Mi rukbotute nena inhnaih tak tak an awm tih i hre ngai em? Hei hi Stockholm Syndrome an ti a!

Mi pakhat rukbo a nih a, sal man a nih a, nangmah rukbotu chungah hian lainatna, ṭhian nihna pawh ni thei, i hriatna dinhmun i hre tawh em? Mak tak mai a ni lawm ni? Mahse a takah chuan psychological condition complex tak a ni thei. Vawiin hian rilru lam dinhmun danglam tak, mahse pawimawh tak mai kan sawi dawn a ni. Hei hi doctor ten Stockholm Syndrome an tih chu a ni.

Stockholm Syndrome hi eng nge ni?

A awlsam zawngin, Stockholm Syndrome chu mi pakhatin mi man emaw, tihduhdahna nasa tak a tawk emaw a nih chuan, mi tihduhdahtu emaw, rukbotu emaw chungah rilru lama inzawmna nghet tak leh lainatna a neihna a ni. I tibuaitu emaw, i tihduhdahtu emaw chunga inzawmna leh lainatna neih chu thil mak leh buaithlak tak a nihzia han ngaihtuah teh.

He dinhmun hi a tirah chuan rukbo chungchangah hriat chhuah ni mah se, tunah chuan doctor-te chuan thil rapthlak tak dang dangah pawh hmuh theih a ni tih an sawi . Chu chu, tihduhdahtu leh tihduhdahtu inkara inzawmna mak tak, hriatthiam harsa tak a lo awm tihna a ni.

Mental health professional tam tak chuan hei hi thil rapthlak tak tawktu chuan ni, kar, leh a châng chuan kum tam tak chhûnga lungngaihna leh tihduhdahna a tawhte dam khawchhuah nâna a hman ṭhin, a hmachhawn dân angin an ngai a ni Rilruin dinhmun hlauhawma a insiamrem a, a inven dan mak tak a ni.

Hetiang ang chiah, leh a kaihhnawih rilru lam natna dang engemaw zat, doctor-te’n an hmuhchhuah te pawh a awm bawk:

• Trauma bonding: Hei hi trauma na tak hmanga tihduhdahtu leh a tuartu inkara inzawmna tha lo tak a ni.
• Learned helplessness: Hei hian he dinhmun atang hian i tlanchhuak thei ngai lo va, tanpuina a awm lo tih rinna hmanga tanpui ngai lo nih tihna a ni.
• Battered person syndrome: Hun rei tak chhung taksa emaw rilru emawa tihduhdahna avanga lo awm, chu tihduhdahna avanga lo awm rilru lam natna.

Engtin nge hei hian ‘Stockholm’ tih hming a neih?

Khawvel pum ngaihven hlawh tak thil thleng bik tak avang hian a hming a pu ta a ni. Kum 1973 khan a thleng a, Sweden ram Stockholm khawpuiah a thleng a ni . Mipui pawl pakhat chu bank pakhat rawk turin an lo kal a, bank hnathawk eng emaw zat chu ni ruk chhung hostage-in an man. Hei hi police-in an hual lai a thleng a ni. Mak tak mai chu heng mi mante hi engtin emaw tak chhuah an nih hnuah, an zinga ṭhenkhat chuan bank rukrute lakah court-ah pawh thu an sawi duh lo . Chu mai pawh ni lovin, mak tak maiin, rukrute chhanchhuahna tura dan anga kalpui dan tur pui turin sum an thawhkhawm bawk!

Chuvangin, he thil thleng hi ngun taka zirchiangtu criminologist leh psychiatrist pakhat chuan he bank hnathawkte’n rukrute chunga an inhmangaihna leh lainatna mak tak an lantir hi ‘Stockholm Syndrome’ tih hming hmang hmasa bertu an ni. Chu chu Stockholm khawpuia syndrome hmuh tawh kha a ni. He hming hi chuta tang chuan hetiang dinhmun atan hian hman a ni ta a ni.

Stockholm Syndrome natna lan chhuah dan chu engte nge ni?

Miin Stockholm Syndrome a neih chuan heng symptoms te hi a lantir thei a ni. Mahse, mi zawng zawng hian heng symptoms zawng zawng hi an nei vek dawn lo tih hre reng ang che, mi hrang hrangah pawh a inang lo thei bawk.

• Sal mantu che emaw, tihduhdahtu che emaw chungah rilru tha tak neih. Chu chu an chunga khawngaihna, duhna, humhim duhna rilru put hmang pawh a ni mai thei.
• An rinna leh nungchang nena inmil, lainatna. An thil tih ang bawkin, an ngaihdan atang chuan a dik hmel hle a, hriatthiam tumna a ni.
• Police, thuneitu dang emaw, chhanchhuah tumtute chunga rilru tha lo tak neih. Chu chu chhandam tura lo kalte dodal leh rin loh tihna a ni.

