Wadde ng’omwana wo mwagala nnyo, oluusi weebuuza obanga omwana wo anaakuddiza omukwano ogwo n’omukwano ogwo? Omwana wo bw’ogenda okumuwambaatira asikambula? Owulira ng’olina obuzibu okutegeera ebigenda mu maaso mu birowoozo bye? Oteekwa okuba ng’owulira ennaku n’okweraliikirira olw’ebintu nga bino. Mazima ddala kizibu nnyo. Leero twogera ku mbeera bwetyo. Kino tukiyita Reactive Attachment Disorder, oba (RAD) mu bufunze. Kino kizibu ku kwegatta mu nneewulira wakati w’omwana n’omuntu asinga okumulabirira (maama, taata oba omukuza). Kino ka twogere mu bujjuvu.
Mu ngeri ennyangu, obulwadde bw’okwegatta (RAD) kye ki?
Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) mbeera omwana gy’atakulaakulanya nkolagana nnungi ey’ebirowoozo n’abalabirira abasookerwako (tubayita `abalabirira`). Ekisinga okuvaako kino kitera kubaawo ng’akyali muto, ng’akyali muwere, ng’omwana alagajjaliddwa mu nneewulira oba ng’atulugunyizibwa mu ngeri emu oba endala.
Abaana abalina embeera eno bazibuwalirwa okulungamya n'okuddukanya enneewulira zaabwe . Era balwana okukola enkolagana ey’amakulu era ey’amaanyi n’abalala. Abaana abalina RAD tebatera kunoonya buweerero oba okulaga obubonero bw’okubudaabudibwa. Oluusi, ne bwe baba balabirira batya era nga ba kisa batya, tuyinza okulaba omwana ng’abatya oba ng’abamweraliikirira.
Ani asinga okukosebwa embeera eno?
Embeera eno esinga kulabibwa mu baana ababadde basuuliriddwa oba abatulugunyizibwa mu mubiri oba mu nneewulira. Kyokka oluusi abaana abakulu nabo basobola okufuna obulwadde bwa RAD. Omwana ali mu bulabe bwa maanyi okukwatibwa RAD singa:
- Enkyukakyuka ezitera okubaawo mu kulabirira: Lowooza ku kino: Abaana abamu bateekebwa mu mbeera z‟okulabirira abaana. Bwe baba nga bakyusakyusa ebifo buli kiseera, omwana tafuna mukisa kukola mukwano gwa lubeerera n’omuntu omu.
- Okwawukana ku balabirira abasookerwako: Singa omwana aba n’omukwano omulungi mu nneewulira ne bazadde be, n’oluvannyuma n’alina okwawukana nabo olw’ensonga ezimu, kiyinza okuwuniikiriza ennyo omwana.
- Okufiirwa okw’ekikangabwa mu bulamu obuto: Okufuna ebizibu ebiwerako, gamba ng’okufa oba okufiirwa okw’amaanyi, ng’akyali muto.
- Abalabirira abaana obutaba ku lusegere mu nneewulira: Abazadde oba abalabirira abamu tebagezaako kubeera ku lusegere lw’omwana mu nneewulira. Tebalaga nti baagala kutegeera nneewulira z’omwana oba okumugumya.
- Enkuza y’ebitongole:Abaana abakulira mu bitongole nga ebifo eby’abaana abataliiko mwasirizi bayinza okuggyibwako okufaayo kw’omulabirira omu ayagala ennyo.
Kino kiyinza okusoomoozebwa naddala eri abazadde abakuza abaana, kubanga bayinza obutamanya mu bujjuvu ebikwata ku bulamu bw’omwana waabwe obw’emabega. Bw’oba omuzadde omupya akuza omwana wo era ng’omwana wo alaga obubonero bwa RAD, oba ng’olina obuzibu okukwatagana n’omwana wo, si musango gwo. Kakasa nti oyogera n’omusawo w’omwana wo ku nsonga eno.
Bubonero ki obutera okulabika ku RAD?
Buli mwana ayinza okulaga obubonero obw’enjawulo. Kyokka waliwo obubonero obumu obutera okulabika mu baana abawere n’abaana abato. Bino katubitegeere bulungi.
| Obubonero | Kino kitegeeza ki? |
|---|---|
| Obutalaga nneewulira nnungi | Bw’oba n’abantu abalala, tolaga nneewulira nnungi yonna ng’okubudaabudibwa, okwagala, oba essanyu mu maaso go oba mu bikolwa byo. Weeyisa ng’olinga atalina makulu n’akatono. |
| Okwewala okutunula mu maaso n’okukwatagana mu mubiri | Omuntu bw’akutunuulira mu maaso, okukuwambaatira oba okukukwata ku mukono, osikambula. Toyagala kusemberera mu mubiri. |
| Okwolesa okutya oba obusungu | Balaga obusungu nga baleekaana nnyo n'okusuula ebintu wansi (`tantrums`). Bulijjo tebalina ssanyu era banakuwavu. |
| Okugezaako okufuga | Banoonya ebintu mu mbeera yaabwe bye basobola okufuga. Kino emirundi mingi kiyinza okubaviirako okumenya amateeka. |
Njawulo ki eri wakati wa RAD ne DSED?
