Mazuva ano, zvave zvakajairika kuti mhuri zhinji dzive nevabereki vese vari kushanda. Saka, kuwana mumwe munhu wekutarisira mwana mutsva kana nzvimbo yakachengeteka yekugara idambudziko guru. Kupfuura kutenga matoyi nembatya zvemwana, kuwana sevhisi yepamusoro yekuchengetedza mwana kuti ave neutano hwakanaka uye kuchengetedzeka ndicho chinhu chinonyanya kukosha. Saka ngatitaurei nezvazvo nhasi.
Tanga nekukurumidza kuti uwane nzvimbo yakanaka.
Kuwana nzvimbo yakanaka yekurera vana hakusi nyore. Dzimwe nzvimbo dzakanaka dzine runyorwa rwakakura rwekumirira kunyoresa vana. Saka, zvakakosha kutanga kutsvaga nzvimbo yakanaka nekukurumidza paunenge uchitarisira mwana wako, kunyanya mumwedzi mitatu yekupedzisira yekuzvitakura. Chinhu chakanakisa chekuita kubvunza shamwari dzako, hama, nevavakidzani nezveizvi. Vachakuudza nezvenzvimbo dzakanaka dzavanoziva. Yeuka,
kuchengetedzeka nekugara zvakanaka kwemwana zvinotanga. Ungave nesarudzo dzakasiyana siyana dzekusarudza kubva:
- Nzvimbo dzeKuchengeta Vana Dzemazuva Dzepamutemo: Idzi inzvimbo dzakanyoreswa nehurumende uye dzinotungamirirwa nemitemo nemirau.
- Kuchengetwa Kwevana Mumhuri: Vamwe vanhu vanosarudza kuchengeta vana vakawanda mudzimba dzavo. Izvi zvinogonawo kuva sarudzo yakanaka.
- Muchengeti wemwana: Unogonawo kuwana mumwe munhu anouya kumba kwako kuzochengeta mwana.
- Hama neshamwari: Munyika medu, vanasekuru navanasekuru vanowanzo chengeta vana vadiki. Ichi ndicho chimwe chezvikomborero zvikuru zvinogona kuwanikwa nemwana.
Ndiani anogona kupa rubatsiro rwakanakisisa?
Nyanzvi dzakawanda dzezvekukura kwevana dzinoti zvakanaka
kuti vabereki vatarisire mwana wavo pachavo , kana zvichibvira, mumavhiki nemwedzi mishoma yekutanga yehupenyu hwemwana.
Vacheche vadiki vanoda hukama hwakanaka, rudo, uye kugara vachitaurirana nevanovachengeta. Zvakanaka kuwana izvozvo kubva kuvabereki vavo.
Mavhiki matanhatu ekutanga ehupenyu hwemwana anonyanya kukosha. Mwana anenge achangotanga uye ari kujaira mamiriro epamba. Uyewo, kana mwana mudiki ari munzvimbo yakazara vanhu, mikana yekubatwa nezvirwere zvinotapukira zvakaita
sedzihwa yakakura. Zviri nani kudzivirira mwana kubva panjodzi iyoyo nekukurumidza. Vamwe vabereki vanogadzirisa purogiramu yavo yebasa kuitira kuti vabereki vese vachinjane kutarisira mwana. Semuenzaniso, vabereki vese vanoshanda zvishoma uye vanopedza nguva yavo yasara nemwana. Kunyange zvazvo izvi zvingasakwanisika kune wese munhu, zvakakosha kufunga nezvazvo.
Pakusarudza nzvimbo yakanaka, funga nezvezvinhu izvi:
Hazvina mhosva kuti unosarudza nzvimbo yerudzii, unofanira kunyatsoongorora zvinhu izvi usati wasarudza nzvimbo iyoyo. Usangoshanyira kamwe chete wobva wasarudza.
