Yu nɔ de fil lɛk se yu want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs ɔ yu lɛk fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs lɛk aw yu bin de fil trade? Yu dɔn de tink bɔt am smɔl smɔl? Nɔ wɔri, nɔto yu nɔmɔ de gɛt dis prɔblɛm. Dis na tɔpik we bɔku pipul dɛn kin gɛt sɔm tɛm na dɛn layf, bɔt nɔto sɔntin we dɛn kin tɔk bɔt bɔku. So tide, lɛ wi tɔk opin wan ɛn ɔnɛs wan bɔt dis kɔndishɔn we dɛn kɔl ``Low Libido''.
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, wetin na lɔw libido?
I rili simpul. `Low Libido` min se yu nɔ gɛt bɛtɛ want, intres, ɔ want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs pas aw yu bin de du trade. Dis kin bi fɔ shɔt tɛm, ɔ i kin bi fɔ ɔltɛm.
Tink bɔt am, i tan lɛk se wi want fɔ it. Sɔm dez wi kin rili angri ɛn wi kin want fɔ it fayn fayn it dɛn. Ɔda de dɛn de, ilɛk us it wi si, wi nɔ kin fil fɔ it. Di want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs tan lɛk dat smɔl. Bɔt if dis kayn we aw wi nɔ lɛk it kɔntinyu, i kin afɛkt wi layf ɛn wi padi biznɛs wit ɔda pipul dɛn. Ɛn na so bak we pɔsin nɔ want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs igen.
De impɔtant tin na dat dis na wan sik wae kin pasmak. Sɔv dɔn sho se wan pan ɛvri fayv man ɛn ivin mɔ uman dɛn go gɛt dis sik sɔm tɛm na dɛn layf. So i nɔto natin fɔ shem.
Aw a go no fɔ tru if a gɛt dis sik?
Di men sayn na dat yu nɔ kin want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs pas aw yu bin de du trade . Bɔt sɔm ɔda sayn dɛn kin de bak. Lɛ wi si wetin dɛn bi.
| Di sayn we de sho se di sik de | Wetin dis min? |
|---|---|
| Nɔ gɛt intres pan ɛni kayn mami ɛn dadi biznɛs | No want ɔ intres nɔ de fɔ mastɛbate yu wan, nɔto jɔs wit pɔsin we yu de patna. |
| Nɔ tink bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs | Di tin dɛn we pipul dɛn kin tink bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs ɛn di tin dɛn we dɛn kin tink bɔt we dɛn de wok fɔ di de dɔn rili go dɔŋ. |
| Fɔ fil wɔri ɔr sɔri fɔ dis tin | "Wetin mek dis de apin to mi?", "I nɔ bin tan lɛk dis bifo," dɛn kin fil wɔri ɛn wɔri bɔt di we aw dɛn nɔ want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. |
Wetin mek dis de apin? Wetin na di rizin dɛn we mek dɛn de du dis?
No single rizin nɔ rili de fɔ dis. Bɔrku tin kin afɛkt dis, lɛk yu bɔdi, yu maynd wɛl bɔdi, yu ol, yu padi biznɛs wit ɔda pipul dɛm, ɛn di strɛs na yu layf. Lɛ wi tɔk mɔ bɔt dɛn rizin dɛn ya.
1. Prɔblɛm dɛn we gɛt fɔ du wit wɛlbɔdi biznɛs
Sɔm sik dɛn kin afɛkt di ɔmon dɛn na wi bɔdi, di nervɔs sistɛm, ɛn di we aw wi blɔd de go, ɛn dis kin mek wi nɔ want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs igen.
- Dayabitis: Dayabitis kin pwɛl di nerv ɛn blɔd vesel, we kin mek di blɔd nɔ flɔ to di bɔdi ɛn i kin mek i nɔ fil fayn.
- Hat Disease & High Blood Pressure: Dɛn kayn tin ya kin afɛkt di blɔd vesel dɛm bak.
- Pen we nɔ de dɔn: If yu de fil pen ɔltɛm ɛnisay na di bɔdi, dat kin mek yu nɔ gɛt trɛnk. Dis kin mek i lɔs in tɛm ɛn intres fɔ ivin tink bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs.
- Kidni sik we nɔ de mɛn
- Kansa: Di diskɔmfɔt na di bɔdi ɛn di strɛs we pɔsin kin gɛt na in maynd we kansa ɛn di tritmɛnt dɛn we i kin gɛt (e.g., kemotɛrapi) kin mek pɔsin nɔ want fɔ du am.
- Tayrɔyd we nɔ de wok fayn
- כmon prכblεm dεm: εspεshali di inkrεs pan di כmon `Prolactin' na di bכdi.
2. Mental wɛlbɔdi ɛn layf strɛs
Wi maynd ɛn wi bɔdi na tu tin dɛn we gɛt sɔntin fɔ du wit dɛnsɛf. If di maynd nɔ fayn, i go afɛkt di bɔdi bak.
