Dɛn nti na ɛsɛ sɛ yɛhohoro yɛn nsa? (Nsa Hohoro) Su a ɛho hia ma asetra a ahoɔden wom!

"Kɔhohoro wo nsa!" Mpɛn ahe na woate saa asɛm yi nnɛ? Ebia woate afi wo maame anaa wo papa hɔ mpɛn pii fi anɔpa kosi anadwo, ɛnte saa? Enti, dɛn nti na mpanyimfo yi, titiriw yɛn ɛnanom ne nnuruyɛfo, ka nsa hohoro ho asɛm pii saa? Dɛn ne ahintasɛm kɛse a obiara reka ho asɛm wɔ samina ketewaa bi a wode bɛhyɛ wo nsa kɛkɛ mu na woayɛ fĩ mu? Momma yɛnka ho asɛm pɛpɛɛpɛ, tiawa, nnɛ.

Dɛn nti na nsa hohoro ho hia saa?

Sɛ yɛbɛka no tiawa a, wo nsa hohoro ne ɔkwan a eye sen biara na ɛyɛ mmerɛw a wobɛfa so abɔ wo ho ban afi mmoawa a wɔtrɛw nyarewa ho. Susuw nneɛma dodow a wode wo nsa ka fi anɔpa kosi anadwo no ho. W’agode, nhoma, telefon, apon ano nhama, sika nkrataa, bɔs nkongua, tiafi apon... Saa mmeae yi nyinaa betumi ayɛ mmoawa nketenkete ɔpepem pii fie, ɛwom mpo sɛ yentumi nhu de.

Dɛn ne mmoawa yi? Eyinom yɛ abɔde nketenkete a yentumi mfa yɛn ani nhu te sɛ mmoawa ne mmoawa . Eyinom bi betumi ama yɛyare. Susuw sɛnea ɛyɛ mmerɛw sɛ ɔyare mmoawa bi a ɛwɔ wo nsam betumi akɔ w’anom, wo hwene, anaa w’ani so no ho hwɛ. Yɛtaa de yɛn nsa didi. Afei hokwan kɛse wɔ hɔ sɛ mmoawa a ɛwɔ wo nsa so no betumi akɔ wo nipadua mu tẽẽ.

"Yɛn nsa te sɛ kar nketewa a wɔde fa nnipa. Wɔde mmoawa fi baabi kɔ foforo, fi onipa biako kɔ foforo."

Ɛnyɛ nea mfaso wɔ so sɛ wobɛhyɛ rɔba nsateaa da mũ nyinaa. Nanso, wubetumi atew hokwan a ɛwɔ hɔ sɛ saa mmoawa yi bɛma woayare anaasɛ ɛbɛtrɛw akɔ afoforo mu no so denam wo nsa a wobɛhohoro daa no so. Ɛnyɛ wo nko na eyi bɛbɔ ho ban, na mmom w’abusuafo, wo nnamfo, ne wo mfɛfo sukuufo nso. Ɛho hia titiriw sɛ wɔbɔ mmofra nkumaa, wɔn a wɔn mfe akɔ anim, anaa wɔn a wɔwɔ ayaresa tebea afoforo (te sɛ asikreyare ) ho ban fi saa mmoawa yi ho.

Ɛtɔ da bi a yebetumi asusuw sɛ, "Me nsa ho ntew wɔ ɔkwan a wotumi hu so, enti enhia sɛ mehohoro." Nanso ɛno yɛ adwene a ɛnteɛ. Esiane sɛ yɛn ani ntumi nhu mmoawa nti, sɛ yɛn nsa te sɛ nea ɛho tew mpo a, ebetumi akɔ so akura mmoawa. Ɛno nti na ɛho hia sɛ wotaa hohoro wo nsa no.

Bere bɛn ankasa na ɛsɛ sɛ yɛhohoro yɛn nsa?

Okay, seesei yɛnim sɛdeɛ ɛho hia sɛ yɛhohoro yɛn nsa ne deɛ enti a ɛsɛ sɛ yɛyɛ. Nanso bere bɛn na ɛsɛ sɛ yɛhohoro yɛn nsa ankasa? Saa mmere no bi ni:

