Imajin, if yu lɔs kɔnshɛns wantɛm wantɛm bikɔs ɔf aksidɛnt ɔ siriɔs sik, ɔ if yu de na say we yu nɔ ebul fɔ disayd fɔ yusɛf... Udat go disayd bɔt yu tritmɛnt ɛn yu mɛrɛsin biznɛs da kayn tɛm de? Dis nɔto sɔntin we ɛni wan pan wi lɛk fɔ tink bɔt. Bɔt, layf nɔ kin izi fɔ no wetin go apin. So, aw i valyu fɔ mek dɛn tɛl wi bifo tɛm bɔt aw dɛn fɔ du wi mɛrɛsin if wi nɔ ebul fɔ disayd fɔ du sɔntin we wi stil de tink?
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, dis na wetin wi kɔl " advance directive ." Dis nɔto jɔs wan pepa. Dis dɔkyumɛnt kin bi yu vɔys we yu nɔ ebul fɔ tɔk. I de fri yu famili ɛn dɔktɔ dɛn frɔm bɔku wok ɛn gi dɛn di gayd fɔ du ɔltin akɔdin to wetin yu want.
Wetin na di men kayn Advans Dairekt?
We wi de mek Advance Directive, sɔm men tin dɛn de we wi fɔ tink bɔt. Sɔntɛnde, dɛn tin ya kin bi difrɛn dɔkyumɛnt dɛn. Lɛ wi tek wan luk pan wetin dɛn bi.
| Tayp fɔ di dɔkyumɛnt | Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan... | fɔ ɛgzampul |
|---|---|---|
| Living will | Rayt bifo tɛm us mɛrɛsin yu fɔ gɛt ɔ yu nɔ fɔ gɛt if yu nɔ ebul fɔ disayd fɔ du sɔntin. | "If a de sɔfa wit sik we nɔ de mɛn, duya nɔ yuz ventilator jɔs fɔ postpɔn mi day." |
| Wɛlbɔdi Keya Sɔrogɛt/ prɔksi | Fɔ gi pawa to pɔsin we yu trɔst fɔ mek yu disayd fɔ du mɛrɛsin we yu nɔ ebul fɔ disayd fɔ du sɔntin. | Yu kin gi dis pawa to yu patna, yu pikin, ɔ yu padi we yu rili abop pan. Dis pɔsin na di wan we de tɔk to dɔktɔ dɛn fɔ yu ɛn gri ɔ nɔ gri fɔ tek tritmɛnt. |
| Pawa fɔ Atɔ we go de te | Dis nɔto jɔs tin dɛn we gɛt fɔ du wit mɛrɛsin. Fɔ gi pɔsin rayt fɔ du yu faynɛns biznɛs (e.g., fɔ pe bil, fɔ wok na bank) if yu nɔ ebul fɔ du dat. | We yu nɔ no natin na ɔspitul, di pɔsin we yu dɔn alaw go ebul fɔ pe yu os bil ɛn sayn chɛk insay yu nem. |
Tin dɛn we yu fɔ mɛmba we yu de pripia dɛn dɔkyumɛnt dɛn ya
Pan ɔl we i go tan lɛk se fɔ mek dɔkyumɛnt lɛk dis, bɔku tin dɛn de we wi nid fɔ tink bɔt fɔ mek i wok fayn.
1. Di wɔd dɛn we nɔ klia
Bɔku tɛm, di wɔd dɛn we dɛn kin yuz na dɔkyumɛnt lɛk `Living Wills` kin gɛt difrɛn ligal ɛn mɛdikal minin. fכ egzampl, sכmtεm difrεn opinion kin de ivin bitwin dכkta dεm bכt di difinishכn fכ ``tεrminal kכndishכn.`` Semweso, we wi de tכk bכt ``artificial procedures,`` dεn kin de dibat bכt wetin de insay εn wetin nכ de insay.
So, i impɔtant fɔ tɔk klia wan ɛn tɔk klia wan bɔt wetin yu want. Bifo yu rayt sɔntin we jɛnɛral lɛk "No life-prolonging treatment," i impɔtant pasmak fɔ bi spɛshal, lɛk "A nɔ want fɔ mek dɛn put fidin tyub dɛn insay" ɔ "A nɔ want fɔ kɔnɛkt mi to ventilator."
