Kev tham nrog peb cov menyuam yaus thiab luag nrog lawv yog ib qho kev xyiv fab tshaj plaws uas peb tau txais ua niam txiv, puas yog? Cov menyuam yaus kawm tej yam los ntawm cov kev sib tham no nrog peb, los ntawm tej yam uas lawv pom thiab hnov hauv lub ntiaj teb nyob ib puag ncig lawv txhua hnub. Yog li koj kuj tseem yuav xav paub txog seb cov menyuam yaus hais lus no qhia lawv tus kheej li cas thiab peb tuaj yeem pab lawv txhim kho lawv cov txuj ci lus li cas. Cia peb tham txog nws kom ntxaws me ntsis.
Cov menyuam yaus tham lus li cas thaum muaj hnub nyoog li no? (Cov Me Nyuam Yaus Sib Txuas Lus)
Koj puas paub tias thaum muaj hnub nyoog ob thiab peb xyoos, cov menyuam yaus ua tau ib kauj ruam loj heev hauv lawv cov txuj ci lus? Xav txog, ib tug menyuam yaus uas tsuas hais ib lossis ob lo lus ob peb lub hlis dhau los tam sim no pib hais cov kab lus me me. Qhov ntawd puas yog ib qho kev loj hlob zoo kawg nkaus?
Yuav ua li cas thaum tus menyuam muaj 2 xyoos?
Thaum muaj hnub nyoog li no, cov menyuam yaus me me heev:
- Lawv pib hais ob lo lus ua ke. Zoo li "Niam, kuv xav tau mov," "Me nyuam, kuv xav tau dej," "Kuv xav tau ib lub pob." Qee zaum qhov no yuav zoo li yog ib qho kev tso dag rau peb, tab sis nws yog ib kauj ruam loj rau lawv.
- Tej zaum lawv hais li cas los xij, tej zaum peb yuav tsum sim nkag siab.
Koj nyob li cas thaum muaj 30 lub hlis (kwv yees li 2 thiab ib nrab xyoo)?
Thaum lawv loj hlob me ntsis, kwv yees li 30 lub hlis:
- Lawv cov lus tej zaum yuav yog 50 lo lus lossis ntau dua . Xav txog seb cov lus uas lawv paub yuav nce ntxiv sai npaum li cas!
- Lwm tus neeg nkag siab txog ib nrab ntawm yam lawv hais. Thaum xub thawj, tsuas yog niam thiab txiv thiaj nkag siab xwb, tab sis tam sim no, maj mam me ntsis, lwm tus neeg pib nkag siab txog yam lawv hais.
- Pib siv cov lus uas hais txog tus kheej xws li "Kuv," "kuv," thiab "peb."
- Yog koj muab ob lo lus qhia yooj yim rau lawv ua ke, xws li "Coj lub pob mus rau txiv," lawv ua tau. Qhov no qhia tau tias lawv cov kev txawj nkag siab kuj zoo dua qub.
Qhov txawv uas koj pom tom qab 3 xyoos
Thaum koj tus me nyuam hais lus muaj peb xyoos, nws yuav tau loj hlob ntxiv mus:
- Lawv cov lus feem ntau tshaj 200 lo lus .
- Lawv tuaj yeem ua kab lus uas muaj ob lossis peb lo lus, thiab qee zaum ntev dua . Zoo li "Niam, mov nyob qhov twg?", "Kuv yuav mus ua si."
- Lawv tuaj yeem muaj tsawg kawg yog ob zaug sib pauv lus nrog koj, thiab thaum koj nug ib lo lus nug, teb nws, thiab lawv yuav nug koj ib lo lus nug dua.
- Feem ntau, lwm tus nkag siab meej txog yam lawv hais.
Nco ntsoov, qhov no yog hais txog kev loj hlob ib txwm muaj. Tsis yog txhua tus menyuam mos zoo ib yam. Tej tus menyuam mos yuav siv sijhawm ntev me ntsis los ua cov no. Qhov ntawd yog ib txwm muaj.
Peb yuav tsum ua li cas los txhim kho peb tus menyuam txoj kev txawj sib txuas lus?
Muaj ntau yam uas peb ua tau los txhim kho peb cov menyuam yaus txoj kev txawj hais lus. Hais yooj yim xwb, peb tham nrog lawv ntau npaum li cas, peb ua si nrog lawv ntau npaum li ntawd, thiab peb siv sijhawm nrog lawv ntau npaum li ntawd, lawv kawm tau ntau npaum li ntawd.
