ʻO ʻoe paha ka mea nāna e mālama i kou makuahine, kou makuakāne, a i ʻole kekahi lālā maʻi o ka ʻohana i ke ao a me ka pō. He mea aloha maoli nō ia a me ke kuleana nui. Ke hāʻawi nei i kou makuahine moe i kāna lāʻau lapaʻau i ka manawa kūpono, ka hānai ʻana iā ia, ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻana iā ia... Ke manaʻo nei ʻoe e poina ʻia ana ʻoe i waenakonu o kēia mau mea a pau? ʻAʻole anei ʻoe e manaʻo e pono ʻoe e hoʻomaha iki, e hana i kāu hana, a i ʻole e hoʻomaha iki? I kēia lā, ke kamaʻilio nei mākou e pili ana i kahi hopena waiwai nui no kēlā. Ua kapa ʻia ʻo 'Respite Care'.
I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, he aha ka 'Respite Care'?
He maʻalahi loa ia. ʻO ka 'mālama hoʻomaha' kahi lawelawe pōkole e kōkua i kahi mea mālama mua e like me ʻoe e loaʻa kahi hoʻomaha iki, kahi hoʻomaha. Hiki i kēia hoʻomaha ke lilo i kekahi mau hola, kekahi mau lā, a i ʻole kekahi mau pule.
I loko o kēia manawa hoʻomaha, lawe pinepine kahi loea i aʻo ʻia i kāu mau hana. Hiki i kēia ke ʻano o ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā lāʻau lapaʻau, ka hoʻomākaukau ʻana i nā meaʻai, a i ʻole ke kamaʻilio wale ʻana. He mea pono loa kēia lawelawe no ka poʻe o kēlā me kēia makahiki, akā ʻoi aku ka poʻe e mālama ana i nā pākeke a i ʻole nā keiki me nā pono olakino. No ka laʻana, inā ʻoe e mālama ana i kekahi e like me kēia, hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i kēia lawelawe:
- He kanaka me ke kīnā noʻonoʻo a i ʻole ke kīnā ulu ʻana.
- He kanaka i nā pae hope loa o kahi maʻi hiki ʻole ke ho'ōla ʻia (maʻi hope loa).
- He kanaka me kahi maʻi hoʻomanaʻo e like me ka dementia.
- He kanaka me ka maʻi olakino noʻonoʻo.
- He kanaka me kekahi ʻano maʻi olakino mau loa.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolālā no kēia 'mālama hoʻomaha' ma mua, a i ʻole i kahi pilikia. Hiki i ka hoʻolālā mua ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻokele i kou ola hana a pale i ka luhi o ka mea mālama. E noʻonoʻo e pono ʻoe e hele i ka hana a i ʻole he mau kuleana ʻē aʻe. A laila hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i kēia lawelawe no kekahi mau hola i kēlā me kēia lā a i ʻole kēlā me kēia pule. Eia kekahi, inā loaʻa koke kekahi mea iā ʻoe, e like me ka maʻi, a ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke mālama i kāu mea aloha, he waiwai nui kēia lawelawe mālama hoʻomaha pilikia.
No ke aha he mea nui kēia hoʻomaha iā ʻoe?
ʻO ke 'mālama hoʻomaha' kahi ala e kōkua iā ʻoe e kaulike i kāu mau kuleana ʻē aʻe me ka hāʻawi mau ʻana i ka mālama e pono ai kāu mea aloha. Akā ʻoi aku ma mua o kēlā, he manawa kūpono ia e kūkulu hou i kou ikaika, hana i kahi mea hoʻomaha, a i ʻole e noho mehameha no kekahi manawa .
Manaʻo pinepine nā mea mālama i ka hewa no ka hoʻomaha ʻana. Manaʻo lākou, "Pehea lā ʻo ia e ola ai me ka ʻole oʻu?" "Pehea lā wau e leʻaleʻa ai me ka ʻole o ia?" Akā, ua hōʻike maoli ka noiʻi ʻoiai inā ʻaʻohe āu mea ʻē aʻe e hana ai, ʻo kēia hoʻomahaHe mea nui ia.
E noʻonoʻo i ia mea, ʻoiai kahi mīkini e holo mau ana e pono ai ka hoʻomaha iki, a i ʻole e haki. A pēlā nō hoʻi ʻoe. Inā ʻoe e hoʻomau i ka hana me ka ʻole o ka hoʻomaha, e luhi ʻoe i ke kino a me ka noʻonoʻo. Kāhea mākou ia he 'Caregiver Burnout' .
E ʻae kēia hoʻomaha iā ʻoe e mālama i kāu mea aloha me ka noʻonoʻo hou ʻana, ka ikaika, a me ka hoihoi. Hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo i nā mākau hou a me nā mea hou mai ka mea mālama hou. No laila, ma ka ʻike maikaʻi ʻana e pili ana i kēia a me ke koho ʻana i ka lawelawe e kūpono loa i kāu mea aloha, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaha mālie.
