Wali owuliddeko abantu abafuuka ab’oku lusegere n’abaabawamba? Kino kiyitibwa obulwadde bwa Stockholm Syndrome!

Wali owuliddeko embeera ng’omuntu awambiddwa n’akuumirwa mu buwambe n’owulira ng’osaasira, mpozzi n’okuwulira omukwano, eri omuntu eyakuwamba? Kyewunyisa, si bwe kiri? Naye mu butuufu eyinza okuba embeera y’eby’omwoyo enzibu. Leero tugenda kwogera ku mbeera etali ya bulijjo, naye nga nkulu nnyo, ey’eby’omwoyo. Kino abasawo kye bayita obulwadde bwa Stockholm Syndrome.

Obulwadde bwa Stockholm Syndrome kye ki?

Mu ngeri ennyangu, obulwadde bwa Stockholm Syndrome y’enkola omuntu bw’akuumibwa ng’omuwambe oba ng’atulugunyizibwa ennyo, afuna okwegatta okw’amaanyi mu nneewulira n’okusaasira oyo amutulugunya oba oyo amuwambye. Teebereza engeri gye kyewuunyisa era ekizibu okukulaakulanya omukwano n’okusaasira omuntu oyo akutulugunya oba akubonyaabonya.

Wadde ng’embeera eno yasooka kuzuulibwa mu misango gy’okuwamba abantu, kati abasawo bagamba nti era esobola okulabibwa mu bintu ebirala eby’amaanyi eby’ekikangabwa . Kwe kugamba, omukwano ogw’ekyewuunyo, omuzibu okutegeera gubeerawo wakati w’oyo atulugunya n’oyo atulugunyizibwa.

Bangi ku bakugu mu by’obulamu bw’obwongo kino bakiraba ng’enkola ey’okugumira embeera omuntu afuna ekikangabwa gy’akozesa okuwona ennaku, wiiki, n’oluusi emyaka egy’okulumwa n’okutulugunyizibwa . Y’engeri eyeewuunyisa ebirowoozo gye biyinza okumanyiira embeera ey’akabi n’okwekuuma.

Waliwo embeera endala eziwerako ez’obwongo ezifaanagana ne zino, era nga nazo zikwatagana, abasawo ze bazudde:

• Trauma bonding: Guno mukwano gwa bulabe ogukula wakati w’oyo atulugunya n’oyo atulugunyizibwa nga bayita mu buvune obw’amaanyi.
• Obutaba na buyambi obuyize: Kino kitegeeza okufuuka atalina ky’osobola kukola ng’okkiririza nti tosobola kusimattuka mbeera eno era nti tewali buyambi.
• Battered person syndrome: Embeera y‟eby‟omwoyo eva ku kutulugunyizibwa mu mubiri oba mu birowoozo okumala ebbanga eddene era nga ekolebwa okutulugunyizibwa okwo.

Kino kyafuna kitya erinnya lya ‘Stockholm’?

Yafuna erinnya olw’ekintu eky’enjawulo ennyo ekyakwata ensi yonna. Kyabaawo mu 1973, mu kibuga ekiyitibwa Stockholm, mu Sweden . Ekibinja ky’abantu bazze okunyaga bbanka ne bakwata abakozi ba bbanka abawerako nga bawambe okumala ennaku mukaaga. Kino kyabaddewo nga poliisi ebazingizza. Ekyewuunyisa nti oluvannyuma lw’abawambi bano okusumululwa mu ngeri emu oba endala, abamu ku bo tebaagala na kuwa bujulizi mu kkooti ku babbi ba bbanka . Teyakoma awo, wabula ekyewuunyisa, basonda ne ssente okuyambako mu misango gy’amateeka okutaasa ababbi!

Kale, omukugu mu by’obumenyi bw’amateeka n’omusawo w’eby’omutwe abaali banoonyereza ku nsonga eno mu bujjuvu be baasooka okukozesa erinnya ‘Stockholm Syndrome’ okunnyonnyola omukwano guno ogw’ekyewuunyo n’okusaasira abakozi ba bbanka bye baalaga eri ababbi. Kwe kugamba, obulwadde bwa syndrome obwalabibwa mu kibuga Stockholm. Erinnya lino okuva olwo libadde likozesebwa ku mbeera nga zino.

Bubonero ki obulaga obulwadde bwa Stockholm Syndrome?

