Yu smɔl pikin de bang dɛn ed? (Head Banging) – Nɔ wɔri, lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis!

Mama ɛn papa, una go mɔs de wɔri ɛn wɔri we una si yu smɔl pikin de bang in ed sɔntɛnde na di bed, di wɔl, ɔ pan tɔys, nɔto so? I rili nɔmal fɔ wan tawzin tin dɛn lɛk "Oh, wetin mek mi pikin de du dis? Sɔntin de rɔng wit am? Dis na di biginin fɔ big prɔblɛm?" fɔ kam na wi maynd. I nɔ kin sɔprayz fɔ fil bad bad wan ɛn wɔri da tɛm de. Bɔt yu go fil fri smɔl we yu no se dis nɔ kin bi sayn fɔ big prɔblɛm lɛk aw yu de tink. Tide, mek wi tok abaut `(Head Banging)` o ed bang fo simpul we and fain ansa to plenti kweshon we de fo yu maind.

Wetin mek sɔntɛnde wi smɔl pikin dɛn kin bang dɛn ed lɛk dis?

Bɔku rizin dɛn kin de fɔ dis. Di sem rizin nɔ de afɛkt ɔl pikin. So, wi nɔ panik, lɛ wi tray fɔ ɔndastand wetin na di pɔsibul kɔz.

1. Fɔ mek yusɛf want fɔ du sɔntin

Tink bɔt am, sɔntɛnde wi kin swing wi leg bak, ɔ jɔs sidɔm na chia ɛn rɔk bak ɛn biɛn. Semweso, smɔl pikin dɛnsɛf kin gɛt sɔm gladi at ɔ kol at pan dis ritmik muvmɛnt. As dɛn nervɔs sistɛm de divɛlɔp, dɛn tin ya na nyu ɛkspiriɛns fɔ dɛn. I tan lɛk se yu de lan bɔt dɛn bɔdi ɛn aw dɛn de muv. Yu kin si sɔm bebi dɛn de shek dɛn ed ɛn rɔk dɛn ed dis kayn we ivin bifo dɛn go slip.

2. Wan we fɔ kɔrej yusɛf (Self-Comfort) .

Jɔs lɛk aw sɔm bebi dɛn kin sok dɛn big an ɔ rɔk dɛnsɛf bak ɛn biɛn, dis kin bi wan we fɔ kɔrej dɛn. Ɛspɛshali we dɛn de fil taya, ɔr de wɔri smɔl ɔr nɔr de rɛst, dɛn kin de tray fɔ kol dɛnsɛf bay we dɛn de rɔk dɛn ed dis kayn we.

3. Wan we fɔ rilis wetin de na yu maynd (Frustration/Anger Release) .

Smɔl pikin dɛn nɔ kin no aw fɔ sho aw dɛn de fil fɔ fil bad, fɔ vɛks, ɔ fɔ fil bad wit wɔd. So, we dɛn de fil bad bad wan ɔ vɛks, sɔm bebi dɛn kin bang dɛn ed as we fɔ mek i kɔmɔt. I tan lɛk we wi kin klem wi an we wi vɛks, ɔ sɔntɛnde wi kin slam domɔt. Bikɔs dɛn nɔ ebul fɔ kɔntrol dɛn filin yet, dɛn kin yuz bɔdi fɔ fri dɛn.

4. Pen Rilif (rare) .

Dis nɔto sɔntin we yu kin si bɔku tɛm. Bɔt nɔto ɔltɛm , pikin dɛn kin bang dɛn ed dis kayn we bikɔs dɛn yes de at, dɛn tit de pen, ɔ ɔda tin dɛn we nɔ kin izi fɔ dɛn bɔdi. Insay dɛn kayn tin ya, apat frɔm we di pikin de bang dɛn ed, i kin sho ɔda sayn dɛn bak lɛk fɔ kray, nɔ gri fɔ it, ɛn fɔ ol dɛn yes.

5. Fɔ mek pipul dɛn pe atɛnshɔn to dɛn

Sɔntɛnde, if yu rili gladi ɛn gi yu pikin bɔku atɛnshɔn we i nak in ed, i kin ɛksplen am lɛk se, "We a du dis, mama ɛn papa go luk mi ɛn kam nia mi." Dɔn, i go want fɔ du dis ivin we i want fɔ mek yu pe atɛnshɔn to am.

So, ustɛm dis ed bang kin bi nɔmal?

Bɔku tɛm, dis nɔto natin fɔ wɔri bɔt, mɔ if:

• Ej: Dis abit kin bigin arawnd 6-9 mɔnt. i kin bi mכr notis arawnd 18-24 mכnt (1 1/2 - 2 ia), εn i kin stכp insεf bay 3-4 ia.
• If no ɔda tin nɔ de we de mek i nɔ ebul fɔ gro fayn: If yu pikin de tɔk, waka, ɛn ple wit ɔda pipul dɛn de apin pan di spid we fit in ej, natin nɔ de fɔ wɔri bɔt.
• If i nɔ at: If yu pikin nak dɛn ed ɛn nɔ mek big injuri ɔ skata, ɔ jɔs rɛd smɔl, i kin de insay di nɔmal limit.
• If yu du am fɔ shɔt tɛm: If yu jɔs du dis fɔ sɔm minit ɛn afta dat yu go bak fɔ du ɔda tin.
• If yu kin du am sɔm tɛm nɔmɔ: Nɔto ɔltɛm, bɔt na we yu taya, we yu go slip, ɔ we yu de fil strɛs.

