puas nkag siab thiab sim ua ob kauj ruam - khaws lub tsheb thiab muab tso rau hauv lub thawv. Lwm qhov piv txwv yog ib yam dab tsi zoo li, "Muab koj cov khau khiab rau thiab tawm los." Tej zaum koj yuav xav tau kev pab me ntsis thaum xub thawj, tab sis qhov tseem ceeb yog tias nws nkag siab thiab sim ua nws. Qhov no qhia tau tias nws puas tuaj yeem mloog koj, nkag siab, thiab nco qab koj hais li cas. Lub peev xwm no tseem ceeb heev rau kev kawm lus ntxiv.

• Lawv yuav tsum paub thiab hais lub npe ntawm tej yam yooj yim: Thaum koj taw tes rau tej yam yooj yim uas lawv pom thiab siv ntau zaus hauv tsev, xws li lawv cov khoom ua si, thiab nug tias, "Qhov no yog dab tsi, tus tub/ntxhais?", lawv yuav tsum hais tau tsawg kawg yog ob peb lo lus, xws li "lub pob," "lub tsheb," "dev," "lub rooj zaum," thiab "lub raj mis mis." Txhawb kom lawv tham txog tej yam uas lawv pom thiab nyiam, thiab hais lub npe ntawm tej yam ntawd. Qhov no yuav pab lawv nthuav lawv cov lus.

• Cov lus yuav tsum muaj tsawg kawg 50 lo lus:Txog tam sim no, nws yuav tsum muaj tsawg kawg yog 50 lo lus khaws cia rau hauv nws lub taub hau me me. Nws nyuaj rau suav qhov no kom raug, puas yog? Tab sis yog tias koj ua tib zoo mloog cov lus uas nws siv ntau zaus, thiab cov lus tshiab uas nws ntxiv rau nws cov lus hais, koj tuaj yeem tau txais lub tswv yim ntxhib ntawm qhov no. Tej zaum cov lus uas nws hais tsis meej me ntsis, qhov kev hais lus yuav tsis raug. Tab sis qhov tseem ceeb yog tias nws sim, tias nws sim qhia nws tus kheej siv cov lus.

• Ib zaj dab neeg uas cov niam txiv tuaj yeem nkag siab tsawg kawg 50%: Koj, leej niam lossis leej txiv, lossis tus neeg uas saib xyuas tus menyuam, yuav tsum nkag siab tsawg kawg ib nrab (50%) ntawm yam koj tus menyuam hais. Lwm tus, cov txheeb ze, cov neeg zej zog yuav tsis nkag siab txhua yam nws hais. Qhov ntawd tsis yog teeb meem loj rau lub hnub nyoog no. Vim tias koj yog tus uas siv sijhawm ntau tshaj plaws nrog nws, koj yog tus uas paub zoo tshaj plaws txog nws cov "lus" me me. Yog li ntawd, yog tias koj nkag siab tsawg kawg 50% ntawm yam nws sim hais, qhov ntawd tuaj yeem suav tias yog qib zoo.

Tej yam uas yuav tsum tau xav txog thaum muaj hnub nyoog ob thiab peb xyoos (thaum muaj 3 xyoos)

Thaum ib tug me nyuam muaj hnub nyoog ob thiab peb xyoos, nws cov lus pib loj hlob sai dua, thiab nws lub peev xwm nkag siab txog tej yam yuav nce ntxiv ntau heev. Tam sim no cia peb saib seb peb yuav xav li cas ntawm ib tug me nyuam thaum muaj hnub nyoog peb xyoos.

• Yuav tsum hais tau cov kab lus peb lo lus: Ib yam li nws tau hais cov kab lus ob lo lus ua ntej, tam sim no nws yuav tsum hais tau cov kab lus peb lo lus xws li "Niam tab tom noj mov", "Txiv mus ua haujlwm", "Kuv xav tau lub pob", "Lub tsheb loj". Muaj ib txhia menyuam kuj pib hais cov kab lus plaub lossis tsib lo lus. Qhov no qhia tau tias nws cov txuj ci lus tau txhim kho sai npaum li cas.

• Paub cov lus ntau tshaj 200 lo lus (ntau dhau suav tsis tau!): Txog rau tam sim no, koj tus menyuam yuav tsum muaj cov lus ntau dua. Hauv lwm lo lus, nws yuav tsum paub ntau lo lus dua li koj suav tau yooj yim. Qhov ntawd txhais tau tias 200 lo lus lossis ntau dua. Nws khaws cov lus tshiab sai heev thaum muaj hnub nyoog li no. Nws pheej ntxiv cov lus tshiab los ntawm yam koj hais thiab yam nws hnov ​​​​​​nyob ib puag ncig nws.

• Yam tsawg kawg yog 75% ntawm yam uas lwm tus hais yuav tsum nkag siab: Yav tas los lawv hais tias niam txiv yuav tsum nkag siab 50% ntawm yam uas lawv hais. Tab sis thaum muaj peb xyoos, kwv yees li peb feem plaub (75%) ntawm yam uas ib tug menyuam hais yuav tsum nkag siab rau cov neeg uas tab tom tham nrog nws, txawm tias rau ib tug neeg txawv teb chaws. Nws cov lus hais pib meej dua.

