Ðe viwòa le nu wɔm madzemadzeea? Ðe wòle seawo dzi dama? Mina míaƒo nu tso Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Tɔtɔ ŋu!

Ðe viwòa meɖoa to nya aɖe si nègblɔna oa? Ðe wòwɔa avu ɣesiaɣia? Ðe wòwɔa anyra le ɖevi bubuwo ŋu, ɖewohĩ lãwo gɔ̃ hã? Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, àte ŋu asusui be, ‘Nukae gblẽ le ɖevi sia ŋu? Nukatae wòle nu wɔm gbegblẽ alea gbegbe ɖo?’ Le nyateƒe me la, ne nuwɔna sia ƒomevi yi edzi ɣleti geɖe la, menye nu gbegblẽ wɔwɔ dzro aɖe koe wònye o . Ateŋu anye susumedɔléle aɖe si woyɔna be ``Agbenɔnɔ ƒe Tɔtɔ'' ƒe dzesi. Mina míaƒo nu tso esia ŋu bɔbɔe, le mɔ si gɔme nàte ŋu ase nu.

Nukae nye esia (Agbenyuinɔnɔ ƒe Tɔtɔ)?

Kpuie ko la, ``Agbenɔnɔ ƒe Tɔtɔ`` nye susu ƒe lãmesẽ ƒe nɔnɔme si woateŋu akpɔ le ɖeviwo kple sɔhɛwo (siwo xɔ tso ƒe 10 va ɖo ƒe 19) me. Le esia me la, nu vevitɔe nye be ɖevia wɔa nu adãtɔe ɣesiaɣi evɔ mebua ame bubuwo ŋu o eye wòwɔa nu le mɔ si gblẽa nu le ame bubuwo ƒe nyonyo kple gomenɔamesiwo ŋu nu . Azɔ hã, zi geɖe la, ɖevi siawo daa sewo dzi le aƒeme kple suku, eye wometsɔa ɖeke le hadomenuwɔnawo me kura o.

Bu eŋu abe nuwɔna ƒe kuxiwo ƒe ƒuƒoƒo aɖe ene. Ðewohĩ èse dɔléle aɖe si woyɔna be Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) ŋu nya kpɔ. Le nɔnɔme sia me la, ɖevi meɖoa to ame tsitsiwo o, ʋlia nya enuenu, eye wòɖonɛ koŋ doa dziku na ame bubuwo. Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, ODD sia ate ŋu asẽ ɖe edzi eye wòazu Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Tɔtɔ.

Nu vevi bubu enye be ɖevi siwo ŋu ``Agbenyuinɔnɔ ƒe kuxi`` le la ate ŋu akpɔ susu ƒe lãmesẽ ƒe nɔnɔme bubuwo hã. Le kpɔɖeŋu me:

• Teteɖeanyi .
• Susu ƒe Dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie/Dɔwɔwɔ fũu akpa ƒe Dɔléle (ADHD) .
• Nusɔsrɔ̃ ƒe kuxiwo .

Vovototo kae le Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Dɔléle kple Amenyenye ƒe Dɔlélewo dome?

Fifia ɖewohĩ ànɔ ɖokuiwò biam be, ɖe esia nye amenyenye ƒe kuxia? Amenyenye ƒe kuxi nye kuxi sesẽ si nɔa ame ƒe tamesusuwo, nuwɔna, seselelãme, kple ƒomedodo kple ame bubuwo dome ɣeyiɣi didi. Zi geɖe la, amenyenye ƒe kuxi siawo dzea egɔme tso ƒewuiwo me, esime amenyenye gakpɔtɔ le tsitsim. Eyata zi geɖe la, wokpɔa amenyenye ƒe kuxi aɖe le amesiwo xɔ wu ƒe 18 ŋu.

