Uri kutarisira mapatya here? Kana kuti uri kufunga nezvazvo? Mapatya chikomborero chakapetwa kaviri chinouya kumba kwako panguva imwe chete. Asi tinonyatsotaura nezvematambudziko nematambudziko anouya nemufaro iwoyo here? Nhasi tichataura nezvenyaya yaamai vanonzi Maureen vakasangana nechiitiko chakadaro. Kuburikidza nenyaya yavo, tichaedza kunzwisisa kuti hupenyu hwakaita sei nemapatya .
Nyaya yaMaureen: Mapatya mushure meIVF
Maureen Downey nemurume wake Bo Emerson vatova nevana vaviri. Vaifunga nezvemwana wechitatu, asi Maureen akarasikirwa nepamuviri kakawanda. Saka vakasarudza kushandisa nzira itsva yekurapa kusabereka, IVF (In-Vitro Fertilization), kuti vawane mwana.
Maureen aive nemakore makumi mana nemaviri panguva iyoyo. Vanachiremba vakaisa mazai maviri muchibereko chake. Vaisada mapatya, asi vakafunga kuti zvaizova zvakanaka kudai vaida. "Kune munhu asina kumbobvira ava nevana, zvinonzwisisika kuti vaida mapatya nekuti ingangodaro iriyo mukana wavo chete," anodaro Maureen. "Asi taingoda mwana wechitatu chete. Saka ndaisafunga kuti ndaida mapatya. Asi ndaitarisira kuti mazai ese maviri aizova akanaka."
Kuva nepamuviri pemapatya kwakasiyana here nezvaitarisirwa?
Maureen anoti pamuviri pake pakanga pafamba zvakanaka, pasina matambudziko makuru. Izvi zvinoreva kuti aisafanira kugara pamubhedha. Zvisinei, aifanira kusiya basa rake kare kupfuura pamuviri pake pechipiri. Aifanirawo kutarisana nezvinhu zvitsva zvakawanda zvaakanga asati ambosangana nazvo.
"Ndakarwadziwa nechirungurira chandakanga ndisati ndamboona. Kekutanga zvakaitika, ndaifunga kuti ndaiva nechirwere chemwoyo. Chaiva chakaipa zvikuru. Ndaivawo nemarwadzo madiki mumuviri wangu wese. Kutaura chokwadi, mwedzi nehafu wepamuviri wangu waive wainetsa uye wainetsa zvikuru. Handina kunzwa seizvi pandakanga ndava nevana vangu vaviri vekutanga."
Kazhinji, kana uine mapatya, chibereko chinokura, zvichiwedzera kudzvanya nhengo dzemudumbu. Izvi zvinogona kukonzera kurwadziwa muchipfuva, kuoma kufema, uye kurwadziwa kwemuviri. Kana uine zviratidzo izvi, zvakanaka kutaura nachiremba wako nezvazvo.
Chii chakaitika mushure mekunge vacheche vaberekwa?
Pamasvondo makumi matatu nemapfumbamwe, ayo ava pedyo nenguva yakakwana yekuzvitakura, Maureen akange aronga kuvhiyiwa kwemwana.Rebecca naJoey vakazvarwa panguva yekuvhiyiwa kwemwana panguva yekuzvitakura. Kunyangwe zvese zvaiita sezviri kufamba zvakanaka, Maureen akasangana nematambudziko akawanda kupfuura zvaaitarisira mushure mekusununguka.
Chibereko chake chakanga chisina kugadzikana zvakanaka, saka akatanga kubuda ropa rakawanda. Dambudziko iri rinonzi Postpartum Hemorrhage .
"Zvinhu mushure mekuzvarwa kwevana zvaive zvakaoma kupfuura zvandaitarisira. Ndinofunga kuti ndakarasikirwa neropa rinenge chikamu chimwe muzvitatu mumuviri wangu. Ndakadzokera kumba ndisina simba rekufamba, uye ndine ropa shoma rakawanda."
Rudzi urwu rwekubuda ropa rakawanda runowanzo shandiswa pakurapa. MuSri Lanka, muzviitiko zvakadaro, murwere anobvumirwa kupinda muEmergency Treatment Unit (ETU) nekukasika opihwa kurapwa kwakakodzera.
Maureen anoti zvakamutorera gore rose kuti awane simba uye hutano hwakanaka, izvo zvinokupa pfungwa yekuti anofanira kunge aive asina simba zvakadii.
