Tērā pea ko koe te tangata e tiaki ana i tō whaea, i tō pāpā, i tō whānau rānei e mate ana i te ao, i te pō. He mea aroha, he kawenga nui hoki tēnei. Te hoatu i te rongoā ki tō whaea e takoto ana i te moenga i te wā tika, te whāngai i a ia, te horoi i a ia... Kei te whakaaro koe kei te warewarehia koe i waenganui i ēnei mea katoa? Kāore rānei koe e whakaaro me whai wā koe ki te whakangā, ki te mahi i tāu mahi, ki te whakangā noa rānei? I tēnei rā kei te kōrero tātou mō tētahi otinga tino whai hua mō tēnā. Ko te ingoa ko te 'Manaaki Whakatā'.
He aha te 'Manaaki Whakatā'?
He tino māmā noa iho. He ratonga wā poto te 'manaaki wā' e āwhina ana i tētahi kaitiaki matua pērā i a koe kia whiwhi wā okiokinga, wā okiokinga. Tērā pea he torutoru hāora, he torutoru rā, he torutoru wiki rānei tēnei wā okiokinga.
I tēnei wā okiokinga, ka riro i tētahi tohunga ngaio whakangungu ō mahi. Ko te tikanga pea tēnei ko te hoatu rongoā, te whakarite kai, te kōrero noa rānei. He tino whai hua tēnei ratonga mō ngā tāngata o ngā tau katoa, engari ko te hunga e tiaki ana i ngā pakeke, i ngā tamariki rānei e hiahia ana ki te hauora. Hei tauira, ki te mea kei te tiaki koe i tētahi pēnei, ka taea e koe te whakaaro ki tēnei ratonga:
- He tangata whai hauātanga hinengaro, hauātanga whanaketanga rānei.
- He tangata kei ngā wāhanga whakamutunga o tētahi mate kāore e taea te rongoā (he mate whakamutunga).
- He tangata whai mate mahara pēnei i te mate wareware.
- He tangata whai mate hinengaro.
- He tangata whai mate hauora mau tonu.
Ka taea e koe te whakarite mō tēnei 'manaaki okiokinga' i mua, i roto rānei i tētahi āhuatanga ohorere. Mā te whakarite i mua ka taea e koe te whakahaere i tō oranga pukumahi me te ārai i te ngenge o te kaitiaki. Whakaarohia me haere koe ki te mahi, me whai kawenga rānei koe. Kātahi ka taea e koe te whakamahi i tēnei ratonga mō ētahi haora i ia rā, i ia wiki rānei. Waihoki, ki te pā mai tētahi mea ki a koe i tētahi wā ohorere, pērā i te mate, ā, kāore e taea e koe te tiaki i tō hoa aroha, he tino whai hua tēnei ratonga manaaki okiokinga ohorere.
He aha te hiranga o tēnei wā okiokinga ki a koe?
He huarahi te 'manaaki wā' hei āwhina i a koe ki te whakataurite i ō kawenga kē atu, me te whakarato tonu i te manaaki e hiahiatia ana e tō hoa aroha. Engari, he wāhi anō hoki tēnei ki te hanga anō i tō kaha, ki te mahi i tētahi mea whakangā, ki te noho mokemoke rānei mō tētahi wā .
He maha ngā wā ka whakama ngā kaitiaki mō te okiokinga. Ka whakaaro rātou, "Me pēhea ia e ora ai me te kore ahau?" "Me pēhea taku ngahau me te kore ia?" Engari kua whakaatuhia e ngā rangahau ahakoa kāore he mahi kē atu māu, he okiokinga tēnei.He mea nui.
Whakaarohia, ahakoa he mīhini e oma tonu ana, me okioki mō te wā poto, ki te kore ka pakaru. Me koe anō hoki. Ki te mahi tonu koe me te kore okiokinga, ka ngenge koe i te tinana me te hinengaro. E kiia ana tēnei e mātou ko te 'Kaiwhakaora i te Hunga' .
Mā tēnei okiokinga ka taea e koe te tiaki i tō hoa aroha me te arotahi hou, te kaha hou, me te hihiri hou. Tērā pea ka ako koe i ngā pūkenga hou me ngā mea hou mai i te kaitiaki hou. Nō reira, mā te mōhio pai ki tēnei mea, me te whiriwhiri i te ratonga e pai ana ki tō hoa aroha, ka taea e koe te okioki mārie.
Kei hea ahau e whiwhi ai i ēnei ratonga tiaki?