Gake nu ɖeka aɖe li si to vovo na esia. Ema nye nɔnɔme si woyɔna be `(Antisocial Personality Disorder - ASPD)`. Ame siwo ŋu dɔléle sia le dometɔ siwo ade 80% ate ŋu adze dzesiawo ɖeɖefia gɔme tso esime woxɔ ƒe 11. Le nyateƒe me la, vovototo boo aɖeke mele `(Agbenɔnɔ ƒe Tɔtɔ)` si wokpɔ le ɖevime kple `(ASPD)` si wokpɔ le tsitsime dome o. Ke hã, `(Conduct Disorder)` nye dɔléle ŋuti dzesi si wonaa ɖeviwo. Ne ame tsitsi aɖe ɖe dzesi siwo do ƒome kple nɔnɔme siawo evea siaa fia la, susumedɔléle ŋuti aɖaŋuɖola aɖe ana dzesi be `(ASPD)` ɖe `(Agbenɔnɔ ƒe Tɔtɔ) teƒe.

Amekae xɔa Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Tɔtɔ?

Nɔnɔme sia gblẽa nu le ɖeviwo kple sɔhɛ tsitsiwo ŋu. Ate ŋu adze egɔme ɣeaɖewoɣi tso ƒe 10 xɔxɔ me ke, si woyɔna be "edze egɔme kaba." Gake sɔhɛ tsitsiwo (siwo xɔ tso ƒe 10 va ɖo ƒe 19) mee wòbɔ ɖo wu.

Le akɔntabubu nu la, nɔnɔmea bɔ ɖe ŋutsuviwo me wu nyɔnuviwo. Zi geɖe la, dzesiawo dzea egɔme tso ƒe 10-12 le ŋutsuviwo me va ɖo ƒe 14-16 le nyɔnuviwo me.

Aleke gbegbee Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Dɔmawɔmawɔ bɔe?

Le akɔntabubu siwo le United States nu la, nɔnɔme sia dzea ɖeviwo kple sɔhɛ tsitsiwo ƒe 2% va ɖo 10% dzi. Wokpɔa nɔnɔme mawo tɔgbe le míaƒe dukɔa hã me, gake esesẽna be woagblɔ akɔntabubu siwo sɔ pɛpɛpɛ.

Nukawoe nye Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Tɔtɔ ƒe dzesiwo?

Esia menye nusi dzɔna le zã ɖeka me o. Nuwɔna siwo do ƒome kple ``Agbenɔnɔ ƒe Tɔtɔ`` la va dona vivivi le ɖevi me. Ðevi siawo nye dzimesesẽtɔwo, esesẽna be woaɖu wo dzi, eye edze abe wometsɔa ɖeke le ame bubuwo ƒe seselelãmewo me o ene.

Agbenɔnɔ ƒe kuxi ƒomevi vevi ene li :

1. Amewo kple lãwo ŋu adãwɔwɔ kple/alo ame bubuwo ƒe gomenɔamesi veviwo dzi dada.

2. Nuwo tsɔtsrɔ̃.

3. Ametafatafa, alakpadada kple/alo fififi.

4. Sewo kple ɖoɖowo dzi dada vevie.

Azɔ mina míalé ŋku ɖe nuwɔna siawo dometɔ ɖesiaɖe ŋu tsitotsito vie.

1. Ŋutasẽnuwɔwɔ ɖe ame bubuwo kple lãwo ŋu

Nusiwo gbɔnae nye nɔnɔme siwo le eme:

• Anyrawɔwɔ ɖe ɖevi bubuwo ŋu.
• Wodze ame dzi ŋutɔŋutɔ (ɖewohĩ wozãa aʋawɔnu ɖaɖɛwo gɔ̃ hã ).
• Wonɔa avu wɔm kple nya henɔa ŋɔdzi dom na amewo ɣesiaɣi.
• Wozia wo dzi be woawɔ gbɔdɔdɔnuwɔnawo.
• Wobua fɔ ame bubuwo ɖe woƒe vodadawo ta.
• Wowɔa nuvevi lãwo hewɔa funyafunya wo.

Bu eŋu kpɔ, ɖevi aɖe si ŋkɔe nye ‘Kasun’ le suku. Eƒoa ɖevi bubuwo le klass ɣesiaɣi, fia woƒe nuɖuɖu, eye wòɖua fewu le wo ŋu. Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, edaa kpe ɖe avuwo ŋu le ablɔdzi. Ne eyi edzi le nu siawo tɔgbe wɔm la, ke enye nusi ŋu wòle be wòatsi dzi ɖo.

