Ese umwana wawe afite ibibazo by'iterambere ry'ubwenge? Reka tuvuge ku bumuga bwo mu mutwe.

Ese hari igihe wumva umwana wawe atinda kwiga no gusobanukirwa ibintu bimwe na bimwe kurusha abandi bana? Cyangwa akeneye ubufasha bwinshi mu mirimo ya buri munsi kurusha abandi? Rero, uyu munsi tugiye kuvuga ku bumuga bwo mu mutwe, indwara yitwa `(Ubumuga bwo mu mutwe)`. Ntugahite ugira ubwoba cyangwa ngo ugire impungenge igihe wumvise iri zina. Ikintu cy'ingenzi ni ukumenya neza ibi.

Ubu bumuga bwo mu mutwe ni iki?

Mu magambo make, ubumuga bwo mu mutwe ni imbogamizi mu bushobozi bw'umuntu bwo mu mutwe, harimo ubwenge, ubushobozi bwo kwiga, n'ubuhanga mu buzima bwa buri munsi . Ntabwo bugira ingaruka kuri bose kimwe. Hari abantu bashobora kugira ingaruka nke cyane , kandi babaho mu buryo bwihariye. Abandi bashobora kugira ingaruka zikomeye, kandi bashobora gukenera ubufasha n'inkunga mu buzima bwabo bwose.

Abantu benshi batekereza ko ubumuga bwo mu mutwe ari ukubura ubwenge bupimirwa n'ikizamini cy'ubwenge, `(ikizamini cy'ubwenge)` twumvise. Ariko ibyo si ukuri rwose. Yego, `(ikizamini cy'ubwenge)` ni kimwe mu bikoresho bikoreshwa mu kumenya ibi. Tekereza nawe, hari abantu bamwe, urwego rwabo rw'ubwenge rushobora kuba ruri hagati cyangwa hejuru y'ikigereranyo, ariko bashobora kuba bafite intege nke mu bundi bumenyi bukenewe mu buzima bwa buri munsi. Nanone, hari abantu bashobora kuba bafite ubushishozi buke, ariko ubundi bumenyi n'ubushobozi bwabo birakomeye bihagije, bityo bashobora kuba batujuje ibisabwa kugira ngo bahabwe ubumuga bwo mu mutwe. Cyangwa, bashobora kuba bafite ubumuga buke kurusha uko `(ikizamini cy'ubwenge)` kibyerekana.

Izina ryemewe abaganga bakoresha mu gusobanura iyi ndwara ni "Indwara y'Iterambere ry'Ubwenge." Iri ni ryo zina ryahawe mu gitabo cy'Isuzuma n'Ibarurishamibare ry'Indwara zo mu Mutwe z'Abanyamerika (DSM-5-TR). Nubwo impamvu nyayo y'iyi ndwara itazwi, ikunze guterwa n'impinduka mu mikurire y'ubwonko . Ni gake cyane, ishobora no kubaho nyuma y'igikomere cy'ubwonko, nk'indwara cyangwa impanuka, byabaye mbere y'imyaka 18.

Iyi ndwara ikunze kugaragara gute?

Ubumuga bwo mu mutwe ni indwara ikunze kugaragara ariko idakunze kugaragara, ikaba ifata abana bari hagati ya 1% na 3% ku isi yose. Ikunze kugaragara gato ku bagabo kurusha abagore.

Ni ibihe bimenyetso by'ubumuga bwo mu mutwe?

