Yu pikin we nɔ de go skul kin kɔmplen bɔku tɛm se i angri? (Preschooler Hunger) Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis!

Yu smɔl pikin, dat na priskul pikin, kin se, "Mama, a angri bak!" insay twɛnti minit we yu it gud it? Tide wi go tok boht if i fayn foh gi dem snek da tehm de. Dis na sɔntin fɔ tink bɔt, bikɔs "angri" nɔ kin min ɔltɛm se dɛn rili angri.

Wetin mek smɔl pikin dɛn kin se "a angri" ɔltɛm?

Priskul na tɛm we pikin dɛn de lan fɔ ɔndastand ɛn sho aw dɛn de fil wit wɔd. So, bɔrku tɛm wae dɛn kin fil se dɛn de bost, de fil lɛk dɛn wan, sɔri, ɔr gɛt sɔm ɔda filin wae dɛn nɔr kin ɔndastand gud gud wan, di izi wɔd wae dɛn kin yuse fɔ am na "angri."

Imajin, if yu pikin bost ɛn nɔ gɛt pɔsin fɔ ple wit we yu bizi, i kin kam se, “A angri.” If yu gi am it da tɛm de, i go lan se fɔ it na di bɛst we fɔ mek i nɔ taya. Ɔ, if yu kɔrej am wit it we i sɔri, i go mek padi biznɛs bitwin it ɛn sɔri-at. Dɔn, i go gɛt di abit fɔ luk fɔ it we i fil bad, nɔto we i rili angri. As tɛm de go, i go rili at fɔ lɛ wi lɛf dis abit. Apat frɔm dat, if yu gi am it lɛk dat, dat nɔ go mek i rili sɔlv di prɔblɛm we i de fil, we i de bost, ɔ we i de in wan, nɔto so?

Wetin wi kin du dɛn kayn tɛm dɛn de?

If yu pikin se "A angri" wantɛm wantɛm, bifo yu gi dɛn it wantɛm wantɛm, tray fɔ tɔk to dɛn fɔ smɔl tɛm. Aks dɛn dis wit rili fayn ɛn lɔv we:

• "Wetin mi pikin/gita bin de du dis taim, oni?"
• "Yu go laik kom ple wit mi fo likl?"
• "A dɔn bost smɔl?"

If, we yu aks dis, yu pikin fɔgɛt bɔt it ɛn intres fɔ ple wit yu, ɔ if i gladi fɔ mek yu pe atɛnshɔn to am, yu go ɔndastand se i rili want yu lɔv, atɛnshɔn, ɔ sɔntin fɔ du, nɔto it fɔ satisfay in angri. Bɔt if yu tɔk da we de, ɔ tɔk to am bɔt fɔ ple, bɔt di pikin kɔntinyu fɔ se, "A angri, a nid sɔntin fɔ it," dat min se i kin rili angri. Natin nɔ bad fɔ gi am smɔl snek we gɛt fayn fayn tin dɛn fɔ it dɛn kayn tɛm dɛn de.

Lɛ wi tɔk to wi pikin dɛn bɔt angri ɛn ful-ɔp.

Dis rili impɔtant. Frɔm we dɛn yɔŋ, fɔ tich pikin dɛn wetin "angri" min ɛn wetin "ful" min go afɛkt dɛn fɔ di res ɔf dɛn layf. Infakt, dɛn bɔn wi ɔl wit di pawa we wi bɔn wit fɔ no if wi bɔdi nid it ɔ nɔ nid fɔ it. Jɔs lɛk aw bebi kin put dɛn bɔtul milk dɔŋ we dɛn ful-ɔp. Bɔt as wi de ol, sɔntɛnde bikɔs ɔf di tin dɛn we de apin na di say we wi de ɔ di bad abit dɛn we wi gɛt, wi kin nɔ pe atɛnshɔn to dɛn sayn dɛn ya we de kɔmɔt na wi bɔdi. Na da tɛm de wi kin bigin fɔ it we wi nɔ nid ɛn wi kin gɛt mɔ wet.

Pikin we no we dɛn angri ɛn we dɛn ful-ɔp kin kɔntrol di it we dɛn de it. Wi nɔ sɔprayz fɔ no se bɔku tɛm, pikin dɛn we nɔ ebul fɔ no we dɛn ful-ɔp, na dɛn kin gɛt bɔku bɔku bɔdi.

Dɛn tin ya go ɛp yu pikin fɔ ɔndastand se i ful-ɔp.

Sɔm simpul tin dɛn de we yu kin du fɔ ɛp yu pikin fɔ no we i angri ɛn we i ful-ɔp:

• Fɔgɛt di lɔ we se "it te di plet klin": If yu pikin fil ful, lɛ i stɔp fɔ it, ivin if it stil lɛf. Nɔ fos dɛn fɔ it ɔltin, se, "O, jɔs smɔl mɔ." Dis go tich dɛn fɔ ansa dɛn yon angri ɛn ful-ɔp, we min se dɛn fɔ lisin.
• If yu pikin kin lɛf it na in plet bɔku tɛm, tray fɔ gi am smɔl smɔl tin dɛn instead fɔ gi am big pat wan tɛm. Dɛn kin aks fɔ mɔ if dɛn want.
• Bi ɛgzampul: Mek yu pikin yɛri yu de slo we yu fil ful, tɔk tin lɛk, "O, dis it de te, bɔt a rili ful naw, so a go stɔp fɔ it." Bifo yu sheb di sɛkɔn tɛm, mek lɛk se yu de aks yusɛf se, "A stil angri?" Pikin dɛn go notis dis.