Singa omuntu alina obulwadde bwa Stockholm Syndrome, ayinza okulaga obubonero buno. Naye jjukira nti si buli muntu nti ajja kuba n’obubonero buno bwonna, era buyinza okwawukana okusinziira ku muntu.

• Okuwulira enneewulira ennungi eri abo abakukwata mu buwambe oba abakutulugunya. Kwe kugamba, okubasaasira, oboolyawo okwagala, okuwulira ng’oyagala okubakuuma.
• Okukkiriziganya n’enzikiriza zaabwe n’enneeyisa yaabwe, okubasaasira. Nga bwe bakola, okusinziira ku ndowooza yaabwe, kirabika nga kituufu, nga bagezaako okubategeera.
• Okubeera n’enneewulira embi eri poliisi, ab’obuyinza abalala, oba abo abagezaako okukutaasa. Ekyo kitegeeza okuwakanya n’obuteesiga abo abajja okukutaasa.

Ng’oggyeeko bino, obubonero obufaananako n’obw’obulwadde bwa Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) , embeera y’obwongo ebaawo oluvannyuma lw’ekintu ekizibu, era busobola okulabibwa. Mulimu:

• Flashbacks: Kino kitegeeza nti ebintu ebyabaddewo birabika nga biddamu okubeerawo mu maaso go, era amaloboozi, okuwunya n’enneewulira birabika nga biriwo mu kaseera ako.
• Okuwulira nga toteredde, okunyiiga buli kiseera, okuwuubaala, n’okweraliikirira. Okunyiiga n’okunyiiga olw’ebintu ebitonotono.
• Obutasobola kunyumirwa bintu ebyali bikuleetera essanyu, obutasobola kuwummulamu.
• Okukaluubirirwa okussa ebirowoozo ku kintu. Okufiirwa okujjukira nakyo kiyinza okubaawo.
• Obuteebaka, ebirooto ebibi.

Lwaki abantu abamu balina embeera eno?

Mu butuufu, abanoonyereza n’okutuusa kati tebakakasa kikumi ku kikumi lwaki abawambi oba abatulugunya abamu bafuna obulwadde bwa Stockholm Syndrome, ate abalala abagumidde ekintu ekizibu ennyo tebafuna. Naye waliwo endowooza ntono eziyinza okunnyonnyola ensonga lwaki.

Endowooza emu eri nti eno bukodyo bwayigibwa obuyisibwa okuva ku mulembe okudda ku mulala okuva ku bajjajjaffe . Teebereza, edda, waaliwo entalo wakati w’ebika, era bulijjo waaliwo akabi ak’okukwatibwa n’okuttibwa ekibiina ekirala eky’omu bantu. Mu kiseera ekyo, bwe wakola omukwano oba omukwano ogw’engeri emu n’abo abaakukwata, emikisa gyo egy’okuwonawo gyayongera.Abamu ku basawo b’eby’omutwe abava mu nkulaakulana balowooza nti akakodyo kano ak’edda kayinza okuba nga ka ngeri ya muntu ey’obutonde eyayambye abantu okuwangaala.

Endowooza endala eri nti omuntu bw’aba akwatiddwa mu buwambe oba ng’atulugunyizibwa, kiba mbeera ewunyiriza . Kwe kugamba, okunyigirizibwa kususse ebirowoozo okugumira. Olwo, ekiseera bwe kigenda kiyitawo, singa ofuna ekisa oba okusaasira okutonotono okuva eri oyo akutulugunya (okugeza, okubawa emmere, okubawa amazzi, okwogera nabo katono), osobola okukyusa enneewulira zo ng’oddamu n’ofuna okusaasira eri oyo akutulugunya. Ate era oyinza okuwulira nti osobola okukakasa obukuumi bwo ng’okolagana n’oyo akutulugunya, mu kifo ky’okumulwanyisa. Bw'ototuusibwako bulabe eri oyo akutulugunya, okemebwa okwebaza omuntu oyo, era mpozzi n'okulaba oyo akutulugunya nga "si muntu mubi bw'atyo." Eno nkola ya bwongo etamanyidde ddala .

Abasawo kino bakitegeera batya ng’obulwadde?