Nov yog qee yam koj ua tau:
1. Tham nrog koj tus menyuam ntau zaus.
- Qhia rau koj tus menyuam txog tej yam koj tab tom ua. Zoo li, "Niam yuav ua mov tam sim no," "Peb puas yuav mus da dej tam sim no?"
- Tham txog yam nws tau ua hnub ntawd thiab yam nws yuav ua tag kis. "Koj puas lom zem ua si hnub no?" "Peb yuav mus rau pog lub tsev tag kis, puas yog?"
- Nws kuj yog ib qho kev coj ua zoo los tham txog yam uas tau tshwm sim hnub ua ntej yuav mus pw. Nws pab lawv sau cov ntsiab lus ntawm hnub ntawd thiab kawm cov lus tshiab.
2. Nyeem phau ntawv ua ke
- Nyeem ntawv ua ke nrog koj tus me nyuam. Teem sijhawm me ntsis txhua hnub rau qhov no. Nws tuaj yeem yog lawv cov phau ntawv nyiam, lossis nws tuaj yeem yog ib phau ntawv tshiab. Txawm tias nws yog tib phau ntawv txhua hnub los xij, nws tsis muaj teeb meem, lawv nyiam nws!
- Qhia lawv cov duab zoo nkauj hauv phau ntawv. Nug lawv cov lus nug yooj yim xws li, "Qhov no yog dab tsi, tus tub/ntxhais?" "Tus menyuam dais nyob qhov twg? Tus menyuam dais ua dab tsi?" Ces lawv yuav sim teb.
- Thaum koj nyeem phau ntawv, hais cov lus kom meej thiab qeeb qeeb. Ua li ntawd, nws yuav yooj yim dua rau lawv nkag siab.
- Cia lawv koom nrog hais cov lus hauv phau ntawv. Tej zaum lawv yuav khaws phau ntawv thiab pib 'nyeem' rau koj, txhais tau tias lawv yuav saib cov duab thiab qhia koj zaj dab neeg uas lawv xav txog. Cia lawv ua li ntawd thiab, nws yog ib qho zoo kawg nkaus!
3. Ua Si Ua Si Xwb
- Ua si ua txuj nrog koj cov menyuam yaus. Ua txuj li ib tug kws kho mob, ib tug xib fwb, ib tug neeg muag khoom. Thaum lub sijhawm no, lawv kawm hais cov lus tshiab, kab lus tshiab, thiab daws cov xwm txheej tshiab.
- Piv txwv li, yog tias koj ua si 'mus yuav khoom' nrog koj tus menyuam yaus, nug tej yam xws li, 'Muab ib kilo qab zib rau kuv,' 'Qhov no yog pes tsawg?' Ces nws mam li sim teb.
4. Nug cov lus nug, cia cov lus teb
- Thaum koj nug ib lo lus nug, muab sijhawm rau koj tus menyuam teb. Nws yuav siv sijhawm ntev rau lawv kom lawv cov lus sib dhos ua ke. Tsis txhob maj nrawm rau lawv.
- Txawm tias lawv hais tsis yog lawm los xij, ua tsaug rau lawv txoj kev siv zog. Hais tias, "Auj... koj puas txhais li ntawd?" thiab piav qhia dua kom raug.
- Txhawb lawv los ntawm kev luag nyav thiab luag ntxhi rau qhov lawv hais.
5. Ua ib tug neeg mloog zoo.
- Qhov no yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws! Koj yuav tsum ua ib tug neeg mloog zoo. Thaum koj tus me nyuam tab tom sim hais ib yam dab tsi, tsum qhov koj ua, saib lawv, thiab ua tib zoo mloog qhov lawv hais.
- Ces lawv mam li paub tias koj mloog lawv, thiab lawv xav tham ntxiv. Qhov kev xav tias "kuv niam/txiv tab tom mloog kuv hais" yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau lawv.
6. Hu nkauj, hais cov lus raws li lub suab nrov
- Hu nkauj nrog koj cov menyuam yaus. Lawv nyiam tej yam xws li zaj nkauj menyuam yaus. Tsis tas li ntawd, hais cov lus raws li lub suab paj nruag pab lawv nkag siab lub suab ntawm cov lus.