• Sɛ wo nsa ho fĩ a: Eyi nyɛ biribi a ɛsɛ sɛ wobu no adewa. Sɛ dɔte, paint, anaa ɔkwan foforo biara so ayɛ wo nsa ho fĩ a, akyinnye biara nni ho sɛ ɛsɛ sɛ wohohoro.
• Ansa na yebedi anaa yɛayɛ aduan: Ɛho hia paa sɛ yɛn nsa ho tew bere a yɛresiesie aduan, atwitwa nhabannuru ne nnuaba, na yɛde aduan ama afoforo no. Anyɛ saa a, mmoawa a ɛwɔ yɛn nsam no betumi akɔ aduan no mu na ama obiara a odi no yare. Saa ara na ɛsɛ sɛ yɛhohoro yɛn nsa ansa na yɛadi.
• Bere a woakɔ aguaree awie no: Eyi yɛ biribi a akyinnye biara nni ho sɛ ɛsɛ sɛ woyɛ.Mmoawa pii wɔ tiafi no mu, enti ɛsɛ sɛ wohohoro wo nsa yiye bere a woafi hɔ aba awie no na woayi saa mmoawa no afi hɔ.
• Bere a woabɔ wo hwene, wofefe, anaa woafefe akyi: Sɛ yɛfefe anaa yɛfefe a, yɛde yɛn nsa bɛn yɛn ano ne yɛn hwene, ɛnte saa? Afei, mmoawa ne nnompe a ɛtɔ gu yɛn nsam no kɔ yɛn nsa so. Sɛ saa nsa no ka nneɛma afoforo a, mmoawa no trɛw. Ɛno nti na ɛho hia sɛ wohohoro wo nsa wɔ mmere te sɛ eyinom mpo mu no.
• Bere a woadi afieboa ho dwuma awie no: Mma wo werɛ mmfi sɛ wobɛhohoro wo nsa bere a wode ɔdɔ adi wo kraman, ɔkraman, anaa aboa foforo ho dwuma awie no. Mmoa tumi kura mmoawa a ebetumi ama yɛayare.
• Bere a yɛadi agoru wɔ abɔnten na yɛaba fie akyi: Sɛ yedi agoru wɔ gyaade anaa mmɔnten so a, yɛn nsa nya dɔte, anhwea, ne nneɛma afoforo pii wɔ so. Mmoawa betumi akura mu. Enti, ɛyɛ su pa sɛ wobɛhohoro wo nsa bere a woadu fie bere a woadi agoru awie no ara pɛ.
• Ansa na wobɛkɔ obi a ɔyare ne bere a woakɔ akyi: Sɛ worekɔsra w’adamfo anaa wo busuani bi a ɔyare a, hohoro wo nsa ansa na woakɔ. Afei nso, hohoro wo nsa bere a woasan aba no. Eyi betumi aboa ma woasiw mmoawa antrɛw ankɔ ɔyarefo no so na ɔyarefo no nso antrɛw mmoawa no mu.
• Sɛ woka sika wie a: Sika yɛ biribi a ɛsesa nsa mpɛn pii, enti nyansa wom sɛ wobɛhohoro wo nsa bere a wode wo nsa aka sika awie no.
• Sɛ yɛde ɔmanfo kar di dwuma wie a: Sɛ yɛde bɔs ne keteke tu kwan a, yɛde yɛn nsa ka nneɛma pii a yennim. Saa nneɛma a ɛwɔ soro yi nso tumi kura mmoawa.
• Bere a woafi adi na woaba fie akyi: Mpɛn pii no, fa yɛ wo su sɛ wobɛhohoro wo nsa sɛ ade a edi kan a wobɛyɛ bere a wufi baabi asan aba fie no.

Saa nsɛm a wɔahyehyɛ yi betumi akɔ so akɔ so. Nea ɛho hia sen biara ne sɛ wode bɛyɛ wo su sɛ wobɛhohoro wo nsa bere biara a wususuw sɛ ebia wo nsa ho agu fĩ anaasɛ efĩ wom.

Wobɛyɛ dɛn hohoro wo nsa yiye?

Okay, seesei yɛnim berɛ a ɛsɛ sɛ yɛhohoro yɛn nsa, na yɛnim hia a ɛhia sɛ yɛhohoro yɛn nsa. Nanso so wunim sɛ nnipa pii nnim sɛnea wɔhohoro wɔn nsa yiye? Sɛ wohwie nsu bi gu wo nsa so, samina kakra a wode gu wo nsa so, na wowosow wo nsa kɛkɛ a, ɛremma mmoawa mfi hɔ. Ɔkwan pɔtee bi wɔ hɔ a wobɛfa so hohoro wo nsa yiye. Ma yɛnhwɛ sɛnea ɛbɛyɛ.

Nneɛma bi a ɛsɛ sɛ wokae bere foforo a wobɛhohoro wo nsa ni:

1. Nea edi kan no, fa nsu pa hyehyɛ wo nsa. Ɛho nhia sɛ ɛyɛ nsu a ɛyɛ hyew. Nsu a ɛyɛ hyew anaa nsuonwini mpo bɛyɛ yiye. Sɛ wode nsu a ɛyɛ hyew paa hohoro wo nsa a, ebetumi ama wo nsa ayow.

