Mama, ngaba unemibuzo malunga nokuncancisa? (Imibuzo ebuzwa rhoqo ngokuncancisa) Masithethe!

Ukuncancisa yinto yendalo. Kodwa njengomama, kufuneka uqhele. Ngamanye amaxesha, iingxaki ezingalindelekanga zinokuvela. Ngoko ke, kweli nqaku, siza kuphendula eminye yemibuzo eqhelekileyo onokuba nayo malunga nokuncancisa. Makhe sijonge ezi zinto nganye nganye.

Ndingamncancisa umntwana wam ukuba ndiyagula?

Ixesha elininzi, ewe! Ungamncancisa umntwana wakho nokuba uyagula. Uninzi lwezifo azinabungozi kumntwana wakho. Khawucinge nje, xa umzimba wakho uvelisa ii-antibodies zokulwa nesi sifo, ezo antibodies zidluliselwa kumntwana wakho ngobisi lwakho lwebele. Oko kuthetha ukuba umntwana wakho ukhuselekile kweso sifo. Akulunganga oko?

Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unento efana ne -`(Coronavirus)` , amathuba okuba idlulele kumntwana wakho ngobisi lwebele aphantsi kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, intsholongwane inokudluliselwa kumntwana wakho ngamathontsi amancinci akhutshwa xa uthetha, ukhohlela, okanye uthimla. Ke ngoko, kufuneka uthethe nogqirha wakho uze wenze isigqibo sokuba uqhubeke nokuncancisa okanye ukugalela ubisi kwaye ufumane umntu ophilileyo oza kumnika umntwana wakho ubisi.

Ukuba ugqirha uthi kulungile ukuncancisa, nxiba imaski yobuso ngelixa uncancisa kwaye uhlambe izandla zakho kakuhle ngaphambi nasemva kokuphatha umntwana. Okanye, cela umntu ophilileyo endlwini yakho ondle umntwana wakho ubisi olukhuphe ubisi. Loo mntu kufuneka anxibe imaski yobuso aze ahlambe izandla zakhe ngaphambi nasemva kokuphatha umntwana.

Ukuba unezinye iingxaki zempilo okanye usela amayeza athile, anokuchaphazela nokuncancisa. Ngoko ke, ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka uthethe nomcebisi woncanciso okanye ugqirha wakho ngaphambi kokuba uyeke ukuncancisa. Akuyongcinga ilungileyo ukuyeka ngequbuliso.

Kutheni umntwana wam engafuni ukusela ubisi? (Nursing Strike) Senza ntoni?

Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana bayayeka ukuncancisa ngequbuliso. Kufana nokubetha! Oku sikubiza ngokuba kukwala ukuncancisa ngequbuliso . Zininzi izizathu zokuba oku kwenzeke. Umzekelo, umntwana usenokuba namazinyo, okanye usenokungakhululeki ngenxa yosulelo lwendlebe, okanye usenokuba ne-oral thrush . Okanye usenokuba nomkhuhlane kunye nempumlo evalekileyo, nto leyo eyenza kube nzima ukuphefumla.

Enye into kukuba, ukuba usebenzisa uhlobo olutsha lwesepha okanye ivumba elimnandi, ivumba lakho lisenokutshintsha kwaye umntwana wakho usenokungalithandi. Okanye ukuba utshintsha indlela otya ngayo, incasa yobisi lwakho inokutshintsha kwaye umntwana wakho usenokungalithandi.