Mɛmba se nɔto ɔl pikin dɛn na di sem. Sɔm bebi dɛn nɔ kin ɛva du dis. Ɔda pipul dɛn kin du am fɔ sɔm tɛm ɛn dɛn kin stɔp.

Wetin wi as mama ɛn papa go du we wi pikin nak in ed?

Okay, naw mek wi si wetin yu go du fo taim laik dis.

1. Sef de kam fɔs!

Dis na di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl. Minim di chans fɔ inju di pikin as mɔ as yu ebul.

• Krib: Mek shɔ se di krib fayn so dat yu pikin in ed nɔ go stɔp bitwin di bar dɛn. If di bed de nia di wɔl, put am so dat i nɔ go kech bitwin di wɔl dɛn. Sɔm pipul dɛn kin yuz pad krib layna, bɔt tek tɛm wit dɛn, bikɔs dɛn kin mek yu pikin nɔ ebul fɔ blo fayn. Pik di we we sef pas ɔl akɔdin to di advays we dɔktɔ gi.
• Rimov tin dɛn we shap ɛn at: Tek tɛm wit tin dɛn we gɛt shap kɔna, lɛk tebul ɛn chia, na say dɛn we yu pikin de hang ɛn ple. If i pɔsibul, pul dɛn ɔ put kɔna gad pan dɛn.
• If yu de ple na grɔn: Put sɔntin we saf ɔl (play mat) na grɔn.

2. Nɔ Riak Ɔva Riak

Na nɔmal tin fɔ fil bad ɛn fil bad we yu si dis. Bɔt, tray nɔ fɔ tek am as big tin as yu ebul. Sɔntɛnde, dis kayn we aw yu de biev kin bɔku we yu de kɔl, ala, ɔ pɔnish. Dɔn bak, bikɔs ɔf di big tin we yu de du, di pikin kin yuz am as we fɔ mek pipul dɛn pe atɛnshɔn to am.

3. Adrɛs di ɔndalayn kɔz.

• If yu pikin vɛks: If yu pikin vɛks ɔ vɛks, tich am ɔda we fɔ sho am. Ɔg am ɛn kɔrej am. Aks am tin dɛm lɛk, "Yu sɔri, ɔni?" "Yu vɛks?" ɛn gi am wɔd fɔ di we aw i de fil.
• If yu taya:Mek ples usay yu pikin go ebul fɔ slip fayn. Establish a calming routine , we gɛt fɔ du wit tin dɛn we go ɛp yu pikin fɔ rilaks bifo i go slip. Fɔ ɛgzampul, fɔ was yu pikin in bɔdi, fɔ rid buk, ɔ fɔ siŋ saful saful siŋ.
• If yu tink se i de fil pen: If yu pikin de kray pas aw i kin kray, i de ol in yes, ɔ i nɔ gri fɔ it, go to dɔktɔ wantɛm wantɛm.

4. Introdyus ɔda we dɛn fɔ mek pɔsin in at kol

If yu pikin de bang in ed fɔ fɛn ritm ɛn kol at, yu kin introduks am to ɔda ritm, sef we dɛn.

• Dans sloslo to di myuzik.
• Mek dɛn tap wan tɔys drɔm jisnɔ.
• Rayd sloslo pan wan swing.
• Hol am na yu an ɛn rɔk am smɔl smɔl.

5. Gi bɔku gud atɛnshɔn.

We yu pikin nɔ de bang in ed, prez am bɔku we i de ple fayn, we i de smayl, ɔ du nyu tin. Tɔk to am, ple wit am, ɛn kɔl am. Dɔn, i go lan se i nɔ nid fɔ bang in ed fɔ mek yu pe atɛnshɔn to am.

Ustɛm wi fɔ tɔk to dɔktɔ bɔt dis? Wetin na "rɛd flag"?

Pan ɔl we dis nɔ kin bi natin fɔ wɔri bɔt, sɔntɛnde i kin impɔtant fɔ go to dɔktɔ. Yu fɔ no bɔt dɛn "rɛd flag" ya:

• If divɛlɔpmɛnt delay de:
• If yu fil se di we aw yu pikin de tɔk we i de tɔk ɔ di we aw i de mek i nɔ ebul fɔ waka, de biɛn ɔda pikin dɛn we gɛt in ej klia wan.
• If dɛn nɔ ɔndastand simpul instrɔkshɔn dɛn we fit dɛn ej.
• If yu gɛt sɔshal intarakshɔn prɔblɛm:
• Ple wit ɔda pipul dɛm (especially ɔda pikin dɛm) ɛn mek yu yay kɔntakt if nɔr intres, ɔ if na smɔl tin.
• If yu nɔ smayl bak we yu smayl, dɛn nɔ kin luk yu fes.
• If dɛn nɔ intres fɔ sho dɛn tɔys to ɔda pipul dɛn ɔ sheb dɛn gladi at.
• If di ed bang rili bad ɔ i kin apin bɔku tɛm:
• If yu bang yu ed bɔku tɛm insay di de ɛn fɔ lɔng tɛm (mɔ pas 15-20 minit).
• If i bad fɔ wund insɛf (so i go gɛt skata ɛn blɔd).
• If dis bihayvya de mek i nɔ pɔsibul fɔ du ɛvride wok (it, ple) fayn fayn wan.
• If yu kɔntinyu fɔ du am ivin afta di nɔmal ej:
• Dis abit kin dɔn afta 3-4 ia. If i kɔntinyu ɔ wɔs afta 4-5 ia, yu fɔ rili go to dɔktɔ.
• If ɔda tin dɛn de we kin apin we pɔsin kin ripit:
• Apat frɔm we yu de bang yu ed, if ɔda tin dɛn de we yu kin du ɔltɛm lɛk fɔ flap yu an, fɔ waka na yu fut, fɔ spin rawnd di sem we, ɛn fɔ ple wit di sem tɔys di sem we fɔ lɔng tɛm.
• If yu gɛt big dawt ɔ fred:
• Pan ɔl dis, if yu gɛt ɛni dawt, fred, ɔ wɔri bɔt dis, i go fayn ɛn i go fayn fɔ mek yu go to dɔktɔ ɔltɛm. I go ɛp bak fɔ mek di lod we de na yu maynd nɔ bɔku.

Sɔmtɛm dɛn kayn sik ya kin gɛt fɔ du wit nyurodivɛlɔpmɛnt disɔda, lɛk Ɔtizm Spɛktrum Disɔda. Bɔt dis nɔ min se ɔl pikin we nak dɛn ed gɛt dis sik. Na dat mek i impɔtant fɔ go to dɔktɔ fɔ mek dɛn no di sik fayn fayn wan.

Wetin kin apin we yu go si dɔktɔ?

We yu kɛr yu pikin go to dɔktɔ, di dɔktɔ go du dɛn tin ya:

• Aks di ditel: Ustɛm di pikin bigin fɔ bang in ed? Aw lɔng i dɔn de du am? Ɔmɔs tɛm insay di de i kin du am? Us tɛm insay di de i kin du am? Ɛnibɔdi na di famili dɔn gɛt dis abit? Aw di pikin de it ɛn slip? I go aks bɔku kwɛstyɔn dɛn ɛn gɛt di ditel dɛn.
• Dɛn go du wan ɛgzam fɔ di pikin: Dɛn go chɛk di pikin gud gud wan. Dɛn go chɛk fɔ si if dɛn gɛt injury na dɛn ed ɛn ɔda prɔblɛm dɛn na dɛn bɔdi.
• ases divεlכpmεnt: I de chεk if di pikin de na di divεlכpmεnt maylston dεm we fit in ej.
• Advays: Bɔrku tɛm, dis nɔr kin wɔri bɔt ɛn dɛn go tɛl yu bɔt wetin fɔ du.
• Fɔ du mɔ tɛst if nid de: If ɛni dawt de, sɔntɛnde i kin nid fɔ rifer to ɔda spɛshal pipul dɛn (Pikin Nyurolɔjis, Divɛlɔpmɛnt Pikin dɛn).

So, wetin na di las tin dɛn we wi fɔ mɛmba? (Mɛsej we dɛn kin tek go na os)

Okay, so lɛ wi sɔma di pɔynt dɛn we yu nid fɔ tek in kɔnt frɔm wetin wi dɔn tɔk bɔt:

• Bɔku tɛm i nɔmal: Fɔ bang di ed na nɔmal tin we di pikin de gro. I kin bi we fɔ mek dɛn gɛt kɔrej, ritm, ɔ fri dɛn filin.
• Tink bɔt sef: I rili impɔtant fɔ arenj di say we di pikin de so dat di pikin nɔ go wund.
• Nɔr de du tin pasmak: Wae yu de du tin pasmak, dat kin mek yu de biev pasmak. Stay wit yu at.
• Yu fɔ no bɔt "rɛd flag": If ɛni wan pan di divɛlɔpmɛnt delay ɛn sɔshal rilayshɔn prɔblɛm dɛn we wi bin tɔk bɔt de, mek shɔ se yu go to dɔktɔ.
• Ɔltɛm go to dɔktɔ if yu gɛt ɛni dawt: If yu gɛt ɛnitin we de mɔna yu ɔ dawt, i bɛtɛ fɔ tɔk to dɔktɔ ɛn sɔlv am.
• Nɔto yu wan de: Nɔto yu wangren mama ɔ papa we de go tru dis ɛkspiriɛns. Bɔku mama ɛn papa dɛn kin dil wit tin dɛn lɛk dis.

So, we yu si yu smɔl pikin de bit dɛn ed, nɔ panik, kip dɛn tin ya na yu maynd, go to dɔktɔ if nid de, ɛn a op se yu go fɛn di trɛnk fɔ fes dis sityueshɔn wit lɔv ɛn peshɛnt!

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