Ma hea e hiki ai iaʻu ke loaʻa i kēia mau lawelawe mālama?
Ma muli o nā pono o kāu mea aloha, hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa i kēia lawelawe mai nā wahi like ʻole. ʻAʻole hiki ke hana like ʻia kēia mau mea a pau ma ko mākou ʻāina, akā eia nā koho i loaʻa pinepine.
| Wahi | Wehewehena |
|---|---|
| Kou home ponoʻī | ʻO kēia ke koho maʻalahi loa no ka hapa nui o nā kānaka. Hele mai ka mea mālama i kou home. Hiki i kāu mea aloha ke noho i ko lākou wahi maʻa mau, me ka ʻoluʻolu. |
| Ka home o ka mea lawelawe | Hāʻawi kekahi poʻe i kēia ʻano mālama ma ko lākou mau home ponoʻī. ʻOiai he ʻano home kēia, ʻaʻole ʻike nui ka mea maʻi i kahi ʻokoʻa. |
| Hale Mālama Lā | Aia nā wahi e hāʻawi ana i ka mālama lā no nā keiki a i ʻole nā mākua me nā pono kūikawā. Loaʻa pinepine kēia lawelawe no kahi o 8 mau hola i ka lā i nā lā pule. |
| He hale mālama a haukapila paha | Loaʻa i kekahi mau hale mālama a me nā haukapila nā pono no ka mālama pōkole, no ka pō a i ʻole no kekahi mau lā. Hiki ke hoʻolālā mua ʻia kēia a hoʻohana ʻia paha i ka wā pilikia. |
| Nā kahua hoʻomoana | Aia nā kahua hoʻomoana kūikawā e hāʻawi ana i ka poʻe me nā pono kūikawā i ka manawa kūpono e hoʻomohala i nā mākau, e launa pū, a e hana i nā hoaaloha. |
Pehea e koho ai i kahi ʻano mālama maikaʻi?
ʻO kēia ka mea nui loa. Pono ʻoe e noiʻi pono i nā mākaukau a me ke aʻo ʻana o ka mea nāna e mālama i kāu mea aloha.
Inā ʻoe e loaʻa ana i kahi lawelawe mai kahi ʻoihana ...
Inā ʻoe e lawe mai ana i kekahi i ka home ma o kahi ʻoihana a i ʻole ke koho ʻana i kahi kikowaena mālama keiki, e nīnau i ka luna hoʻomalu i kēia mau mea:
- Pehea ʻoe e koho ai a hoʻomaʻamaʻa i nā limahana?
- Hana lākou i nā nānā hope?
- He aha nā hana e hiki ai iā lākou ke hana a he aha nā mea i aʻo ʻia ai lākou e hana?
- He aha kāu e hana ai inā kū mai kahi pilikia a pilikia paha?
Inā koho ʻoe i kahi kikowaena a i ʻole kahi ʻē aʻe ...
Pono ʻoe e kipa aku i kahi ma ka liʻiliʻi hoʻokahi manawa. Ke hana ʻoe, e hoʻomanaʻo i kēia mau mea:
- Maʻemaʻe: E kiʻi i kahi manaʻo o ka maʻemaʻe o ka wahi mai nā mea āu e ʻike ai a honi ai.
- Ke ʻano o nā limahana: E nānā i ke ʻano o ka launa pū ʻana o nā limahana a me ke ʻano o ka hana ʻana me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
- Nā Pono: E ʻike inā he mau wahi e hana ai i nā hana like ʻole a e hoʻomaha wale paha.
Inā ʻoe e lawe mai i kekahi i ka home ...
E hana mua i kahi ninaninau ma ke kelepona, a laila e hālāwai maka a maka. E nīnau i kēia mau nīnau:
- He aha nā hana āu i loaʻa ai ka ʻike a makemake ʻoe e hana?
- He aha kāu mau hoʻomaʻamaʻa a me nā hōʻoia? (E noi i nā palapala o kēia mau mea).
- Loaʻa iā ʻoe ka ʻike i ka mālama ʻana i nā poʻe me ke ʻano olakino kūikawā i loaʻa i kaʻu mea aloha (e like me ka maʻi diabetes, ka maʻi lolo)?
- He aha kāu e hana ai i kahi pilikia?
ʻO ka mea nui loa: Ma hope o ka ninaninau, e hōʻoia e noi i nā kuhikuhi (nā kikoʻī o ka hana ma mua) a kamaʻilio me lākou e pili ana i ke kanaka. Eia kekahi, e hōʻoia e hoʻopaʻa pono i nā kikoʻī o ka lawelawe (nā hola, ka uku, nā mea i manaʻo ʻia) a ʻae iā ia.
He aha nā pōmaikaʻi o ke 'mālama hoʻomaha'?
