Ua ʻike mākou ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka noho ʻana me kahi maʻi koʻikoʻi e like me ke kanesa. Ke kū nei kēlā me kēia kanaka i kēia pilikia ma nā ʻano like ʻole. Manaʻo paha ʻoe, "Ua ikaika wau, hiki iaʻu ke lawelawe i kēia ma kaʻu iho." Akā i kekahi manawa he paʻakikī nā mea āpau a aia nā manawa ke manaʻo ʻoe ua mehameha loa. He mea maʻamau loa ia. I nā manawa e like me kēia, he mea nui loa ke kūkulu ʻana i kahi hui kākoʻo, kahi pūnaewele kākoʻo, e noho pū me ʻoe i nā manawa maikaʻi a me nā manawa ʻino.
No ke aha e hui pū ai me kahi hui kākoʻo?
ʻO ke komo ʻana i kahi hui kākoʻo me nā poʻe i ʻike i nā mea like me ʻoe he mea hōʻoluʻolu nui ia. Ma laila hiki iā ʻoe ke kaʻana like i kou mau manaʻo, kou mau makaʻu, kou mau kaumaha, kou mau manaʻolana, me ka makaʻu ʻole. No ka mea, ke hele nei nā mea a pau ma laila i ka mea like me ʻoe.
E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ia mea, ma kahi o ka haʻi ʻana i kou ʻohana e pili ana i kou nalowale ʻana o ka makemake a i ʻole ka nalowale o ka lauoho ma hope o ka mālama ʻana, ʻoi aku ka hōʻoluʻolu o ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kahi mea i ʻike i ka ʻike like. E haʻi lākou iā ʻoe pehea lākou i kū ai i kēlā mau pilikia, nā lāʻau lapaʻau i kūpono no lākou, a me nā mea a lākou i hana ai e hōʻemi i nā hopena ʻaoʻao.
Ke noho ʻoe i loko o kahi hui e like me kēia, ʻike ʻoe, "ʻAʻole wau wale nō ke kū nei i kēia, he nui nā poʻe ʻē aʻe me aʻu." ʻO kēlā manaʻo hoʻokahi wale nō e lilo i kumu ikaika nui nou.
Aia nā ʻano hui kākoʻo like ʻole e like me kēia.
- Nā hui no nā poʻe maʻi kanesa wale nō.
- Nā hui kahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke komo pū me kāu mea mālama nui (malia paha kāu hoa a i ʻole kekahi lālā o ka ʻohana).
- Nā hui kaʻawale no nā ʻohana a i ʻole nā keiki.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike hou aʻe e pili ana i kēia mau hui ma ke nīnau ʻana i kāu kauka a i ʻole ka haukapila kahi āu e mālama ʻia nei.
Mai makaʻu e ʻimi i ke kōkua mai haʻi.
Ua ʻike mākou, ʻoiai inā ʻoe kekahi kanaka e hana ana i nā mea āpau ma kāu iho a noho kūʻokoʻa, hiki ke paʻakikī iki ke noi aku i ke kōkua mai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ke kali nei kou ʻohana a me kou mau hoaaloha e kōkua iā ʻoe. Akā, ʻaʻole lākou i ʻike i ka mea e hana ai.
No laila, inā nīnau kekahi iā ʻoe, "He aha kāu makemake e hana aku ai au nou?", e mākaukau i kahi pane. E ʻae iā lākou e komo i kou ola, ʻoiai ma nā ʻano liʻiliʻi. He hauʻoli ia nou a no lākou hoʻi.
| Nā wahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke noi no ke kōkua | Nā hiʻohiʻona o nā mea hiki iā ʻoe ke noi |
|---|---|
| Hana hale | "E hoʻomākaukau a lawe mai ʻoe i kahi pāʻina no ka ʻaina awakea i kēia lā?" "Hiki iā ʻoe ke holoi i nā lole?" "E hele anei ʻoe i ka hale kūʻai a kūʻai mai i kekahi mau meaʻai naʻu?" |
| Nā Hoʻonohonoho Kauka | "E hele pū ʻoe me aʻu i ka haukapila? Pono au i ke kōkua e kākau i nā mea a ke kauka e ʻōlelo nei." "E hoʻomanaʻo mai iaʻu i nā nīnau e pono iaʻu e nīnau ma mua o ka hālāwai e hiki mai ana." |
| Nā papa manawa a me nā faila | "E hoʻomanaʻo mai ʻoe iaʻu i ka manawa e lawe ai i kaʻu lāʻau lapaʻau?" "Hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua iaʻu e hoʻonohonoho i ka faila ʻinikua a me nā hōʻike?" "E kōkua mai ʻoe iaʻu e hoʻonohonoho i nā manawa e kipa aku ai i ka hui?" |
| He kōkua iki | "Makemake ʻoe e lawe i ka ʻīlio no ka holoholo?" "Makemake au e ʻai i ka meaʻai, inā hiki, hiki iā ʻoe ke lawe mai iaʻu?" |
Nā mea e hoʻomanaʻo ai i ka wā e ʻae ai i ke kōkua
I ka wā e hele ai e ʻike i ke kauka: I ke kūkākūkā ʻana i ka lāʻau lapaʻau, hiki i kekahi manawa ke paʻakikī iā ʻoe ke hoʻomanaʻo i nā mea āpau i ka manawa hoʻokahi. Inā ʻoe e hele me kahi hoaaloha a ʻohana paha, hiki iā lākou ke kākau i nā mea nui nāu a nīnau i nā nīnau āu e poina ai e nīnau.
