Wo ba a wadi mfe abien kosi abiɛsa no nkitahodi: So ɛsɛ sɛ yehu eyi?

Yɛn mmofra nkumaa a yɛne wɔn bɛkasa na yɛne wɔn aserew no yɛ anigye kɛse a yenya sɛ awofo no mu biako, ɛnte saa? Mmofra nkumaa sua nneɛma fi saa nkɔmmɔ a wɔne yɛn bɔ yi mu, fi nneɛma a wohu na wɔte wɔ wiase a atwa wɔn ho ahyia no mu da biara da no mu. Enti ebia w’ani begye nso sɛ wubehu sɛnea akasafo nkumaa yi da wɔn adwene adi ne sɛnea yebetumi aboa wɔn ma wɔanya kasa ho nimdeɛ. Momma yɛnka ho asɛm nkɔ akyiri kakra.

Ɔkwan bɛn so na mmofra a wɔretu mmirika kasa wɔ saa mfe yi mu? (Mmofra a wɔretu mmirika Nkitahodi mu Nneɛma a Ɛho Hia) .

So wunim sɛ mmofra a wɔretu mmirika fi mfe abien kosi abiɛsa no, wonya nkɔso kɛse wɔ wɔn kasa ho nimdeɛ mu? Fa no sɛ, abofra ketewaa bi a na ɔreka asɛmfua biako anaa abien pɛ asram kakraa bi a atwam ni no afi ase reka kasamu nketenkete mprempren. So ɛno nyɛ nkɔso a ɛyɛ nwonwa?

Ɛte dɛn wɔ bɛyɛ mfe 2 mu?

Wɔ saa mfe yi mu no, mmofra nkumaa paa:

• Wofi ase ka nsɛmfua abien bom. Te sɛ "Mama, me hia aburow," "Baby, me hia nsu," "Me hia bɔɔl." Ɛtɔ da bi a, eyi betumi ayɛ te sɛ aseresɛm ama yɛn, nanso ɛyɛ anammɔn kɛse ma wɔn.
• Ebia nea wɔreka no mu nna hɔ koraa de besi nnɛ, nanso ɛsɛ sɛ yɛbɔ mmɔden na yɛte ase.

Wo te dɛn wɔ asram 30 (bɛyɛ mfe 2 1⁄2) mu?

Sɛ wonyin kakra a, bɛyɛ asram 30:

• Wɔn nsɛmfua betumi ayɛ nsɛmfua 50 anaa nea ɛboro saa . Wo de susuw sɛnea wɔn nsɛmfua a wɔde di dwuma no bɛkɔ anim ntɛmntɛm no ho hwɛ!
• Nnipa afoforo te nea wɔka no bɛyɛ fã ase. Mfiase no, na Maame ne Paapa nkutoo na wɔte ase, nanso seesei, nkakrankakra, afoforo afi ase rete nea wɔreka no ase.
• Ofi ase de nsɛmfua a ɛkyerɛ ne ho te sɛ "me," "me," ne "yɛn" di dwuma.
• Sɛ wode akwankyerɛ a ɛnyɛ den abien ma wɔn a ɛtoatoa so, te sɛ "Fa bɔɔl no na fa bra papa nkyɛn" a, wobetumi ayɛ. Eyi kyerɛ sɛnea wɔn ntease ho nimdeɛ nso renya nkɔso.

Nsonsonoe a wuhu wɔ mfe 3 akyi

Edu bere a wo kasafo kumaa no bedi mfe abiɛsa no, na wanya nkɔso kɛse mpo:

• Wɔn nsɛmfua taa boro nsɛmfua 200 .
• Wotumi de nsɛmfua abien anaa abiɛsa yɛ kasamu, na ɛtɔ mmere bi mpo a ɛware sen saa . Te sɛ "Maame, aburow no wɔ he?", "Me deɛ mɛdi agorɔ."
• Anyɛ yiye koraa no wobetumi ne wo ayɛ nsakrae mprenu wɔ akyi ne akyi , na sɛ wubisa asɛm bi a, bua, na wɔbɛsan abisa wo asɛm bi bio.
• Mpɛn pii no, afoforo te nea wɔreka no ase pefee.

Kae sɛ eyi fa nkɔso a ɛfata ho. Ɛnyɛ nkokoaa nyinaa na wɔyɛ pɛ. Ebia nkokoaa binom begye bere kakra ansa na wɔayɛ saa nneɛma yi. Ɛno yɛ ade a ɛfata.

Dɛn na ɛsɛ sɛ yɛyɛ na ama yɛn ba no anya nkitahodi ho nimdeɛ?

Nneɛma pii wɔ hɔ a yebetumi ayɛ de ama yɛn mma nkumaa kasa ho nimdeɛ atu mpɔn. Sɛ yɛbɛka no tiawa a, dodow a yɛne wɔn kasa no, dodow no ara na yɛne wɔn di agoru, na bere dodow a yɛne wɔn nya no, dodow no ara na wosua nneɛma pii.