Ibimenyetso by'ubumuga bwo mu mutwe ahanini bifitanye isano n'ingorane mu matsinda atandukanye y'ubumenyingiro. Ibi birimo ubumenyi mu by'amasomo, ubumenyi mu mibanire n'abandi, n'ubumenyi bwo mu rugo. Reka turebere hamwe ibyo ari byo:

Ibiranga ubwenge

"Ubwenge" bivuga ubushobozi bwacu muri rusange bwo kumva no gukorana n'isi ituzengurutse. Birenze ubuhanga bw'ururimi n'imibare bupimirwa n'ikizamini cya "IQ". Ibi bikurikira ni bimwe mu biranga ubwenge:

• Kugira kwiga ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose gutinda cyangwa gutinda (byaba ibyo mu ishuri cyangwa ibyo mu buzima bwa buri munsi).
• Umuvuduko wo gusoma ugenda gahoro.
• Kugorwa no gutekereza ku mpamvu n'ingaruka.
• Kugorwa no gutekereza neza no gufata ibyemezo .
• Ingorane zo gukoresha ubuhanga bwo gukemura ibibazo no gutegura.
• Kurangara byoroshye kandi bikugora gukomeza kwibanda ku kintu kimwe.

Ibiranga imyitwarire ijyanye n'imihindagurikire y'ikirere

Imyitwarire ijyanye n'imimerere ni ubuhanga n'ubushobozi abantu biga kubaho bigenga kandi bagahaza ibyo bakeneye . Iyo ibyo ari bike, bishobora kugaragaza ibimenyetso nk'ibi:

• Kwitoza ubwiherero ni ukwiga buhoro buhoro uburyo bwo kwisukura (kwiyuhagira, kwambara, nibindi).
• Bifata igihe kugira ngo umuntu agire imikoranire myiza n'abandi.
• Kwitwara nta bwoba cyangwa ngo ukeke abantu bashya batazi (tuvuga "akaga gakomeye k'umuntu utazi").
• Gukenera ubufasha bw'ababyeyi cyangwa abandi barezi kugira ngo ukore imirimo y'ibanze ya buri munsi (nko kwiyuhagira no kujya mu bwiherero), ndetse no mu gihe cy'imyaka iteganijwe.
• Kugorwa no kwiga ibintu nk'imirimo yo mu rugo n'utundi dukorwa duto.
• Kugorwa no gusobanukirwa ibintu nko gucunga igihe no gucunga amafaranga.
• Ukeneye ubufasha mu gucunga gahunda zo kwa muganga no gufata imiti.
• Kugorwa no gusobanukirwa imipaka y'imibereho.
• Kugorwa no gusobanukirwa cyangwa gusobanukirwa bike ku mibanire n'abandi, harimo ubucuti n'imibanire y'urukundo.

Ni izihe mpamvu zitera ubumuga bwo mu mutwe?

Ubumuga bwo mu mutwe bushobora kugira impamvu nyinshi. Impuguke zizera ko akenshi, hari impamvu zirenze imwe. Izi mpamvu zishobora kugira ingaruka ku mwana mbere yuko avuka, avuka, cyangwa mu myaka mike ya mbere y'ubuzima bwe.

Ibintu bitera mbere yo kubyara:

• Inkomoko n'umurage: Indwara nyinshi zitera ubumuga bwo mu mutwe zishobora guterwa n'impinduka mu ngirabuzimafatizo. Zimwe muri izi mpinduka zishobora guhererekanywa kuva ku gisekuru kugeza ku kindi. Ingero zirimo indwara nka Down syndrome, Fragile X syndrome, na Prader-Willi syndrome.
• Indwara: Hari indwara zimwe na zimwe, nka toxoplasmose na rubella, zishobora kubangamira imikurire y'umwana uri mu nda no gutera indwara nka cerebral palsy, zishobora gutera ubumuga bwo mu mutwe.
• Teratogens: Ibi ni ibintu bishobora kugira ingaruka mbi ku mikurire y'umwana uri mu nda. Urugero, harimo inzoga, itabi, imiti imwe n'imwe, ndetse no guhura n'imirasire.
• Indwara: Hari indwara umubyeyi agira mu gihe atwite zishobora gutera impinduka mu mikurire y'umwana uri mu nda. Izi ndwara zishobora gutera ubumuga bwo mu mutwe nyuma. Urugero, indwara ziterwa n'imisemburo nk'ibibazo bya tiroyide (hypothyroidism).

Ibintu bigira ingaruka ku kubyara:

• Kubura umwuka wa ogisijeni (hypoxia).
• Kubyara igihe kitageze.
• Ubundi bwoko bw'ibyangiritse mu bwonko igihe cyo kuvuka.

