Manaʻo anei kāu keiki liʻiliʻi ʻaʻole lākou aloha iā ʻoe? He Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) paha ia!

E nā Māmā a me nā Pāpā, ua ʻike a lohe paha ʻoukou i kekahi mau keiki ʻōpio i hōʻike ʻole i ke aloha a i ʻole ke aloha i ko lākou poʻe mālama, ʻoiai ko lākou mau mākua ponoʻī? Me he mea lā ua noho hoʻokahi lākou i loko o ko lākou honua ponoʻī. He kūlana kaumaha loa kēia, a aia kekahi wehewehe lapaʻau no ia mea. I kēia lā, ke kamaʻilio nei mākou e pili ana i kekahi ʻano maʻi, i kapa ʻia ʻo 'Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD).'

He aha ke ʻano o ka Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)?

I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, ʻo ka `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)` he kūlana ia i hiki ʻole ai i kahi keiki liʻiliʻi ke hoʻokumu i nā pilina naʻau olakino me kā lākou poʻe mālama, e like me ko lākou makuahine a me ko lākou makuakāne. ʻO ke kumu nui o kēia, ʻaʻole i loaʻa i ke keiki ke aloha naʻau kūpono a me ka palekana i kona mau makahiki ʻōpio, a i ʻole ua haʻalele ʻia a hana ʻino ʻia paha. He paʻakikī i nā keiki me `RAD` ke kāohi i ko lākou mau manaʻo. He paʻakikī nui hoʻi iā lākou ke hoʻokumu i nā pilina pili me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. ʻO ka mea kupanaha, i kekahi manawa ʻoiai he aloha a lokomaikaʻi ko lākou poʻe mālama, ʻaʻole paha e hoʻokokoke aku kēia mau keiki iā lākou, a me he mea lā makaʻu.

ʻO wai ka mea i ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka 'Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)'?

ʻO kēia kūlana ka mea maʻamau i nā keiki ʻōpio i hoʻowahāwahā ʻia a i hana ʻino ʻia paha i ke kino a i ʻole ka naʻau. Eia nō naʻe, hiki iā ia ke hoʻopilikia i nā keiki makua. ʻO nā keiki i ʻoi aku ka pilikia o ka loaʻa ʻana o RAD:

• Nā kahu mālama he nui: E noʻonoʻo i kahi keiki e neʻe ʻia ana mai kekahi home hānai i kekahi, a i ʻole mai kekahi ʻohana hānai i kekahi, a ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻokumu i kahi pilina mau loa me kekahi.
• Ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana ma hope o ka hoʻopili ʻana: Ma hope o ka hoʻomohala ʻana o ke keiki i kahi pilina maikaʻi me kā lākou mea mālama nui, pono e hoʻokaʻawale ʻia lākou mai iā lākou.
• Nā pohō nui i ka wā ʻōpiopio: Inā loaʻa i kahi keiki kekahi mau pohō nui a i ʻole nā ​​​​pilikia i ka wā ʻōpiopio i hiki ʻole iā lākou ke hoʻomanawanui.
• Nā mākua i hoʻāʻo ʻole e pili kokoke i ka naʻau: ʻAʻole hoʻoikaika kekahi mau mākua a mea mālama paha e pili kokoke i ka naʻau i kā lākou keiki.
• Hoʻokumu ʻana: Inā pono ʻoe e hoʻolilo i ka manawa ma kahi e like me kahi hale mālama keiki makua ʻole, me ka ʻole o ke aloha makua.

I kekahi manawa, hiki i nā mākua hānai, me ka ʻike ʻole i ka wā ma mua o ke keiki, ke paʻakikī ke hoʻopili me ka mea hou i ka ʻohana. ʻOi loa aku inā he ʻano paʻa ʻole ka manaʻo o ke keiki. Inā he makua hou ʻoe, ke hōʻike nei kāu keiki i nā hōʻailona o ka 'RAD', a i ʻole ke pilikia nei ʻoe i ka launa pū ʻana me kāu keiki, e kamaʻilio me ke kauka o kāu keiki a e nānā i kēia.

Pehea ka maʻamau o ka 'Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)'?

ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, he mea paʻakikī ke ʻōlelo pololei i ke ʻano maʻamau o kēia, ʻoiai he nui nā hihia i hōʻike ʻole ʻia. Eia nō naʻe, ua manaʻo ʻia ma waena o 1% a me 2% o nā keiki e loaʻa paha iā RAD. ʻO nā keiki i hoʻoneʻe ʻia mai ko lākou mau home a hoʻokomo ʻia i nā wahi ʻē aʻe, e like me nā hale mālama keiki makua ʻole, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka loaʻa ʻana o RAD. Ma kahi o ka hapalua o kēia mau keiki e paʻakikī ana i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i nā pilina me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ka hala ʻana o ka manawa.

He aha nā hōʻailona o ka 'Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)'?

Hiki ke ʻokoʻa nā hōʻailona o RAD mai ke keiki a ke keiki, akā ʻo kekahi o nā hōʻailona maʻamau i ʻike ʻia i nā pēpē a me nā kamaliʻi ʻōpio:

• ʻAʻole hōʻike i nā manaʻo maikaʻi: Ke hui pū me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole lākou e hōʻike i nā manaʻo maikaʻi e like me ka hōʻoluʻolu, ke aloha, a me ka hauʻoli.
• Ke pale nei i ka nānā maka ʻana a me ke kino: ʻAʻole makemake e nānā i ka maka o kekahi a hoʻopā aku paha iā lākou.
• Ke hōʻike nei i ka makaʻu a me ka huhū: Huhū mau, uē, a kaumaha.
• Ke hoʻāʻo nei e kāohi: Ke hoʻāʻo nei lākou e kāohi i nā mea a puni lākou. ʻO kēia ke alakaʻi iā lākou e uhaki i nā lula.

He aha ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka `Inhibited Reactive Attachment Disorder` a me ka `Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder (DSED)`?

ʻO kekahi kūlana e pili ana i ka `Inhibited Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)` ʻo ia ka `Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder (DSED).` Akā aia nā ʻokoʻa ma waena o nā mea ʻelua. E nānā kākou i ke ʻano o lākou.

`RAD` (Pale ʻia)

Ua ʻike nā keiki me ka `RAD` i nā mea e hana nei a puni lākou, akā, ʻaʻole lākou e pane me ka naʻau iā ia. ʻAʻole lākou e hōʻike a ʻimi paha i ke aloha mai nā mea mālama a i ʻole nā ​​poʻe ʻē aʻe. Makemake lākou e noho mehameha. ʻO nā ʻano:

• Ke pale nei i nā mea mālama.
• Ke noho mamao aku nei mai nā kūlana pilikanaka.
• Kūʻē i nā mea hōʻoluʻolu (e.g., ʻapo ʻana).

`DSED` (Disinhibited - wehe ʻia i waho, akā ʻaʻohe palena)

ʻO nā keiki me ka `Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder (DSED)` e launa nui paha me nā malihini. Hiki paha iā lākou ke hahai iā lākou a puni me ka ʻole o ke noi ʻana i ko lākou mau mākua. ʻO ka pinepine, hana kēia mau keiki ma mua o ko lākou mau makahiki a ʻimi paha i ke aloha mai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe me ke ʻano palekana ʻole. ʻO nā hōʻailona:

• ʻAʻohe pilina koho (e like me kekahi).
• Ke ʻimi nei i ka nānā ʻana mai nā kānaka a pau.
• Ke hana ʻana ma ke ʻano kūpono ʻole i kona mau makahiki.
• ʻAʻole maopopo i nā palena o ka nohona.

Eia kekahi laʻana, hiki i kahi keiki me ka `RAD` ke hoʻokaʻawale iā ia iho mai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ma kahi pāʻina a noho wale ma kahi kihi. Akā, e hele aku kahi keiki me ka `DSED` a kamaʻilio me nā mea a pau āna i ʻike ʻole ai, a piʻi paha ma luna o ko lākou mau ʻūhā. Loaʻa iā lāua nā pilikia pili olakino, akā ʻokoʻa ke ʻano o kā lāua hōʻike ʻana iā lāua iho.

He aha nā kumu o ka 'Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)'?