Waliwo embeera endala ekwatagana ne RAD, naye nga ya njawulo katono. Kiyitibwa obuzibu bw’okukwatagana n’abantu (DSED). Kikulu okutegeera enjawulo eriwo wakati w’ebintu bino byombi.
| Engeri | Obuzibu bw’okwegatta (RAD) . | Obuzibu bw‟okukwatagana n‟abantu (DSED) . |
|---|---|---|
| Enneeyisa n’abakuumi | Okwewala abakuumi. Okugezaako okubeera ewala. | Mpozzi oyinza okubeera ow’omukwano ennyo n’omuntu yenna. |
| Enneeyisa n’abantu b’otomanyi | Njagala nnyo okubeera nzekka, nga ndi wala n’abantu. | Omukwano oguyitiridde n’abantu b’atamanyi. Ayinza okukemebwa okugenda n’abantu b’atamanyi ne bwe baba nga tebabuuzizza bazadde baabwe. |
| Okunoonya okubudaabudibwa | Aziyiza omuntu bw’agezaako okumubudaabuda (e.g., okumunywegera). | Okusuubira okufaayo n’omukwano okuva eri omuntu yenna. |
| Enneeyisa eya bulijjo | Wadde nga bamanyi ebigenda mu maaso ebibeetoolodde, tebaddamu mu nneewulira. | Beeyisa ng’abaana abato okusinga emyaka gyabwe. Tebategeera nsalo za mbeera z’abantu. |
Kiki ekivaako embeera eno eya RAD?
Tewali nsonga emu, enkakafu lwaki kino kivuddeko. Okunoonyereza kulaga nti waliwo ensonga eziwerako lwaki omwana ayinza obutakola mukwano n’abamulabirira. Ebikulu bye bino:
- Okutulugunyizibwa oba okulagajjalirwa: Omwana awulira ng’asuuliddwa era ng’ali yekka.
- Ebyetaago ebikulu ebitatuukiddwaako:Omwana bw’atafuna byetaago ebikulu mu bulamu, gamba ng’emmere, obuyonjo, n’obukuumi, aba tafuna bwesige mu nsi.
- Okutya obukuumi: Omwana buli kiseera awulira ng’atya nti ali mu kabi.
- Obutabeera na buyonjo: Ebintu ng’okubeera mu nnappi ennyogovu okumala essaawa eziwera bisobola okuleetera omwana okuwulira obubi n’okulagajjalirwa.
- Okulabirira okutakwatagana: Ebyetaago by’omwana bituukibwako oluusi n’oluusi. Omwana abulwa obukakafu bwonna oba ajja kubudaabudibwa oba ajja kuweebwa bye yeetaaga.
Mu ngeri ennyangu, ebyetaago by’omwana ebikulu mu mubiri ne mu nneewulira bwe bituukibwako buli kiseera era obutakyukakyuka, obwesige buzimbibwa wakati w’omwana n’oyo amulabirira. Obwesige buno gwe musingi gw’omukwano omulungi. Singa ebyetaago bino tebituukibwako, omwana aba mu bulabe bwa maanyi okufuna RAD.
Omusawo azuula atya embeera eno?
Okuzuula RAD, omusawo ajja kukubuuza ku byafaayo by’obujjanjabi bw’omwana wo n’obubonero bwe. Omusawo ayinza okubuuza ebibuuzo nga:
- Omwana wo abadde atulugunyizibwa oba okulagajjalirwa?
- Obubonero buno wasooka kulaba ddi?
- Ggwe n’omwana wo mukwatagana mutya?
- Embeera y'amaka go eri etya ?
- Waliwo abalabirira abalala abakolagana n’omwana?
Okusinziira ku mawulire gano, singa omusawo ateebereza RAD, bayinza okusindika omwana eri omusawo w’abaana , omukugu mu by’empisa, oba omusawo w’eby’omutwe okuzuula obulungi n’okumuwa amagezi ku bujjanjabi obutuufu.
RAD ne Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) bisobola okutabulwa?
Yee, oluusi obubonero bw’embeera zino ebbiri buyinza okufaanagana ku ngulu. N’olwekyo, omusawo nga tannamaliriza nti omwana alina RAD, ajja kukebera okukakasa nti tewali mbeera ndala, gamba nga Autism Spectrum Disorder ( ASD ) . Enjawulo enkulu eri nti ASD mbeera ya nkulaakulana. Tekiva ku kutulugunyizibwa oba okulagajjalirwa. So nga RAD ekwatagana butereevu n’ebyo omwana by’ayitamu ng’akyali muto.
Bujjanjabi ki obuweebwa RAD?
