Lɛ wi si aw fɔ mek yu pikin we ol 4-5 ia ebul fɔ tɔk to pipul dɛn.

Fɔ tɔk to wi smɔl pikin dɛn, dat min se fɔ chenj di we aw wi de tink wit dɛn, na sɔntin we kin mek wi gladi pasmak ɛn wi kin rili satisfay as mama ɛn papa, nɔto so? Infakt, pikin dɛn kin lan bɔku tin frɔm dɛn tɔk dɛn ya we dɛn kin tɔk to wi ɛvride ɛn wit di wɔl we de arawnd dɛn, frɔm di ɛkspiriɛns dɛn we dɛn kin gɛt. Bitwin di ej we dɛn ol 4 ɛn fayv ia, dat min se we dɛn dɔn big smɔl, bɔku pikin dɛn kin bigin fɔ go na priskul ɔ kindagarten klas. So de, dɛn langwej skil, dat na di we aw dɛn de tɔk to dɛnsɛf, kin rili impɔtant fɔ mek dɛn ebul fɔ wok togɛda wit ɔda pipul dɛn na di klas ɛn lan nyu tin dɛn.

Aw pikin dɛn we ol 4-5 ia kin tɔk?

Yu no se as pikin dɛn de lan langwej smɔl smɔl, di we aw dɛn de tɔk de go bifo bak fayn fayn wan. Fɔ tɔk tru, we yu ol 4 ɔ fayv ia, ivin instrɔkshɔn dɛn we kin tan lɛk se i kɔmplikt smɔl to smɔl pikin dɛn, lɛk "put yu sus ɛn briŋ yu bag," dɛn kin ɔndastand ɛn du am di sem we. Nɔto dat nɔmɔ, dɛn kin tɛl yu bak wit big zil ɔl wetin dɛn dɔn du, tɔk, ɛn si ɔl di de. Imajin di gladi at we yu kin fil we dɛn kam na os frɔm skul ɛn se, "Mama, di ticha gi mi bɔku sta tide!"!

We dɛn ol dis ej, dɛn kin tink bɔt smɔl smɔl stori dɛn fɔ dɛnsɛf. Sɔntɛm dɛn stori dɛn de nɔ mek sɛns, bɔt na di wɔl dɛn we dɛn kin imajin na dɛn maynd. Dɔn bak, dɛn sabi fɔ lisin to wan stori we yu tɛl dɛn ɛn tɛl am bak wit dɛn yon wɔd. We wi kin aks bɔku tɛm se, "Wetin kin apin nɛks, pikin?" insay wan stori, dɛn kin se bak, "Dɔn di prins kam..."

Aw di wɔd dɛn ɛn di sɛntɛns dɛn de?

Dis tɛm ya, dɛn kin bigin fɔ yuz 4 ɔ mɔ wɔd dɛn na dɛn sɛntɛns. Fɔ ɛgzampul, "Papa, a want da tɔys de." Dɛn wɔd dɛn, ɔ di nɔmba fɔ di wɔd dɛn we dɛn sabi, de kɔntinyu fɔ bɔku. Dɛn kin pik nyu wɔd dɛn we yu kin tɔk kwik kwik wan.

Bɔku tɛm, wi fɔ ebul fɔ ɔndastand gud gud wan wetin pikin kin tɔk we i ol dis ej. Bɔt sɔntɛnde, smɔl smɔl tin dɛn kin de. Dat min se sɔm divɛlɔpmɛnt sawnd mistek dɛn kin si. Fɔ ɛgzampul, sɔm lɛta dɛn nɔ kin kɔl klia wan, ɛn dɛn kin yɛri sawnd lɛk ‘த’ instead ɔf di lɛta ‘ஸ’ (lisping). Dɔn bak, sɔm pikin dɛn, mɔ di bɔy pikin dɛn, kin gɛt smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl smɔl. Bɔku pan dɛn tin ya go go fɔ dɛnsɛf as tɛm de go . Bɔt if yu rili de wɔri bɔt am, i bɛtɛ lɛ yu tɔk to dɔktɔ bɔt am.

Wetin a go du fɔ mek mi pikin sabi tɔk to ɔda pipul dɛn?