Wano waliwo eky'enjawulo ky'osaanidde okumanya. Ekibiina ekigatta abasawo b’emitwe mu Amerika tekinnassa mu butongole obulwadde bwa Stockholm Syndrome ng’embeera ey’enjawulo mu kitabo kyakyo ekisembyeyo eky’okuzuula obulwadde – Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), ekitabo ekikulembedde mu nsi yonna, ekikkirizibwa mu nsi yonna eky’okuzuula endwadde n’embeera z’obwongo.

N’olwekyo, abamu ku bakola ku by’obulamu, gamba ng’abasawo n’abasawo b’eby’omutwe, bayinza okutegeera embeera eno n’erinnya eryo oba obutamanya. Naye bonna bamanyi enkola z‟enneeyisa ezibaawo oluvannyuma lw‟ekintu eky‟ekikangabwa eky‟amaanyi, kwe kugamba, obubonero omuntu bw‟alaga. Emisingi egyakozesebwa okuzuula obuzibu bw’okunyigirizibwa oluvannyuma lw’okukosebwa (PTSD) n’obuzibu bw’okunyigirizibwa okw’amaanyi , n’ezimu ku nkola z’obujjanjabi, zifaanagana nnyo n’obulwadde bwa Stockholm Syndrome. Kale omusawo ky’akola kwe kutegeka obujjanjabi okusinziira ku bubonero n’obumanyirivu.

Bujjanjabi ki obw’obulwadde bwa Stockholm Syndrome?

Obulwadde bwa Stockholm Syndrome tebubalibwa mu butongole ng’obulwadde bw’obwongo, n’olwekyo tewali bujjanjabi bwa mutindo . Kyokka, nga bwe kyayogeddwako emabegako, obulwadde bwa Stockholm Syndrome bujjanjabwa mu ngeri y’emu n’obuzibu bw’okunyigirizibwa oluvannyuma lw’okukosebwa (PTSD) . Kino kisinga kukolebwa nga bayita mu bujjanjabi bw‟eby‟omutwe ne/oba eddagala bwe kiba kyetaagisa.

Bw’oba ​​ggwe oba omuntu wo ow’oku lusegere alina embeera eno, wano waliwo engeri ennungi ez’okugumira embeera ey’ekikangabwa gy’obaddemu.Osobola okuyiga.

Obujjanjabi busobola okukuyamba ku bintu bino:

• Tegeera by’oyitamu, ekyakutuukako, n’ensonga lwaki wawulira bw’otyo.
• Kitegeere nti okusaasira abakuwamba oba abakubonyaabonya kwali bukugu bwa kuwonawo bwe walina mu kiseera ekyo okusobola okuwona n’okugumira embeera. Kkiriza nti si musango gwo.
• Yiga engeri y’okugenda mu maaso mu bulamu bwo ng’onywevu n’okola entandikwa empya oluvannyuma lw’okuyita mu mbeera eno enzibu.

Bw’oba ​​olina obubonero, gamba ng’obuteebaka, okweraliikirira oba okwennyamira, omusawo ayinza okukuwa eddagala erikuyamba okwebaka obulungi n’okukendeeza ku kweraliikirira oba okwennyamira. Bino bisobola okukola obulungi nga bikozesebwa wamu n’obujjanjabi bw’eby’omutwe.

Tusobola okuva mu mbeera eno? Biki ebinaabaawo mu biseera eby’omu maaso?

Ekintu ekisooka okwogera kiri nti si buli muntu atulugunyizibwa, alumwa, oba akwatibwa ng’omuwambe afuna obulwadde bwa Stockholm Syndrome . Kino mu butuufu kibeera kya bulijjo nnyo mu by’omwoyo. Kwe kugamba, kintu ekitali kya bulijjo nnyo.

Kyokka kino ne bwe kibaawo, obujjanjabi bw’eby’omutwe era bwe kiba kyetaagisa, eddagala liyinza ddala okukuyamba oba omwagalwa wo okuwona embeera eno n’okugenda mu maaso n’obulamu obwa bulijjo, obw’essanyu. Kale toggwaamu ssuubi. Enkola y’okudda engulu eyinza okutwala ekiseera, naye ng’oyambibwako obuwagizi obutuufu, esobola okukolebwa.

Obulwadde bwa Stockholm Syndrome bubaawo mu mbeera z’abawambi zokka?