Impamvu zigira ingaruka ku bana bato:

• Ibikomere cyangwa impanuka: Ibi bishobora kwangiza ubwonko, bigatera ubumuga bwo mu mutwe.
• Guhura n'ibintu by'uburozi: Ibinyabutabire bikomeye nka lisansi na mercure bishobora kwangiza ubwonko no guteza ubumuga bwo mu mutwe.
• Indwara: Ndetse n'indwara zisanzwe zikwirakwira mu mitsi, nka meningite cyangwa meningite, zishobora gutera ubumuga bwo mu mutwe.
• Ibibyimba byo mu bwonko cyangwa ibibyimba: Ibi birimo ibibyimba bya kanseri n'ibitari kanseri (`bitibi`).
• Indwara: Indwara zitandukanye zo mu mutwe, nko gucika intege n'indwara ya "Lennox-Gastaut syndrome", zishobora kwangiza ubwonko. Ibi bishobora gutera ubumuga bwo mu mutwe.

Ni izihe ndwara zindi zishobora kubaho ku ubumuga bwo mu mutwe?

Izindi ndwara cyangwa ibibazo by’ubuzima bwo mu mutwe bishobora no guterwa n’impinduka mu bwonko zitera cyangwa zigatera ubumuga bwo mu mutwe. Zimwe mu ndwara zishobora guterwa n’ubumuga bwo mu mutwe (ariko zishobora no kubaho ku muntu udafite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe) zirimo:

• Indwara yo kudakora neza/guhangayika cyane (ADHD).
• Indwara ya Autism.
• Indwara zo kugenzura impulse.
• Indwara zo mu mutwe, cyane cyane indwara zo guhangayika no kwiheba.
• Indwara zo kugenda.

Abantu bafite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe buterwa n'indwara runaka y'uturemangingo bashobora kuba bafite amahirwe menshi yo kurwara izindi ndwara zijyanye n'iyo ndwara. Muganga wawe ashobora kukubwira byinshi ku ndwara umwana wawe ashobora guhura na zo, n'icyo wakora kugira ngo wirinde ibibazo bikomeye.

Ni gute wamenya iyi ndwara?

Kumenya ubumuga bwo mu mutwe akenshi ni inzira ikorwa mu ntambwe nyinshi. Ibi biterwa nuko bisaba gusuzuma ubwenge bwawe ndetse n'ubushobozi bwawe bwo kwitwara neza . Ni ngombwa gusobanukirwa imbogamizi zawe ndetse n'imbaraga zawe . Umaze kumenya imbaraga zawe, ushobora guhindura uburyo bwo kuvura no gufata ingamba kugira ngo bigufashe kubaka izo mbaraga no gutsinda imbogamizi.

Hari ibizamini n'uburyo butandukanye bishobora gufasha muri ibi bipimo, bitewe n'imyaka. Ibipimo bimwe na bimwe bishobora gupima ubumuga bwo mu mutwe ndetse no mu bana bato cyane. Ariko, ibi bizamini akenshi ntibishobora kumenya neza uburemere bwabyo kugeza igihe bazaba bakuze bihagije kugira ngo bakore "ikizamini cya IQ" no gusuzuma neza imikorere yabyo yo kwihuza n'ibibazo.

Aho bishoboka, impuguke zigabanya uburemere bw'ubumuga bwo mu mutwe mu byiciro bine:

• Iciriritse:Impuzandengo y'imyaka yo mu mutwe y'abantu bafite iki cyiciro ni hagati y'imyaka 9 na 12. Ubumuga bwabo bushobora kubangamira imyigire cyangwa imirimo igoye. Ariko, akenshi bashobora gutsinda ibi bibazo n'imikorere, cyane cyane iyo bahawe ubufasha bwihariye n'inkunga mu bwana bwabo. Akenshi bakora akazi kandi bakabaho mu buryo bwihariye. Abagera kuri 85% by'abafite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe bari kuri uru rwego.
• Mu rugero: Abantu bafite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe buri hagati y’imyaka 6 na 9 barashobora kuvugana mu mvugo yoroshye. Bafite ubumenyi bwo mu mashuri abanza. Abantu benshi bashobora kwiga kubaho mu buryo bwihariye ku rugero runaka, ariko bakeneye ubufasha butandukanye mu nzira. Urugero, inkunga mu rugo rw’itsinda.
• Kuremereye: Abantu bafite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe bukabije bafite imyaka isanzwe iri hagati y'imyaka 3 na 6. Bakoresha amagambo amwe, interuro, cyangwa ibimenyetso mu kuvugana. Bakungukirwa no kwitabwaho no gushyigikirwa buri munsi mu bikorwa bya buri munsi n'imirimo yo mu buzima bwa buri munsi.
• Imbitse: Abantu bafite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe nk'ubu bafite imyaka iri munsi y'imyaka 3. Akenshi baganira nta magambo, bumva ibimenyetso bimwe na bimwe n'amarangamutima. Babona ubufasha bw'ubuvuzi amasaha 24/7 mu buzima bwabo bwose.

Ni ibihe bipimo bikorwa kugira ngo hamenyekane iyi ndwara?

Uretse ibizamini n'isuzumabumenyi ku myitwarire isanzwe, ibizamini byinshi byo muri laboratwari, gusuzuma indwara, no gufata amashusho bishobora gufasha mu gusuzuma indwara. Ibizamini bishobora gukorwa biterwa n'ibimenyetso byawe. Ibizamini bishobora gufasha muganga wawe kumenya impamvu nyamukuru, bishobora gufasha gutegura uburyo bwo kuvura.

Ibizamini bimwe na bimwe bishobora gukorwa:

• Ibizamini byo muri laboratwari, nk'ibipimo by'amaraso n'inkari, bishobora gufasha kumenya impamvu z'ubumuga bwo mu mutwe cyangwa izindi ndwara zifitanye isano.
• Ubujyanama ku magenetike. Kumenya indwara ziterwa n'amagenetike zitera cyangwa zigatera ubumuga bwo mu mutwe bishobora gufasha gukumira cyangwa kugabanya ingorane zijyanye n'izi ndwara.
• Ibizamini byo gupima. Ibi ni ingirakamaro cyane cyane mu gusuzuma indwara zirimo impinduka mu miterere y'ubwonko, nk'indwara zo mu bwonko.

Ibindi bizamini bishobora gukorwa bitewe n'indwara ufite cyangwa icyo muganga wawe akeka. Muganga wawe ashobora kukubwira byinshi ku bipimo ushobora gukora n'ibyo agusaba.

Ubumuga bwo mu mutwe buvurwa bute?

Nta muti cyangwa uburyo bwo kuvura ubumuga bwo mu mutwe buhari. Ariko,Iyo abantu bafite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe bavuwe neza kandi bagafashwa neza, bashobora kugira ubuzima bwiza. Intego nyamukuru y'ubuvuzi ni ukubafasha kugira imyitwarire ijyanye n'imimerere n'ubumenyi mu buzima.

Hari uburyo bwinshi bwo kuvura:

• Inkunga n'ibikorwa by'uburezi: Ibi bifasha guhindura gahunda n'imiterere y'uburezi. Urugero ni Gahunda y'Uburezi Yihariye (IEP). Ibi bigena gahunda yihariye y'uburezi n'ibyo umuntu yiteze.
• Inkunga n'ingamba zo gufasha mu myitwarire: Ubu buryo bwo gufasha abana bushobora gufasha mu kwiga imyitwarire ijyanye no guhangana n'ibibazo n'ubuhanga bujyanye na byo.
• Amahugurwa y'imyuga: Ibi bishobora gufasha abantu bafite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe kwiga ubumenyi bujyanye n'akazi.
• Uburezi bw'umuryango: Ibi bifasha imiryango n'abakunzi b'abafite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe kumenya byinshi kuri iyo ndwara, n'uburyo bwo gufasha ababo.
• Imiti itandukanye ishobora gukoreshwa mu gufasha indwara zifitanye isano cyangwa zibaho hamwe n’ubumuga bwo mu mutwe. Nubwo iyi miti idavura ubumuga bwo mu mutwe ubwabwo, ishobora gufasha mu bimenyetso bimwe na bimwe biyitera.
• Inkunga y'abaturage: Umuntu ku giti cye cyangwa umuryango we bashobora kuvugana n'inzego za leta cyangwa imiryango ishyigikira. Kubikora bishobora kubafasha kubona serivisi z'ingirakamaro. Ibi birimo inkunga mu rugo cyangwa ku kazi, hamwe n'amahitamo yo gukora imirimo yo ku manywa.

