Have you ever thought, "Would this fit me?" every time you want to wear the most beautiful dress in your closet? Maybe you have a little sadness, a feeling of inadequacy, about the size or shape of your breasts. This is common for many women. Some people consider breast augmentation surgery ( breast implants ) as a solution. So, what is it really? How does it affect your life? Let's talk about this openly, as if we were talking to a friend.
The difference between expectations and reality
Breast augmentation surgery, or medically known as ``Breast Augmentation,'' is one of the most popular cosmetic surgeries performed in the world today. Many women choose to undergo this procedure to improve their self-esteem and body image . Some studies have even shown that women's self-esteem and sexual satisfaction increase after this surgery.
However, there is another side to the coin. This is not just something to look good. This is a major surgery. Therefore, it is imperative to talk to a doctor before undergoing this surgery and gain a good understanding of your mental and physical health. Because, some studies have found that women who have mental problems or alcohol addiction even before the surgery may even be at risk of suicide years after the surgery. Therefore, this is a decision that needs to be considered very carefully.
'Body Image' and Breast Surgery
Some young women don't develop breasts at all. In medical terms, this condition is called micromastia . Simply put, their breasts are flat. This can have a huge impact on them psychologically. They may feel like they don't look like a woman.
Another problem that some young women have is asymmetrical breasts . This means that the size or shape of the two breasts is different. One may be larger or smaller than the other. This makes many women feel embarrassed because it makes them look bigger even when wearing clothes.
These women often think they have a body deformity. It's more of a self-esteem issue than a feeling that a part of their body is not normal. They want to make that part normal.
After this surgery, their self-confidence increases when they think, "Now I am the way I want to be." Being able to go to a clothing store and choose an outfit without fear is also a big deal for them.
Changes after having children and the 'Mommy Makeover'
Another category is mothers whose body shape has changed after having children. Imagine the feeling when breasts that were beautiful before having children sag and lose their shape after breastfeeding. For some mothers, even if the rest of their body returns to its original shape, their breasts do not. So, there are those who resort to this surgery with the feeling of "I want my old body back."
These people have a different mindset than the young women mentioned earlier. They don't have body image issues. They are happy with their bodies. They just want to get back to the normal, healthy appearance they had before having children.
Implant Types
Two main types are often used:
- Saline implants: These are filled with sterile salt water.
- Silicone Implants: These are filled with a silicone gel. Many people say that they feel and look more like a natural breast.
Your doctor will help you choose the type that best suits your body type, chest width, and the look you want.
Facts you need to know before surgery
This is the most important part. If you are considering this surgery , you need to have a clear understanding of these things. Otherwise, you may be disappointed later.
| What you need to know | Description |
|---|---|
| Financial Cost | Since this is a cosmetic surgery , it is not usually covered by health insurance . You will have to bear the full cost of the surgery. |
| Revision Surgeries | Implants don't last forever. They can rupture or deflate over time. Also, if complications arise after surgery, you may need more surgery to fix them. None of these things are covered by insurance. |
| Lifespan | An implant will often need to be replaced within 10-15 years, which means you should expect to have at least one more surgery in your lifetime. |
| Changes Over Time | Your body ages, your weight changes, you have children. With all of this, your natural breasts change. But implants don't. So, something that looked great at age 22 may not look the same at age 42 . |
One thing doctors emphasize is, "This is a long-term project... a lifelong journey." So don't rush into making this decision.
Is this decision really right for you?
A good surgeon will always make sure you are doing this surgery for yourself. If you are doing this surgery for reasons like "for my new boyfriend" or "to save my marriage," it is not the right decision. Also, it is not appropriate to make such decisions during a major life change, such as a divorce or the death of a family member.
This surgery won't change your life, it won't get you a new job, and it won't make you more attractive to guys . But it can make you feel better about yourself.
Mental problems and false expectations
Some women view this surgery as a "band-aid" for their deep-seated psychological problems. They expect it to change not just their appearance, but their entire life. Although these people may feel better for a while after the surgery, it does not solve the deeper problems in their hearts.
You may have heard of a condition called Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) . This is a mental illness. In this condition, you obsessively worry about flaws in your appearance. A skilled therapist will try to understand your mental state by sitting you in front of a mirror and asking you, "What do you see?" If you have symptoms of a condition like BDD, the first thing you need to do is seek help from a mental health professional.
Also, a good doctor will never agree to your unrealistic requests. For example, if you ask someone who is 5'1" tall to have a 'D-cup', it is unnatural and inappropriate for their body. Good doctors reject patients who make such requests because it may be a sign of a mental problem.
If you have a condition like depression, talk to your doctor about it honestly. Even if you feel better for a while after surgery, those mental conditions may resurface later.
Take-Home Message
- Breast augmentation surgery is a decision you should make for yourself and for your own happiness. Don't do it to please someone else or save a relationship.
- This is a major surgery, so it is very important to choose an experienced, qualified plastic surgeon .
- Get a clear understanding of the costs of the surgery, the possibility of future re-operations, and the lifespan of the implants .
- If you have any mental health issues (e.g. depression, BDD), talk to your doctor about them honestly before surgery.
- This surgery may make you feel more confident about your appearance, but understand the reality that it won't solve the other problems in your life.
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