2. Nuwo tsɔtsrɔ̃

Esia lɔ:

• Eɖoe koŋ dzotɔtɔ amewo .
• Ame bubuwo ƒe nuwo dome gbegblẽ alo wo tsɔtsrɔ̃. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, suku ƒe kplɔ̃wo kple zikpuiwo gbãgbã, alo nuŋɔŋlɔ ɖe gliwo ŋu.

3. Ametafatafa, alakpadada kple fififi

Nɔnɔme siawoe nye:

• Wodaa alakpa ɣesiaɣi be yewoakpɔ viɖe alo be yewoaƒo asa na agbanɔamedzi.
• Wofi fi le ame bubuwo alo fiasewo me.
• Wogena ɖe aƒewo kple dɔwɔƒewo le adzame be yewoafi adzɔnuwo.

4. Sewo kple ɖoɖowo dzi dada vevie

Nusiwo va le esia te:

• Sewo dzi dada le susu aɖeke manɔmee.
• Sukudede me yiyi nye nuwɔna si nye be womade suku o.
• Sisi le aƒeme.
• Wodaa se siwo wo dzilawo ɖo dzi ɣesiaɣi.

Dzesi bubu siwo bɔ ɖe Conduct Disorder me

Tsɔ kpe ɖe nu vevi siawo ŋu la, àte ŋu akpɔ nu bubuwo:

• Ahanono kple/alo atike muamewo zazã fũ akpa .
• Gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe nuwɔna siwo me afɔku le enuenu.
• Edoa dziku kabakaba eye wòtsia dzimaɖi.
• Womedzea agbagba aɖeke be yewoaɣla yewoƒe adãwɔwɔ o.
• Womeɖea vevesese aɖeke fiana le woƒe nu gbegblẽ wɔwɔwo ta o.
• Esesẽna be míadze xɔlɔ̃wo ahalé xɔlɔ̃wɔwɔ me ɖe asi.

Nu vevitɔe nye be dzimesesẽ kple tomaɖomaɖo ƒe nuwɔna ɣeaɖewoɣi sɔ le ɖevimenɔɣi kple ƒewuiwo me. Ke hã, hafi woakpɔe be enye ``Agbenɔnɔ ƒe Dɔléle'' la, ele be nɔnɔme siawo nanɔ anyi ɖaa, agblẽ nu le ame bubuwo ŋu, eye woadzɔ le ɖoɖo si gbugbɔna nu.

Agbenɔnɔ ƒe Tɔtɔ ƒe Dzesiwo le Ame Tsitsiwo Me

Ne ɖevi siwo ŋu Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie le le tsitsim la, ate ŋu asesẽ na wo be woalé dɔ aɖe me ɖe asi alo be woalé ƒomedodowo me ɖe asi. Woate ŋu awɔ nuwɔna siwo mele se nu o alo esiwo me afɔku le hã. Abe alesi míegblɔe va yi ene la, ne ame tsitsi aɖe ɖe nɔnɔme siawo fia la, woate ŋu ayɔe be Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD).

Nukawoe hea Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Tɔtɔ vɛ?

Fifia ɖewohĩ èle eŋu bum be, "Nukatae le anyigba dzi la, nusia le dzɔdzɔm ɖe vinye dzi?" Esesẽ ŋutɔŋutɔ be nàde dzesi susu ɖeka pɛ ko. Numekulawo gblɔ be anɔ eme be domenyiŋusẽfianu/nu gbagbewo kple nutomenuwo siaa ƒe ƒuƒoƒo sesẽ aɖee wònye .

