Yu pikin we de rɔn ɔltɛm ɛn ple na os ɛn we de pas ɔlman wit di we aw i de tɔk, kin sɛt mɔt wantɛm wantɛm lɛk ston statu na skul, na in fambul in os, ɔ we i mit nyu pɔsin? Ilɛksɛf yu aks am fɔ tɔk, yu tink se i jɔs de kwayɛt ɛn de to insɛf, lɛk se i de fred? Bɔku mama ɛn papa dɛn kin tink se dis na di pikin in shem ɔ traŋa, bɔt i kin bi sɔntin we dip pas dat. Tide wi de tɔk bɔt dis ‘selective silence’ ɔ, pan mɛrɛsin, Selective Mutism .
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, wetin na Selective Mutism?
Selective mutism na wan wɔri sik wae kin afɛkt pikin dɛm. Insay dis kɔndishɔn, di pikin kin tɔk fayn, bɔt pan sɔm soshal sityueshɔn dɛn (fɔ ɛgzampul, na skul, bifo in fambul dɛn) dɛn kin lɔs di ebul fɔ tɔk kpatakpata.
Di impɔtant tin na dat dis nɔto sɔntin we di pikin de du bay wilful, ɛn nɔto dɛn traŋa. Di kayn we aw dɛn kin wɔri pasmak wit da tɛm de kin mek dɛn nɔ ebul fɔ tɔk. Dɛn kin fil lɛk se dɛn de chok dɛn vɔys.
Na os, na say we dɛn kin fil se dɛn sabi ɛn sef (wit mama, papa, brɔda ɛn sista dɛn), dɛn pikin ya kin tɔk bɔku tin. Bɔt we dɛn go ausayd da envayrɔmɛnt de, fɔ ɛgzampul, we dɛn go na klasrum, we di ticha aks kwɛstyɔn, dɛn kin sɛt mɔt. Sɔntɛnde, dɛn kin wispa so saful wan dat na dɛn padi nɔmɔ kin yɛri dɛn.
Wetin na di men kwaliti dɛm fɔ pikin we gɛt Selective Mutism?
Dɛn kwaliti ya kin difrɛn frɔm wan pikin to ɔda pikin, bɔt sɔm tin dɛn de we wi kin si we kɔmɔn.
- Fɔ tɔk nɔmal wan na say dɛn we a sabi: Na os, a kin tɔk to mi mama ɛn papa ɛn mi brɔda ɛn sista dɛn we a nɔ gɛt ɛni prɔblɛm.
- Nɔ fɔ tɔk na sɔm soshal sityueshɔn dɛn: Fɔ tɔk kin stɔp kpatakpata na say dɛn lɛk skul, na pati, ɔ bifo yu fambul.
- Fɔ sho sayn dɛm fɔ wɔri: Di pikin kin fred ɛn nɔ kin rɛst we i nɔ ebul fɔ tɔk. Sɔm kin tay pan dɛn mama ɔ papa. Di we aw pɔsin de sho in fes kin chenj, i kin tan lɛk se dɛn dɔn frɔz.
- Yuz tin dɛn instead fɔ yuz wɔd dɛn: Pan ɔl we dɛn nɔ ebul fɔ tɔk, dɛn kin tray fɔ tɔk to dɛnsɛf bay we dɛn de nɔd dɛn ed, pɔynt, ɔ rayt.
- Dis tin kin las fɔ pas wan mɔnt: I nɔmal fɔ mek pikin kwayɛt fɔ sɔm tɛm insay di fɔs mɔnt we i de go na nyu skul. Bɔt if dis saylɛns kɔntinyu fɔ pas wan mɔnt, na sɔntin we wi fɔ wɔri bɔt.
Yu tink se dis na jɔs shem? Ɔ na sɔntin we pas dat?
Dis na di big prɔblɛm we bɔku pipul dɛn gɛt. Bɔku mama ɛn papa dɛn kin tink se, "Mi pikin tu shem, na dat mek i nɔ de tɔk." BɔtSelektiv mutism ɛn jenɛral shem na tu difrɛn tin dɛn.