ʻAʻohe kumu kikoʻī hoʻokahi e loaʻa ai i nā keiki me RAD kēia maʻi.Ua hōʻike ʻia nā noiʻi he nui nā kumu e hiki ʻole ai i kahi keiki ke hoʻopaʻa i ka pilina me ko lākou poʻe mālama:

• Hana ʻino a mālama ʻole paha: Manaʻo ke keiki ua haʻalele ʻia a mehameha. Eia kekahi laʻana, inā hakakā pinepine nā mākua a ʻaʻole nānā i ke keiki, ʻaʻole e loaʻa i ke keiki ke aloha a me ka ʻoluʻolu e pono ai.
• Palekana ʻole i ka meaʻai: Ke loaʻa ʻole i ke keiki ka meaʻai a me ka mea inu kūpono, he mea ia e pono ai.
• Nā hopohopo palekana: Inā makaʻu ke keiki ua pilikia lākou.
• ʻAʻohe maʻemaʻe: Noho ke keiki i loko o nā diaper pulu no nā hola, inā ʻaʻohe mea e hoʻololi iā lākou.
• Nā loli pinepine i nā mea mālama: ʻAʻole paha ʻike ke keiki i ka mea e hilinaʻi ai.
• Mālama kūlike ʻole: Inā hoʻokō ʻia nā pono o ke keiki i kekahi manawa wale nō, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole ʻike ke keiki i ka wā e manaʻo ai i ke aloha a me ka hōʻoluʻolu mai nā mea mālama.

Hoʻokumu nā keiki ʻōpio i nā pilina olakino ke hoʻokō mau ʻia kā lākou mau pono kumu. Kūkulu kēia i ka hilinaʻi ma waena o ke keiki a me nā mea mālama. Inā ʻaʻole i hoʻokō pono ʻia nā pono kino a me ka naʻau o ke keiki, aia lākou i ka pilikia o ka hoʻomohala ʻana i ka 'RAD'.

Pehea e ʻike ʻia ai ka maʻi ʻeha (RAD)?

No ka ʻike ʻana i ka RAD, e nīnau ke kauka o kāu keiki iā ʻoe e pili ana i ka mōʻaukala olakino o kāu keiki a me nā hōʻailona e hōʻike nei kāu keiki. No ka hoʻomaopopo maikaʻi ʻana i nā hōʻailona o kāu keiki, hiki i ke kauka ke nīnau i nā nīnau e like me kēia:

• Ua hana ʻino ʻia a haʻalele ʻia paha kāu keiki?
• I ka manawa hea ʻoe i ʻike mua ai i kēia mau hōʻailona?
• He aha nā hiʻohiʻona āu i ʻike mua ai?
• Pehea ka pilina ma waena ou a me kāu keiki?
• Pehea kou kūlana noho?
• Aia kekahi poʻe mālama ʻē aʻe e pili ana me ke keiki?

Inā kānalua kāu kauka he RAD kou, e kuhikuhi paha lākou iā ʻoe a me kāu keiki i kahi pediatrician, psychologist, a me psychiatrist e kōkua i ka ʻike ʻana i ke kūlana o kāu keiki a ʻōlelo i nā lāʻau lapaʻau e hiki ke kōkua.

Hiki paha ke huikau i ka 'Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)' me ka 'Autism Spectrum Disorder'?

Ma mua o ka hoʻoholo ʻana he `RAD` ko ke keiki, e hana ke kauka i nā hoʻokolohua e kāpae i nā kumu ʻē aʻe, ʻoiai nā kūlana e like me `Autism Spectrum Disorder`. ʻO `Autism Spectrum Disorder` kahi kūlana ulu e hoʻopilikia i ke ʻano a me ke kamaʻilio ʻana o ke kanaka. Ma ka ʻili, hiki ke loaʻa nā hōʻailona like me `RAD`. ʻO ka ʻokoʻa nui loa, ʻo ka hana ʻino a i ʻole ka mālama ʻole ʻana ʻaʻole ia he kumu o `Autism Spectrum Disorder`, akā hiki iā ia ke hoʻopilikia i ka hōʻailona o `RAD`.

Pehea e mālama ʻia ai ka `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)`?

