Many people think of depression as an unbearable sadness, a great sadness that never goes away. That's true, but depression can sometimes come in very subtle ways, with symptoms that we can't easily recognize. Do you also have pain in your body that comes for no reason? Do you feel angry and irritable for no reason? Or do you get teary-eyed at even the smallest things? Depression may be hiding behind these.
The best thing is, we don't have to be afraid of this situation. We can be proactive about it. Let's look at what these less obvious symptoms are and when we should seek treatment for this.
What are the hidden symptoms of depression?
When we think of depression, the main things that come to mind are sadness, hopelessness, a feeling of emptiness, and a loss of interest in things you used to enjoy. But in addition to these, there are many other symptoms that are not so well-known, but which indicate depression. Let's take a look at what they are.
| Hidden symptom | How you might feel |
|---|---|
| Anger and impatience | You get angry unnecessarily with family members, friends, and people at work. You get very angry over even the smallest things. |
| Sleep problems | You can't sleep at night, or you wake up in the morning. For some, this is the other way around. That means they sleep too much and have a hard time getting up in the morning. |
| Anxiety | Feeling restless, anxious, and thinking unnecessarily. Although anxiety and depression are two separate problems, they often occur together. |
| Frequent crying | Crying for no reason. Feeling very sad and crying over small things that you wouldn't normally care about. |
| Difficulty concentrating | You forget things, have difficulty making decisions, and feel like you can't focus on one thing. |
| Unexplained physical pain | Back pain, joint pain, limb pain, stomach pain, etc., if not relieved by treatment, may be a symptom of depression. Many people only discover they have depression when they go to see a doctor with these physical symptoms. |
| Drug and alcohol use | Some people turn to drugs or alcohol to relieve the stress caused by depression. These two problems go hand in hand. |
| Changes in diet | You may lose all desire to eat, or you may be tempted to overeat to feel better. |
| Loneliness | We try to be alone, away from friends and family, when we need help the most. |
Do women and men experience depression differently?
Yes, this is true. Not everyone experiences depression in the same way. There are differences in the experience, especially between women and men.
- When women suffer from depression, they often talk about things like sadness, guilt, and feelings of worthlessness .
- Men are more likely to report feeling tired, irritable, impatient, and frustrated during this time. They may also have more trouble sleeping. They may lose interest in activities, hobbies, and sexual activities that they used to enjoy. Some men may overwork themselves to avoid talking about their feelings. They may also turn to drugs or alcohol to cope with their depression, or may behave recklessly.
The important thing is, many men don't want to admit they have depression. They don't want to talk about their feelings. But remember, with the right treatment, both women and men can make a full recovery.
When should we seek treatment?
It can be hard to admit you have depression and ask for help, but there are two good reasons why you should seek treatment:
1. Treatment is effective: Even those with the most severe levels of depression can find relief with treatment. So can you.
2. Early treatment is better: Like other illnesses, early treatment for depression can help reduce symptoms. Delaying treatment can make the condition worse and more difficult to treat.
When should I see a doctor?
You can first talk to a close friend or family member about this and ask for help finding treatment. But don't hesitate to see your doctor, especially in cases like these:
- If you think you have depression.
- If you have major symptoms like sadness and hopelessness, or hidden symptoms like sleep problems and body aches.
- If these symptoms are preventing you from performing your daily activities (e.g. work, school, family chores) properly.
Warning: If you are having thoughts of suicide or dying, please seek medical advice immediately. Even if you feel hopeless right now, treatment can definitely give you new hope. You will realize that life is worth living. For that, see your doctor or go to the nearest hospital Emergency Department (ETU).
Treatment methods and their duration
When you see a doctor, he or she will first check to see if there is another physical cause for your symptoms, such as a thyroid problem. Otherwise, he or she will start treatment for depression or refer you to a mental health specialist.
There are two main treatment methods:
1. Antidepressants
2. Psychotherapy or talk therapy
Sometimes both are used together. For people with mild depression, psychotherapy alone may be sufficient.
Antidepressants
These medications work by affecting the chemicals in the brain called neurotransmitters and nerve circuits that control our mood. They work well for many people. But it can take 4 to 6 weeks to see results, so it's important to be patient. Sometimes side effects like weight gain and sexual problems can occur. It can take some time to find the medication that works best for you and has the fewest side effects. So talk to your doctor about everything and follow his or her advice.
Psychotherapy
This will help you overcome depression by changing the way you think and behave.
- You can learn new ways to think more positively.
- You can change habits and behaviors that increase depression.
- You will receive help in resolving problems in relationships at home or at work.
- It gives you the strength to look at things realistically and face your fears.
Because it takes time to break old thought patterns and behaviors, this treatment method also needs to be given some time.
Things you can do yourself
In addition to treatment from your doctor, there are some simple things you can do yourself to help you feel better.
- Be physically active: Exercise can boost your mood. Research has even shown that exercise can help relieve depression.
- Get a good night's sleep: Sleep is a key to healing from many illnesses, including depression. Getting the right amount of sleep (no more, no less) will help you feel energized. Get into the habit of going to bed and waking up at the same time every day.
- Stay connected with loved ones: Even if you're not feeling well, spending time with supportive friends and family can help you feel better. It doesn't have to be anything big, just go see a movie together, meet for coffee, or go for a walk in a nearby park. These types of connections, combined with therapy, can help bring you out of this darkness and into the light.
Take-Home Message
- Depression isn't always just sadness. Be aware of the hidden symptoms, such as irritability, body aches, and sleep problems.
- There may be differences in the way women and men experience depression. Men often show symptoms such as anger and fatigue.
- Treatment is very effective. The sooner treatment is started, the better the results. So don't hesitate to ask for help.
- If you have even the slightest suspicion that you have depression, talking to your doctor is the best first step.
- If you are having thoughts of ending your life, seek medical advice immediately. You are not alone, and there are many people who can help.
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