Imajin, we pikin we de shem go na nyu ples, dɛn kin kwayɛt fɔs, bɔt afta sɔm tɛm dɛn kin yus to di say we dɛn de, dɛn kin bigin fɔ tɔk smɔl smɔl. Bɔt pikin we gɛt Selective Mutism nɔ go ebul fɔ du dat. Insay da say de, dɛn nɔ kin ebul fɔ tɔk igen. Na sɔntin we dɛn nɔ ebul fɔ kɔntrol.
| Pozishɔn | Tɔk bɔt |
|---|---|
| Selektiv Mutism we pɔsin kin pik | Dis na wan sik wae dɛn kin no bɔt wae pɔrsin kin wɔri. Di pikin nɔ ebul fɔ tɔk igen. Dɛn kin sho tu abit dɛn na os ɛn na do. |
| Fɔ shem fɔ pɔsin | Dis na pɔsin we i bi. I nɔto sik we pɔsin kin gɛt we i de mɛn pipul dɛn. Fɔs, di pikin kin kwayɛt, bɔt afta sɔm tɛm, i kin ajɔst to di say we i de ɛn bigin fɔ tɔk. |
Dis na ɔtizm? Ɔ na fɔ delay fɔ tɔk?
Dis na ples bak we bɔku pipul dɛn kin kɔnfyus.
- Ɔtizm: Sɔm pikin dɛm wae gɛt ɔtizm kin gɛt delay fɔ tɔk ɔr nɔr de tɔk. Bɔt ɔtizm na wan sik wae de kam pan pɔrsin wae de gro pas aw pɔrsin kin wɔri. I kin inklud ɔda sayn dɛm bak, lɛk wae i nɔr kin izi fɔ ɔndastand sɔshal tin dɛm wae de mɛk pɔrsin fil, wae pɔrsin de fil, ɛn wae pɔrsin de du tin wae de ripit. Pikin dɛn we gɛt Selective Mutism kin ebul fɔ ɔndastand aw ɔda pipul dɛn de sho dɛn fes ɛn aw dɛn de fil.
- Langwej Delay: If pikin we ol tu ia nɔ tɔk wan wɔd, wi kin tek am se na langwej delay. Bɔt if pikin we ol siks ia tɔk fayn na os bɔt na skul nɔmɔ, i go mɔs bi se na Selective Mutism.
Wetin mek pikin dɛn kin gɛt dis sik?
Dɛn nɔ dɔn no yet di rayt tin we kin mek dis apin, bɔt di wan dɛn we de stɔdi bɔt dis biliv se bɔku tin dɛn kin mek i apin.
- Di Abit fɔ Wɔri: Bɔku pan dɛn pikin ya kin bɔn wit di abit fɔ wɔri bɔt ɔda pipul dɛn.
- Famili istri:Sɔmbɔdi na di famili, mɔ in mama ɛn papa, gɛt prɔblɛm we de mek i wɔri ɔ i kin shem pasmak.
- Prɔblɛm fɔ tɔk ɛn langwej: Sɔm pikin dɛn kin gɛt prɔblɛm wit dɛn tɔk ɔ langwej prɔblɛm, we kin mek dɛn fred fɔ tɔk bifo ɔda pipul dɛn.
- Tin dɛn we kin mek pɔsin fil bad: Sɔm pikin dɛn kin gɛt prɔblɛm fɔ bia wit krawd ɛn lawd nɔys. Insay dɛn kayn say dɛn de, dɛn kin sɛt mɔt as we fɔ protɛkt dɛnsɛf.
Mɛmba se dis sik nɔ kin apin bikɔs ɔf wan bad bad tin we kin apin to pikin. Bɔrku tɛm, i kin gɛt fɔ du wit wɔri hat.
Aw dɔktɔ kin no kɔrɛkt wan bɔt dis sik?
If yu tink se yu pikin gɛt dɛn sik ya, di bɛst tin fɔ du na fɔ go to dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn.
Di dɔktɔ kin fala sɔm tin dɛn fɔ no bɔt dis sik.
1. Fɔ ɛgzamin in bɔdi: Fɔs, dɛn kin du tɛst fɔ mek shɔ se no prɔblɛm nɔ de wit di pikin in ɔgan dɛn we i de yɛri ɛn tɔk (mɔt, tɔŋ, vɔkal kɔd).