Hāʻawi kēia lawelawe i nā pono he nui iā ʻoe, ka mea mālama, a me kāu mea aloha. E nānā kākou i ke ʻano o lākou.
| Nā pōmaikaʻi nou ma ke ʻano he mea mālama | Nā pōmaikaʻi no ka mea e loaʻa ana ka mālama |
|---|---|
| Hiki ke pale ʻia ka luhi kino a me ka noʻonoʻo (ka luhi o ka mea mālama). | Loaʻa iā ʻoe ke launa me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i loaʻa nā ʻike like a me nā maʻi like me ʻoe. |
| E loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manawa e mālama ai i ka pilina me nā lālā ʻē aʻe o kou ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha. | Hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i mau hoaaloha hou. |
| Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokō i nā kuleana ʻē aʻe, e like me ka hana a me kāu mau hoʻokolohua olakino. | Loaʻa iā lākou ka manawa kūpono e komo i nā hana e kūpono i ko lākou mau hiki. |
| Loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manawa kūpono e hoʻomaha ai, e hele i kahi huakaʻi, a hana i kahi mea āu e loaʻa ʻole ai ka manawa e hana ai. | Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻololi i nā wahi hou a lanakila ma luna o kou makaʻu iā lākou. |
| I kou hoʻomaha ʻana a hoʻi mai me ka hou, e ikaika aʻe ana kou mau hiki ke mālama. | Loaʻa iā lākou ka mālama kūikawā no ko lākou mau pono olakino ponoʻī. |
E aʻo pū kākou e pili ana i nā uku no kēia.
Ma ko mākou ʻāina, pono pinepine ʻoe e uku ponoʻī no kēia mau lawelawe. Eia nō naʻe, aia paha nā wahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke loaʻa ke kākoʻo.
- Nā hui kaiaulu: Hiki iā ʻoe ke nīnau e pili ana i kēia mai nā hui kaiaulu, nā luakini, a me nā hale pule ma kou wahi.
- Nā Hui Kūikawā no nā Maʻi: Hiki i kekahi mau hui (e.g., ka maʻi o Alzheimer) ke hāʻawi i ke kākoʻo a i ʻole ke alakaʻi no nā maʻi kikoʻī.
- Keʻena o nā Lawelawe Kaiaulu:E nānā me ke Keʻena ʻOihana Lawelawe Kaiāulu o ke aupuni no ka ʻike e pili ana i ka loaʻa ʻana o ia mau lawelawe a i ʻole ke kōkua kālā.
ʻO ka mea maikaʻi loa e hana ai, ʻo ia ke kamaʻilio me kāu kauka ʻohana, ʻo ia hoʻi , kāu kauka . Hiki paha iā ia ke kuhikuhi iā ʻoe i nā wahi e hāʻawi ana i ia mau lawelawe a i ʻole nā ala e loaʻa ai ke kōkua.
Ke maʻa ʻoe i ka mālama ʻana i kāu mea aloha, hiki ke paʻakikī ke ʻae i kekahi e mālama iā lākou. Manaʻo paha ʻoe, "ʻAʻohe mea nāna e mālama iā lākou e like me aʻu." A i ʻole makaʻu paha ʻoe e hewa kekahi mea i kou wā e hele ana. He kūpono kēia. Akā e hoʻomanaʻo, ʻaʻohe mea he kanaka mana loa. ʻAʻohe mea hiki ke hana i nā mea āpau me ka hoʻokahi, a ʻaʻohe mea e manaʻo e hana ʻoe pēlā.
ʻOiai ʻoe e hoʻomaha ana, he mea nui e ʻike e loaʻa ana i kāu mea aloha ka mālama e pono ai lākou. No laila he mea nui e noiʻi i kahi lawelawe ma mua o kou koho ʻana i hoʻokahi. ʻO ka nui o kou ʻike e pili ana i ia mea, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o kou hiki ke ʻae i ke kōkua no kekahi a hauʻoli i kāu hoʻomaha.
Leka Lawe-Home
- He hana nui ka mālama ʻana i kāu mea aloha. ʻAʻole ia he hana pilikino ka hoʻomaha ʻana i kēia manawa, he mea nui ia nou a me ke kanaka āu e mālama nei.
- Mālama ka Mālama Hoʻomaha iā ʻoe mai ka luhi kino a me ka noʻonoʻo (luhi nui o ka mea mālama) a hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka ikaika e hāʻawi i ka mālama maikaʻi aʻe.
- Aia kekahi mau koho like ʻole, me ka mālama home, nā kikowaena mālama keiki, a me ka mālama noho pōkole. E koho i ka mea kūpono loa i nā pono o kou ʻohana.
- Ma mua o ke koho ʻana i kekahi lawelawe, e noiʻi pono i ke aʻo ʻana, ka ʻike, a me ka ʻike o nā mea lawelawe e hōʻoia i ka palekana o kāu mea aloha.
- E kamaʻilio me kāu kauka a i ʻole kekahi limahana hana kaiaulu o ka haukapila e aʻo e pili ana i nā kumuwaiwai a me nā lawelawe i loaʻa ma kou wahi.
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