Domenyiŋusẽfianu/nu gbagbewo ƒe nuwɔna:

• Numekuku vovovowo ɖee fia be nɔnɔme aɖewo siwo do ƒome kple ``Agbenɔnɔ ƒe Tɔtɔ'' (e.g. nuwɔna siwo tsi tre ɖe hadomenuwɔnawo ŋu, eɖoɖo koŋ, dzikudodo kabakaba, adãwɔwɔ, tohehe ƒe seselelãmemanɔamesi) ateŋu anye domenyinyi .
• Wokpɔe be lãmetsi si nye ``Testosterone`` ƒe dzidziɖedzi le ŋutilã me do ƒome kple adãwɔwɔ.
• Ahɔhɔ̃ ƒe abi si nu sẽ, alɔ̃madɔmadɔ, kple lãmekawo ƒe gbegblẽ hã ate ŋu ana woawɔ nu adãtɔe.

Dzilawo, ƒomea kple nutome ƒe nɔnɔmewo:

• Ðevi sue siwo ŋu Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Dɔléle le dzilawo ate ŋu akpɔ gome le atike muamewo zazã alo nuwɔna siwo tsi tre ɖe hadomenuwɔnawo ŋu me. Nɔnɔmewo abe ADHD, seselelãme ƒe kuxiwo, tagbɔdɔléle, alo amenyenye ƒe dɔléle si tsi tre ɖe hadomenuwɔnawo ŋu hã ate ŋu anɔ wo ŋu.
• Ne aƒea me tɔtɔ, womekpɔa edzi nyuie o, alo dzre le dzilawo dome enuenu , ate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe ɖevia ƒe nuwɔna dzi. Esiawo ateŋu ahe ``Agbenɔnɔ ƒe Tɔtɔ`` vɛ.
• Ðevi siwo ŋu wowɔa ŋutasẽnu le le aƒeme enuenu la ate ŋu axɔ Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Tɔtɔ.
• Agbenɔnɔ le hadome kple ganyawo ƒe nɔnɔme madeamedzi me, ame geɖe ƒe amesinɔnɔ le aƒea me, kple dɔmakpɔwɔe ate ŋu ahe ganyawo kple hadomenuteɖeamedzi vɛ. Esia ate ŋu ana wòasesẽ na dzilawo be woakpɔ wo viwo dzi nyuie. Nɔnɔme sia bɔ ɖe ɖevi siwo le hadome kple ganyawo ƒe nɔnɔme madeamedziwo me dome wu.
• Ne atikewo le bɔbɔe le nuto si me ɖevi le me, eye ne nuvlowɔwɔ geɖe le eme la , ɖevi ma le afɔku gã aɖe me be wòaxɔ ``Agbenyuinɔnɔ ƒe Dɔléle''.

Gake ɖo ŋku esia dzi: Ðevi siwo tso ƒome siwo le dɔ wɔm nyuie ŋutɔ, siwo le lãmesẽ me gɔ̃ hã ate ŋu axɔ ``Agbenɔnɔ ƒe Tɔtɔ.'' Eyata mègasusu be, "Naneke megblẽ le nye ƒomea ŋu o, eyata aleke esia dzɔ?"

Aleke woawɔ ade dzesi (Agbenyuinɔnɔ ƒe Tɔtɔ)?

Tagbɔdɔléleŋutinunyala koe ate ŋu ade dzesi esia. Ema fia be ``Susuŋutinunyala`` alo ``Tagbɔdɔdala``. Wozãa dzidzenu siwo tso Amerika Tagbɔdɔléle Habɔbɔ ƒe ``Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM)`` mɔfiamegbalẽ me.

Le dzidzenu ma nu la, ele be ɖevi alo sɔhɛ aɖe naɖe nuwɔna siwo gbɔna la dometɔ etɔ̃ alo esi wu nenema afia le ɣleti 12 siwo va yi me . Azɔ hã, ele be dzesiawo dometɔ ɖeka ya teti nanɔ anyi le ɣleti 6 siwo va yi me :

• Amedzidzedze ɖe amewo kple/alo lãwo ŋu.
• Nuwo tsɔtsrɔ̃.
• Ametafatafa, alakpadada, alo fififi.
• Dzilawo ƒe sewo dzi dada vevie.