Heng bakah hian Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) , rilru lam natna, thil rapthlak tak thleng hnua lo awm thin ang chi symptoms te pawh hmuh theih a ni bawk. Chung zingah chuan:

• Flashbacks: Hei hian thil thlengte chu i mit hmuhah a nung thar leh niin a lang a, chutih lai chuan a ri te, rim te leh a rilru put hmang te chu a awm niin a lang.
• Hrisel lohna, thinrim reng, rilru hah leh lungkhamna. Thil tenawm tak tak avanga thinrim leh thinrim.
• Tûn hmaa hlimna thlentu thilte nuam i tih theih loh, hahdam theih loh.
• Thil ngaihtuah harsa tak a ni. Memory loss pawh a awm thei bawk.
• Mut theih lohna, mumang chhia.

Engvangin nge mi thenkhatin hetiang dinhmun hi an neih?

Dik tak chuan, zirchiangtute chuan engvangin nge hostage emaw, mi tihduhdahtu emaw ṭhenkhatin Stockholm Syndrome an vei tih za zela 100-in an la chiang lo a , mi ṭhenkhatin traumatic experience tuar tawhte erawh chuan an vei lo. Mahse a chhan sawifiah thei tur theory tlemte a awm.

Theory pakhat chu hei hi kan pi leh pute atanga thlah khat atanga thlah danga lo kal zel technique zir chhuah a ni tih a ni . Ngaihtuah teh, tun hma chuan hnam hrang hrang inkara indona a awm a, khawtlang pawl dangin an man leh an tihhlum theihna a awm fo thin. Chutih lai chuan, nangmah mantute nêna inzawmna emaw, ṭhian nihna emaw eng emaw tak i siam chuan i dam khawchhuah theihna chu a pung a ni.Evolutionary psychiatrist thenkhat chuan he hmân lai hmanraw hi mihringte dam khawchhuahna tura ṭanpuitu mihring pianpui mizia a ni thei niin an ngai.

Ngaihtuahna dang chu mi pakhat sal tang emaw, tihduhdah emaw a nih chuan rilru lama harsatna nei dinhmun a ni tih hi a ni . Chu chu, pressure chu rilruin a tuar theih loh lutuk tihna a ni. Tichuan, hun kal zelah, mi tihduhdahtu hnen a\angin ngilneihna emaw, lainatna emaw tlemte i dawng a nih chuan (entir nan, ei tur pein, tui i pe a, tlem i biak) a nih chuan, a chhanna atan i rilru put hmang chu i thlak danglam thei a, mi tihduhdahtu chungah lainatna i nei thei bawk. Tin, mi tihduhdahtu chu i beih ai chuan, i himna chu i thawhpui thei niin i inhria thei bawk. Mi tihduhdahtuin a tihbuai loh che chuan chu mi chungah chuan lawmthu sawi turin i thlem a, mi tihduhdahtu chu "chutiang mi sual lo" angin i hmu mai thei bawk. Hei hi rilru lam thil tih hriat loh tak tak a ni .

Engtin nge doctor ten hei hi natna anga an hriat?

Hetah hian thil danglam tak i hriat tur a awm. American Psychiatric Association chuan Stockholm Syndrome hi an diagnostic manual thar ber – khawvela rilru lam natna leh dinhmun hriat theihna atana kaihhruaina lar ber, mi zawng zawngin an pawm Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) -ah official-in natna hran angin an dah lo.

Chuvangin, hriselna enkawltu thenkhat, doctor leh rilru lam doctor te chuan chu hmingin he natna hi an hre thei a, an hre lo thei bawk. Mahse, thil rapthlak tak thleng hnua nungchang awm dan, chu chu a tuartuin a lan chhuah dan (symptoms) te chu an hre vek a ni. Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) leh acute stress disorder , leh enkawl dan thenkhat te hi Stockholm Syndrome nen hian a inang hle. Chuvangin doctor-in a tih chu a natna lan chhuah dan leh a tawnhriat atanga enkawl dan tur ruahmanna siam hi a ni.

Stockholm Syndrome hi eng enkawlna nge ni?

Stockholm Syndrome hi official-in rilru natna anga ngaih a nih loh avangin standard treatment a awm lo . Mahse, kan sawi tawh ang khan Stockholm Syndrome hi post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) ang bawkin enkawl a ni . Hei hi a tul chuan psychotherapy leh/ emaw damdawi hmanga tih a ni ber.

Nangmah emaw, i hnaih ber emaw pawhin he natna hi i neih chuan, i thil tawn lungchhiatthlak tak takte hmachhawn dan tur hrisel tak takte chu hetiang hi a ni.I zir thei ang.

Therapy hian heng thilte hi a pui thei che a ni:

• I thil tawn te, i chunga thil thleng te, leh i rilru put hmang ang taka i awm chhan te hrethiam rawh.
• I mantute emaw, i tihduhdahtu emaw chunga khawngaihna rilru put hmang chu chutih laia dam khawchhuahna leh dinhmun hmachhawn tûra i neih tawh, dam khawchhuahna thiamna a ni tih hrethiam rawh. I sualna a ni lo tih pawm rawh.
• I nunah chak zawka hmalam pan dan tur leh he thil harsa tak i tawn hnu hian bul tanna thar siam dan tur zir rawh.

