We yu rɛdi fɔ briŋ ɔda pikin kam na yu os, di big kwɛstyɔn we de na yu maynd na bɔt yu big pikin, nɔto so? Na nɔmal tin fɔ gɛt tin dɛn lɛk, ‘I go mis mi?’, ‘I go jɛlɔs di pikin?’. We nyu mɛmba kam min big chenj fɔ yu, yu big pikin, ɛn ivin yu animal dɛn we yu lɛk. Bɔt nɔ wɔri, wit smɔl peshɛnt ɛn smɔl pripia, wi kin fes dis chalenj rili saksesful wan.
Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis wit di big pikin.
Aw yu big pikin go ɔndastand bɔt nyu brɔda ɛn sista go dipen pan in ej. Bɔt yu kin kam nia dɛn ɛn bigin fɔ tɔk to dɛn bɔt dat. Jɔs ɛksplen to dɛn aw pikin dɛn we dɛn jɔs bɔn tan ɛn wetin dɛn de du. Imajin se yu big pikin stil de slip na bed. So, bay nyu bed fɔ am sɔm mɔnt bifo di nyu pikin kam na os ɛn mek i yus to am. Da we de, i nɔ go fil lɛk se "A gi mi ples to di pikin." Dɔn bak, stɔp fɔ kɔl di krib yu big pikin in yon ɛn bigin kɔl am "di pikin in krib." Na di sem tin kin apin to in ol bebi klos. Gi am di filin se
"dεn tin ya wi de yuz fכ bebi dεm na os." If i pɔsibul, tek yu big pikin wit yu we yu de go na di klinik. Mek i yɛri di pikin in
at bit . Yu kin sho yu big pikin foto dɛn bak we i bin smɔl ɛn tɛl am aw pikin dɛn tan ɛn aw dɛn kin drink milk.
Bɔt nɔ tɔk bɔt dis tumɔs bifo tɛm. 9 mɔnt na lɔng tɛm fɔ smɔl pikin fɔ wet fɔ sista ɔ brɔda. Mek i fil di pikin de kik na in bɛlɛ, bɔt nɔ mek am big tɔpik. If yu de se "big bɔy" ɔ "big sista" ɔltɛm, leta i kin biev lɛk smɔl pikin bak (rɛgrɛshɔn).
I nɔ mata aw yu tray fɔ pripia am, i go jɔs ɔndastand di ful minin fɔ gɛt nyu brɔda ɛn sista wans i si di pikin wit in yon yay. I kin tink se i de gɛt pɔsin fɔ ple wit lɛk di 3 ia ol brɔda we de nia am. So difrɛns kin de bitwin in fantasi ɛn di rial tin. Dat na nɔmal tin. We yu go na ɔspitul fɔ mit di pikin, fram yu big pikin in foto ɛn kip am nia yu bed. Nɔ tɔk natin bɔt am. Di pikin dɛn go mɔs si am. Dɔn dɛn go tink se, "Mama nɔ fɔgɛt mi, i nɔ lɛf mi."
Wetin kin apin afta di pikin kam na os?
Pan ɔl we di nyu pikin kin tan lɛk se i rili lɛk di big pikin fɔs, afta sɔm tɛm, we i no se na tru, i kin fil bad lɛk fɔ vɛks, fɔ fil bad, ɛn fɔ fil bad.
Dis na rili nɔmal tin, nɔ wɔri bɔt am.Sɔm mama ɛn papa dɛnsɛf kin fil bad ɛn dɛn kin fil dɛn wan insay dis tɛm. Dɛn kin tink se, "O, wetin a du to mi big pikin?" Wi kin fil bad fɔ da bond we dɔn lɔs. Dat na nɔmal tin. Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na
fɔ gri wit di bad we aw yu pikin de fil lɛk aw i de. Nɔ kɔl dɛn ɔ blem dɛn fɔ dɛn filin dɛn de. Bifo dat, nɔ mek dɛn wangren de dil wit dɛn filin dɛn de, tɔk bɔt dɛn, ɛn kɔrej dɛn. Fɔ ɛgzampul, if pɔsin aks dɛn se, "Wetin mek Mama de ol da pikin de? Yu nɔ go jɔs put am fa?", dɛn kin fil bad bad wan. Dɛn go no se, "O, nɔto mi nɔmɔ de fil dis kayn we."
Sɔm smɔl smɔl advays dɛn
- Rilaks di lɔ dɛn: Nɔ kɔl yu pikin fɔ we i de ple lawd wan pan ɔl we di TV de ɔp. Mek yu pikin yus to di nɔmal sawnd dɛm na di os. If i tu lawd, mek i du ɔda tin we kwayɛt.