Thaum twg kuv yuav tsum mus ntsib kws kho mob? (Thaum twg kuv yuav tsum mus ntsib kws kho mob)
Feem ntau, thaum muaj hnub nyoog 3 xyoos, feem ntau cov menyuam yaus pib hais lus raws li tau hais ua ntej. Txawm li cas los xij, raws li tau hais ua ntej, tsis yog txhua tus menyuam mos zoo ib yam.Tej tus menyuam yuav siv sijhawm ntev me ntsis. Txawm li cas los xij, yog tias koj muaj kev txhawj xeeb lossis kev tsis ntseeg txog koj tus menyuam txoj kev hais lus lossis kev loj hlob lus, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws los tham nrog kws kho mob. Tsis txhob ntshai lossis txaj muag.
Yog koj pom ib qho ntawm cov no, nws yog ib lub tswv yim zoo kom mus ntsib kws kho mob kom tau lus qhia:
- Yog tias nws tseem tsis tau hais 50 lo lus thaum muaj 30 lub hlis (2 ½ xyoo).
- Txawm tias thaum muaj 30 lub hlis (2 ½ xyoos), yog koj taw rau ib yam dab tsi hauv phau ntawv (piv txwv li, lub pob, tus dev) thiab nug tias, "Qhov no yog dab tsi?", lawv tseem tsis hais lub npe.
- Txawm tias thaum koj muaj 3 xyoos, thaum koj qhia ib daim duab ntawm ib qho kev ua xws li khiav lossis noj mov, lawv tsis hais tias muaj dab tsi tshwm sim.
- Txawm tias muaj 3 xyoos los xij , yog tias koj tsis nug cov lus nug xws li 'Leej twg?', 'Dab tsi?', 'Qhov twg?', thiab 'Vim li cas?'
- Txawm tias muaj 3 xyoos los , lawv tseem tsis hais lawv lub npe thaum nug.
- Txawm tias muaj 3 xyoos los xij, feem ntau lwm tus (tsis yog cov tswv cuab hauv tsev neeg xwb) tsis nkag siab nws hais li cas.
- Koj puas xav tias koj tus menyuam hais lus tsis meej ?
- Yog koj xav tias koj tus menyuam muaj teeb meem hnov lus (piv txwv li, yog tias lawv tsis tig rov qab thaum koj hais lus, lossis yog tias lawv tsis teb rau cov suab).
Yog koj muaj ib qho ntawm cov tsos mob no, nrhiav kev pab kho mob tam sim ntawd los ntawm tus kws kho mob uas tsim nyog, tej zaum yog tus kws kho menyuam yaus lossis tus kws kho kev hais lus thiab kev hais lus. Qee zaum nws tuaj yeem yog teeb meem me me, thiab yog tias nws raug lees paub thaum ntxov, nws yooj yim dua los kho thiab muab kev pab tsim nyog. Yog li ntawd, tsis txhob ntshai, thiab yog tias tsis paub meej, nrhiav kev pab kho mob.
Yog li ntawd, cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb uas peb yuav tsum nco ntsoov yog dab tsi?
Zoo, yog li ntawd, los ntawm qhov peb tau tham txog, koj tuaj yeem khaws ob peb yam tseem ceeb hauv siab.
- Tham nrog koj tus me nyuam ntau li ntau tau, ua si nrog lawv, thiab nyeem phau ntawv. Cov no yog cov khoom noj khoom haus zoo tshaj plaws rau lawv cov txuj ci lus. Zoo li ywg dej rau tsob ntoo.
- Ua siab ntev mloog seb lawv hais li cas. Teb lawv, muab sijhawm rau lawv qhia lawv txoj kev xav. Mloog lawv lub suab me me.
- Tsis yog txhua tus menyuam mos zoo ib yam. Tsis txhob muab koj tus kheej piv rau lwm tus menyuam mos thiab txhawj, lossis muab kev nyuaj rau koj tus menyuam me. Ua tib zoo saib koj tus menyuam txoj kev kawm, thiab cia lawv mus raws li lawv lub sijhawm.
- Yog koj muaj lus nug lossis kev txhawj xeeb , txawm tias lawv zoo li me me los xij, tsis txhob yig nug kws kho mob. Nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws rau koj thiab koj tus menyuam.
- Thaum kawg,
Nco ntsoov tias, koj txoj kev hlub, kev mloog zoo, thiab kev txhawb zog yog lub zog loj tshaj plaws rau koj tus me nyuam txoj kev loj hlob, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nws txoj kev hais lus! Koj yog tus phab ej/tus poj niam loj tshaj plaws hauv nws lub ntiaj teb.
Yog li ntawd, xav kom koj tus me nyuam muaj kev lom zem nrog koj hauv qhov kev sib tham zoo nkauj no!
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