Priskul pikin dɛm we de it ɔl di de: Lɛ wi lan bɔt "Grazing".

Bɔku tɛm, pikin we nɔ go skul yet kin it tri men it dɛn ɛvride, ɛn i kin it tu ɔ tri snek dɛn. Dat na wɛlbɔdi patɛn. Bɔt if dɛn gi dɛn di chans, sɔm pikin dɛn kin lɛk fɔ it smɔl smɔl tin dɛn ɔl di de. Lɛk animal we de it gras, it smɔl smɔl ɛn bɔku tɛm na wetin wi kɔl "grazing." Pikin we de it lɛk dis ɔltɛm, we i nɔ de tink bɔt ɛnitin, nɔ kin fil angri we i de it.

Wetin mek wi nid fɔ stɔp dis "grazing"?

Lɛ wi luk wetin mek i nɔ fayn fɔ mek pikin it smɔl smɔl it dɛn ɔl di de:

• Nɔ intres pan di men it dɛn: Pikin we rili angri we i de it kin tray fɔ it nyu it dɛn, mɔ di it dɛn we gɛt fayn fayn tin dɛn lɛk vɛjitebul ɛn frut. Pikin we kin ful-ɔp ɔltɛm afta i dɔn it sɔntin kin nɔ gri fɔ it di men it dɛn.
• Risk fɔ mek dɛn gɛt bɔku bɔku wet: Bɔku tɛm, pikin dɛn we de it gras kin it tin dɛn we gɛt bɔku kalori , bɔt we nɔ gɛt bɛtɛ tin fɔ it ɛn drink, lɛk biskit, chɔklɛt, ɛn drink dɛn we gɛt swit. Dis kin mek dɛn gɛt mɔ prɔblɛm fɔ gɛt bɔku bɔku wet .
• I kin pwɛl di tit: If yu it swit ɔltɛm, mɔ swit, i kin pwɛl pikin dɛn tit ɛn i kin mek dɛn gɛt bɔku bɔku tit . Dis na bikɔs di asid we de na di mɔt kin bɔku afta ɛvri it, we nɔ fayn fɔ di tit.

If yu de it ɛn snek ɔltɛm, dat na fɔ sɛt tɛm, dat kin ɛp fɔ ridyus dis gras. Pikin dɛn kin lɛk dis bikɔs dɛn no wetin de kam nɛks ɛn ustɛm dɛn go gɛt dɛn it. Fɔ ɛgzampul, if pikin fil angri we i de rid stori, if dɛn no se na tɛm fɔ it snek, i nɔ go mek i strɛs tumɔs. Dɔn bak, if pikin nɔ angri di tɛm we i de it aftanun snek, dɛn no se i nɔ bad fɔ skip am bikɔs dina de kam jisnɔ.

Bɔt, wan ɔda tin de fɔ mɛmba wit ɔl dis. Di de dɛn we yu pikin dɔn de rɔn rawnd ɛn ple ɔl di de, i nɔmal fɔ lɛ dɛn angri smɔl pas aw dɛn kin angri ɛn aks fɔ smɔl mɔ it. Sɔntɛnde lɛk dɛn tɛm ya, yu nid fɔ chenj chenj smɔl. Natin nɔ bad fɔ gi dɛn ɛkstra snek we gɛt bɔku tin fɔ it, ɔ gi dɛn smɔl pas di men it we dɛn de it. Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ ɔndastand wetin yu pikin nid ɛn du tin di rayt we.

Fɔ dɔn, di tin dɛn we impɔtant pas ɔl fɔ mɛmba (Take-Home Message) .

Okay, so frɔm wetin wi dɔn tɔk bɔt, yu fɔ ebul fɔ ɔndastand di stori biɛn di angri we pikin we nɔ de go skul yet kin angri. Fɔ sɔmtin:

• We yu pikin se "angri," tray fɔ ɔndastand if na rial angri ɔ jɔs ɔda filin. Tɔk wit lɔv ɛn pe atɛnshɔn to dɛn.
• Fɔ tich yu pikin bɔt angri ɛn fɔ ful-ɔp na big invɛstismɛnt fɔ mek dɛn gɛt wɛlbɔdi tumara bambay.
• Nɔ mek lɔ lɛk "yu fɔ it te di plet klin." Tich yu pikin fɔ lisin to in bɔdi.
• Ridyus di abit fɔ "gras" (it smɔl smɔl it ɔl di de). Establish wan kɔnsistɛns it ɛn snek patɛn.
• Mɛmba se di de dɛn we yu pikin kin rili du tin, i kin angri smɔl. Bi fleksibul insay dɛn tɛm dɛn de.
• Tray ɔltɛm fɔ gi yu it ɛn snek dɛn we gɛt fayn fayn tin dɛn fɔ it.

If yu kip dɛn tin ya na yu maynd ɛn wok wit yu smɔl pikin wit peshɛnt ɛn lɔv, yu go ebul fɔ avɔyd bɔku prɔblɛm dɛn we i gɛt fɔ it. Mɛmba se ɔl pikin difrɛn. Di impɔtant tin na fɔ fɛn di we we go wok fayn fɔ yu pikin.

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