Nneɛma bi a wubetumi ayɛ ni:

1. Wo ne wo ba no mmɔ nkɔmmɔ mpɛn pii.

• Ka nneɛma a woreyɛ no ho asɛm kyerɛ wo ba. Te sɛ, "Maame rekɔyɛ aburow mprempren," "Yɛbɛkɔ aguare mprempren?"
• Ka nea ɔyɛe saa da no ne nea ɔbɛyɛ ɔkyena ho asɛm. "Wo nyaa anigyeɛ wɔ agodie mu nnɛ?" "Yɛrekɔ nana fie ɔkyena, ɛnte saa?"
• Ɛyɛ su pa nso sɛ wobɛka nea esii da a edi kan ansa na woada no ho asɛm. Ɛboa wɔn ma wɔbɔ da no mua na wosua nsɛmfua foforo.

2. Mobom kenkan nhoma

• Wo ne wo ba ketewa no bom kenkan nhoma. Fa bere kakra si hɔ da biara ma eyi. Ebetumi ayɛ nhoma a wɔn ani gye ho paa, anaasɛ ebetumi ayɛ nhoma foforo. Sɛ ɛyɛ nhoma koro da biara da a, ɛnyɛ hwee, wɔn ani gye ho!
• Fa mfonini ahorow a ɛyɛ fɛ a ɛwɔ nhoma no mu kyerɛ wɔn. Bisa wɔn nsɛm a ɛnyɛ den te sɛ, "Dɛn ne eyi, ɔbabarima/ɔbabea?" "Ɛhe na ɔsebɔ ba no wɔ? Dɛn na ɔsebɔ ba no reyɛ?" Afei wɔbɛbɔ mmɔden sɛ wobebua.
• Sɛ wokenkan nhoma no a, ka nsɛm no pefee na ka brɛoo. Saa kwan no so no, ɛyɛ mmerɛw ma wɔn sɛ wɔbɛte ase.
• Ma wɔmfa wɔn ho nhyɛ nsɛm a ɛwɔ nhoma no mu a wɔbɛka mu. Ɛtɔ da bi a wɔbɛfa nhoma no na wɔafi ase ‘akenkan’ akyerɛ wo, a ɛkyerɛ sɛ wɔbɛhwɛ mfonini ahorow no na wɔaka asɛm a wosusuw ho akyerɛ wo. Ma wɔn nso nyɛ saa, ɛyɛ ade a ɛyɛ nwonwa!

3. Di Agoru a Wɔde Ma Wogye Di

• Wo ne wo mma nkumaa di agoru a wɔyɛ wo ho sɛ wo ho. Yɛ w’ade te sɛ oduruyɛfo, ɔkyerɛkyerɛfo, sotɔɔ wura. Saa bere yi mu no, wosua sɛnea wɔbɛhyehyɛ nsɛmfua foforo, kasamu foforo, na wɔadi tebea foforo ho dwuma.
• Sɛ nhwɛso no, sɛ wo ne wo ba ketewa redi agoru ‘adetɔ nneɛma’ a, bisa nneɛma te sɛ, ‘Ma me asikre kilo biako,’ ‘Eyi yɛ ahe?’ Afei ɔbɛbɔ mmɔden sɛ obebua.

4. Bisa nsɛm, ma mmuae

• Sɛ worebisa asɛm bi a, ma wo ba no bere ma ɔmmua. Egye wɔn bere kakra ansa na wɔatumi aka wɔn nsɛm abom. Mpere wɔn ho.
• Sɛ nea wɔka no nyɛ nea ɛteɛ pɛpɛɛpɛ mpo a, kyerɛ mmɔden a wɔbɔ no ho anisɔ. Ka sɛ, "Oh... ɛno ne nea wopɛ sɛ woka?" na kyerɛkyerɛ mu bio wɔ ɔkwan a ɛteɛ so.
• Hyɛ wɔn nkuran denam wo ti a wobɛbɔ na woaserew wɔ nea wɔka ho no so.

5. Yɛ otiefo pa.

• Eyi ne ade a ɛho hia sen biara! Ɛsɛ sɛ woyɛ otiefo pa. Sɛ wo ba kumaa rebɔ mmɔden sɛ ɔbɛka biribi a, gyae nea woreyɛ no, hwɛ wɔn, na tie nea wɔreka no.
• Afei wohu sɛ woretie wɔn, na wɔn ani gye nkɔmmɔbɔ ho kɛse. Nkate a ɛne sɛ "me mommy/daddy retie nea mereka" no yɛ ade kɛse ma wɔn.

6. To nnwom, ka nsɛm sɛnea wɔbɔ no

• Wo ne wo mma nkumaa to nnwom. Wɔn ani gye nneɛma te sɛ mmofra nnwom ho. Afei nso, sɛ wɔka nsɛmfua no wɔ ɔkwan a ɛyɛ dɛ so a, ɛboa wɔn ma wonya kasa no mu nnyigyei.