• Nws yuav tsum nkag siab cov lus prepositions: cov lus zoo li "saum toj no", "hauv qab", "sab hauv", "nyob ze", uas yog, nws yuav tsum nkag siab thiab ua raws li lawv. Piv txwv li, yog tias peb hais tias "muab tus menyuam roj hmab tso rau hauv qab lub rooj zaum", nws yuav tsum nkag siab nws. Yog tias peb hais tias "muab phau ntawv tso rau ntawm lub rooj", nws yuav tsum nkag siab nws. Kev nkag siab cov no txhais tau tias nws nkag siab lus zoo.

• Nws yuav tsum pib siv cov lus piav qhia: Nws yuav tsum pib siv cov lus piav qhia xws li "Kuv", "koj", "nws", "peb", "nws" hauv nws cov lus. Nws yuav siv cov lus no los hais tej yam xws li "Kuv xav tau", "koj tuaj", "qhov ntawd zoo nkauj heev". Qhov no kuj yog ib kauj ruam tseem ceeb hauv kev txhim kho lus.

"Nco ntsoov, tsis muaj txoj cai hais tias txhua tus menyuam yuav ua tej yam no rau lub sijhawm no. Tab sis cov no yog tej yam uas peb feem ntau pom. Yog tias koj tus menyuam zoo li ua tsis tau tej yam no, saib xyuas lawv ntev me ntsis ua ntej txhawj."

Yog koj tseem tsis ntseeg, lossis yog koj tus menyuam zoo li tuaj lig, koj yuav tsum ua li cas?

Zoo, xav txog qhov tseeb uas peb nyuam qhuav tham txog, yog tias koj xav tias koj tus menyuam tseem tsis tau txog cov qib lus no, lossis yog tias koj muaj kev tsis ntseeg lossis kev ntshai loj heev, thov tham nrog koj tus kws kho mob hauv tsev neeg lossis kws kho mob menyuam yaus txog qhov no. Qhov no tseem ceeb heev.

Qee zaum nws yuav tsis yog dab tsi li. Ib txhia menyuam yaus txhim kho cov txuj ci lus no qeeb me ntsis. Qhov ntawd yuav yog tus cwj pwm ntawm tus menyuam ntawd. Txawm li cas los xij, qee zaum yog tias muaj qee qhov kev ncua sij hawm lus, kev cuam tshuam me ntsis, kev pab, kev cob qhia thaum ntxov, uas yog, thaum ntxov , tuaj yeem ua qhov sib txawv loj thiab kev txhim kho loj rau tus menyuam lub peev xwm hais lus thiab kev kawm yav tom ntej.

Tus kws kho mob yuav nug koj ntxiv txog koj tus menyuam, saib xyuas tus menyuam txoj kev hais lus thiab tus cwj pwm, thiab kuaj xyuas tus menyuam. Lawv kuj tseem yuav xa koj mus kuaj pob ntseg kom paub seb koj tus menyuam puas hnov ​​lus zoo. Yog tias koj tus menyuam hnov ​​lus tsis tau zoo, nws nyuaj rau kawm hais lus. Lawv kuj tseem yuav xa koj mus rau tus kws kho kev hais lus thiab kev hais lus, uas tau kawm tshwj xeeb los pab cov menyuam yaus uas muaj kev qeeb lus.

Tsis txhob ntshai ib yam dab tsi li. Tag nrho cov no yog ua los muab kev txhawb nqa zoo tshaj plaws uas koj tus menyuam xav tau. Thaum koj paub txog qhov teeb meem sai npaum li cas, nws yuav yooj yim dua los pab, thiab qhov tshwm sim zoo dua.

Tej yam me me uas koj ua tau hauv tsev

Ua ntej koj mus ntsib kws kho mob, muaj tej yam me me uas koj ua tau hauv tsev los pab koj tus menyuam txhim kho lawv cov txuj ci lus:

• Tham nrog koj tus menyuam ntau zaus: Qhia rau koj tus menyuam txog yam koj ua thiab yam koj pom, ua cov lus yooj yim. Zoo li "Niam tab tom ua mov tam sim no," lossis "Saib tus noog zoo nkauj ntawd."
• Nyeem cov phau ntawv: Saib cov phau ntawv duab muaj yeeb yuj nrog koj tus menyuam thiab tham txog yam lawv hais. Nws tseem ceeb heev rau koj tus menyuam mloog.
• Mloog seb koj tus menyuam hais li cas: Thaum nws tab tom sim hais ib yam dab tsi, ua siab ntev mloog. Sim nkag siab txog nws hais li cas.
• Nug thiab teb cov lus nug: Nug cov lus nug yooj yim, "Lub pob nyob qhov twg?", "Koj xav noj dab tsi?". Txhawb nws thaum nws sim teb.
• Ua Si: Kev tham thiab qhia cov lus thaum ua si zoo heev.

Thaum kawg, tej yam rau koj nco ntsoov (Cov Lus Coj Mus Tsev)

Yog li ntawd, cov niam thiab cov txiv, nws yog ib lub tswv yim zoo kom ua tib zoo saib xyuas koj tus menyuam txoj kev hais lus thiab kev loj hlob ntawm cov lus. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias txhua tus menyuam txawv, thiab nrhiav kev pab kho mob yog tias koj xav tias yuav muaj kev ncua sijhawm.

Yog tias koj muaj qhov tsis ntseeg me ntsis los xij, tsis txhob xav tias, 'Qhov no tsuas yog ib yam dab tsi xwb,' tab sis nrog kws kho mob tham thiab daws qhov kev tsis ntseeg ntawd. Qhov ntawd yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws uas koj ua tau rau koj tus menyuam.

Tsis txhob txhawj, tab sis ceev faj. Xav kom koj tus menyuam muaj hmoo!

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