Ni iki nakwitega mu gihe umwana wanjye afite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe?

Abantu bafite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe bworoheje, cyangwa abafite indwara zibutera, bashobora kumenya itandukaniro riri hagati yabo n'abandi. Ariko, ikintu cy'ingenzi kiranga ubumuga bwo mu mutwe ni uko badashobora gusobanukirwa neza no gutunganya ibiri kubabaho cyangwa ku isi ibakikije.

Kubwibyo, abantu benshi bafite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe ntibasobanukiwe neza uburyo iyo ndwara ibagiraho ingaruka. Ahubwo ababyeyi cyangwa abandi barezi nibo bakunze kubona ibimenyetso by'ubumuga bwo mu mutwe ku mwana wabo cyangwa ku mwana w'uwo bakundaga.

Wibuke ko umwana wawe afite intego, ibyo akunda, n'imbaraga ze. Ni ngombwa ko umufasha kumenya ibyo bintu ukoresheje ubufasha akeneye kugira ngo abeho neza.

Abantu bafite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe bashobora kutamenya igihe abandi bagerageza kubashuka cyangwa kubafatiraho inyungu. Gahunda zo gufasha zishobora kwigisha abafite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe kwirinda, ariko inkunga n'ubuyobozi bw'ababitaho ni ingenzi kugira ngo bagire imibereho myiza.

Ni iki giteganyijwe kuri iki kibazo?

Uko ubumuga bwo mu mutwe buhagaze biterwa n'ibintu byinshi, cyane cyane uburemere bwabwo, impamvu yabwo, n'ibindi bibazo bihari .Umuganga w'umwana wawe ni we soko nziza y'amakuru yerekeye uko umwana wawe abona ibintu n'icyo wakora kugira ngo umufashe mu guhangana n'ikibazo cye.

Abantu benshi bafite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe bazakenera ubufasha mu buzima bwabo bwose. Ariko, hari gahunda n'imiryango bishobora gufasha muri urwo rugendo. Abantu benshi bafite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe bashobora kubaho mu buryo butandukanye. Bitewe n'ibyo bakeneye, ibyo bifuza, n'ibyo bifuza, abantu benshi bafite akazi, ubuzima bwo mu muryango, n'ibindi bikorwa bijyanye n'ubuzima bwa buri munsi. Muri rusange, iyo umuntu afite ubufasha bukwiye, ashobora kugira ubuzima bwiza.

Ese ubumuga bwo mu mutwe bushobora kwirindwa?

Akenshi, abahanga ntibashobora kugaragaza impamvu imwe itera ubumuga bwo mu mutwe. Si byiza ko ababyeyi bishinja iyo habayeho ikintu nk'iki. Ariko, ushobora kugabanya ibyago byo kurwara umwana wawe mu gihe utwite, cyangwa mu gihe umwana wawe akiri muto:

• Kurikiza inama za muganga wawe ku bijyanye no gufata imiti mu gihe utwite, kandi ubone inkingo zose zatanzwe (mu gihe utwite no mu buzima bwose bw'umwana).
• Kugabanya inzoga, imiti idasaba muganga, n'itabi, ndetse n'uburozi bukomoka ku bidukikije nka lisansi.
• Niba ufite amateka y'umuryango wawe y'indwara zishobora gutera ubumuga bwo mu mutwe, vugana na muganga wawe ku birebana n'ubujyanama ku ngirabuzimafatizo mbere yo gutwita.

