Pan di tin dɛn we uman kin gɛt na in layf, we uman kin gɛt bɛlɛ na sɔntin we rili impɔtant ɛn bɔku pipul dɛn nɔ kin ebul fɔ ɔndastand gud gud wan. We yu fil sɔri we yu nɔ go ebul fɔ bia, yu kin fil se yu wangren de bikɔs ivin di wan dɛn we de nia yu nɔ kin ɔndastand di pen we yu de gɛt. Ilɛksɛf dɛn tray fɔ ɛp yu, dɛn nɔ go ebul fɔ ɔndastand aw yu de fil bikɔs dɛn nɔ bin dɔn ɛkspiriɛns am. Sɔntɛm dɛn nɔ go ɔndastand aw da op de na yu at, we na da pikin de, bin rial. So, tide wi go tɔk bɔt di pwɛl at we kin apin afta we di bɛlɛ dɔn pwɛl ɛn aw fɔ wɛl smɔl smɔl frɔm da pen de.
Lɛ wi no di pwɛl at we kin apin afta we di bɛlɛ dɔn pwɛl.
Bɔku tɛm, we uman dɛn kin blem, uman dɛn kin blem dɛnsɛf. Dem kip de wanda, "Dis na somtin we a du rong?" Bɔt di tru tin na dat, bɔku pan di pikin dɛn we kin kɔmɔt na bɛlɛ kin apin fɔ rizin dɛn we yu nɔ ebul fɔ kɔntrol . So, nɔ blem yusɛf ɛn sɔfa igen.
We yu lɔs pikin bikɔs yu gɛt bɛlɛ, yu nid tɛm fɔ wɛl, pan yu bɔdi ɛn pan yu maynd. Na nɔmal tin. Yu nɔ jɔs de kray fɔ di pikin we yu lɔs, bɔt yu de kray bak fɔ di bɔku drim dɛn we yu bin drim wit da pikin de.
Nɔto ɔlman kin gɛt dis kayn pwɛl hat di sem we. Yu kin fil lɛk dɛn tin ya:
| Di filin we yu de fil | Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan... |
|---|---|
| Vɛks | "Wetin mek dis apin to mi?" Fɔ fil vɛks pan di wɔl. |
| Fɔ de yu wan | Fɔ fil lɛk se nɔbɔdi nɔ ɔndastand dis sɔri-at. |
| Fɔ fil gilti | Blaming mi sef fo dis, se na mi bi di wan we rispansabl. |
| Lɔs fɔ intres pan ɛnitin | Fɔ lɔs intres pan tin dɛn we yu bin de ɛnjɔy trade. |
| Nɔ ebul fɔ pe atɛnshɔn pan sɔntin | Fɔ bi so distrakt dat yu nɔ ebul ivin du yu ɛvride wok dɛn fayn fayn wan. |
Fɔ sɔm tɛm, i nɔ kin izi fɔ yu fɔ luk famili dɛn we gɛt smɔl pikin dɛn ɔ fɔ de nia dɛn. Ivin if yu tink se yu de fayn naw, sɔntɛnde, yu at kin kam bak fɔ natin. Tink bɔt am, as di de we yu pikin fɔ bɔn de kam nia, pan Mama in De, ɔ if yu gɛt bɛlɛ bak, da ol sɔri-at kin kam bak fɔ ambɔg yu.
Aw lɔng ɛn aw yu go fil bad, i kin dipen pan bɔku tin dɛn. Fɔ ɛgzampul, if yu gɛt bɛlɛ leta we yu gɛt bɛlɛ, yu kin fil bad mɔ bikɔs yu dɔn tay di pikin fɔ lɔng tɛm. If yu dɔn du tin lɛk fɔ gi di pikin in nem ɛn sɛt rum, yu at kin dip ɛn tek lɔng tɛm fɔ mek i wɛl.
Mek wi get ep en sopot.
Na nɔmal tin fɔ fil yu wan we yu de fil dis kayn sɔri-at. Bɔt tray fɔ gɛt di sɔpɔt we yu nid naw ɛn tumara bambay.
Sɔpɔt unasɛf.
Yu man ɔ yu patna kin de fil dis pen bak. Bɔt di we aw i de sho am kin difrɛn frɔm yu yon. Sɔntɛm we yu vɛks, i nɔ go fil natin. We yu want fɔ tɔk bɔt am, i nɔ go ebul fɔ tɔk bɔt aw i de fil. If yu fil se dis ɔndastandin nɔ de bitwin una, i rili impɔtant fɔ go to pɔsin we de gi advays ɛn we dɔn tren mɔ fɔ du dɛn kayn tin ya. Dɔn una ɔl tu kin ɔndastand unasɛf ɛn wok fɔ dis tranga tɛm togɛda.
Tink bɔt wan tim we de wok togɛda
I kin rili kɔrej yu fɔ jɔyn sɔpɔt grup wit ɔda pipul dɛn we dɔn go tru di sem ɛkspiriɛns lɛk yu. Yu kin aks yu ɔspitul ɔ dɔktɔ fɔ no bɔt dis kayn grup.
Fɛn wetin fit yu.
Dis pwɛl hat go las fɔ lɔng tɛm pas aw yu tink. Yu nid fɔ gi am tɛm. I nɔ go ebul fɔ rɔsh. Yu kin tɔk to yu padi ɛn fambul dɛn we ɔndastand yu. Yu kin plant tik fɔ mɛmba di pikin we dɔn lɔs, gi mɔni to wan ɔganayzeshɔn we de ɛp pipul dɛn, ɔ kip di mɛmori ɔda we. Sɔm uman dɛn kin tray fɔ gɛt bɛlɛ bak jɔs afta di bɛlɛ dɔn. Ɔda pipul dɛn kin ɛp ɔda pipul dɛn we dɔn go tru di sem ɛkspiriɛns we dɛn gɛt. If yu du gud to yusɛf ɛn mek yu maynd fil fayn, yu go ebul fɔ fɛn di we we go wok fɔ yu.
Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ kia fɔ yusɛf. Yu no nid fo ashu enibodi se "evritin fayn." Yu nɔ nid fɔ gi ɛnibɔdi lɔng ɛksplen bɔt wetin mek ɔ aw dis apin.
Aw a go tɛl ɔda pipul dɛn bɔt dis?
No ‘rayt’ we nɔ de fɔ tɛl ɔda pipul dɛn dis sɔri nyus. Mɛmba se yu fambul ɛn padi dɛn kin gɛt dɛn yon filin bɔt dis nyus. Yu kin want fɔ chenj di we aw yu de tɔk am dipen pan udat yu de tɛl am to.
| We | Tɔk bɔt |
|---|---|
| Fɔ se gudbai | Yu kin tɛl di wan dɛn we yu lɛk fes to fes se yu abop pan dɛn fɔ ɔg yu ɛn kɔrej yu. |
| Fɔ Rayt/Imel | Sɔntɛm i go izi fɔ yu fɔ tɛl sɔm fambul dɛn, padi dɛn, ɔ wok kɔleja dɛn bay lɛta ɔ tɛks mɛsej. Ɛksplen smɔl bɔt wetin apin ɛn us kayn sɔpɔt yu nid. |
| Fɔ rid wit yu padi | Wan ɔda tin we yu kin du na fɔ mek ɔda pɔsin brok di nyus fɔ yu. Sɔntɛm, yu padi we yu kin abop pan na yu wokples go tɛl yu. Yu mama ɔ sista kin tɛl ɔda pipul dɛn na yu famili. |
We yu de tɛl pikin dɛn...
If yu gɛt ɔda pikin dɛn, dis kin rili at fɔ tɛl dɛn. Dipen pan dɛn ej, i kin at fɔ lɛ dɛn ɔndastand wetin apin. Yuz simpul wɔd dɛn we ɔnɛs. Yu kin se sɔntin lɛk, "Di pikin nɔ bin gro fayn." Fɔ tɔk tin lɛk, "Mama lɔs di pikin" ɔ " Di pikin de slip" kin mek yu kɔnfyus fɔ yɔŋ pikin.
Pikin dɛn kin fil bad, bɔt dɛn nɔ no aw fɔ bia. Pe atɛnshɔn to di chenj dɛn we dɛn de du na di we aw dɛn de biev, ɛnkɔrej dɛn fɔ aks kwɛstyɔn, ɛn mek dɛn biliv se natin nɔ bad.
Lɛ wi rɛdi fɔ difrɛn ansa dɛn.
Yu kin ɛkspɛkt difrɛn ansa frɔm pipul dɛn we de tɔk dis. Sɔm pipul dɛn no gud gud wan wetin fɔ tɔk ɛn du, bɔt ɔda wan dɛn nɔ no. So i bɛtɛ fɔ mek yu rɛdi yu maynd bifo tɛm.
- Nɔ ansa: Sɔm pipul dɛn kin nɔ tɔk natin bikɔs dɛn nɔ no wetin fɔ tɔk. Dɛn kin fred fɔ tɔk sɔntin we go mek yu fil bad. No se dɛn bisin bɔt yu, bɔt dɛn de sɛt mɔt.
- Tradishonal kɔmfɔt wɔd dɛm: "I go bɛtɛ nɛks tɛm" ɔr "A ɔndastand yu pen" kin mek yu fil lɛk se dɛn nɔr bisin bɔt yu pen. Bɔku pipul dɛn nɔ kin tɔk dat fɔ mek yu fil bad.
- Nɔ pe atɛnshɔn to yu pwɛl hat: Ɔlman kin bia wit pwɛl hat difrɛn we. Nɔto ɔlman ɔndastand di impak we pikin we gɛt bɛlɛ kin gɛt. Bi ɔnɛs bɔt aw yu de fil. If dɛn nɔ ɔndastand, aks fɔ sɔpɔt frɔm pipul dɛn we ɔndastand yu.
- Na kɔmplit nɔmal tin fɔ fil bad afta yu dɔn gɛt bɛlɛ. Alaw yusɛf fɔ fil dɛn filin dɛn de.
- Bɔku tɛm, di bɛlɛ kin apin fɔ rizin dɛn we yu nɔ ebul fɔ kɔntrol, so nɔ fɔ blem yusɛf.
- Tɔk to yu patna. Una ɔl tu de sɔpɔt unasɛf tru dis tranga tɛm.
- Nɔ fred fɔ tɔk to yu dɔktɔ, pɔsin we de gi yu advays, ɔ yu padi we yu kin abop pan. We yu aks fɔ ɛp, dat de sho se yu gɛt trɛnk.
- Gi yusɛf tɛm fɔ wɛl. No tɛm nɔ de we dɛn dɔn sɛt fɔ dis. Bi gud to yusɛf.
Dɛn nɔ go ɔndastand se i bin fɔ dɔn inof if yu bin tɔk sɔntin we simpul, ɔnɛs, lɛk, "A rili sɔri fɔ wetin apin to yu."
As yu de go tru dis joyn, kip yu maynd opin. Yu kin fɛn sɔpɔt frɔm pipul ɛn ples dɛn we yu nɔ de ɛkspɛkt. If yu gɛt ɛni kwɛstyɔn ɔ tin we de mɔna yu, nɔ ɛva shem fɔ tɔk to yu dɔktɔ.
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