ʻO ke kumu nui o ka mālama ʻana no RAD, ʻo ia ka hoʻokumu ʻana i nā pilina olakino ma waena o nā keiki a me ko lākou poʻe mālama.a/a i ʻole e hoʻihoʻi i nā pilina weliweli a paʻakikī. Hoʻoikaika kēia mau lāʻau lapaʻau i ke keiki ma ke ʻano naʻau, kahi e kōkua ai i ke keiki e hoʻomohala i nā pilina olakino me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Loaʻa i nā keiki a me nā mea mālama ka pōmaikaʻi mai kēia mau hoʻolālā lapaʻau. Hiki i ka lāʻau lapaʻau ke komo pū me:

• Psychotherapy/Counseling: Hana pū kekahi kākā'ōlelo olakino noʻonoʻo me ke keiki a me nā mākua e kōkua iā lākou e hoʻomohala i nā mākau naʻau olakino a hōʻemi i nā ʻano pilikia e hoʻopilikia ai i ka pilina.
• Lapaʻau ʻOhana: Pili kēia i nā mea mālama mua a me ke keiki e hana pū ana e kōkua i ka hoʻomohala ʻana i nā ʻano launa pū olakino.
• Ke komo ʻana o nā mākau pilikanaka: Ke aʻo nei kēia lāʻau lapaʻau i ke keiki pehea e hana kūpono ai me nā keiki ʻē aʻe o ka makahiki like i nā kūlana pilikanaka maʻamau. Pili pū nā mākua i kēia, e kōkua ana i ke keiki e hoʻohana i kēia mau mākau i aʻo ʻia ma waho o ka lāʻau lapaʻau.
• Hoʻonaʻauao Kūikawā: Inā pono i kahi keiki, hiki i nā papahana pae kula ke kōkua i nā keiki e aʻo i nā mākau e pono ai lākou e holomua i ka hoʻonaʻauao a me ka nohona.
• Nā Papa Mākaukau Makua: Ma kēia mau hālāwai, hiki i nā mākua ke aʻo i nā ala ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e hoʻokele ai i nā ʻano paʻakikī o kā lākou keiki.

Aia kekahi mau pilikia ʻē aʻe e pili ana me ka `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)`?

ʻAe, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka pilikia o nā keiki me ka `RAD` i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā pilikia like ʻole i ko lākou wā kamaliʻi a me ka wā ʻōpio ma muli o ka hoʻowahāwahā kino, ka naʻau, a me ka nohona a me ka hana ʻino. Hiki i kēia mau pilikia ke komo pū me:

• Hoʻopaneʻe ʻia nā hanana ulu a me ka emi ʻana o ka ulu kino.
• Nā pilikia naʻau, no ka laʻana, ke kaumaha, ka hopohopo, ka maʻi kaumaha post-traumatic (PTSD), a me nā pilikia hoʻokele huhū.
• Nā maʻi ʻai.
• Nā maʻi hoʻohana ʻona.
• Nā pilikia ma ke kula (nā pilikia o ke aʻo ʻana a me/a i ʻole ke ʻano).
• Nā pilikia i nā pilina (me nā hoa, nā mākua, a laila nā hoa).
• Nā hana hoʻoweliweli, no ka laʻana ke komo ʻana i ka hana moekolohe i ka wā ʻōpiopio a i ʻole pinepine.

I ka manawa hea e hoʻomohala ai kaʻu keiki i nā pilina olakino ma hope o ka mālama ʻana?

Me ka ʻole o ka lāʻau lapaʻau, hiki i nā keiki me RAD ke loaʻa nā hōʻailona a hiki i ka wā makua. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻopilikia i ke ʻano o kā lākou hana ma ke kaiāulu. He hana lōʻihi ka lāʻau lapaʻau e hāʻawi ana i ke kākoʻo naʻau i ke keiki. Pono paha ia i ke ola holoʻokoʻa. ʻAʻohe manawa i hoʻonohonoho ʻia no ka wā e hoʻomohala ai kāu keiki i nā pilina olakino. Eia nō naʻe, ʻo ka lāʻau lapaʻau me ke kākoʻo o nā mea mālama e hua mai i nā hopena maikaʻi loa.