- Prɔblɛm dɛn we gɛt fɔ du wit padi biznɛs: Di prɔblɛm dɛn we yu ɛn yu patna kin trɔst, we yu kin fɛt ɔltɛm, ɛn we yu nɔ kin gɛt tayt padi biznɛs wit ɔda pɔsin kin rili afɛkt di we aw yu want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs.
- Stress: Prɔblɛm na wok, os rispɔnsibiliti, mɔni prɔblɛm, pikin dɛn wok... We di maynd nɔ fri wit ɔl dis, di bɔdi in `Stress Hormones` de bɔku. Dɛn ɔmon dɛn ya nɔ de mek pɔsin want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs.
- Pwɛl hat: Pwɛl hat na sik wae de mek pɔrsin nɔr de intres ɛn gladi fɔ ɔltin. So i rili afɛkt yu sɛks layf.
- Wae yu de wɔri: We yu de fil ɔltɛm se yu de fred ɛn fred we yu nɔ nid, dat kin mek yu nɔ want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs bak.
- Trauma we yu bin dɔn gɛt we yu du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs trade:Dɛn kayn tin ya we nɔ fayn kin mek pɔsin fred ɛn nɔ kin fil fayn bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs insɛf.
3. Ɔda rizin dɛn
- Sɔm mɛrɛsin dɛn: Sɔm mɛrɛsin dɛn, mɔ di mɛrɛsin dɛn we de mek pɔsin fil bad, di mɛrɛsin dɛn we de mek pɔsin gɛt ay blɔd prɛshɔn, ɛn di mɛrɛsin dɛn we de mek pɔsin gɛt kansa, kin mek i nɔ want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs igen as sayd ɛfɛkt.
- Rɔk, drɔgs, ɛn smok: If pɔsin drink pasmak ɛn yuz drɔgs, dat kin mek i nɔ want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit ɔda pɔsin. Smok kin mek di tεstostεron lεvεl dεm bak pan man dεm.
- Fɔ ɛksesaiz: If yu nɔ du ɛnitin ɛn yu de du ɛksɛsayz pasmak, dat kin mek yu nɔ want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs.
Wetin na di rizin dɛn we kin mek uman dɛn spɛshal?
uman dεm kin gεt big chenj dεm na di כmon dεm na difrεn stej dεm na dεn layf, we kin afekt dεn want fכ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs dairekt wan.
- Pεrimenopכz εn Mεnopos: bitwin di ej dεm we di uman dεn ol 45-55, di εstrojen lεvεl dεm de dכn. Dis kin mek di vagina dray, i kin mek i fil pen we i de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, ɛn i nɔ kin want fɔ du am igen.
- Bεlε, bכn pikin, εn bεlε: I rili kכmכn fכ dכn di sεks dεm fכ dכn insay dεn tεm dεm ya biכs fכ di כmon dεm we de chenj, fכ di bכdi nכ de fil fayn, taya, εn di risכpshכn dεm fכ di pikin.
- Prɔblɛm dɛn we gɛt fɔ du wit mami ɛn dadi biznɛs: Pen we yu de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, di vagina dray, ɛn i nɔ kin izi fɔ rich ɔrgazm kin mek yu strɛs fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs.
- Infεkshכn: Tεmporari infεkshכn lεk yist infεkshכn כ urinary tract infεkshכn (UTI) kin mek sεks pen.
- Riprodaktiv hεlth εshyu: Kכndyushכn lεk Endometriosis εn PCOS (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome) kin mek bak di כmon dεm nכ balans εn pen, we kin mek di libido dכn.
- Sɔm we dɛn we dɛn kin yuz fɔ kɔntrol pikin: Sɔm pils dɛn we kin mek pɔsin nɔ bɔn pikin we gɛt ɔmon, lɛk di pat we kin mek pɔsin nɔ bɔn pikin, di vagina ring, ɛn di Depo-Provera injɛkshɔn kin mek sɔm uman dɛn nɔ want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs.
Wetin na di rizin dɛn we kin apin to man dɛn?
Di ɔmon ‘Tɛstostɛron’ kin mɔs afɛkt di we aw man dɛn want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs.
- di tεstostεron lεvεl dεm we lכw: di tεstostεron lεvεl dεm de dכn nכmal wan as wi de ol. Apat frɔm dat, ɔda mɛrɛsin dɛn kin mek dis ɔmon go dɔŋ bak. Dis na di men tin we kin mek pɔsin want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs di we aw Gɔd nɔ want.
- Prɔblɛm dɛn we gɛt fɔ du wit mami ɛn dadi biznɛs: Prɔblɛm dɛn lɛk we pɔsin nɔ ebul fɔ sidɔm, we i nɔ ebul fɔ bɔn pikin kwik kwik wan, ɔ we i de te we i de bɔn kin mek i fred ɛn wɔri bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs ɛn i nɔ kin want fɔ du am igen.
Aw dɔktɔ kin fɛn dis?
We yu go to dɔktɔ fɔ tɔk bɔt dis prɔblɛm, i go aks yu sɔm kwɛstyɔn dɛn. Fɔ tɔk bɔt dis opin wan ɛn ɔnɛs wan rili impɔtant fɔ mek yu gɛt di rayt tritmɛnt.
