I tleirawl nen inbiak pawh harsa i ti em? (Adolescent Communication) Hemi chungchang hi han sawi ila!

Chibai! I in chhunga naupang lo ni thin i fa kha tunah chuan a lo puitlin a, tleirawl a lo ni ta a ni lawm ni? Kum sawm leh pathum atanga kum sawm leh pariat inkar hi an nunah inthlak danglamna nasa tak hun a ni a, kan nu leh pate nunah pawh a ni tak zet a ni. Tun hma ang a ni lo, anmahni biak, hriatthiam hi a chang chuan a harsa deuh thei. Mahse, lungngai suh, hei hi nu leh pa tam takin an tawn thin a ni. Hemi chungchang hi vawiinah hian chipchiar zawkin sawi ila, he hun chhunga kan fate nena kan inlaichinna siam that dan tur.

Engvangin nge hetiang kum hian inbiakna hi a pawimawh em em?

I hre reng mai thei, an naupan lai khan i fa chuan engkim a dil thin che a. Mahse tunah chuan an upa deuh tawh. An hun tam zawk chu in pawnah an hmang thin – sikul-ah te, extracurricular activities-ah te, hna danglam tak tak thawk te, emaw ṭhiante nen pawh an hmang ṭhin. Hei hi he hun lai pianphung a ni. Zawi zawiin khawvel hi anmahni chauhin an hmu tan a, anmahni ngaihdan an siam tan ta a ni.

Mahse, hei hi i thlawpna leh ngaihsakna an mamawh ber lai a ni. Nilengin tlem tal inbiakna hun neih a pawimawh hle. Chutah chuan an ngaihtuahna te, an harsatna te, an hlimna te an hrilh theih che hunah a ni. Ngaihtuah teh, sikulah buaina a awm a, an thianpa nen inrem lohna tlemte a awm a, a nih loh leh thil thar an zir a, an ngaihven hle a ni – biak tur leh an phurrit tihziaawmna tur mi rintlak an mamawh a ni. Chu mi chu nangmah i nih tam poh leh an nunah chakna an nei tam zawk ang.

"Kan fate hian an lo puitlin chuan thla an nei ang mai a ni. Mahse, chu thla chu a chak hma chuan thlawh dan dik tak kawhhmuh turin kan awm a ngai a ni."

Engtin nge kan fa tê tête nêna hlawhtling taka kan inbiak theih?

Hei hi mi tam takin harsatna an neih chu a ni. "Ka thusawi a ngaithla lo," "Thil ka zawh chuan a chhang lo," tih ang chi te pawh i ngaihtuah mai thei bawk. Hemi atan hian tips thenkhat han en ila.

1. Inbiakna hun ruat la.

Nilengin i buai a nih pawhin i fa tan hun tlem tal dah la. Zanriah ei laiin emaw, i fa mut hma minute sawm atanga minute sawm leh panga vel pawh a ni thei. A pawimawh ber chu i ngaihven tak tak ang tih leh an thusawi ngaihthlak tir hi a ni. Phone chu dah bo la, TV off la, i fa chu i ngaihven zawng zawng pe rawh.

2. Naupang chu biak la, an hnenah thu hril ni lovin.

Hei hi kan kal sual fo thinna hmun a ni. Thil tha kan zirtir niin kan ngai. Mahse, hriat lohvin an hnênah thu kan hril ṭan a, thurâwn kan pe reng a ni. Chutiang a lo thlen chuan naupangte chuan thusawi an hreh hle. Inbiakna hi kawng hnih a ni. An ngaihdan ngaithla la, an sawi tur chu nei rawh se. "Min ngaithla teh," tih ai chuan, "He thil hi engtin nge i ngaih?"

3. "Ni" emaw "ni lo" emaw tih piah lam zawhna zawt rawh.