Ele be nuwɔna siawo nakpɔ ŋusẽ gã aɖe ɖe ɖevia ƒe ƒomedodowo, aƒemegbenɔnɔ, sukudɔdasiwo, kple/alo dɔwɔwɔ hã dzi (ne ɖevi sue aɖee wònye) .

Ne viwòa le Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Dɔléle ƒe dzesiwo ɖem fia la, ahiã be nàɖoe ɖe Ðeviwo Kple Ƒewuiviwo ƒe Tagbɔdɔdala alo Ðeviwo Kple Ƒewuiviwo ƒe Tagbɔdɔdala gbɔ. Dɔnyala siawo zãa gbebiame kple dodokpɔdɔwɔnu siwo ŋu wotrɔ asi le etɔxɛe tsɔ daa ɖevia kpɔna be susumedɔ aɖe le eŋu hã.

Zi geɖe la, susuŋutinunyalawo kple tagbɔdɔdalawo xɔa nyatakakawo tso ɖevia dzilawo, nɔviaŋutsuwo, exɔlɔ̃wo, kple nufialawo gbɔ be woatsɔ akpɔ ɖevia ƒe nuwɔna ƒe nɔnɔmetata bliboe.

Aleke wodaa Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Dɔlélee?

Atike vevitɔ si wozãna na Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Dɔlélee nye susumedɔdada ƒomevi vovovowo . Ele be woawɔ esiawo kple ɖevia, ƒomea, eye ɣeaɖewoɣi le nutoa me.

Atikewɔwɔmɔnu vevi aɖewoe nye:

• Dzilawo ƒe Dɔwɔnyawo Gbɔkpɔkpɔ ƒe Hehenasuku: Esia bia be woana hehe ɖevia dzilawo le alesi woaɖɔ wo vi, aɖo se siwo mewɔa tɔtrɔ o, aɖo eteƒe na nuwɔna nyuiwo ahade dzi ƒo na wo, eye woaɖu nuwɔna gbegblẽwo dzi. Kpuie ko la, wofiaa alesi ‘woakpɔ’ wo vi dzii la wo.
• Tagbɔdɔdada: Tagbɔdɔdada nye atikewɔwɔmɔnu siwo kpena ɖe ame ŋu wòdea dzesi eƒe seselelãme, tamesusuwo, kple nuwɔna siwo ɖea fu na ame eye wòtrɔa asi le wo ŋu. Ne ɖevia kple ƒomea le dɔ wɔm kple susumedɔléle ŋuti aɖaŋuɖola la, woxɔa kpekpeɖeŋu, hehe, kple mɔfiame. Zi geɖe la, susumedɔdada na agbenɔnɔ ƒe kuxiwo nɔa te ɖe ƒomegbenɔnɔ kple sukugbenɔnɔ dzi, si kpena ɖe ame ŋu be ƒomekadodowo, dzidzedzekpɔkpɔ le sukudede me, kple ɖevia ƒe nuwɔna le nɔnɔme vovovowo me nyona ɖe edzi.
• Dzikudzikpɔkpɔ ƒe Hehenasuku: Esia ƒe taɖodzinue nye be wòaɖe seselelãme kple ŋutilã ƒe nyɔnyrɔ̃ si ɖevi kpɔna le dziku ta dzi akpɔtɔ. Esi wònye be manya wɔ be woaƒo asa na amewo alo nusiwo doa dziku na wo keŋkeŋ o ta la, hehe sia fiaa ale si ɖevia awɔ aɖu eƒe nuwɔna dzi.
• Ame ɖekaɖekawo ƒe susumedɔdada, abe susuŋudɔwɔwɔ ƒe atikewɔwɔ (CBT): Ame ɖekaɖekawo ƒe atikewɔwɔ na ɖevi si ŋu agbenɔnɔ ƒe kuxi le la ku ɖe kuxiwo gbɔ kpɔkpɔ ƒe ŋutetewo tutuɖo, masɔmasɔwo gbɔ kpɔkpɔ kple ƒomedodowo dodo ɖe ŋgɔ, kple aɖaŋu tutuɖo be woagbe ŋusẽkpɔɖeamedzi gbegblẽ siwo le nutoa me ŋu.
• Atikewɔwɔ le Nutoa Me: Esia lɔ atikewɔsukuwo kple atikewɔƒe siwo le aƒewo me ɖe eme. Esiawo ate ŋu ana ɖoɖo si wowɔ ɖe ɖoɖo nu be woaɖe ɖevi ƒe nuwɔna siwo gblẽa nu le ame ŋu dzi akpɔtɔ.

