When we are sick or have a problem, we rush to the doctor. But, it can sometimes be difficult to find a doctor who you can really talk to about anything, who understands you, and who you trust. This trust is very important, especially when you are working with the same doctor for a long time, like during pregnancy . So, how do we choose a good doctor who suits our needs? Let's talk about this today.
Ways to find a good doctor
Finding the best doctor is like finding a best friend. It takes a little research. Here are some tips to help you.
1. Ask friends and family (Word-of-Mouth)
This is the first thing we all do. Ask your family, close friends, and people at your office about the doctors they have used and who they say are good. Their experiences are very valuable to you.
"The doctor my sister went to when she was about to have a baby was very nice. You can ask her anything. She explains everything very slowly and carefully."
Recommendations like these are invaluable. But remember, what works for one person may not work for another. So, ask a few people and make a list of those you think would be a good fit for you.
2. Be aware of the doctor's qualifications
It is very important to do some research on the qualifications of the doctor you are considering choosing. In Sri Lanka, all doctors must be registered with the Sri Lanka Medical Council (SLMC) . This confirms their basic medical degree.
Additionally, if it is a specialist doctor, you can also check if he has a specialist qualification obtained from a Post Graduate Institute of Medical Sciences (PGIM). For example, if you are a pregnant mother, you would choose an Obstetrician & Gynaecologist. There are institutions like the Sri Lanka College of Obstetricians & Gynaecologists (SLCOG) that have membership in such specialists. Membership in such an institution is a good proof that the doctor is a recognized person with up-to-date knowledge in his field.
See if someone matches your ideas.
There are different opinions about some medical treatments. EspeciallyIn something like childbirth . For example:
- What is the doctor's opinion about performing an episiotomy (making an incision between the vagina and the anus)?
- What is his opinion on the use of forceps or ventouse devices?
- Will you make every effort to have a normal delivery, or will you quickly resort to a Caesarean Section?
First, think about what your thoughts are on these matters. Then, discuss them with your chosen doctor. If your views are compatible, it will be a great help when making decisions going forward.
Let's ask questions directly to the doctor himself!
Yes, you can ask a doctor a few questions directly before you meet him. Don't be afraid or embarrassed to do this. This is your right. A good doctor will be happy to answer your questions. Here are some ideas for things you can ask.
| Question you can ask | Why is that important? |
|---|---|
| How long have you been working in this field? | You can get an idea about the experience. |
| Can I contact you in an emergency? Or is there another method for that? | It's a great relief to know in advance what to do in an emergency. Sometimes the doctor will tell you to go straight to the hospital's Emergency Treatment Unit (ETU). |
| How much time do you set aside to talk to patients? | You can find out if you will have enough time to ask questions and explain things. |
| What is your practice philosophy? | This can give you an idea of how doctors think about patients and the priority they give to treatment. |
Remember, some doctors are very busy. They may not be able to talk to you for hours every day they channel. But, the most important thing is that when you ask a question , they answer it patiently and clearly.
Finally, listen to your heart.
The most important thing in all of this is your mind. When you meet the doctor, what do you think?
- Do you feel relaxed and comfortable ?
- Does he create an environment where you can ask any question without fear or shame?
- Does he explain things in simple language that you can understand, or does he use medical jargon that you don't understand?
- Are you treated with respect? Are you listened to?
Think about it, how can you trust a doctor who is difficult to talk to in the office, in the operating theater, or when you are having a baby? So, your gut feeling is very important. If you feel uncomfortable, it is best to find another doctor.
You have a great right to choose who treats you. A little research can make a big difference for you and your family.
Take-Home Message
- Choosing a doctor you can trust and feel comfortable talking to is very important for your health.
- Ask friends and family for advice. But remember, what works for others may not work for you.
- Be aware of the doctor's qualifications (SLMC registration, specialist qualifications).
- Discuss whether your ideas and the doctor's ideas match. Don't be afraid to ask questions.
- Ultimately, listen to your gut. If you feel uncomfortable, look for another option.
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