2. Afei, nya samina a ɛdɔɔso. Wubetumi de samina biara a wopɛ adi dwuma. Samina bi wɔ kɔla, ne nsusuwii, ne hua fɛfɛ, ɛnte saa? Nanso nea ɛho hia sen biara ne sɛ wobɛpaw samina bi a wubetumi de apetepete so kosi sɛ ɛbɛbɔ yiye. Ɛnyɛ hwee sɛ wode samina a ekum mmoawa bedi dwuma, nanso nokwarem no, samina a wɔde di dwuma daa mpo beyi mmoawa a ɛdɔɔso afi hɔ.

3. Seesei ne ɔfã a ɛho hia sen biara. Fa wo nsa a wɔde samina ayɛ no petepete so yiye.

• Fa wo nsateaa petepete so.
• Fa wo nsa biako akyi petepete wo nsa biako akyi. Afei yɛ saa ara wɔ ɔfã foforo no.
• Fa wo nsateaa petepete so yiye.
• Fa wo nsateaa ano petepete wo nsa foforo no nsateaa so wɔ ɔkwan a ɛyɛ kurukuruwa so. Yɛ eyi wɔ afã abien no nyinaa.
• Fa wo nsa foforo kura nsateaa no mu na fa petepete so wɔ ɔkwan a ɛyɛ kurukuruwa so. Fa nsateaa foforo no nso yɛ saa ara.
• Mma wo werɛ mmfi sɛ wobɛpetepete wo nsateaa nso ho.
• Hohoro ho yiye, titiriw wɔ wo nnadewa ase. Nnadewa mpa no yɛ beae a mmoawa ani gye ho sɛ wɔde wɔn ho sie.

4. Ɛsɛ sɛ wode wo nsa petepete so saa anyɛ yiye koraa no simma 20. Sikɔne 20 tenten yɛ ahe? Wubetumi ato dwom "Happy Birthday" mprenu. Anaasɛ to dwom anaa anwensɛm ketewaa bi a ɛwɔ w’adwenem simma 20. Eyi ne bere a ehia na samina no ayɛ adwuma na ayi mmoawa afi hɔ.

5. Afei, hohoro wo nsa wɔ nsuo a ɛreworo so ase kɔsi sɛ samina no nyinaa bɛsa. Sɛ samina ka ho a, wo nsa betumi ayow na ayɛ wo yaw.

6. Nea etwa to no, fa mpopaho anaa krataa a ɛho tew ma wo nsa nwosow yiye. Nsa a ɛyɛ nsu betumi asan agu wo nsa ho fĩ ntɛm ara. Sɛ ɛbɛyɛ yiye a, fa mpopaho koro no ara dum tap no wɔ baabi a nnipa pii wɔ.

Susuw nyarewa pii a wubetumi akwati denam anammɔn ahorow yi a wubedi akyi yiye so no ho hwɛ! Ɛyɛ mmerɛw yiye bere a wode eyi ayɛ wo su pɛnkoro no.

Nneɛma a ɛho hia paa a ɛsɛ sɛ yɛkae

Enti, wubetumi ahu sɛnea nsa hohoro yɛ mmerɛw nanso tumi wom, ɛnte saa? Ɛte sɛ ɔbran kɛse bi kokoam akode. Ade ketewaa bi mpo betumi ama nsakrae kɛse aba.

Sɛ yɛbɛka no tiawa a, nsa hohoro ne ɔkwan a ɛyɛ mmerɛw, ne bo nyɛ den, na etu mpɔn sen biara a yɛbɛfa so abɔ yɛn ho ban afi nyarewa ho. Sɛ wɔyɛ no yiye a, saa su a ɛnyɛ den yi betumi aboa kɛse ma wo, w’abusua, wo nnamfo, ne ɔmanfo nyinaa anya apɔwmuden.

Enti, efi nnɛ no, momma yɛn nyinaa mfi ase nsusuw eyi ho kakra na yɛmfa nyɛ yɛn su sɛ yɛbɛhohoro yɛn nsa yiye na yɛahohoro yɛn ho daa, ɛnte saa? Ɛnyɛ mmoa kɛse a wubetumi ayɛ ama wo ho nko na eyi yɛ, na mmom ɛyɛ ade a ɛsom bo a wubetumi ayɛ sɛ ɔman ba pa a odwen afoforo ho nso. W’akwahosan wɔ wo nsam!

Nsa hohoro, mmoawa, akwahosan, nyarewa ano a wosiw, ahotew, samina, ɔkwan a ɛteɛ