Nakwitaho nte umwana wanjye mu gihe afite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe?

Abantu bafite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe bashobora kudashobora gufata ibyemezo bifatika ku buzima bwabo cyangwa ibindi byemezo bikomeye mu buzima bwabo. Bashobora gukenera ubufasha bw'ababyeyi, abakunzi, cyangwa abandi babitaho mu buzima bwabo bwose.

Ni ryari umwana wanjye agomba kujya kwa muganga?

Ibimenyetso bya mbere by'ubumuga bwo mu mutwe rimwe na rimwe bishobora kugaragara mu gihe umwana asura abana. Igice gisanzwe cy'ubu buryo ni isuzuma ry' "imyaka n'ibyiciro". Ibi bigereranya imikurire n'iterambere ry'umwana wawe n'ibyo yitezwe ku myaka ye. Wibuke ko hari izindi mpamvu zishobora gutuma umwana atinda kugera ku ntambwe z'iterambere mu bwana bwe. Urugero, indwara y'umubiri, indwara yo mu mutwe, cyangwa ubumuga bwihariye bwo kwiga.

Niba ufite impungenge ku mikurire y'umwana wawe cyangwa niba ashobora kurwara ubumuga bwo mu mutwe, vugana na muganga w'abana w'umwana wawe. Ashobora kugufasha gusobanukirwa neza ikibazo no kuguha ubuyobozi ku byo ushobora cyangwa ukwiye gukora kugira ngo ufashe umwana wawe.

Ni ibihe bibazo ngomba kubaza muganga wanjye?

Hari ibibazo byinshi ushobora kubaza muganga w'umwana wawe bishobora kugufasha gusobanukirwa neza no gushyigikira ibyo umwana wawe akeneye. Hari ibibazo bimwe na bimwe ushobora kubaza birimo:

• Indwara yo kwiga y'umwana wanjye ingana iki?
• Ni izihe mbaraga afite kandi ni izihe mbogamizi afite?
• Ni izihe gahunda cyangwa imiryango y'ubufasha iboneka mu gace ntuyemo cyangwa kuri interineti ishobora kumfasha cyangwa kufasha umwana wanjye?
• Ni izihe gahunda z'ishuri zihari zo gufasha umwana wanjye mu bijyanye n'uburezi?
• Ese umwana wanjye azabasha kubaho yigenga, kandi niba ari uko bimeze, ni izihe serivisi azakenera kugira ngo abigereho?
• Ese umwana wanjye afite izindi ndwara, kandi niba ari zo, ashobora kuvurwa?

"Ubumuga bwo mu mutwe" n' "Ubumuga bwo mu mutwe" - Itandukaniro ni irihe?

Amagambo "ubumuga bwo mu mutwe" na "ubumuga bwo mu mutwe" yombi asobanura igitekerezo kimwe. Ariko, ijambo "ubumuga bwo mu mutwe" ubu rirakwiriye kubera impamvu nyinshi:

• Ubunyangamugayo: Ijambo "gutinda" n'andi magambo afitanye isano akomoka ku ijambo ry'igifaransa risobanura "gukora buhoro." Mu mateka, abahanga bakoresheje ijambo "ubutinda bwo mu mutwe" kugira ngo basobanure kwiga buhoro cyangwa imikorere y'ubwonko. Ariko, ubumuga bwo mu mutwe ni ijambo rigoye cyane, rikubiyemo ubumuga mu bushobozi no mu myitwarire. Kubwibyo, ijambo "ubumuga bwo mu mutwe" ni ryo rikwiye kurushaho.
• Kwishyira hamwe: Uburyo butandukanye bw'ijambo "retarded" ubu bufatwa nk'ubusuzuguritse. Gukoresha aya magambo nabi byatumye ivangura n'ihohoterwa byiyongera. Kubera iyo mpamvu, imiryango n'impuguke z'umwuga ubu bakoresha ijambo "ubumuga bwo mu mutwe" gusa.
• Kwemerwa n'amategeko: Mu 2010, guverinoma ya Amerika yashyizeho `itegeko rya Rosa`. Itegeko ryakuyeho amagambo "abafite ibibazo byo mu mutwe" na "abafite ibibazo byo mu mutwe" mu mikorere ya leta, mu mategeko no muri politiki. Amagambo "abafite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe" na "umuntu ufite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe" yabaye amagambo yemewe kandi akwiye mu buryo bwemewe n'amategeko.

