I hmangaih tak chu a damlo em? An tanpui dan tur chu hetiang hi a ni! (Hmangaih tak thlawp) .

Chhungkaw member emaw, kan thian hnai tak emaw a damlo nghal tih kan hriat hian kan rilru put hmang hi thuin sawi a harsa hle a, a bik takin cancer ang chi natna khirh tak a ni. Khawthlang lamah chuan lungngai leh hlauhna kan nei a. Kawng lehlamah chuan chu mi chu tanpui kan duh a, mahse, "Tunah hian eng nge ka tih ang?", "Engtin nge ka tanpui ang?" Hei hi thil pangngai tak a ni. Nang pawhin chutiang bawka i ngaih chuan pawi suh. A pawimawh ber chu chu mi chu he hun khirh tak karah hian an bulah kan awm tih inhriat tir hi a ni.

Ṭanpuina i pêk hmaa i hriatthiam ngaite

Tu emaw kan puih kan tih hian kawng pawimawh pahnihin a tih theih a ni. Pakhat chu practical support a ni . Chu chu nitin hna thawhnaa tanpui tihna a ni. A dang chu emotional support a ni . Chu mi chu tanpui, anmahni bula awm tihna a ni. An pahnih hian an pawimawh hle. I ṭhian pakhatin hnute cancer a vei tih han ngaihtuah teh. Khawthlang lamah chuan doctor hmu turin a tlan a ngai a, enkawl a ngai bawk. Chutih lai chuan inchhung hna leh naupangte pawh a buaipui a ngai a ni. Kawng lehlamah chuan a chhungril lama rilru natna tam tak, hlauhna, mangang, thinrimna leh lungngaihna te nen a buai hle a ni. Chuvângin, kan ṭanpui hian heng lam pahnih hi kan ngaihtuah a ngai a ni.

Engtin chiah nge kan tanpui theih ang? (Thil tih tur) .

Tu emaw a damloh chuan, a mamawh dîl chungchâng ngaihtuah hun pawh a nei lo mai thei. Chuvangin tanpuina pek dan tur ngaihtuah a pawimawh hle.

Ṭanpuina ṭangkai tak chu rawt rawh

A tlangpuiin, "Eng emaw i mamawh em?", tih ai chuan hetiang thil chiang tak hi zawt rawh.

• "Vawiin chu dawrah ka kal dawn. In lama rawn ken tur i mamawh em? "
• "Vawiin chu Doctor hmu turin i kal a ngai a ni lawm ni? Ka rawn hruai che tur em ni? "
• "Vawiin chu i chau hmel hle mai. Sikul atangin naupangte hi ka hruai chhuak tur em ni? "
• "Damdawi lei i mamawh em? Damdawi dawrah ka kal a, ka la tur em ni? "
• "Vawiin hian chaw siam suh. Zanriah ka rawn keng ang che. "

Hetiang zawhna chiang tak i zawh hian chu mi tan chuan "yes" emaw "no" emaw tih a awlsam hle. An lakah phurrit lian tak an phurh chhuah ang maiin a lang.

An rilru put hmang chu hre rawh se.

Mi pakhatin natna a vei tih hriat a nih chuan thinrimna, hlauhna, mangang leh lungngaihna te hi thil pangngai tak a ni. Chutih hunah chuan, chutiang rilru put hmang chu sawi chhuah kan phal a ngai a ni.

• Ngun takin ngaithla rawh:An thusawi chu ngun takin ngaithla rawh. An lungngaihna emaw, thinrimna emaw an sawi hian titawp suh la, a chinfel dan tur pawh sawi nghal tum suh. An rilru put hmang i hriatthiamzia chu, "Ni e, chutianga inhriat chu a dik a ni," tih ang chi thu sawiin lantir rawh.
• I thlawpna lantir rawh: A châng chuan thu a ngai lo. Kut vawn te, mi kawr chunga i lu nghah te, tap tir te hi thlamuanna ropui tak a ni thei. "I bulah ka awm" tih message thawn rawh.

Heng tihsual (i tih loh tur thil) te hi ti ngai suh .

Thil tum \ha tak nena kan thil tih \henkhat hian damlo chu a ti na lehzual thei a ni. Chuvângin, hêng thilte hi a bîk takin fimkhur rawh.

Thu hlauhawm tak tak sawi suh.

Hei hi mi tam takin an hriat loha an tihsual lian tak a ni.

• , "Kan ṭhenawm pi pawhin chutiang natna chu a vei a, a tawpah chuan hei hi a chungah a thleng ta a ni..." tih ang chi thawnthu sawi ngai suh. Chutiang thawnthu chuan an hlauhthawnna a tizual dawn chauh a ni. Damlo tin hi kan danglam vek. Enkawl dan pawh a tha chho ta hle mai. Chuvangin an thil tawn tha lote chu midangte mawhpuh chungin an rilru ti na zual suh.
• Tin, khawi emaw laiah i hriat tawh enkawl dan tur pawh rawt suh, "Chu doctor chu a tha a, oil damdawi a tha a, porridge a tha a, etc." tih ang chi te pawh hi rawt suh. Chhungte tam tak an lo kal a, chutiang thil an sawi chuan damlo chuan thutlukna a siam thei lo. Damlo chuan damdawi ina enkawl mek chu tihtawp a, thutlukna dik lo pawh a siam thei a ni.

"Positive ni" turin in nawr luih suh.

"I thlarau kha vawng reng rawh," "positive takin awm rawh," leh "nang aia harsa zawk nei tam tak an awm" tih ang chi thu sawi hian an rilru dik tak chu a titawp mai a ni.

• Mi pakhatin a lungngaih lai emaw, a hlauh lai emawa hetianga sawi hian a rilru put hmang chu a tisual thei a ni. Anmahni an dem tan a, "Engvangin nge hetiang hian ka lungngaih?" Chu ai chuan, "Tun dinhmunah hian hlauhna leh lungngaihna i neih hi thil pangngai a ni. Chutiang chu a dik lo lo," tih hmangin an rilru put hmang chu hre rawh se.

Call i dawng lo a nih pawhin tlawh kha bansan suh.

A châng chuan, damlo tu emaw chuan call chhâng tûr emaw, thu sawi tûr emaw pawhin chakna a nei lo thei a ni.

• I call emaw, i text emaw, an chhan loh avangin pumpelh suh. An sawi duh lo mai thei, mahse i check in ang maia an awm theihna tur kawng tha tak a ni. Even sending a text message saying , "I thusawi harsa tak a ni ngei ang. Eng emaw i mamawh chuan min hriattir rawh." (Anmahni tibuai mai mai suh.)

A tawp berah chuan, tun dinhmunah i hmangaih tak mamawh chu superhero a ni lo tih hre reng ang che. An kut chelh tur, he zinkawng zawhpui tur, hrethiam tur an mamawh a ni. I awmna, i thumal pakhat, i tanpuina tlemte chu an tan chakna nasa tak a ni thei. Chuvangin, chu tanpuina chu hlau lovin, mahse fimkhur takin, thinlung takin ti rawh.