Baby Communication 1-3 Months: Shall we talk about this wonderful world?

Your little one is now a little older than a newborn, isn't he? This is when you and your baby start to have that wonderful "talk" - that is, they start to communicate with each other through laughter and small sounds. As your baby becomes more active and starts to pay attention to his surroundings, you'll see a new little personality of his own. This is such an adorable time!

How do you "talk" to us, kids?

So, your little one is mainly using crying to tell you what's on their mind and what they need at this time. That means, when they cry, they're trying to tell you, 'Mommy, I'm hungry,' 'I'm sleepy,' 'My diaper looks wet,' or 'I'm having trouble.' It's like their language . Sometimes, when they're overwhelmed by all the new things in the world, the sounds, the lights, they can get a little cranky and cry. That's normal, don't worry too much about it.

You've probably noticed that your baby responds to your voice when you talk. Maybe he turns his head in that direction, sits quietly, smiles, or even waves his arms and legs to show his happiness. When you look at your baby and smile, he might smile back at you. Isn't that a wonderful experience?

This is when babies discover that they too can make sounds. Before long, your home will be a machine of small sounds, like bird calls, "cooing" and gurgling! Your baby will start to "talk" to you with a variety of sounds. Some babies will even start making simple vowel sounds like "ah-ah" or "uh-uh" at this time.

What should we do as parents?

There are many things you can do to help your child develop these communication skills. It's like watering, nurturing, and growing a small plant.

Talk and play with your baby often.

Your baby loves your voice. So, during these first few months , talk to your baby as much as possible, read books (picture books are fine!), sing songs, and "coo" affectionately. Respond with interest and joy to every little sound your baby makes, every little laugh. Say things like, "Oh, my precious son/daughter, what are you saying?"

Tell your baby about what he is looking at and what he is doing. Tell him about what you are doing too. Imagine, while changing your baby's diaper, you say something like, "Now, Mommy, let's change your son's diaper, so that he can stay healthy." This helps your baby recognize words and learn about language. When you give your baby a toy or something he is holding, say its name. For example, "Here's the ball," "Here's your rattle."

Have "conversations" with your baby.

This is very important. If your baby makes a sound, repeat the sound and wait for a "response" from your baby. Imagine if your baby says "Aaag" and you smile and ask, "Aaag? What is my baby saying?"This way, you teach your baby very valuable lessons, such as how to control the tone of your voice when talking to someone, the speed of your speech, and taking turns speaking.

Also, this lets the baby know that he is important enough to be listened to. Don't interrupt or look away when the baby is "talking." Make him feel that you are interested in what he is saying and that he can trust you.

These little "conversations" are what pave the way for big conversations later on.

Understand when your baby needs silence

Babies don't always like to talk or make noise. Sometimes the stimulation from the things around them (i.e. noise, light, people, etc.) can be a little too much. Then they need a little rest.

If your baby is looking away, closing his eyes , or just fussing or looking upset, it may mean he needs a break. In such cases, give him some time to relax, or give him a loving hug. Don't force him to "talk" all the time.

Is my baby crying too much? Let's learn about `(Colic)`

Most newborns have a period of time at about the same time each day, usually in the evening, when they cry and fuss a little more. This is something that many parents experience.

However, sometimes, if a healthy baby , who has no other illnesses or problems, cries for more than 3 hours a day, more than 3 days a week, and for at least 3 weeks in a row, we call that condition `(Colic)`. This can be really distressing for both parents. Because it can be very frustrating when you can't figure out why your baby is crying.

But the good news is that most babies outgrow this `(Colic)` condition by about 3 or 4 months of age. So keep in mind that this is not something that will last forever. However, if you have any serious doubts or fears about this, it is best to talk to a doctor.

What time should I see a doctor?

If you have any concerns or doubts about your baby's speech or hearing abilities, don't hesitate to talk to a doctor. Don't think, "Oh, I'm going to the doctor for this little thing." The most important thing is to clear your mind of any doubts.

By the end of this period (which is about 3 months), most babies should be able to:

• Responds to loud noises (for example, startled by the sound of a door suddenly closing).
• They make other sounds besides crying (like the previously mentioned "cooing" and gurgling).
• You smile when you talk to it.
• When you look at him and smile, he smiles back at you.

These are the small milestones that are usually seen.

But remember this too,Not all babies are the same. Some babies start doing these things a little earlier, others a little later. That's normal. However, if you think your baby is much older than these, or if you notice any differences, be sure to see a doctor for advice.

In short: enjoy this journey with your pup!

Your little one's first few months go by so quickly. During this time, they are learning new things every day and starting to connect with you in new ways.

• This " conversation " is a two-way street. The more you talk to your baby and respond to him, the better his communication skills will develop.
• Your voice and your love are the greatest encouragement for your baby. So, talk to your baby, sing songs, and play with him/her in a loving and caring way without fear.
• Every baby is different. Don't compare your baby to other babies. Everyone develops at a different rate.
• If you have any doubts or concerns, never hesitate to ask a doctor.

This childhood will never come back. So enjoy every moment to the fullest and strengthen this wonderful bond with your little one!

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