Bɔku tin dɛn de we yu kin du fɔ ɛp yu pikin fɔ lan aw fɔ tɔk. Infakt, yu na dɛn fɔs ticha. Simpul tin dɛn lɛk fɔ rid buk, siŋ siŋ togɛda, ple wit wɔd, aks dɛn simpul kwɛstyɔn, ɛn tɔk to dɛn ɔltɛm kin ɛp dɛn fɔ mek dɛn ebul fɔ yuz wɔd dɛn ɛn fɔ mek dɛn sabi fɔ lisin. Na sɔm ɔda we dɛn we yu go ɛp:

• Tɔk bɔt di tin dɛn we apin insay di de: We yu pikin kam na os frɔm priskul, ɔ we i kam bak na os afta i dɔn ple, aks dɛn tin dɛn lɛk, "Wetin apin tide, bɔy pikin/ gyal pikin?", "Udat bi yu bɛst padi tide?", "Us nyu tin dɛn yu lan tide?" Lisin wit peshɛnt ɛn wit intres to wetin dɛn gɛt fɔ tɔk. Tɛl dɛn smɔl smɔl tin dɛn bɔt yu de. Fɔ ɛgzampul, "Tide, mama mek yu di it we yu lɛk." Dis go ɛp dɛn fɔ ɔndastand aw i valyu fɔ tɛl ɔda pipul dɛn bɔt aw dɛn de fil ɛn aw dɛn de fil, ɛn aw i nɔmal.

• Tek tɛm lisin to wetin yu pikin de tɔk: Dis rili impɔtant. Ɛnitɛm we i pɔsibul, we yu pikin kam tɛl yu sɔntin, stɔp wetin yu de du, luk am, ɛn tek tɛm lisin to wetin i de tɔk. Dis go sho am se yu de lisin to am ɛn wetin i de tɔk valyu to yu. Dis go mek i want fɔ tɛl yu mɔ ɛn tɛl yu mɔ.

• Tɔk bɔt buk dɛn we una rid togɛda: Afta yu dɔn rid buk, aks kwɛstyɔn dɛn lɛk, "Udat na yu fav pɔsin na di stori?", "Wetin yu tink se go apin nɛks?", "Wetin wi lan frɔm dis stori?" Tɔk bɔt di pikchɔ dɛn we de na di stori. Se tins laik, "Luk dis, hau kiut di bunny?", "Wetin kala bi dat flawa?" Dis go ɛp dɛn fɔ ɔndastand di stori gud gud wan, lan nyu wɔd dɛn, ɛn mek dɛn ebul fɔ tink gud wan.

• Tɔk bɔt TV sho, fim, ɛn gem dɛn we una de wach togɛda: We una de wach katun fim ɔ fim we de tich na TV wit yu pikin, tɔk bɔt wetin de apin. Aks tins laik, "Wetin im de du?" ɛn "Yu go lɛk fɔ du dat bak?" Dɔn bak, we yu de ple, fɔ ɛgzampul, we yu de trowe bɔl, tɔk bɔt, "Udat in tɔn na naw?" ɛn "Wetin wi de du naw?" Dis kin ɛp dɛn fɔ lan fɔ tɔk wetin dɛn de si ɛn du, ɛn fɔ tɔk am di we we ɔda pipul dɛn go ɔndastand.

• Kip tin dɛn fɔ rid lɛk buk ɛn magazin dɛn we pikin dɛn kin ebul fɔ rich: Sɛt buk shelf ɔ fayn bɔks usay dɛn kin pik dɛn ɛn flip dɛn. Pik buk dɛn we gɛt big big pikchɔ dɛn we gɛt kɔlɔ we dɛn lɛk. Da we de, dɛn go fil lɛk fɔ pik buk dɛn ɛn rid dɛn ɛnitɛm we dɛn want. Dis na fayn we fɔ mek pɔsin lɛk fɔ rid frɔm we i yɔŋ.

• Ɛp yu pikin fɔ mek wan albam lɛk "Dis na mi" ɔ "Dis na wi famili": Mek wan fayn albam bay we yu pas foto dɛn fɔ yu famili, pikchɔ dɛn fɔ animal ɛn tɔys dɛn we yu pikin lɛk, smɔl smɔl gift dɛn we i dɔn gɛt, ɛn drɔin dɛn we i dɔn drɔ. Tɔk to am bɔt ɛni pikchɔ. We yu de aks kwɛstyɔn lɛk "Udat na dis?", "Yu mɛmba usay wi bin go da de de?", "Ustɛm yu drɔ dis?" gi am gud chans fɔ mɛmba ol mɛmori ɛn tɔk bɔt dɛn. Dis go mek i ebul fɔ mɛmba gud gud wan ɛn i go ebul fɔ tɛl di tin dɛn we bin dɔn apin trade insay ɔda we.

Tink bɔt am, fɔ du ɔl dis tan lɛk we yu de wata smɔl plant ɛn kia fɔ am. Na dɛn smɔl smɔl ɛp an dɛn ya de mek in tɔk fayn fayn wan.

Ustɛm a fɔ go to dɔktɔ?

Bɔku tɛm, wi kin wɔri bɔt smɔl smɔl tin dɛn fɔ natin. Bɔt if yu gɛt ɛni dawt, fred, ɔ wɔri bɔt aw yu pikin sabi langwej ɔ aw wetin i de tɔk klia, i go fayn fɔ mek yu tɔk to dɔktɔ bɔt dat. Sɔntɛnde, i nɔ kin bi big tin, bɔt we yu no bɔt am, dat kin ɛp yu fɔ fil fayn.