Pehea e pale aku ai i ka `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)`?

ʻO ke ala maikaʻi loa e pale aku ai i ka RAD, ʻo ia ke kōkua i nā keiki e hoʻomohala i nā pilina olakino me ko lākou mau mākua a/a i ʻole nā ​​mea mālama mua ʻē aʻe. Hoʻokumu ʻia nā pilina olakino ke hana nā mea mālama i kēia mau mea:

• Ke paipai nei i nā pilina ʻohana ma o nā pilina paʻa a palekana.
• E hoʻomaopopo i nā keiki i ke aloha ʻia a me ka ʻae ʻia.
• Ke kākoʻo ʻana i nā keiki ma nā pae like ʻole o ko lākou ulu ʻana.
• E hoʻokō mau i nā pono kumu o ke keiki.

Pehea e hiki ai iaʻu ke kōkua i kaʻu keiki e kūkulu i nā pilina olakino?

Ma ke ʻano he mea mālama, hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua i kāu keiki e hoʻomohala i nā pilina olakino ma o:

• Ke kau ʻana i nā palena: He mea maikaʻi kahi ʻano kūlike no nā keiki āpau. No laila, he mea nui loa ke kau ʻana i nā palena. Me nā palena kūpono a me ka hoʻopaʻi kūpono, ʻaʻole kino, maopopo i nā keiki ka mea e manaʻo ʻia mai iā lākou a me ka mea e hana ʻia inā uhaki lākou i nā lula. Hoʻemi kēia i nā makaʻu o nā keiki a paipai iā lākou e hana kūpono.
• E noho mālie i ka wā e hana hewa ai kāu keiki: Ke hana hewa kāu keiki, e noho mālie; mai pane aku inā huhū ʻoe. E aʻo i kāu keiki e like me nā lula āu i hoʻokumu ai ma mua a ua ʻike kāu keiki. Ke mālie kāu keiki a ua mākaukau no kahi pilina maikaʻi, e hōʻike i ke aloha a me ka lokomaikaʻi. Hōʻike kēia i kāu keiki aia ʻoe ma laila no lākou, ʻoiai i nā manawa paʻakikī.
• E hōʻike i ke aloha a me ka nānā mau: E hoʻolilo i ka manawa me kāu keiki. E kamaʻilio me ia, e mele me ia, e pāʻani me ia. E paʻa iā ia, e ʻapo iā ia, a i ʻole e hana i nā mea ʻē aʻe e hōʻike ana iā ia i ke aloha a me ke aloha mai kahi mea mālama. Eia nō naʻe, e hoʻomanaʻo he emi iki paha ka wehe ʻana o kekahi mau keiki i kēia ʻano aloha ma mua o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. ʻO ka kāohi ʻana i ke aloha a me ke aloha ʻaʻole loa ia he ʻano hoʻopaʻi i ʻae ʻia.

He aha kaʻu e manaʻo ai inā loaʻa iaʻu kahi keiki me ka 'Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)'?

Hoʻomohala ka nui o nā keiki i loaʻa ka lāʻau lapaʻau no RAD i nā pilina paʻa a olakino me kā lākou poʻe mālama mua a me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ko lākou ola. Aia nā keiki i loaʻa ʻole ka lāʻau lapaʻau i ka pilikia no nā pilikia naʻau e hoʻomau nei. ʻO ka mea pōmaikaʻi, ʻaʻole loa e lohi ka ʻimi ʻana i ka lāʻau lapaʻau no nā kūlana olakino ulu a me ka noʻonoʻo, me RAD. He mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo i kēia mau mea:

• He nui nā keiki i hānai ʻia mai nā hale mālama keiki makua ʻole e ola olakino a maikaʻi hoʻi ke ola. ʻAʻole nā ​​keiki hānai a pau e loaʻa i ka 'RAD'.
• ʻO nā keiki i loaʻa i ka trauma koʻikoʻi i ka wā ma mua, he mau kumu pilikia ʻē aʻe paha no ke olakino noʻonoʻo a me nā pilikia o ka nohona. No ka laʻana, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i nā lāʻau lapaʻau a i ʻole ka waiʻona i ka wā hāpai, a i ʻole ka mōʻaukala ʻohana o nā maʻi naʻau, hiki ke kōkua i ka RAD.