Nokuba siyintoni na isizathu, oku kungokwexeshana, kwaye wena nomntwana wakho ninokunyamezela. Musa ukukhathazeka. Nazi iingcebiso ezimbalwa ezinokukunceda:

• Yenza amava okuncancisa abe mnandi kangangoko kunokwenzeka kumntwana wakho. Mncome umntwana wakho, mphulule ngothando, uze umthomalalise. Xa umntwana wakho ekhathazekile okanye ekhathazekile, yima umthuthuzele.
• Zama ukuncancisa umntwana wakho xa elele kamnandi, okanye elele kancinci.Ngelo xesha, basenokufuna ngakumbi ukusela ubisi. Banike ubisi kwindawo apho kungekho ngxolo okanye ukuphazamiseka.
• Ngaphambi kokuba uncancise, vuselela ukuhamba kobisi ngokukhupha ubisi oluncinci ngesandla sakho okanye usebenzisa ipompo. Oku kuya kwenza kube lula kumntwana ukuba afumane ubisi kwangoko xa eqala ukuncanca.
• Zama ukutyisa umntwana wakho ngoxa umshukumisa kancinci okanye xa uhamba naye ubotshelelwe emzimbeni wakho.

Khumbula, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba iintsana zingavumi ukuncancisa (ugwayimbo lokuncancisa). Oku kudla ngokuphela kwiintsuku ezimbalwa. De indlela yakho yokuncancisa ibuyele esiqhelweni, ungalibali ukupompa ukuze ugcine ubisi lwakho luphezulu kwaye uqinisekise ukuba umntwana wakho ufumana ubisi olwaneleyo. Xa umntwana wakho ekulungele ngokwenene ukuyeka ukuncancisa, kuya kwenziwa kancinci kancinci kwiiveki okanye kwiinyanga.

Ngaba kulungile ukunika umntwana isuphu?

Oomama babuza imibuzo emininzi malunga ne-pacifiers. Enyanisweni, kufunyenwe ukuba ukusebenzisa i-pacifiers kunokunciphisa umngcipheko we-Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) kwiintsana. Kwakhona, i-pacifiers inokuthomalalisa umntwana kwaye yanelise umnqweno wakhe wokumunca into ethile.

Ngoko ke, oogqirha bacebisa ukuba uqale ukunika umntwana wakho isuphu ngexesha lokulala nangexesha lokulala xa sele eneeveki ezi-3-4 ubudala, xa sele kuqinisekisiwe ukuba uncancisa. Ungaqhubeka nokunika umntwana wakho isuphu de abe nonyaka omnye ubudala. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntwana wakho akafuni ukutya isuphu, musa ukuyinyanzela.

Abanye oomama baxhalabile kukuba ukuba bangenisa izinto eziqinileyo ngaphambi kweeveki ezi-3-4, umntwana wabo uya kuba ' nokudideka kweengono' aze angavumi ukuncancisa. Okanye kuya kuba nzima kumntwana ukuqaphela xa elambile. Nangona kunjalo, kulungile ukunika izinto eziqinileyo ngamanye amaxesha kwinyanga yokuqala yobomi, umzekelo, xa kusokwa. Akuyi kulimaza imizamo yokuncancisa.

Ingaba kunokwenzeka ukuba umntwana akancanci kuba elambile? (Ukuncancisa okungadliyo ukutya) Ngaba yingxaki leyo?

Ngamanye amaxesha ungacinga, 'Usana lwam lusele lunebisi elaneleyo, kodwa lusancanca iyure yonke!' Oku kusenokuba kungenxa yokuba umntwana uncanca ukuze afumane intuthuzelo endaweni yokondliwa. Sikwabiza oku ngokuthi "Ukuncanca Okungekuko Okunesondlo" okanye ukuncanca ukuze afumane intuthuzelo .

Ngoko ke, wazi njani ngokuqinisekileyo? Nazi ezinye izinto onokuzenza ngelixa umntwana wakho esancancisa:

• Ubonakala wonwabile kakhulu.
• Bayayeka ukufunxa nokuginya ubisi.
• Ukudlala ngeengono zakho.

Ukuba ubona into efana nale, ungamvumela umntwana wakho ukuba amunce ubhontsi okanye isandla sakhe. Okanye, ungacinga ngokumnika isuphu xa sele ikwazile ukuncancisa.Oku akuyongxaki inkulu, kuqhelekile ukuba iintsana zenze loo nto.

Ucinga ntoni ngokunika umntwana ubisi lwefomyula endaweni yobisi lwebele?