Ese ADHD ni ubumuga bwo mu mutwe?

Oya, indwara yo kudakora neza mu mutwe (ADHD) n'ubumuga bwo mu mutwe ni indwara ebyiri zitandukanye. Nubwo byombi biri mu cyiciro kimwe cy'ubumuga bwo mu mikurire, ntabwo ari ikintu kimwe. Ariko, abantu benshi bashobora kugira indwara zombi icyarimwe.

Ubumuga bwo mu mutwe ni indwara igira ingaruka ku bice byinshi by'ubuzima bw'umuntu, ariko si ukubura burundu. Gahunda z'uburezi n'ubufasha mu myitwarire zibanda ku kumenya imbaraga no kuzikoresha neza.

Niba ufite umwana ufite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe, ushobora kwibaza niba ari wowe nyirabayazana wabwo. Ariko, ubumuga bwo mu mutwe ni ikibazo kigoye. Hari ibintu byinshi bishobora kubutera cyangwa bikabutera, bityo akenshi ntibishoboka kuvuga impamvu nyayo yabwo (bivuze ko utagomba kwishinja icyaha niba umwana wawe abufite). Icy'ingenzi ni uko hari gahunda nyinshi n'imiryango ishobora gufasha. Muri ubwo buryo, umuntu ufite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe afite amahirwe angana n'ay'undi muntu wese yo kubaho ubuzima bwuzuye, bwishimye kandi bushimishije.

Incamake (Ubutumwa bwo kujyana mu rugo)

Noneho rero, dore ibintu bimwe na bimwe ugomba kwibuka mu byo twavuze:

• Ubumuga bwo mu mutwe ni indwara igira ingaruka ku bwenge, imyigire, n'ubuhanga bwa buri munsi . Ibi si bimwe kuri buri wese.
• Iki si ikintu gishobora gupimwa gusa hakoreshejwe "IQ test. " Imyitwarire yo kwihuza n'ibintu na yo ni ingenzi cyane.
• Hari impamvu nyinshi zishobora kubaho - imiterere y'uturemangingo, ibibazo mu gihe cyo gutwita, ibibazo mu gihe cyo kuvuka, cyangwa impanuka cyangwa indwara mu gihe cy'ubwana. Akenshi biragoye kumenya impamvu nyayo, bityo ababyeyi ntibagomba kwishinja.
• Nubwo nta muti uhari, ubufasha bukwiye, uburezi, no kuvura bishobora kuzamura imibereho myiza. Ni ngombwa kumenya no guteza imbere imbaraga z'umwana.
• Niba ufite gushidikanya cyangwa ibibazo ku mikurire y'umwana wawe cyangwa ubushobozi bwe, hita ugana muganga w'abana. Uko umenya ikibazo kare, niko ubona ubufasha bwinshi.
• Ntabwo uri wenyine. Hari ibikoresho, gahunda, n'imiryango yo gufasha abana n'imiryango nk'iyi.

Wibuke ko buri mwana ari umwihariko, kandi buri mwana akeneye urukundo, kwitabwaho no gusobanukirwa. Ubumuga bwo mu mutwe bushobora kuba ikibazo, ariko iyo ushyigikiwe neza, ndetse n'abo bana bashobora kubaho ubuzima bwiza kandi bufite intego.

Ubumuga bwo mu mutwe, ubumuga bwo mu mikurire, ingorane mu myigire, iterambere ry'umwana, ubuzima bwo mu mutwe, imyitwarire ijyanye n'imimerere, uburezi bwihariye