Do you sometimes feel like you're constantly worrying about the same things? Or do you get overwhelmed by even the smallest things? We know how much these things can affect our lives. But did you know that there is a scientifically proven treatment that can change these thought patterns? That's what we're talking about today, the popular 'Cognitive Behavioral Therapy' or CBT method that helps.
Simply put, what is CBT?
CBT, or Cognitive Behavioral Therapy , is a type of psychotherapy that involves talking to someone over a set number of sessions with a specific goal. It's like talking to someone to help them. Psychiatrists, psychologists, and counselors use this method to treat a variety of mental illnesses and emotional problems.
This treatment method is based on several very simple, yet very powerful principles.
- Wrong thought patterns: One of the reasons for our mental problems is the wrong and unhelpful thought patterns in our heads.
- Habitual bad behaviors: Similarly, there are some unhealthy behavior patterns that we have unconsciously developed over time.
- False beliefs about ourselves and the world: Sometimes we have false beliefs about ourselves and the world. Examples of these include beliefs like "I'll never be good enough," "No one likes me," and so on.
- Change is possible: The important thing is that we can change all of these things. By learning to better deal with these thoughts and behaviors, we can reduce symptoms and improve mental well-being.
In CBT, your therapist helps you look deeply into your thoughts and feelings. You begin to understand how the way you think affects the way you act. This way, you can break free from negative thinking and behavior patterns and learn to think and act in healthier, more positive ways.
This is like identifying faulty 'software' in your head, 'updating' it, and 'debugging' it.
What kinds of illnesses can CBT help with?
CBT is a very valuable tool used to treat a wide range of mental and emotional problems. Anyone from children to adults can benefit from this treatment.
The table below shows the main situations in which CBT therapy is beneficial.
| Problem type | Examples |
|---|---|
| Mental health conditions |
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| Other health problems | |
| Challenges of daily life |
Additionally, studies have found that CBT is very effective when combined with medication for conditions such as bipolar disorder and schizophrenia.
How does CBT treatment work?
CBT is a very systematic, talk-based treatment. The therapist creates a safe environment where you can talk freely about your feelings, without any judgment. It is usually done over a series of sessions lasting between 5 and 20 weeks.
Think of your therapist as a friend, but one who has been specially trained to guide you on this journey. Results cannot be expected overnight. This is a journey that takes time, and is sometimes a little difficult, but it is worth it.
Steps in this process
1. Understanding the problem: In the first few sessions, you will talk about the challenges you are facing, the symptoms you are experiencing, and your fears. If you have been previously diagnosed with a mental illness, it is very important to tell the therapist about it. This is how the goals of the treatment are set.
2. Going Deeper by Asking Questions: Depending on your situation, the therapist will ask you a variety of questions. They will talk about past events, your fears, the way you behave, and the things you think. Through this dialogue, you will gain a better understanding of how you face challenges in life.
3. Helping you identify negative thoughts and behaviors: During this session, your therapist will encourage you to pay close attention to how you respond to difficult situations. Together, you will identify the negative feelings, beliefs, and behaviors that are causing your problems. You may also be asked to write these down in a journal.
4. Helping you change them: This is the most important step. The therapist teaches you how to change those negative thoughts and habits that you have identified. You change the way you look at things and learn to develop positive thought patterns and behaviors. Then, you use these new skills to face any challenges that come your way in the future.
How do I find a good CBT therapist?
This can be a bit challenging at times, but don't be discouraged. It's very important to find the right person for you.
- Ask your doctor: Your family doctor (GP) can provide good guidance in this regard. He or she may be able to refer you to a qualified psychiatrist, psychologist, or counselor.
- Ask trusted people: Ask a friend or family member you trust about this.
- Check qualifications: Make sure the therapist you choose is a state-approved and licensed professional in their field. Also, check to see if he/she has experience treating your condition (e.g., depression, anxiety).
The most important thing is not to be afraid to ask for help. Mental health is just as important as physical health.
Sometimes you may feel a little more emotional during treatment. This is because talking about feelings and past events that we have suppressed for a long time can be a little painful. But don't worry, your therapist will help you deal with those feelings.
If you are too depressed to be alone, or if you are having thoughts of harming yourself, please see your doctor immediately or go to the nearest hospital Emergency Department (ETU).
Take-Home Message
- CBT is a highly effective psychotherapy that helps you change your negative thoughts and behaviors through talk.
- It can help with a variety of mental illnesses such as depression, anxiety, and OCD, as well as everyday life stress and relationship problems.
- This is not something that will give instant results. Successful results can be achieved by working with the therapist with trust and dedication.
- It is important to seek treatment only from a qualified professional. Seek guidance from your family doctor.
- Asking for help for a mental health problem is not a weakness, it is a strength.


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