Mut theih lohna, lungkhamna, lungngaihna ang chi symptoms i neih chuan i doctor chuan i mut that theih nan leh i lungkhamna emaw, i lungngaihna emaw tihziaawmna tur damdawi a pe thei che a ni. Hengte hi psychotherapy nena hman dun a nih chuan a hlawk thei hle.

Hetiang dinhmun atang hian kan chhuak thei ang em? Nakin hun chu eng nge ni ang?

Sawi hmasak ber tur chu , tihduhdah, traumatized, emaw hostage-a man zawng zawng hian Stockholm Syndrome an vei vek lo tih hi a ni. Hei hi a takah chuan psychological reaction a awm lo hle . Chu chu thil awm lo tak a ni tihna a ni.

Mahse, chutiang chu thleng mah se, psychotherapy leh a tul chuan damdawi ei hian nangmah emaw, i hmangaih tak emaw chu he natna atanga lo harh chhuakin, nun pangngai, hlim taka hmalam pan turin a pui thei ngei ang . Chuvangin beiseina bansan suh. Recovery process hian hun engemaw chen a la ngai thei a, mahse support dik tak nen chuan tih theih a ni.

Stockholm Syndrome hi hostage situation-ah chauh a awm em?

Stockholm Syndrome tih hming hi Stockholm khawpui, bank rukbo leh mi man a nihna hmun aṭanga siam ni mah se, chutiang bawka nungchang leh rilru put hmang chu thil lungchhiatthlâk tak tak dang tawk tawhteah pawh hmuh theih a ni. Chumi awmzia chu hostage-te tan chauh a ni lo tihna a ni. Entirna tlemte chu hetiang hi a ni:

• Sexual, physical leh emotional abuse: A bik takin hun rei tak chhung chhungkaw tharum thawhna ang chi thilah te.
• Naupang tihduhdahna: Naupang chuan tihduhdahtu puitling nen inzawmna a siam thei a, a chhan chu naupang chuan duhthlan tur dang leh venhimna dang a neih loh vang a ni.
• Coach-athlete tihduhdahna: Ngaihtuah teh, infiammi ṭhenkhat chuan an coach hnen aṭanga workout extreme, harsh, abusive tak tak pawh an pawm a, a chhan chu coach hian an tana ṭha ber a hriat avangin hnehna a chan tir thei tih an rin vang a ni.
• Mihring sex hmanga sumdawnna: Hetah pawh hian an hralhtute nen hian eng emaw zat inzawmna an siam tih report a awm bawk.
• Sakhaw pawl thenkhat member-te’n an hruaitute chunga mitdel anga an inpekna chu hei nen hian eng emaw chen chu tehkhin theih a ni.

Heng zawng zawngah hian Stockholm Syndrome hi a hmachhawn dan tur a ni . I tihduhdahtu chungah hlauhna, hlauhna, huatna i neih ai chuan mihring nihna leh lainatna i nei tan thei a ni.

A pawimawh ber chu nangmah emaw, i hnaih ber tu emaw hian Stockholm Syndrome i tawk a nih chuan, i tihduhdahtu chunga i rilru put hmang tha tak takte hi i sualna a ni lo tih i hriatthiam a pawimawh hle. I rilru put hmang, i chunga thil thleng i hmachhawn dan leh i hmachhawn dan hriatthiamna kawng a ni. I doctor emaw counselor emaw chuan nangmah emaw i hmangaih tak emaw chu he natna atanga dam leh turin a pui thei che a ni.

A tawp berah chuan hriat reng tur pawimawh ber ber (Take-Home Message) .

Okay, chuvangin tunah chuan Stockholm Syndrome chungchang hi kan hrethiam tawh hle. Thupui buaithlak tak ni mah se, fimkhur a pawimawh hle. Hengte hi hriat reng tur pawimawh tak tak thenkhat chu a ni:

• Stockholm Syndrome hi trauma emaw tihduhdahna nasa tak emaw avanga rilru lam thila thil thleng a ni a, chutah chuan a tuartu chuan an tihduhdahtu chungah lainatna emaw, inzawmna emaw a nei a ni.
• Hei hi victim sualna a ni lo va , rilruin dam khawchhuahna atana a hman coping mechanism a ni a, unconscious survival tactic a ni.
• He dinhmun hi hostage-taking-ah chauh a innghat lo va, tihduhdahna hrang hrang leh thil rapthlak tak takah pawh hmuh theih a ni .
• Official-a natna anga chhiar ni lo mah se, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) -a symptoms inang a nei a, a enkawlna pawh a inang vek.
• Psychotherapy leh a tul chuan damdawi hmang hian he natna atang hian dam lehin nun pangngaia kir leh theih a ni ngei ang .
• Nangmah emaw, i hriat mi emaw hian he natna hi i vei a nih chuan, emaw, i tawng tawh a nih chuan, damdawi lam thurawn dik tak leh rilru lam hriselna lama mi thiam tak puihna lak a pawimawh hle

Hetiang thil tawn avang hian mahni chauha inhriat ngai suh, zak leh inthiam lohna nei ngai suh. Ṭanpuina dil hlau suh. I rilru hriselna hi a hlu a ni. Chu chu humhim turin dikna i nei a ni.

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