- Gɛt ɛp: Nɔ trit di pikin lɛk tin we dɛn nid fɔ kia fɔ. Gi di big pikin smɔl smɔl wok dɛn bak. Se tin dɛn lɛk, "Bring dɛn wayp dɛn de, bɔy pikin," ɔ "Bring dis dayapɛt, gyal pikin."
- Sɛt spɛshal tɛm: Ilɛksɛf yu bizi, put at le 10 minit ɛvride fɔ spɛn yu wan wit yu big pikin. I nɔ nid fɔ bi big tin. I kin simpul lɛk fɔ sidɔm wit am na grɔn ɛn ple motoka gem, ɔ bay chɔklɛt ba we i lɛk we yu go bay tin fɔ am.
- Yu de tray tranga wan fɔ bi bebi bak? Sɔntɛnde, yu big pikin kin bigin fɔ biev lɛk smɔl pikin bak. Wi kɔl dis rigrɛshɔn . I wet di bed, aks fɔ bɔtul, ɛn aks fɔ daypa. I de du am bikɔs i want di atɛnshɔn we pikin de gɛt. Nɔ kɔl am da tɛm de. Nɔ se, "Yu na big bɔbɔ naw." If i se i want bɔtul ɔ daypa fɔ sɔm dez, lɛ i. Mɔs tɛm, afta yu lɛf da filin de, i go want fɔ bi "big brɔda" ɔ "big sista" bak.
Lɛ wi tink bak bɔt di animal dɛn we wi kin mɛn na os?
Nɔ fɔgɛt bɔt yu dɔg ɔ pusi we yu gɛt nyu pikin. Na big chenj na dɛn layf bak. Nyu smel, nyu sawnd, chenj rutin... ɔl dis na nyu tin to dɛn. Sɔntɛnde, animal dɛn we dɛn kin mɛn kin bigin fɔ vɔmit, akt, poop na os, it tin dɛn, ɛn ala na nɛt bikɔs ɔf dis strɛs. Animal dεm nכ de כndastand komplex imכshכn dεm lεk "jealousy." Bɔku tɛm dɛn kin
vɛks ɛn kɔnfyus . So fɔ pɔnish dɛn na di wɔs tin we yu go du. Bifo dat, mek dɛn yus to dis nyu mɛmba.
| Ɛp | Wetin yu nid fɔ du |
|---|
| Yuz to nyu sawnd dɛn. | Bifo di pikin kam na os, rikodɔ sawnd we di pikin de kray ɛn ple am sloslo fɔ mek di animal yus to di sawnd. Smɔl smɔl, yu go mek di vɔlyum go ɔp. |
| Stɔp "bebi tɔk". | If yu kol yu pet "mi likl darling," stop. Bikɔs we yu kɔl yu pikin da we de, yu animal we yu lɛk kin tink se yu de tɔk to am. |
| Yuz to di smel. | Nɔ pripia di pikin in rum wan tɛm, ad tin dɛn smɔl smɔl ɛn mek di animal we yu lɛk fɔ fɛn di rum. |
| Chenj yu rutin bifo tɛm. | chenj tin dεm we go chenj afta di pikin kam (e.g., we fכ waka di animal) bifo tεm εn mek i yus to am. |
| Yuz fɔ tɔch pɔsin | Pikin kin tu kwik smɔl fɔ tɔch am. So, tɔch di animal in yes ɛn tel jisnɔ, ɛn gi am trit da tɛm de, fɔ mek i yus to da kayn tɔch de. |
Fɔ dɔn, dis ɔl na fɔ shɔt tɛm nɔmɔ. Dis na jɔs smɔl ajɔstmɛnt tɛm we wi ɔl kin go tru as famili. As tɛm de go, dis tranga tɛm go jɔs bi fɔ mɛmba. Di nyu mɛmba go briŋ mɔ lɔv ɛn gladi at to di famili.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Tɔk to yu big pikin bɔt di nyu pikin kwik kwik wan, ɔnɛs wan ɛn di we we i go ɔndastand.
- Mek yu big pikin tek pat pan di pripia fɔ di pikin. I go mek i fil se i impɔtant.
- I nɔmal fɔ mek big pikin vɛks, sɔri, ɔ jɛlɔs fɔ dɛn pikin. Nɔ blem dɛn fɔ dɛn filin dɛn de, bɔt ɔndastand dɛn.
- Ilɛksɛf yu bizi, put smɔl tɛm ɛvride fɔ spɛn tɛm yu wan wit yu big pikin.
- Nɔ fɔgɛt fɔ rɛdi yu animal dɛn na os fɔ dis nyu chenj.
- Dis na jɔs fɔ sɔm tɛm fɔ ajɔst. Peshɛnt ɛn sho lɔv. If yu gɛt siriɔs wɔri bɔt aw yu pikin de biev, tɔk to yu dɔktɔ.
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Sinhala , nyu pikin pripia, pikin jɛlɔs, nyu mɛmba to di famili,
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