Mai makaʻu e ʻōlelo "ʻaʻole": I kekahi mau lā, e luhi loa paha ʻoe. Inā noi mai kekahi iā ʻoe e kipa mai i ia manawa, mai makaʻu e ʻōlelo, "He mea paʻakikī iki kēia lā, hiki iā kāua ke hui hou i kekahi lā?" E hoʻomaopopo maoli nō ka poʻe aloha iā ʻoe i kou kūlana. Inā lawe mai kekahi iā ʻoe i kahi meaʻai, akā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻai koke, e ʻōlelo, "Mahalo nui, e ʻai au i kēia ma hope" a waiho i loko o ka pahu hau.
E ʻōlelo pololei i kāu mea e makemake ai: Mai manaʻo e kuhi kekahi i kāu mea e noʻonoʻo nei a i ʻole kāu mea e makemake ai. Inā makemake lākou e kōkua iā ʻoe, ʻaʻole paha lākou e ʻike i ka mea e hana ai. No laila, e ʻōlelo i kahi mea e like me, "Pono wau i kahi kōkua iki...". E hauʻoli nui lākou e hana ia mea inā ʻoe e haʻi iā lākou i kāu mea e pono ai, inā he kelepona wikiwiki a i ʻole he leka uila.
He koho maikaʻi nō hoʻi ke kākoʻo pūnaewele.
Malia paha ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake maoli e hui pū me kahi hui a kamaʻilio paha e pili ana i kēia mau mea me ka poʻe āu i ʻike ai. I kēlā hihia, hiki iā ʻoe ke hui pū me nā hui kākoʻo pūnaewele, ʻo ia hoʻi, nā hui hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopili pū me ka pūnaewele.
Hāʻawi kēia iā ʻoe i ka manawa kūpono e kaʻana like i kou mau manaʻo me nā poʻe mai nā wahi like ʻole o ka honua i loaʻa nā ʻike like me ʻoe. Aia paha he mau ʻaha kūkā i hoʻolaʻa ʻia no nā kumuhana koʻikoʻi iā ʻoe, e like me ka chemotherapy a i ʻole nā hopena ʻaoʻao like ʻole o ka chemotherapy.
Akā e hoʻomanaʻo, i ke komo ʻana i kahi hui pūnaewele, pono ʻoe e nānā i kona hilinaʻi. Loaʻa paha i kekahi mau wahi ka ʻike hewa. No laila, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka nīnau ʻana i kāu kauka e pili ana i kēia a hui pū me kahi wahi hilinaʻi āna e ʻōlelo nei.
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- Mai manaʻo ʻoe ua hoʻokahi ʻoe i ka wā e hakakā ana me ka maʻi kanesa. Nui ka poʻe e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe a hoʻolohe iā ʻoe.
- E hui pū me kahi hui kākoʻo me nā poʻe i loaʻa nā ʻike like me ʻoe. E hāʻawi ia iā ʻoe i ka nui o ka hōʻoluʻolu.
- E ʻae i kou ʻohana a me kou mau hoaaloha e kōkua iā ʻoe. Makemake nui lākou e lilo i kou ikaika.
- E akaka a pololei hoʻi i ke kōkua āu e pono ai. E mahalo lākou.
- Inā luhi ʻoe, mai makaʻu e hōʻole a hoʻopanee paha i kāu kipa. ʻO kou olakino ka mea nui loa.
- He koho maikaʻi nā hui kākoʻo pūnaewele, akā ma mua o ke komo ʻana, e kamaʻilio me kāu kauka e pili ana i ia mea a koho i kahi hilinaʻi.
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