Fofo ƒe Lɔlɔ̃: Fofowo ƒe Mo Yeyewo le Xexe si Le Tɔtrɔm Me (Egbegbe Vifofonyenye) .

Tsã la, ne míebu “fofo” ŋu la, míebua ame aɖe si kpɔa ƒomea ƒe nuhiahiãwo gbɔ, si ƒe nya me sẽ vie, eye wòte ɖa tso ɖeviawo gbɔ, alo? Gake egbea la, nɔnɔmetata sia trɔ ŋutɔ. Alesi vifofo ɖea eƒe agbanɔamedziwo kple lɔlɔ̃ fianae la trɔ. Egbea, míele nu ƒom tso vifofoa ƒe nɔnɔme sia si le tɔtrɔm ŋu. Ðewohĩ ŋutinya sia ate ŋu anye wò ŋutinya hã.

Ƒome ƒe nɔnɔmewo kple vifofo srɔ̃manɔsitɔwo ƒe tɔtrɔ

Na míade ŋugble le ŋutsu aɖe si ŋkɔe nye Kamal ŋu. Ƒe ʋɛ aɖewoe nye esi va yi la, Kamal kple srɔ̃a nɔ nu ƒom tso srɔ̃gbegbe ŋu esime dzidɔ wu srɔ̃a le vome. Le zã ɖeka me la, Kamal tsi kuxi gãtɔ kekeake si le eƒe agbe me la me. Emae nye vianyɔnuvi si xɔ ƒe 12 la hehe le eɖokui si.

Vifofo srɔ̃manɔsitɔwo abe Kamal ene sɔ gbɔ ɖe hadomegbenɔnɔ me egbea wu tsã. Vifofo ƒomevi vovovo geɖewo hã li egbea, siwo dometɔ aɖewoe nye vifofo siwo gbe wo nɔewo, vifofo tsitsiwo, kple vifofo siwo xɔ wo nyi. Esia fia be "fofo" ƒe nukpɔsusua keke ta ŋutɔ fifia.

Kamal de dzesii be vifofo srɔ̃manɔsitɔ ate ŋu ahe vi dzidzedzetɔe abe ƒome si dzila eve le ene. Gake enye mɔzɔzɔ si me kuxiwo yɔ fũ. Abe alesi Kamal gblɔe ene la, "Vifofo srɔ̃manɔsitɔ nyenye sesẽ wu vidada srɔ̃manɔsitɔ nyenye. Elabena hadomegbenɔnɔ bua vidada srɔ̃manɔsitɔ be enye nusi sɔ. Gake ne èlé ŋku ɖe vifofo srɔ̃manɔsitɔ ŋu la, ame geɖe susuna be, 'Ele be ɖevia nanɔ vidadaa gbɔ.'"

Abe vifofo srɔ̃manɔsitɔ geɖe ene la, Kamal tsɔ eƒe agbanɔamedzia nu vevii. Eɖe asi le eƒe dɔ le nugblẽfexehawo me eye wòdze dɔwɔwɔ gɔme tso aƒeme. Edi be yeakpe asi ɖe ye vinyɔnua ƒe sukudɔwo ŋu, aɖa nu, eye yeakpɔ vovo ɖe eŋu. Egblɔ be nu ɣaɣla si na yekpɔ dzidzedzee nye dzeɖoɖo faa kple ye vi. Kamal gblɔ be: “Gake vinyenyɔnua nya ɣesiaɣi be nuka kee míeɖaƒo nu tsoe o, nye dzilae nye nyametsotso mamlɛtɔ.

Vifofo ƒe lɔlɔ̃ nu sẽna abe vidada ƒe lɔlɔ̃ ene.

Le míaƒe dekɔnuwo nu la, míesusuna zi geɖe be vidadae ate ŋu akpɔ ɖevi dzi ahalɔ̃e. Gake ɖe wòle alea nyateƒea? Numekukuwo ɖee fia be lɔlɔ̃ deto si vifofo sena le eɖokui me na viawo la mesɔ gbɔ o ne wotsɔe sɔ kple lɔlɔ̃ si vidada sena le eɖokui me.

Vifofo trewo ate ŋu ado go kuxi aɖe vie ne wole vinyɔnuvi hem le wo ɖokui si. Vevietɔ ne vinyɔnuvi ɖo sɔhɛmenɔɣi la, ate ŋu ahiã nyɔnu si nye kpɔɖeŋuɖola si wòaƒo nu kplii ahagblɔ eƒe kuxiwo na. Susuŋutinunyalawo ɖo aɖaŋu be, “Le ɣeyiɣi mawo me la, ele vevie be woatsɔ nyɔnu siwo ate ŋu anye kpɔɖeŋu nyui ɖola le ɖevia ƒe agbe me ade eme.” Esia ate ŋu anye nyruiyɔvi, mamayɔvi, alo ƒomea xɔlɔ̃ vevi aɖe.

Aɖaŋuɖoɖo aɖewo siwo ana nànye vifofo nyuitɔ

Eɖanye vifofo ɖekakpui, vifofo tsitsi, alo dzilaɖekɛe nènye o, gɔmeɖose vevi siwo dzi nàte ŋu azɔ ɖo be nànye vifofo nyui la sɔ na amesiame.

1. Tsɔ vodadawo ke ɖokuiwò.

Susuŋutinunyalawo gblɔna be, “Mègadze agbagba be yeanye dzila deblibo o. Elabena dzila deblibo aɖeke mele xexe sia me o .” Nye vifofo nyuitɔ kekeake si nàte ŋu anye. Ne èwɔ vodada eye nèkpɔe be yesrɔ̃a nu tso vodada mawo me la, viwòwo va kpɔnɛ be enyo be yeawɔ vodada eye yeanye ame madeblibo o. Emae nye nunana xɔasitɔ kekeake si nàte ŋu ana ɖevi.

2. Nyakpakpa si nye ‘Ɣeyiɣi Nyuitɔ’.

“Míesusu be ne ègbɔ tso ŋkeke sesẽ aɖe me le dɔme eye nèkplɔ viwòwo yi ɖaɖu pizza kple sinima le Dzoɖa zã me la, ema nye ‘ɣeyiɣi nyuitɔ.’” Gake le nyateƒe me la, numekuku siwo wowɔ le ɖeviwo ŋu ɖee fia be ɖeviwo dina be yeakpɔ vifofo si me nuteɖeamedzi boo aɖeke mele o eye nuteɖeamedzi mebɔ o . Wodina be yewoavo tso dɔmekuxiwo me eye “woanɔ ha dem” kple yewo fofo ko, si fia be yewoazã ɣeyiɣi le ŋutifafa me.

3. Nu geɖe li woana wu ga.

Vifofo geɖe susuna be ga home si wokpɔna na ƒomeae wotsɔ dzidzea yewo vifofonyenye. Ema le vevie. Gake viwòwo kpɔa mɔ na nu geɖe tso gbɔwò. Bia nya siawo ɖokuiwò:

• "Ðe medi be matsɔ nye dzidzenuwo ana vinyea?"
• "Ðe medi be mafia vinye alesi wòazã kɔmpiuta le mɔ si melɔ̃ nua?"
• "Ðe medi be vinye nasrɔ̃ alesi wòalɔ̃ nu tso gbɔnyea?"

Nu siawo ƒe asixɔxɔ de ŋgɔ wu ga zi gbɔ zi akpe ɖeka.