Zi geɖe la, ɖɔktawo meŋlɔa atike na ame tẽ na Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Dɔléle o. Gake esi wònye be susumedɔléle bubuwo ate ŋu akpe ɖe nɔnɔme sia ŋu (e.g. ADHD, Blanuiléle) ta la, atike siwo woatsɔ akpɔ nɔnɔme mawo gbɔ ate ŋu aɖe vi na ɖevia.

Ðe woate ŋu axe mɔ ɖe Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Tɔtɔ nua?

Le alesi míenya nu la, mɔ aɖeke koŋ meli si dzi woato axe mɔ ɖe `(Agbenɔnɔ ƒe Tɔtɔ)` nu o. Esia le alea elabena nu vovovowo ƒe ƒuƒoƒo sesẽ aɖe gbɔe wòtsona. Gake ne wodze atikewɔwɔ gɔme ne dzesiawo dze ko la , woate ŋu aɖe kuxi geɖe siwo do ƒome kplii dzi akpɔtɔ. Kpekpeɖeŋu didi kaba ate ŋu aɖe tɔtɔ si le ɖevia ƒe agbenɔnɔ, eƒe ƒomea, kple xɔlɔ̃wɔwɔ me dzi akpɔtɔ.

Nukae nye Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Dɔléle ƒe ŋgɔdonya?

Nɔnɔme sia ƒe mɔkpɔkpɔ nɔ te ɖe alesi wòdze kabae kple nenye be wodae dzi.

Zi geɖe la, nuwɔna siwo gblẽa nu le ame ŋu siwo do ƒome kple Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Tɔtɔ la nu tsona le ame tsitsi ƒe gɔmedzedze. Gake le go siwo ade akpa etɔ̃lia me la, nuwɔna siawo gakpɔtɔ nɔa anyi. Dɔléle siawo dometɔ geɖe ɖoa dzidzenu siwo woɖo na Amenyenye ƒe Dɔléle si Tsi Tre Ðe Hadomegbenɔnɔ Ŋu (ASPD) gbɔ.

Nɔnɔmea ƒe gɔmedzedze kaba hafi woaxɔ ƒe 10 do ƒome kple ŋkumakpɔmakpɔ nyuie wu. Edo ƒome vevie hã kple suku ƒe dɔwɔwɔ ƒe gbɔdzɔgbɔdzɔ gã aɖe.

Ðevi kple sɔhɛ aɖewo siwo ŋu Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie le hã ate ŋu anɔ tagbɔdɔ bubuwo ŋu. Kpɔɖeŋu aɖewoe nye:

• Seselelãme alo dzimaɖitsitsi ƒe kuxiwo.
• Somatic dzesiwo ƒe dɔléle.
• Ahanono ƒe kuxi kple/alo atike muamewo zazã ƒe kuxi.
• Tagbɔdɔléle siwo dzea egɔme tso ame tsitsiwo ƒe gɔmedzedze kaba.

Nɔnɔmewo abe blanuiléle kple susu ƒe dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie ene ate ŋu ado mo ɖa le ƒewuiwo kple tsitsime ƒe gɔmedzedze.Ameɖokuiwuwu ƒe susu ate ŋu anye nɔnɔme siawo ƒe kuxi. Ne viwòa le nu ƒom tso eɖokui wuwu ŋu alo le ŋɔdzi dom nɛ la, ele vevie ŋutɔ be nàdi atikewɔlawo ƒe kpekpeɖeŋu enumake.

Aleke mawɔ akpɔ vinye si ŋu agbenɔnɔ ƒe kuxi le dzii?

