Why is professional counseling important for problems in marriage?

In marriage counseling, both parties have the opportunity to discuss their problems in front of an impartial third party (a counselor), and practical methods are taught to resolve problems and communicate positively.

How does depression affect marriage?

When a partner is depressed, he/she may withdraw from family responsibilities, become angry frequently, or become apathetic. This is not the partner's fault but a medical condition that needs to be considered and treated, so you should consult a general practitioner (GP) or psychiatrist.

Is physical passion alone enough for a true bond in a marriage?

No. While physical attraction and sex are important, what is needed for a long-term, successful marriage is emotional attachment, such as mutual respect, listening to each other's opinions, and standing together through life's challenges.

How to control fault finding in practice?

You can control fault finding by setting aside a quiet time once a week, listing the behaviors you would like to change in each other and the help you expect from the other, and discussing them without anger.

The path to a successful marriage: Identify problems and protect love 💖💑

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📅 Updated: Jul 14, 2026 • ⏱ 3 min read • Editorial policy

Roshan (age 35) and his wife Dinusha (age 32) came to my clinic for a routine medical check-up last Thursday. They were both in a state of intense silence. I could tell there was a clear cold war going on between them.

When I asked them about their family life, Roshan said: "Dr. Priya, after the birth of our second child, our married life has become just a mechanical list. Due to financial problems and children's work, we don't have time to show love for each other. We fight all the time." Dinusha agreed, saying, "I don't get any support from Roshan, Doctor, he always finds fault with me."

I calmed them down and explained: "Roshan and Dinusha, many people think that a marriage should be successful on auto-pilot. But a truly successful marriage is something that requires continuous commitment and communication. There are 3 main pillars of a marriage: Love , Respect , and Responsibility . Today, let's talk about what are the common problems that arise in married life and how to successfully manage them psychologically."

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🚨 Red Flags that require immediate professional/psychological support

It is normal to have disagreements in married life. However, if the following symptoms arise, you should immediately consult a marriage counselor or psychiatrist:

The presence of any form of physical, verbal or psychological abuse (Domestic Abuse / Violence).
Attempts by one partner to completely control the other's finances or personal freedom (Coercive Control).
A partner suffering from persistent severe depression or suicidal thoughts due to family problems.
Stonewalling is when one party completely avoids communication when trying to discuss an issue.