2. Fɔ Pik pɔsin we go tek di ples
Sɔntɛm di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ pik pɔsin fɔ disayd fɔ yu. I nɔ go du fɔ jɔs pik pɔsin we yu rili lɛk. Da pɔsin de nid fɔ gɛt strɔng pɔsin .
Imajin se yu dɔn rayt se yu nɔ want wan patikyula tritmɛnt. Bɔt wan dɔktɔ kam to yu ripɔt ɛn se, "Lɛ wi tray dis tritmɛnt, sɔntɛm i go mek smɔl difrɛns." Na da tɛm de, yu fɔ pik pɔsin we, pan ɔl we i rɛspɛkt di dɔktɔ in opinion, go ebul fɔ tɔk tranga wan se, "Nɔ, na dis i bin want. Wi fɔ rɛspɛkt dat." I impɔtant bak fɔ mek da pɔsin de ɔndastand 100% pan wetin yu want.
So wetin wi fɔ du?
Wit ɔl dis, if yu want fɔ mek plan fɔ yu tumara bambay, i rili impɔtant fɔ fala dɛn step ya.
- Tɔk to yu dɔktɔ: Dis na di fɔs tin we yu nid fɔ du. Start fɔ tɔk to yu dɔktɔ wantɛm wantɛm. Tɔk klia wan bɔt wetin yu want, wetin yu de fred, ɛn aw yu want fɔ spɛn di las dez na yu layf . Dɔn we di tɛm rich, i go ɔndastand klia wan wetin yu want.
- Pik pɔsin we yu go abop pan: Jɔs lɛk aw wi bin dɔn tɔk, pik pɔsin we rili ɔndastand di tin dɛn we yu valyu, wetin yu biliv, ɛn di we aw yu de si layf, ɛn we go ebul fɔ tinap fɔ yu we nid de. We yu dɔn pik wan, tɔk to dɛn bɔt dis ditayli.
- Mek di dɔkyumɛnt klia: I bɛtɛ fɔ mek yu gɛt ɛp frɔm lɔya. Yuz sɔm patikyula wɔd dɛn as yu ebul ɛn rayt fɔ pul ɛnitin we nɔ klia bɔt wetin yu want.
- Tɛl yu famili: Afta yu dɔn pripia dis dɔkyumɛnt, tɛl yu famili (espɛshali di wan dɛn we de nia yu) bɔt am. Ɛksplen to dɛn wit lɔv wetin mek yu dɔn disayd fɔ du dis. Dis go ɛp fɔ mek dɛn nɔ gɛt ɛni cham-mɔt bitwin dɛn tumara bambay.
Pan ɔl we dis na tɔpik we rili impɔtant, if yu plan bifo tɛm dis kayn we, dat kin mek yu ɛn di wan dɛn we yu lɛk gɛt bɔku kolat na yu maynd. I tan lɛk se yu lɔk yu domɔt ɛn winda dɛn bifo big big briz kam ɛn mek shɔ se yu sef.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Advance Directive na ligal dɔkyumɛnt we de sho wetin yu want fɔ gɛt mɛrɛsin bifo tɛm if yu nɔ ebul fɔ disayd fɔ du sɔntin.
- Di men kayn dɛn na Living Will (wil fɔ tritmɛnt), Health Care Surrogate (fɔ pik pɔsin fɔ disayd fɔ yu), ɛn Durable Power of Attorney (delegation of authority for financial matters).
- We yu de rayt yu dɔkyumɛnt, tɔk klia wan ɛn tɔk klia wan as yu ebul. Bifo yu yuz jenɛral wɔd dɛn, tɔk klia wan us tritmɛnt yu want ɔ yu nɔ want.
- Di pɔsin we dɛn pik fɔ disayd fɔ yu (Surrogate) fɔ bi pɔsin we no wetin yu want gud gud wan ɛn we go ebul fɔ advatayz am tranga wan .
- Bifo ɔl dis, tɔk klia wan bɔt dis wit yu dɔktɔ ɛn tɔk klia wan bɔt wetin yu tink ɛn wetin yu want.
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