Wadde ng’erinnya Stockholm Syndrome lyayiiya oluvannyuma lw’ekibuga Stockholm, awaali okunyaga mu bbanka n’okutwala abantu abawambi, enneeyisa n’enneewulira ezifaananako bwe zityo zisobola okulabibwa ne mu bantu abafunye ebizibu ebirala eby’amaanyi. Kino kitegeeza nti tekikoma ku bawambe bokka. Wano waliwo ebyokulabirako ebitonotono:

• Okutulugunyizibwa mu by’okwegatta, mu mubiri ne mu nneewulira: Naddala mu mbeera ng’obutabanguko mu maka obw’ekiseera ekiwanvu.
• Okutulugunya abaana: Omwana ayinza okukola omukwano n’omuntu omukulu abatulugunya kubanga omwana talina ngeri ndala oba obukuumi.
• Okutulugunya omutendesi n’omuzannyi: Teebereza, bannabyamizannyo abamu bakkiriza okukola dduyiro ezisukkiridde, enkambwe, n’okutulugunya okuva eri omutendesi waabwe kubanga balowooza nti omutendesi amanyi ekisinga obulungi gye bali era asobola okubaleetera okuwangula.
• Okukukusa abantu mu by’okwegatta: Wano ne wano wabaddewo amawulire agalaga nti abatulugunyizibwa bakola ekika ky’omukwano n’abakukusa baabwe.
• Okwewaayo okw’omuzibe w’amaaso kw’abamu ku bibiina by’eddiini eri abakulembeze baabwe kuyinza okugeraageranyizibwa ku kino okutuuka ku ddaala eritali limu.

Mu mbeera zino zonna, obulwadde bwa Stockholm Syndrome y’engeri y’okugumira embeera eno . Mu kifo ky’okuwulira okutya, okutya oba obukyayi eri oyo akubonyaabonya, osobola okutandika okuwulira ng’omuntu n’okumusaasira.

Ekisinga obukulu kiri nti ggwe oba omuntu wo ow’oku lusegere bw’oba ​​ofunye obulwadde bwa Stockholm Syndrome, kikulu okukitegeera nti enneewulira ennungi z’olina eri oyo akutulugunya si musango gwo. Y’engeri y’okutegeera engeri gy’owuliramu, engeri gy’ogumira ebyo ebyakutuukako, n’engeri gy’obigumiramu. Omusawo oba omubuulirizi wo asobola okukuyamba oba omwagalwa wo okuwona embeera eno.

N’ekisembayo, ebintu ebikulu by’olina okujjukira (Obubaka bw’okutwala awaka) .

Okay, kale kati tulina okutegeera okulungi ku Stockholm Syndrome. Wadde nga mulamwa muzibu, kikulu okugumanya. Wano waliwo ebintu ebikulu by’olina okujjukira:

• Obulwadde bwa Stockholm Syndrome butatera kubaawo, naye nga busoboka, mu by‟omwoyo ku buvune obw‟amaanyi oba okutulugunyizibwa nga mu kino oyo atulugunyizibwa afuna okusaasira oba okwegatta ku oyo amutulugunya.
• Kino si musango gwa muntu ayisiddwa , nkola ya kugumira mbeera ebirowoozo gye bikozesa okuwangaala, akakodyo k’okuwona nga tomanyi .
• Embeera eno tekoma ku kuwamba, naye era esobola okulabibwa mu kutulugunyizibwa okw’enjawulo n’ebintu ebikangabwa .
• Wadde nga mu butongole tebuteekebwa mu kibinja ky’obulwadde, bulaga obubonero obufaananako n’obuzibu bw’okunyigirizibwa oluvannyuma lw’okukosebwa (PTSD) , era obujjanjabi buno bufaanagana.
• Bw’ofuna obujjanjabi bw’eby’omwoyo era bwe kiba kyetaagisa n’eddagala, mazima ddala kisoboka okuwona embeera eno n’odda mu bulamu obwa bulijjo.
• Bw’oba ​​ggwe oba omuntu gw’omanyi alina embeera eno, oba ng’agifunye, kikulu nnyo okunoonya amagezi amatuufu ag’omusawo n’obuwagizi bw’omukugu mu by’obulamu bw’obwongo alina ebisaanyizo .

Towulirangako ng’oli wekka, ng’oswadde oba ng’olina omusango olw’ekintu ng’ekyo. Totya kusaba buyambi. Obulamu bwo obw’omutwe bwa muwendo. Olina eddembe okugikuuma.

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