2. Divεlכpmεnt Kwεshכn dεm: Dεn go aks yu ditayl kεshכn dεm bכt yu pikin in divεlכpmεnt, aw i de biev, εn famili histri frכm we dεn bכn am te naw.
3. Riferal to Speech Therapist: Dɛn kin rifer yu to Speech-Language Pathologist fɔ asɛs yu pikin in tɔk ɛn langwej skil dɛm.
4. Sɔpɔt frɔm pɔsin we sabi bɔt mɛntɛl wɛlbɔdi biznɛs: Bikɔs dis sik gɛt fɔ du wit wɔri, i rili impɔtant fɔ rifer di pikin to sayɛnsman ɔ saykayatrist we gɛt ɛkspiriɛns pan pikin dɛn maynd wɛlbɔdi. Na dεn kin kכnfכm se dis kכndyushכn na tru tru Selective Mutism εn dεn kin mek wan tritmεnt plan we fit di pikin.
Aw yu go ɛp as mama ɔ papa ɔ ticha?
Di sɔpɔt we mama ɛn papa, ticha, ɛn famili kin gi impɔtant fɔ trit dis sik.
Wetin mama ɛn papa dɛn kin du:
- Ɔndastandin: Di fɔs tin fɔ ɔndastand na dat dis nɔto kes we di pikin gɛt traŋa, bɔt i de tɔk sɔntin difrɛn bikɔs ɔf di wɔri we i nɔ ebul fɔ kɔntrol.
- Nɔ fos: Nɔ ɛva fos yu pikin fɔ tɔk. If yu du dat, i go jɔs mek di pikin wɔri mɔ ɛn mɔ. Nɔ tɔk tin dɛn lɛk, "Opin yu mɔt ɛn tɔk!"
- Peshɛnt: Dis sik kin tek tɛm fɔ wɛl. Peshɛnt wit yu pikin. Prez in smɔl smɔl sakrifays dɛn (e.g., fɔ smayl to pɔsin, fɔ nɔd in ed).
- Fɔ fala di advays we di dɔktɔ gi yu: Fɔ fala di instrɔkshɔn dɛn we yu pikin in dɔktɔ ɛn di dɔktɔ we de mɛn yu pikin dɔn gi yu.
Wetin ticha dɛn kin du:
- Nɔ fɔ lɛf di pikin:Ilɛksɛf di pikin nɔ de tɔk, ɔndastand se i de na klas ɛn pe atɛnshɔn to di lɛsin dɛn.
- Fɔ gi ɔda we dɛn: Alaw ɔda we dɛn lɛk fɔ rayt, drɔ, ɔ fɔ nɔd fɔ ansa kwɛstyɔn dɛn.
- Fɔ mek say we sef: Mek ples usay yu pikin go fil sef na klas. Mek dɛn sidɔm nia yu padi we yu kin abop pan.
- Aw fɔ no: Ɛksplen dis sityueshɔn to ɔda pikin dɛn simpul we, ɛn ɛnkɔrej dɛn fɔ ɛp dis pikin ɛn nɔ fɔ de nia am.
Wetin brɔda ɛn sista ɛn padi dɛn kin du:
- Nɔ isolate: Nɔ isolate yu pikin, put am insay di gem dɛn. Ivin if i nɔ de tɔk, i kin stil ebul fɔ ple.
- Protekshɔn frɔm buli: If ɔda pikin dɛn de mek laf dis pikin wit nem lɛk "dumb", tɔk agens am ɛn tɛl di ticha dɛn.
- Ɛp: We di pikin nid fɔ tɔk sɔntin, ɛp dɛn fɔ tɔk am fɔ dɛn (wit di pikin in kɔnsɛntmɛnt).
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Selective mutism nɔto jɔs pikin in traŋa ɔ shem. Na wan mɛrɛsin wae kin trit wae gɛt fɔ du wit wɔri hat.
- If yu pikin gɛt dɛn sik ya, go to dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn kwik kwik wan. If yu delay fɔ tritmɛnt, dat kin mek di sik siriɔs.
- Nɔ ɛva fos pikin, pɔnish am, ɔ provok am fɔ tɔk. Dis go jɔs mek di pikin wɔri mɔ ɛn mɔ.
- If yu peshɛnt, lɔv, ɛn di rayt tritmɛnt, yu go ɛp yu pikin fɔ win dis prɔblɛm.
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