Bere bɛn na ɛsɛ sɛ mekɔ oduruyɛfo nkyɛn? (Bere a Ɛsɛ sɛ Wokɔ Oduruyɛfo nkyɛn)

Mpɛn pii no, edu mfe 3 a, mmofra a wɔretu mmirika dodow no ara fi ase kasa sɛnea yɛadi kan aka no. Nanso, sɛnea yɛadi kan aka no, ɛnyɛ nkokoaa nyinaa na wɔyɛ pɛ.Mmofra binom betumi agye bere kakra. Nanso, sɛ wo ba ketewa no kasa anaa ne kasa mu nkɔso ho asɛm bi haw wo anaa w’adwene mu yɛ wo naa a, ɛbɛyɛ papa sɛ wo ne oduruyɛfo bɛkasa. Mma nsuro anaa n’ani nnwu.

Sɛ wuhu saa nneɛma yi bi a, ɛbɛyɛ papa sɛ wobɛkɔ oduruyɛfo nkyɛn akɔhwehwɛ afotu:

• Sɛ ɔda so ara nka nsɛmfua 50 wɔ asram 30 (mfe 2 1⁄2) mu a.
• Wɔ asram 30 (mfe 2 1⁄2) mpo mu no, sɛ wotwe adwene si biribi so wɔ nhoma bi mu (e.g., bɔɔl, ɔkraman) na wobisa sɛ, "Dɛn ne eyi?", wɔda so ara nka din no.
• Sɛ woadi mfe 3 mpo a, sɛ wokyerɛ adeyɛ bi te sɛ mmirikatu anaa adidi mfonini a, wɔnka nea ɛrekɔ so.
• Even at 3 years old , sɛ woammisa nsɛm te sɛ ‘Hena?’, ‘Dɛn?’, ‘Ɛhe?’, ne ‘Dɛn ntia?’ a.
• Even at 3 years old , wɔda so ara nka wɔn din a edi kan bere a wobisa wɔn no.
• Even at 3 years old , mpɛn pii no afoforo (ɛnyɛ abusua mufo nkutoo) nte nea ɔreka no ase.
• So wususuw sɛ wo ba no kasa mu pefee nni hɔ ?
• Sɛ wususuw sɛ ebia wo ba no wɔ aso mu haw (e.g., sɛ wanhwɛ n’akyi bere a worekasa no, anaasɛ sɛ wannye nnyigyei ho mmuae a).

Sɛ wuhu saa sɛnkyerɛnne ahorow yi bi a, hwehwɛ aduruyɛ mu afotu fi oduruyɛfo a ɔfata hɔ ntɛm ara, ebia mmofra ho oduruyɛfo anaa ɔkasa ne kasa ho ɔyaresafo. Ɛtɔ mmere bi a, ebetumi ayɛ ɔhaw ketewaa bi, na sɛ wohu no ntɛm a, ɛnyɛ den sɛ wɔbɛsa na wɔde mmoa a ɛho hia ama. Enti nsuro, na sɛ w’adwene mu yɛ wo naa a, akyinnye biara nni ho sɛ hwehwɛ aduruyɛ mu afotu.

Enti, dɛn ne nneɛma atitiriw a ɛsɛ sɛ yɛkae?

Okay, enti efi nea yɛaka ho asɛm no mu no, wubetumi de nneɛma kakraa bi a ɛho hia atra w’adwenem.

• Wo ne wo ba kumaa nkasa sɛnea wubetumi biara, wo ne no nni agoru, na kenkan nhoma. Eyinom ne aduan a eye sen biara ma wɔn kasa ho nimdeɛ. Ɛte sɛ nea wɔregugu afifide bi so nsu.
• Fa boasetɔ tie nea wɔka. Bua wɔn, ma wɔn bere mfa nkyerɛ wɔn nsusuwii. Tie wɔn nne ketewa no.
• Ɛnyɛ nkokoaa nyinaa na wɔyɛ pɛ. Mfa wo ho ntoto nkokoaa afoforo ho na ɛnhaw wo, anaasɛ mfa nhyɛso nhyɛ wo ba ketewa no so. Hwɛ sɛnea wo ba no rekɔ so yiye, na ma no nkɔ sɛnea wɔn ankasa pɛ.
• Sɛ wowɔ adwenem naayɛ anaa dadwen bi , sɛ ɛte sɛ nea ɛyɛ nketenkete mpo a, ntwentwɛn wo nan ase sɛ wubebisa oduruyɛfo. Ɛyɛ ade a eye sen biara ma wo ne wo ba no nyinaa.
• Ne korakora,

Kae sɛ wo dɔ, w’adwene, ne nkuranhyɛ ne ahoɔden kɛse ma wo ba kumaa no nyin, titiriw ne kasa mu nkɔso! Wo ne ɔbran/ɔbaabun kɛse wɔ ne wiase.

Enti, wo ne wo ba ketewa no nkɔ nkɔmmɔbɔ akwantu fɛfɛ yi mu!

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