Enda ikoko kanenge kaviri kana katatu. | Chokwadi chinokosha | Zvaunofanira kutarisa |
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| Vachengeti | Vanhu vanoshanda ikoko vanobata vana nerudo nemutsa here? Vanotaura nevana, vanoimba nziyo, uye vanotamba navo here? Vanopa mwana mumwe nemumwe hanya yakaenzana here? |
| Zvakatipoteredza uye zvinokurudzira | Pane nzvimbo yakakwana nematoyi ekuti vana vatambe here? Pane nharembozha dzakanaka dzakarembera pamusoro pemubhedha here? Pane nzvimbo inonakidza ine ruzha nemavara zvinobatsira uropi hwemwana kukura here? |
| Utsanana uye hutsanana | Nzvimbo yacho yakachena here? Tarisa uone kana hutsanana hwacho hwakachengetedzwa munzvimbo dzakadai sekicheni nenzvimbo dzekuchinjira manapukeni. |
| Mutungamiriri nevashandi | Sanganai motaura nemukuru webasa nevamwe vashandi. Onai kana muchigona kuvimba navo uye kubvumirana navo. |
| Mafungiro evamwe vabereki | Taura nevamwe vabereki vakatotumira vana vavo ikoko kuti uone kana vachifara nenzvimbo iyi. |
Kana mumwe munhu akauya kumba... (Kana ari Nanny)
Kana uri kusarudza muchengeti wemwana kuti auye kumba kwako kuzochengeta mwana wako,
unofanira kumutsvaga nokungwarira. Kumbira mazita evanomubatsira kubva kunzvimbo dzaakamboshanda. Akavimbika uye ane mutoro here? Achaita sei nemwana wako kekutanga? Chenjerera zvese izvi.
Nhamba yevana nevanovachengeta inofanira kunge yakaita sei?
Kuti mwana awane rubatsiro rwaanoda, panofanira kuva nemuganhu wehuwandu hwevana hunogona kutarisirwa nemushandi mumwe chete. Heano mareshiyoni anokurudzirwa nemasangano epasi rose akadai seAmerican Academy of Pediatrics.
| Boka rezera | Mutengo unokurudzirwa (pamunhu wese anochengeta varwere) |
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| Vacheche vari pasi pemwedzi makumi maviri nemana | 1 yevana vatatu |
| Mwedzi 25 - 30 | 1 yevana vana |
| Mwedzi 31 - 35 | Mwana mumwe pavana vashanu |
| makore matatu | Mwana mumwe pavana vanomwe |
| Makore 4 - 5 | Mwana mumwe chete pavana vasere |
Pamusoro penhamba idzi, bvunza nezvekuchinjana
kwevashandi . Nzvimbo inowanzo chinja vashandi haina kunaka kumwana. Nekuti kana mwana ajaira mumwe munhu, anobva aenda. Zvakakosha kuti mwana aone chiso chakagadzikana uye chaanoziva.
Mari, hunhu uye kukura kwepfungwa
Mari yenzvimbo dzekurera vana inogona kusiyana kubva munzvimbo imwe kuenda kune imwe. Asi edza kusarudza
sevhisi yakanakira mari yako. Kuhaya mumwe munhu kuti auye kumba kwako kuzokuchengeta kazhinji inzira inodhura. Asi kana uchikwanisa kuibhadhara, isarudzo yakanaka kwemakore maviri kusvika matatu ekutanga ehupenyu hwemwana wako. Asi kana mwana wako ava nemakore angangoita 3-4,
kushamwaridzana nevamwe kunova kwakakosha pakukura kwake. Zvakakosha panguva iyoyo kudzidza nekutamba pamwe chete muboka.
Nzvimbo yaunosarudza yakanyoreswa nemasangano ehurumende akakodzera here ?Tsvagawo. Sezvo nzvimbo dzakadaro dzichigara dzichiedzwa, pane mwero wakati. Chekupedzisira, yeuka, gore rekutanga rehupenyu hwemwana
inguva iyo muviri wake nepfungwa dzake zviri kukura nekukurumidza. Munguva iyi, kuverengera mwana wako nyaya, kutaura naye, uye kuimba nziyo zvakakosha zvikuru pakukura kwake kwepfungwa. Kana mwana akakurira munzvimbo yakanyarara isina anotaura, anorasikirwa nenguva yakakosha mukukura kwake.
Mharidzo Yekuenda Nayo Kumba
- Kana mwana wako achida nzvimbo yekuchengetera vana, tanga kuitsvaga panguva yaunenge uchitarisira mwana.
- Kana zvichibvira, zvakanaka kupa vabereki kuchengeta mwana kwemwedzi mishoma yekutanga yehupenyu hwake.
- Usati wasarudza nzvimbo, shanyira nzvimbo yacho kakawanda woongorora nharaunda yayo, kuchena kwayo, uye kuti vashandi vanoita sei nevana.
- Rangarirai chiyero chemwana nemushandi pamwe nekugadzikana kwemushandi.
- Sarudza nzvimbo inokukurudzira (kutaura, kuimba, kutamba) inobatsira kuti pfungwa dzemwana wako dzikure.
- Kana muine zvinokunetsai kana kusava nechokwadi nazvo, taurai nachiremba wemhuri yenyu nezvazvo.
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