Ekigendererwa ekikulu eky’obujjanjabi bwa RAD kwe kuddaabiriza enkolagana ey’okutya oba enzibu wakati w’omwana n’omulabirira n’okutondawo omukwano omulungi ogw’ebirowoozo. Enzijanjaba zino ziganyula omwana n’oyo amulabirira.
| Enkola y’obujjanjabi | Mu ngeri ennyangu... |
|---|---|
| Obujjanjabi bw‟eby‟omutwe/Okubuulirira | Omuwabuzi ku by‟obulamu bw‟obwongo akolagana n‟omwana n‟abazadde okubayamba okuzimba obukugu mu nneewulira ennungi n‟okukendeeza ku nneeyisa ezirimu ebizibu ezitaataaganya omukwano. |
| Obujjanjabi bw’Amaka | Abalabirira abasookerwako n‟omwana bakolera wamu okukola engeri ennungi ez‟okukolagana ne bannaabwe. |
| Okuyingira mu nsonga z‟obukugu mu mbeera z‟abantu | Omwana asomesebwa engeri y‟okweyisaamu obulungi mu mbeera za bulijjo ez‟omukwano ne banne. Abazadde nabo beenyigira mu kino. |
| Ebyenjigiriza eby’enjawulo | Singa omwana aba akyetaaga, pulogulaamu ezisinziira ku ssomero ziyamba omwana okuyiga obukugu okusobola okutuuka ku buwanguzi mu kusoma ne mu mbeera z’abantu. |
| Emisomo gy’Obukugu mu Kuzaala | Abazadde basobola okuyiga engeri y’okuddukanyaamu obulungi enneeyisa z’omwana waabwe enzibu. |
Nze ng’omulabirira, nnyinza ntya okuyamba omwana wange?
Ng’oggyeeko obujjanjabi, ng’omulabirira, osobola okukola ebintu bingi okuzimba omukwano omulungi n’omwana wo.
1. Teekawo ensalo ezitegeerekeka obulungi
Embeera etakyukakyuka ya mugaso nnyo eri abaana bonna. N’olwekyo, okuteekawo ensalo kikulu nnyo. With reasonable limits and appropriate, non-physical methods of discipline , abaana bamanyi ekibasuubirwamu n’ekigenda okubaawo singa bamenya amateeka. Kino kikendeeza ku kutya kw’abaana n’okubakubiriza okweyisa obulungi.
2. Omwana wo ne bw’aba yeeyisa bubi, osigala ng’oli mukkakkamu.
Omwana wo bw’aba yeeyisa bubi, beera mukkakkamu. Tokola kintu ng’onyiize. Kangavvula omwana wo okusinziira ku mateeka ge muteesezzaako n’omwana wo nga bukyali. Omwana wo bw’amala okukkakkana era nga mwetegefu okuddamu okubeera naawe, mulage omukwano n’okumufaako. Kino kiraga omwana wo nti obeerawo ku lulwe ne mu biseera ebizibu.
3. Okuwa okwagala n’okufaayo kungi
Mala ebiseera wekka n’omwana wo. Yogera naye, yimba ennyimba, muzannye naye. Mukwate mu kifuba, mukwate. Naye jjukira nti abaana abamu tebaagala nnyo kukwatagana mu mubiri mu ngeri eno. Tokozesangako kuziyiza kwagala na mukwano ng’engeri y’okubonereza.
Ddi lwe nnina okulaba omusawo?
Bw’olaba ng’omwana wo afuna obuzibu okukola omukwano ogwa bulijjo , oba omwana wo bw’aba n’obubonero bwonna obwa RAD obwogeddwako mu kitundu kino, laba omusawo w’omwana wo amangu ddala akuwe amagezi. Embeera eno gy’ekoma okuzuulibwa amangu n’okujjanjabibwa, emikisa gy’okutuuka ku buwanguzi eri omwana wo gye gikoma okubeera eminene.
Okunoonya obuyambi okuva eri omusawo tekitegeeza nti oli muzadde mubi. Kimala kuggulawo luggi lw’okuzimba enkolagana ey’amaanyi, ennungi, ey’obulamu bwonna n’omwana wo.
Obubaka Obutwala Awaka
- Obulwadde bwa Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) bulwadde bwa maanyi, naye nga bujjanjabibwa, obuva ku kulagajjalirwa oba okulumwa omwana nga bukyali.
- Guno si musango gwa mwana wadde omusango gw’abazadde abaatwala obuvunaanyizibwa bw’okukuza omwana.
- Ebikulu ebiraga nti omuntu yeekutudde ku nneewulira, okugaana okubudaabuda, n’okukaluubirirwa okukola enkolagana n’abalala.
- Ekigendererwa ekikulu eky’obujjanjabi kwe kuzimba omukwano ogw’obukuumi, ogutebenkedde, era ogw’okwagala wakati w’omwana n’oyo amulabirira.
- Okunoonya amagezi g’abasawo nga bukyali, n’okuwa omukwano n’okulabirira obulumi era obutakyukakyuka kikulu nnyo eri omwana mu biseera eby’omu maaso.
Reactive Attachment Disorder, RAD, obulamu bw‟obwongo bw‟omwana, enneeyisa y‟omwana, okwegatta mu nneewulira, enkolagana y‟abazadde, okulagajjalirwa, obujjanjabi
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