Gihan (age 28) came into my clinic that day, extremely tired. He was a software engineer. He pressed his forehead into his hands and looked at me with red eyes.
"Dr. Priya, I feel like a machine. I work 12 to 14 hours a day, get a salary, pay my housing loan, car lease and credit card bills. The salary is gone by the time it reaches the bank. I feel very stressed and I feel trapped in this system. I have no time for myself or my family. Is this what life is like, Doctor? Is there no way to get out of this stress?" Gihan asked in deep frustration.
I listened to Gihan calmly and said, "Gihan, not only you, but most of the young generation in the world today is stuck in this rat race or traditional lifestyle. The chronic stress that this causes has a serious impact on our mental health as well as our physical health (heart disease, high blood pressure). So today, let's talk about how to mentally free ourselves from this system and take control of our lives."
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The traditional "Slowlane" method and its pressure
There is a simple formula that our society has taught us:
- Go to school well → get a degree → get a job → get into debt or get married → buy a house and a car → work until 60 and retire.
Author MJ DeMarco points out in his book "The Millionaire Fastlane" that this traditional method is what we call the "Slowlane." The main problem here is trading time for money.
In this system, our success in life depends on external factors that we cannot control, such as the economy, inflation, and employers. This leads to intense stress and anxiety at a young age, eventually leading to physical and mental burnout .
Achieving mental freedom through the "Fastlane" method
The "Fastlane" is not simply about getting rich quick, but about stopping trading your time for money and creating a system/asset that generates income even when you're not there. This gives you the time and freedom you need to enjoy life.
Here is how we need to adjust our mindset when switching to this method (Mindset Shift):
1. Taking Control: In the Slowlane, your boss determines your future, while in the Fastlane, you control your business and income.
2. Scalability: Developing a way to reach thousands of people simultaneously using technology and the internet, without limiting your service to a number of hours.
3. Problem Solving: Instead of thinking, "How do I make money?", think, "How do I provide a valuable solution to a problem people face?" When value is created, money flows automatically.
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Ignoring long-term work stress can lead to the following serious mental and physical illnesses:
- Chronic Insomnia: Inability to sleep at night or frequent awakenings due to work problems and debt.
- Physical symptoms: Frequent headaches, palpitations, muscle tension, and acid reflux.
- Clinical Depression: Feeling hopeless about life, feeling anxious frequently, and not getting pleasure from any external activities.
- Panic Attacks: Sudden difficulty breathing, chest pain, and fear of death (caused by severe stress).
Do's and Don'ts to Manage Stress
| ✔️ Things to do | ❌ Don'ts |
|---|---|
| Maintain clear boundaries between work and personal life (e.g., avoid using work email at home). | Don't become addicted to smoking, drinking alcohol, or excessive caffeine (coffee/tea) use to relieve stress at work. |
| Engage in physical exercise or meditation for at least 30 minutes daily (to reduce stress hormones). | Don't get stuck taking out a lease or credit card when you're under financial stress. |
| Identify your talents and plan to build a side hustle while working. | When stress is at its peak, don't hesitate to seek professional counseling rather than suffering alone. |
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