Di dɔktɔ kin aks yu bɔt dɛn tin ya:
- Wetin na yu sayn dɛm?
- Wetin na yu wɛl bɔdi ɛn us mɛrɛsin yu de tek?
- Ditiɛl dɛn bɔt yu sɛks layf.
- Bɔt yu rilayshɔnship.
- Bɔt yu strɛs.
- Di we aw yu de tink ɛn fil bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs.
Apat frɔm dɛn kwɛstyɔn ya, if pɔsin tink se yu gɛt prɔblɛm wit yu bɔdi, di dɔktɔ kin sɛn yu fɔ du tɛst dɛn lɛk:
- Fizik Ɛgzam
- If yu na uman, na pelvik ɛgzam
- Blɔd tɛst fɔ chɛk tin dɛn lɛk di ɔmon lɛvɛl
- Imej tɛst dɛn lɛk ɔltra saund skan
Wetin na di tritmɛnt dɛm fɔ dis?
Di bɛst tin na dat, bɔku fayn tritmɛnt dɛn de fɔ dis. Di tritmɛnt we yu go gɛt go dipen pan di tin we mek yu nɔ want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs.
| Di we aw dɛn kin trit am | Tɔk bɔt |
|---|---|
| Edukeshon ɛn kɔmyunikeshɔn | We yu lan bɔt aw pɔsin we want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs kin wok ɛn tɔk to yu patna opin wan, dat kin sɔlv bɔku prɔblɛm dɛn. |
| Manejmɛnt fɔ strɛs | Yu kin ridyus strɛs bay we yu de du tin dɛn lɛk fɔ tink gud wan, fɔ ɛksesaiz, ɛn fɔ du sɔntin we yu lɛk fɔ du. |
| Fɔ chenj di mɛrɛsin dɛn | If dis de apin bikɔs ɔf wan mɛrɛsin we yu de tek, yu kin tɔk to yu dɔktɔ ɛn chenj di doz ɔ chenj to ɔda mɛrɛsin. |
| Ɔmon Tɛrapi | If na bikɔs ɔf di uman we dɔn pas we i dɔn pas, dɛn kin gi am ɛstrojen tɛrapi. If man dɛn gɛt smɔl tɛstostɛron , dɛn kin gi tritmɛnt (pil, pat, krim, ɔ injɛkshɔn) fɔ dat. |
| Tɛrapi | Wan wan saykotɛrapi, kɔpl tɛrapi, ɔr sɛks thɛrapist kin ɛp yu fɔ sɔlv yu prɔblɛm ɛn mek yu rilayshɔnship strɔng. |
Wetin a go du pan mi pat?
Apat frɔm di tritmɛnt we yu de gi yu, yu kin mek smɔl chenj dɛn bak na di we aw yu de liv yu layf.
- Tɔk to yu patna: Bi ɔnɛs ɛn opin yu at bɔt aw yu de fil ɛn wetin yu nid. Dis go mek big difrɛns.
- Wɛlbɔdi layf: It fayn it. Ɛksesaiz ɔltɛm. Limit fɔ drink rɔm.
- Kɔntrol ɔda sik dɛn: If yu gɛt sik dɛn lɛk dayabitis ɔ ay blɔd prɛshɔn, kɔntrol dɛn fayn fayn wan akɔdin to wetin yu dɔktɔ tɛl yu.
Ustɛm a fɔ go to dɔktɔ bɔt dis?
If yu nɔ want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs bɛtɛ de mɔna yu, i de afɛkt yu maynd, ɔ i de afɛkt yu padi biznɛs, nɔ ɛva shem fɔ go to dɔktɔ.
Mɛmba se fɔ tɔk to dɔktɔ bɔt yu mami ɛn dadi biznɛs kin mek yu fil bad. Bɔt i rili nɔmal. Dɔktɔ dɛn kin aks dɛn kayn kwɛstyɔn ya ɛvride. Seks na impɔtant pat pan wi ɔl wɛlbɔdi. So nɔ ɛva shem fɔ aks fɔ ɛp.
I nɔ mata wetin yu de fil, if yu de wɔri bɔt dis, fɔ tɔk to dɔktɔ ɔr mɛntɛl hεlth kɔlnɔ na di fɔs ɛn bɛst tin wae yu kin du fɔ fil fayn.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Lɔw libido na wan sik we kin rili kɔmɔn. I nɔ nid fɔ shem fɔ am ɔ fɔ sɔfa yu wan.
- Dis kin kam bikɔs ɔf difrɛn tin dɛn lɛk bɔdi, maynd, layf, ɛn rilayshɔnship.
- I rili impɔtant fɔ tɔk bɔt dis opin wan ɛn ɔnɛs wan wit yu man ɔ yu wɛf.
- If dis sik de afɛkt yu gladi at ɔ yu padi biznɛs, i go fayn fɔ mek yu aks dɔktɔ fɔ advays.
- Wae dɛn dɔn no di kɔz, tritmɛnt dɛn de we rili fayn ɛn difrɛn fɔ dis.
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