Ubisi lwebele lolona khetho lokuqala loogqirha babantwana kwiintsana ezisandul’ ukuzalwa. Yiyo loo nto. Kodwa, inyaniso kukuba, ukuncancisa akusebenzi kuye wonke umama omtsha. Unelungelo lokukhetha oko kulungele wena nosapho lwakho.

Oomama abaninzi abatsha abakwazi ukuncancisa ngenxa yeemeko zempilo, amayeza, umsebenzi, uhambo, okanye iingxaki zokucwangciswa kwexesha. Nangona ukuncancisa kulula kwabanye oomama, kunokuba nzima kakhulu kwabanye. Nokuba ngoncedo lomcebisi wokuncancisa, kunokuvakala ngathi umntwana wakho akafumani ubisi olwaneleyo. Umnqweno wokuncancisa kunye noxinzelelo lokuzama ukwenza oko kunokuba nzima kakhulu, ingakumbi ngenxa yotshintsho oluninzi ebomini oluza nomntwana.

Abanye oomama abatsha bakhupha ubisi lwebele baze baluncancise ngebhotile. Kodwa abanye bakhetha ukunika ubisi lwefomyula. Ukuba wenza njalo, qiniseka ukuba ubisi lwefomyula olufumaneka kwimarike luyindlela elungileyo nenesondlo yokukhetha ubisi lwebele kumntwana wakho. Ukuncancisa ngebhotile kukwaneenzuzo zako. Kuvumela ootata, ootatomkhulu noomakhulu, kunye nabanye abanakekeli ukuba babandakanyeke ekondleni umntwana wakho kwaye bakhe olo lwalamano luxabisekileyo. Ngenxa yokuba ubisi lwefomyula lugaywa kancinci kunobisi lwebele, iintsana ezincanciswa ngefomyula akufuneki zincancise rhoqo njengeentsana ezincanciswa ngesifuba.

Ngoko ke, awumncedi umntwana wakho ngokusebenzisa ubisi lweentsana. Wenza konke okusemandleni akho ukunceda umntwana wakho akhule kakuhle.

Ukuba unemibuzo malunga nokondla umntwana wakho, thetha nogqirha wakho okanye umcebisi wobisi.

Mama, khumbula ezi zinto! (Umyalezo oya ekhaya)

Ukuncancisa lithuba elikhethekileyo kumama, kodwa kuqhelekile ukuba udibane neengxaki endleleni.

• Unako ukuncancisa umntwana wakho rhoqo nokuba ugula. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukufuna ingcebiso kagqirha, ingakumbi kwimeko efana ne-`(iCoronavirus)`.
• Ukuba umntwana wakho ngequbuliso uyala ukuncancisa ("uMlomo woNcedo"), musa ukoyika. Kukho isizathu soko, kwaye sesokwexeshana. Ngomonde nothando, ungayoyisa loo nto.
• Musa ukoyika ukunika umntwana ibhotile. Xa sele kuqinisekisiwe ukuba umntwana uncancisa, ukondla umntwana rhoqo kunokunciphisa umngcipheko we-Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS).
• Ngamanye amaxesha, umntwana wakho unokuncanca ukuze akhululeke (ukuncanca okungekuko okunesondlo). Oku kuqhelekile.
• Ukuba awukwazi ukuncancisa, musa ukuziva unetyala ngokunika ubisi oluyifomyula. Khetha ukuba yeyiphi efanelekileyo kwimeko yakho. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba umntwana wakho afumane uthando kunye nesondlo.

Hlala ukhumbula, awuwedwa.Nokuba ingxaki yakho injani na, thetha nogqirha wakho, umsebenzi wezempilo wosapho, okanye umcebisi wobisi. Baza kukunceda!

Ukuncancisa , impilo yomntwana, iingxaki zokuncancisa, ugwayimbo lokuncancisa, iisuphu, ubisi lwebele, iintsana ezisandul' ukuzalwa