Bɔku tɛm, sɔm ej dɛn de we pikin kin ebul fɔ du sɔm tin dɛn we i de gro. Wi kin kɔl dɛn divɛlɔpmɛnt maylston ya. Di sem kayn impɔtant tin dɛn de we i kam pan fɔ tɔk.

We dɛn ol lɛk 4 ia so, bɔku pikin dɛn fɔ ebul fɔ du dɛn tin ya:

• Tɔk sɛntɛns dɛn we gɛt 4 wɔd ɔ mɔ. Fɔ ɛgzampul, "Mama, a angri ɛn a want rays," ɔ "Papa, wi kin go ple?"
• Ripit wɔd ɛn frɛz dɛn frɔm wan siŋ ɔ stori. I fɔ ebul fɔ rid wan shɔt siŋ ɔ wan vas frɔm wan nɔsri raym we yu de siŋ.
• Tɔk bɔt at le wan tin we bin apin insay di de. Fɔ ɛgzampul, "A fɔdɔm we a de ple tide," ɔ "Di ticha tɛl mi wan fayn stori tide."

We dɛn ol lɛk 5 ia so, bɔku pikin dɛn fɔ ebul fɔ du dɛn tin ya:

• Tɛl wan shɔt stori we gɛt at le tu tin dɛn we apin. Fɔ ɛgzampul, "A wek dis mɔnin. Dɔn a brus mi tit," ɔ "Di pikin go na pak. Dɔn a rayd di swing."
• Ansa simpul kwɛstyɔn dɛn bɔt buk ɔ stori, lɛk "Us kɔlɔ di dɔg bin de na di stori?" ɛn "Usay di prinses go?"
• Yu fɔ gɛt at le tri ɔ 4 bak-ɛn-fɔd ɛkshɛnj. Dis min se we yu aks sɔntin, yu de ansa, ɛn sɔntɛm dɛn kin aks yu kwɛstyɔn. Dɛn kin want fɔ kɔntinyu fɔ tɔk to dɛn pas fɔ jɔs gi wan wɔd ansa.
• Fɔ ebul fɔ yuz ɛn no simpul raym dɛn. Fɔ ɛgzampul, wɔd dɛn we de sawnd di sem lɛk ‘bat-kat’, lɛk ‘kat - tebul’, ‘os - domɔt’, dɛn kin no ɛn tɔk.

No lɔ nɔ de fɔ se ɔl dɛn tin ya go apin to ɔl pikin di sem we ɔ di sem tɛm. Sɔm pikin dɛn kin du dɛn tin ya kwik kwik wan, ɛn sɔm kin tek lɔng tɛm smɔl. Dat na nɔmal tin. Bɔt if yu tink se yu pikin de let fɔ du bɔku pan dɛn tin ya, ɔ if yu ɔ ɔda pipul dɛn de gɛt prɔblɛm fɔ ɔndastand wetin i de tɔk klia wan, dat min se i impɔtant fɔ tɔk to dɔktɔ bɔt dat.

Dɔn bak, if yu tink se yu pikin gɛt prɔblɛm fɔ yɛri , fɔ ɛgzampul, if dɛn nɔ de luk bak we yu de tɔk, if dɛn de tɔn di TV tu lawd, ɔ if ɔda tin de bɔt yu pikin we nɔ gɛt natin fɔ du wit ɛni wan pan dɛn tin ya ɛn we de mɔna yu, yu go mɔs go to dɔktɔ.

Mɛmba se if yu gɛt ɛni dawt, ivin smɔl, i go fayn fɔ go to dɔktɔ. I go jɔs mek yu lod izi.

Fɔ dɔn, na sɔm tin dɛn we wi fɔ mɛmba

So, insay dis joyn fɔ divɛlɔp yu pikin we ol 4 ɔ 5 ia in tɔk, yu lɔv, peshɛnt, ɛn ɛnkɔrejmɛnt na di big big tin dɛn we i go gɛt. Ple wit am, laf wit am, tɔk to am, tek tɛm lisin to wetin i de tɔk. Prez am we i tɔk nyu wɔd, mek smɔl stori, ɛn tɛl am.

Nɔto ɔl pikin dɛn na di sem, ɛn dɛn kin lan difrɛn we. So nɔ kɔmpia yu pikin to ɔda pikin dɛn. We yu du dat, i go jɔs mek yu fil bad, ɛn i nɔ go fayn fɔ yu pikin. Mek dɛn de divɛlɔp pan dɛn yon pawa, insay dɛn yon we.

If yu gɛt ɛni prɔblɛm ɔ dawt, nɔ ɛva shem fɔ go to dɔktɔ. Na yu wok fɔ du.

Yu kin mek yu smɔl pikin in wɔl fayn wit wɔd dɛn, ɛn ɛp dɛn fɔ tɔk bɔt wan tawzin tin dɛn na dɛn maynd! Wi de kɔle yu fɔ dat!

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