I runga i ngā hiahia o tō hoa aroha, ka taea e koe te tiki i tēnei ratonga mai i ngā wāhi maha. Kāore e taea te mahi i ēnei mea katoa i te huarahi kotahi i tō tātou whenua, engari koinei ngā kōwhiringa e wātea ana.
| Tūnga | Whakaahuatanga |
|---|---|
| Tōu ake kāinga | Koinei te kōwhiringa māmā rawa atu mō te nuinga o te tangata. Ka tae mai te kaitiaki ki tō kāinga. Ka taea e tō whanaunga te noho humarie ki tōna taiao mōhio. |
| Te kāinga o te kaiwhakarato ratonga | Ka whakaratohia e ētahi tāngata tēnei momo manaaki i roto i ō rātou ake kāinga. Nā te mea he taiao kāinga tēnei, kāore te tūroro e rongo i te nui o te rerekētanga. |
| Pokapū Tiaki Tamariki | He wāhi kei reira e whakarato ana i te tiaki tamariki mō ngā tamariki, ngā pakeke rānei he hiahia motuhake. E wātea ana tēnei ratonga mō te 8 hāora ia rā i ngā rā wiki. |
| He whare tiaki kaumātua, he hōhipera rānei | Kei ētahi whare tiaki kaumātua me ngā hōhipera he wāhi tiaki mō te wā poto, mō te pō, mō ētahi rā rānei. Ka taea tēnei te whakarite i mua, te whakamahi rānei i roto i tētahi āhuatanga ohorere. |
| Ngā puni | He puni motuhake kei reira hei hoatu i te whai wāhitanga ki te hunga hauā ki te whakawhanake i ngā pūkenga, ki te noho pāpori, me te kimi hoa. |
Me pēhea te whiriwhiri i tētahi ratonga tiaki pai?
Koinei te mea tino nui. Me rangahau e koe ngā tohu me ngā whakangungu o te tangata e tiaki ana i tō hoa aroha.
Mena kei te whiwhi koe i tētahi ratonga mai i tētahi whare wānanga...
Mena kei te kawe mai koe i tētahi ki te kāinga mā tētahi tari, kei te whiriwhiri rānei koe i tētahi pokapū tiaki tamariki, pātai atu ki te kaiwhakahaere i ēnei e whai ake nei:
- Me pēhea te whiriwhiri me te whakangungu i ngā kaimahi?
- Kei te tirotirohia e rātou ō rātou papamuri?
- He aha ngā mahi ka taea e rātou te mahi, ā, he aha ngā mea kua whakangungua rātou ki te mahi?
- Ka aha koe mēnā ka puta he āhuatanga ohorere, he raruraru rānei?
Ki te whiriwhiri koe i tētahi pokapū, i tētahi atu wāhi rānei...
Kia mahara ki te toro atu ki te wāhi i te iti rawa i te kotahi wā. Ina toro atu koe, kia maumahara ki ēnei mea:
- Te Ma: Kia mārama ki te ma o te wāhi mai i tāu e kite ai, e hongi ai hoki.
- Te whanonga a ngā kaimahi: Mātakitaki me pēhea te taunekeneke me te whanonga a ngā kaimahi ki ētahi atu.
- Ngā Ratonga: Tirohia mēnā he wāhi hei mahi i ngā mahi maha, hei whakangā rānei.
Ki te kawe mai koe i tētahi ki te kāinga...
Whakahaerehia he uiuinga mā te waea i te tuatahi, kātahi ka tūtaki kanohi ki te kanohi. Pātaihia ēnei pātai:
- He aha ngā mahi kua whai wheako koe, ā, e hiahia ana koe ki te mahi?
- He aha ō whakangungu me ō tohu mātauranga? (Tonohia ngā tuhinga mō ēnei).
- He wheako tōu ki te tiaki i te hunga e pāngia ana e te mate hauora motuhake e pāngia ana e taku e aroha nei (hei tauira, te mate huka, te pararutiki)?
- He aha tāu e mahi ai i roto i tētahi āhuatanga ohorere?
Ko te mea nui: Whai muri i te uiuinga, me tono koe mō ngā tohutoro (ngā taipitopito o ngā mahi o mua) me te kōrero ki a rātou mō te tangata. Me tuhi mārama hoki ngā taipitopito o te ratonga (ngā hāora, te utu, ngā tumanakohanga) me te whakaae ki tēnā.
He aha ngā painga o te 'manaaki okiokinga'?