Gore rekutanga: nguva yakaoma kupfuura yaitarisirwa
Maureen anoti haasi mutsva pakurera vana. Sezvo akarera vana vaviri kare, akanga agadzirira zvese asati aunza mapatya kumba. Kamuri remwana, mbatya, nezvimwe zvinhu zvaidiwa zvose zvakanga zvakarongeka.
"Husiku hwekutanga hwatakadzoka kumba kubva kuchipatara, takafunga kuti taiva nezvose zvataida. Mbatya dzakachena dzakanga dzakarongwa zvakanaka mumadhirowa. Asi husiku ihwohwo hwekutanga, vacheche vakanga vakanyorova uye vakarutsa kakawanda zvekuti takatofanira kubvarura matag embatya itsva dzaiva mumabhokisi ndokuapfeka. Takanga tisina kugadzirira izvozvo zvachose."
Zvakashamisa Maureen zvikuru. Anoti, "Ndaifanira kuwedzera basa rangu zvakanyanya kana tichitarisa kuti basa iri rakanga rakaoma sei."
" Gore rekutanga iroro rakaita seroto riri mundangariro dzangu. Kune rumwe rutivi, pakanga pasina munhu aindibatsira. Kune rumwe rutivi, kwaiva kushamisika kukuru kumuviri wangu, wakanga warasikirwa neropa rakawanda uye usina simba. Pamusoro pezvo, zvainetesa zvikuru panguva iyoyo, tichiyamwisa tose."
| Mukana wekuwana ruzivo | Zvakaitika kuna Maureen (nemapatya) |
|---|---|
| Nguva yekuzvitakura | Marwadzo echipfuva asina kumboitika uye marwadzo emuviri. Zvinonetesa kupfuura pamuviri mumwe chete. |
| Mushure mekubereka mwana | Kurasikirwa nechikamu chimwe muzvitatu cheropa remuviri nekuda kwekubuda ropa rakawanda (kubuda ropa rakawanda) uye kupererwa neropa kwakanyanya. |
| Nguva yakatora kuti muviri upore | Zvakatora gore rose kuti awanezve simba. |
| Ruzivo rwegore rekutanga | Ibasa rakapetwa kaviri pane zvaunofunga. Inguva inonetesa chose isina hope, isina wekubatsira, uye isina wekutaura naye. |
Hupenyu hwemapatya hwakafanana ne'circus' here?
Maureen anoti anoda nzvimbo ine ruzha uye isina kugadzikana.
"Kana uchifunga kuti mhuri yako inobatsirwa zvakanyanya nemwana mumwe chete, mapatya anogona kuva shanduko huru kwauri. Vakaita se 'circus' yavo diki yekufamba ."
"Vane ruzha rukuru. Zvese zvakaoma. Kunyanya kana vacheche vachiri vadiki, zvinonetsa kuenda kuchitoro, kuisa vaviri muzvigaro zvemota, kuti tigare tese mumota. Ini nemurume wangu tese tajaira ruzha. Asi kana shamwari ine mwana mumwe chete yauya kumba kwangu, ndakavaona vachisvetuka. Ndinofunga kuti imhaka yekuti tine vana vana kumba. Asi ruzha rwakawanda runobva kumapatya."
Nyaya yaMaureen inotiratidza kuti mapatya chikomborero uye dambudziko rinoedza mwoyo murefu, simba, uye rutsigiro rwevabereki kune mumwe nemumwe zvizere.
Mharidzo Yekuenda Nayo Kumba
- Kana uri kutarisira mapatya, pamuviri pacho panogona kuva nemabasa akawanda kupfuura dai waive wakamirira mwana mumwe chete. Gadzirira mupfungwa nemumuviri kuti uite izvozvo.
- Pane njodzi yematambudziko akadai sekubuda ropa rakawanda mushure mekusununguka. Saka, zvakakosha kutevedzera mirairo yechiremba nemazvo uye kuzivisa chiremba nezvezviratidzo zvisingawanzoitiki.
- Gore rekutanga rekurera mapatya rinogona kuoma kupfuura zvaunofunga. Kana zvichibvira, zvichabatsira zvikuru kuwana rutsigiro kubva kumhuri kana mumwe munhu anokubatsira.
- Zvakakosha kuti iwe nemumwe wako mutsigirane, muve nemoyo murefu, uye munzwisisane panguva ino. Izvi zvakafanana nemutambo wechikwata.
- Chiitiko chimwe nechimwe chakasiyana. Zvakaitika kuna Maureen zvakasiyana. Zvakaitika kwauri zvinogona kunge zvakasiyana. Asi zvakakosha kuziva matambudziko iwayo pachine nguva.
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