ʻEhia ka lōʻihi o ka wā i loaʻa ai ke ʻano o ka Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)?

He maʻi ia no ke ola holoʻokoʻa ka Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD). Eia nō naʻe, hiki i ka mālama ʻana a me ke kākoʻo ke kōkua i kahi keiki e hoʻomohala i nā pilina olakino i ko lākou ola a pau, a hiki ke hoʻomaikaʻi i ko lākou nohona naʻau a me ka nohona.

Āhea wau e ʻike ai i ke kauka?

Inā ʻike ʻoe e pilikia ana kāu keiki i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i nā pilina maʻamau, a inā ʻike ʻoe i kekahi mau hōʻailona o ka 'Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)' i kāu keiki, e ʻike koke i ke kauka o kāu keiki no ka loiloi a i ʻole ka kuhikuhi ʻana i kahi loea. Hiki i ka ʻike mua a me ka mālama ʻana ke kōkua i nā keiki me kēia maʻi e hoʻokō i nā hopena maikaʻi aʻe.

He aha nā nīnau e pono iaʻu e nīnau aku i kaʻu kauka?

• Pono anei au e kuhikuhi i kaʻu keiki i ke aʻo ʻana?
• He aha ke kumu e hōʻike ai kaʻu keiki i nā hōʻailona o ka 'Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)'?
• Hiki iā ʻoe ke kuhikuhi iaʻu i kahi loea a hui kākoʻo paha e hana pū ana me nā keiki a me nā ʻohana me kēia maʻi?
• E loli anei nā hōʻailona o kaʻu keiki i ko lākou wā ʻelemakule? Aia kekahi mau mea e pono iaʻu e makaʻala nui?

He mea nui e hoʻopili me kāu keiki a mālama iā lākou ma ke ʻano e aloha ʻia ai lākou. Inā ʻaʻole kāu keiki e hoʻomohala nei i kahi pilina naʻau ʻoluʻolu me ʻoe a i ʻole ko lākou mea mālama mua, e ʻike i kāu mea mālama mua. ʻO ka ʻimi ʻana i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a i ʻole ka lāʻau lapaʻau ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo he makua maikaʻi ʻole ʻoe. Akā, wehe ia i ka puka no ke kūkulu ʻana i kahi pilina ikaika, olakino, a no ke ola holoʻokoʻa me kāu keiki.

Nā mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo (Leka Lawe-Home)

ʻAʻole ia he mea e hoʻonāwaliwali ʻia ai ka Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD). Me ka ʻike mua ʻana, ka mālama kūpono, a me kahi nohona aloha a paʻa, hiki i nā keiki ke ola hauʻoli a olakino. E hoʻomanaʻo:

• He ʻokoʻa kēlā me kēia keiki: ʻAʻole like ka pane ʻana o kēlā me kēia keiki i ka lāʻau lapaʻau. E hoʻomanawanui a e hoʻomaopopo.
• ʻAʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi: ​​Aia kekahi mau mākua ʻē aʻe e hele nei i nā kūlana like. E kiʻi i ke kōkua mai nā kauka, nā kākā'ōlelo, a me nā hui kākoʻo.
• Aloha a me ke kūpaʻa: ʻO ka mea maikaʻi loa hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi aku i kahi keiki, ʻo ia ke aloha palena ʻole a me kahi kūlana paʻa a palekana hoʻi.
• Kōkua ʻoihana: Inā kānalua, mai hilahila a makaʻu paha e ʻimi i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo lapaʻau. ʻO ia ke kōkua nui loa hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi i kāu keiki.

He kuleana ko kākou a pau e hāʻawi i kā kākou mau keiki i kahi wā kamaliʻi palekana a aloha hoʻi. E hana pū kākou a pau e hoʻokō i kēlā!

ʻO ka maʻi hoʻopili Reactive, RAD, olakino noʻonoʻo o ke keiki, hoʻopili naʻau, pilina makua-keiki, hana ʻino keiki, hoʻowahāwahā, ulu ʻana o ke keiki