He maha ngā painga o tēnei ratonga māu, mā te kaitiaki, mā tō whanaunga hoki. Me titiro tātou ki ēnei.
| Ngā painga mōu hei kaitiaki | Ngā painga mō te tangata e whiwhi ana i te tiaki |
|---|---|
| Ka taea te ārai i te ngenge tinana me te ngenge hinengaro (te wera nui o te kaitiaki). | Ka tūtaki koe ki ētahi atu tāngata he rite tonu ō rātou wheako me ō rātou mate ki a koe. |
| Ka whai wā koe ki te pupuri i ngā whanaungatanga me ētahi atu mema o tō whānau me ō hoa. | Ka taea e koe te kimi hoa hou. |
| Ka taea e koe te whakatutuki i ētahi atu kawenga, pēnei i te mahi me ō whakamātautau hauora. | He whai wāhitanga mā rātou ki te whai wāhi atu ki ngā mahi e rite ana ki ō rātou pūkenga. |
| Ka whiwhi koe i te whai wāhi ki te whakangā, ki te haereere, me te mahi i tētahi mea kāore i a koe te wā ki te mahi. | Ka taea e koe te urutau ki ngā taiao hou, me te wikitoria i tō wehi ki aua taiao. |
| I a koe e okioki ana, e hoki hou mai ana me te hou, ka kaha ake ō pūkenga manaaki. | Ka whakawhiwhia rātou ki te tiaki motuhake mō ō rātou ake hiahia hauora. |
Me ako anō hoki tātou mō ngā utu mō tēnei.
I tō tātou whenua, he maha ngā wā me utu e koe te moni mō ēnei ratonga. Heoi anō, tera pea ētahi wāhi ka taea e koe te tiki tautoko.
- Ngā whakahaere hapori: Ka taea e koe te uiui mō tēnei mea mai i ngā whakahaere hapori, ngā temepara, me ngā whare karakia o tō rohe.
- Ngā Whakahaere Motuhake mō te Mate: Ka taea e ētahi whakahaere (hei tauira, te mate a Alzheimer) te tuku tautoko, te ārahi rānei mō ngā mate motuhake.
- Te Tari Ratonga Hapori:Tirohia te Tari Ratonga Hapori a te kāwanatanga mō ngā pārongo e pā ana ki te wātea o aua ratonga, te āwhina pūtea rānei.
Ko te mea pai ko te kōrero ki tō tākuta whānau, arā , ki tō tākuta . Tērā pea ka taea e ia te ārahi i a koe ki ngā wāhi e whakarato ana i aua ratonga, ki ngā huarahi rānei hei tiki āwhina.
Ina kua taunga koe ki te tiaki i tō hoa aroha, he uaua pea te tuku i tētahi atu hei tiaki i a rātou. Tērā pea ka whakaaro koe, "Kāore he tangata hei tiaki i a rātou pērā i ahau." Tērā pea kei wehi koe kei hē tetahi mea i a koe e ngaro ana. He tika katoa tēnei. Engari kia mahara, kāore he tangata i te kaha rawa atu. Kāore he tangata e taea te mahi i ngā mea katoa ko ia anake, ā, kāore he tangata e tumanako ana kia pērā koe.
I a koe e hararei ana, he mea nui kia mōhio koe kei te whiwhi tō hoa aroha i te manaaki e hiahiatia ana e rātou. Koia te mea nui kia rangahau koe i tētahi ratonga i mua i tō whiriwhiri i tētahi. Mā te nui ake o tō mōhio ki tēnei ratonga, ka nui ake tō whakamarie ki te whakaae ki te āwhina a tētahi atu, ā, ka pai hoki tō hararei.
Karere Tangohia ki te Kāinga
- He mahi nui te tiaki i tō hoa aroha. Ehara i te mea whaiwhai te tango wā i tēnei wā, engari he mea nui mōu me te tangata e tiakihia ana e koe.
- Mā te Manaaki Whakangā koe e ārai kei ngenge tinana, kei ngenge hinengaro hoki koe (te ngenge nui o te kaitiaki) ā, ka hoatu hoki he kaha ki a koe ki te whakarato i te tiaki pai ake.
- He maha ngā kōwhiringa, tae atu ki te tiaki kāinga, ngā pokapū tiaki tamariki, me te tiaki kāinga poto. Kōwhiria te mea e pai ana mō ngā hiahia o tō whānau.
- I mua i te whiriwhiri i tētahi ratonga, rangahauhia marietia te whakangungu, te wheako, me ngā papamuri o ngā kaiwhakarato ratonga kia pai ai te haumaru o tō whanaunga.
- Kōrero ki tō tākuta , ki tētahi kaimahi hapori rānei o te hōhipera, kia mōhio ai koe ki ngā rauemi me ngā ratonga e wātea ana i tō rohe.
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