Ne ``Agbenyuinɔnɔ ƒe Dɔléle'' le viwò ŋu, tsɔ kpe ɖe dɔnyala bibiwo ƒe kpekpeɖeŋu didi ŋu la, mɔ aɖewo siwo dzi nàto akpe ɖe ɖokuiwò kple viwòa ŋue nye esi:

• Srɔ̃ nu tso Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Tɔtɔ ŋu. Na nànya nu tso numekuku yeye siwo wowɔ tso atikewɔmɔnu siwo wɔa dɔ nyuie ŋu.
• Ƒo nu kple susumedɔléle ŋuti aɖaŋuɖola aɖe . Ne anya wɔ la, di ame aɖe si wona hehee le Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Dɔléle didi kple edada me.
• Dzro atikewɔmɔnu siwo li me. Ele be woatrɔ asi le atikewɔwɔa ŋu wòasɔ ɖe ɖevia ƒe nuhiahiãwo nu eye wòanye ƒomea tɔ.
• Di ƒomea ƒe kpekpeɖeŋunaha alo habɔbɔ aɖe le miaƒe nutoa me.

Ɣekaɣie wòle be makpɔ ɖɔkta tso vinye ƒe (Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Dɔmawɔmawɔ) ŋu?

Ne wokpɔ ``Agbenyuinɔnɔ ƒe Dɔléle'' le viwò ŋu eye woƒe nuwɔna le gbegblẽm ɖe edzi, alo le nu gblẽm le ƒomegbenɔnɔ alo sukudɔwo ŋu la, ƒo nu kple woƒe susumedɔdala.

Vevietɔ wu: Ne viwòa ɖe nuwɔna siwo me afɔku le siwo ate ŋu agblẽ nu le eɖokui, ame bubuwo, alo lãwo ŋu fia la, di atikewɔlawo ƒe kpekpeɖeŋu enumake.

Ðevi tomaɖola siwo wɔa adã ate ŋu anye kuxi gã aɖe na dzilawo. Togbɔ be esɔ be ɖevi siwo le zɔzɔm kple ɖevi suewo naɖe tomaɖomaɖo ƒe nuwɔna afia ɣeaɖewoɣi hã la, nuwɔna si nɔa anyi ɖaa, si gblẽa nu le ame ŋu, si me wowɔa adã le ate ŋu anye ``Agbenɔnɔ ƒe Tɔtɔ'' ƒe dzesi.

Ele vevie ŋutɔ be woadze Agbenɔnɔ Ŋuti Dɔléle dada gɔme kaba . Afɔɖeɖe gbãtɔ si woawɔ le atikewɔwɔ me enye be nàƒo nu kple ɖɔkta alo susumedɔléle ŋuti aɖaŋuɖola . Mègavɔ̃ be yeabia nya wò ɖɔkta o. Wole afima be yewoakpe ɖe ŋuwò.

Gbedasi si Wotsɔ Yi Aƒeme

• Agbenɔnɔ ƒe Tɔtɔ nye nuwɔna sesẽ aɖe si wokpɔna le ɖeviwo kple ƒewuiviwo ŋu. Esia menye nu gbegblẽ wɔwɔ dzro aɖe ko o.
• Ne dzesiwo abe adãwɔwɔ, se dzi dada, ametafatafa, kple nunɔamesiwo tsɔtsrɔ̃ ene gakpɔtɔ li la , kpɔ egbɔ be yebia aɖaŋuɖoɖo tso eŋutinunyalawo gbɔ .
• Domenyiŋusẽfianu, nugbagbewo, kple nutoa me ƒe nɔnɔmewo ƒe ƒuƒoƒo gbɔe esia tsona.
• De dzesii kaba kple atikewɔwɔ si sɔ (vevietɔ susumedɔdada kple dzilawo ƒe hehenana) ate ŋu ana gbɔdzɔe gã aɖe ɖevia kple ƒomea.
• Menye wò ɖeka koe o. Mègavɔ̃ be yeabia kpekpeɖeŋu o. Ne wodo alɔ nɔnɔme sia nyuie la, woate ŋu akpɔ nɔnɔme sia gbɔ.

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