"School a tha em?" a chhanna chu "ni" emaw "ni lo" emaw chauh a ni thei. Inbiakna chuan chu chu a pel lo. Chu ai chuan zawhna inhawng tak tak zawt rawh.

• "Vawiin school-a thil thleng ṭha ber/tha lo ber chu eng nge ni tih min hrilh teh?"
• "Ṭhian thar hi engtin nge i ngaih?"
• "I hmalam hun beiseina tlem min hrilh thei ang em?"

Hetiang zawhna an zawh hian an ngaihtuah a, an hrilhfiah a, an chhân a ngai a ni. Tichuan inbiakna chu a inhawng nghal mai ang.

4. In hun hman dun apiang, car-a in khalh lai hian hmang tangkai rawh.

A chang chuan naupangte tan hmaichhana inhmachhawn ai chuan thil dang an tih laiin inbiakna a awlsam zawk. Sikul i kal dawn emaw, class-a i hruai dawn emaw chuan car chhungah thu sawi rawh. Chutiang chuan pressure an nei tam lo ang. Tin, game khelh dun lai emaw, homework in tih lai emaw pawhin inbiakna hun remchang in siam thei bawk.

5. An thil tihnaah pawh inrawlh la, ngaihven rawh.

I fa chu infiamna lama thiam a nih chuan an inkhel en turin kal rawh. School event-ah tel ve rawh. An hla leh movie duh ber berte sawi rawh. Khawvela thil thleng emaw, chanchinbu-a thuthang pakhat chungchanga an ngaihdan emaw zawt rawh. Hetiang thil inang lo tak tak in sawi hian in inzawmna chu a nghet zual sauh ang.

Hetiang kum naupangte tawng hman dan leh inbiakpawhna hi eng ang nge ni?

Hetiang kum, kum 13 leh 18 inkarah hian naupangte tawng thiamna leh inbiakpawhna kalphung chu puitlingte nen a hnaih tawh hle. An thumal hman dan te, sentence insiam dan te, leh an hriatthiam dan te chu a buaithlak zual sauh sauh a.

Thumal leh hriatthiamna

• Thuhriltute hriatthiamna: Thumal awmzia dik tak chauh ni lovin, awmzia sawina, tehkhin thu leh tehkhin thute pawh an hrethiam thei a ni.
• A awlsam zawngin, thawnthuah chuan, "Tuiah rulhut paih ang mai a ni," kan ti a. Turtle tuiah an paih tihna a ni lo va, a hlim em em a, a zalen hle tihna a ni. Chutiang bawkin English pawhin idioms a nei bawk . Entirnan, "lu chungah nail hit" i tih chuan "thu dik i sawi" tihna a ni. "On thin ice" i tih chuan "i dinhmun hlauhawm takah i ding" tihna a ni. Chutiang thil chu an hrethiam a ni.
• Simile-ah pawh chutiang bawk chu a ni . "Lungpui ang maia chak" kan ti a. "Tough as nails" leh "clean as a whistle" tih te hi an hrethiam a ni.
• Metaphors pawh a inang vek. "Zan owl a ni" kan tih hian zanah a mu tihna a ni. "She's a night owl," "chu hmun chu Zoo a ni," etc. te hi an hrethiam thei a ni.
• Thumal buaithlak tak tak: Syntactic structure buaithlak tak tak an hrethiam thei a, an hmang thei bawk. Tin, punctuation ang chi thil pawimawhzia an hrethiam bawk.

Thusawi piah lama inbiakpawhna

Inbiakpawhna hi thu mai mai a ni lo. Naupangin mahni inngaihtuahna te, ṭhiante nena an inlaichinna te, puitling leh thuneitute an thlîr dân te a târ lang bawk.

Hetih hun chhung hian mahni nihna an zawng mek a ni. Anmahni ngaihtuahna, mahni khawvel, chhungkua atanga hla taka siam chhuah an tum a ni. Thil dik leh dik lo, leh nungchang lam thilte chu ngun takin an ngaihtuah tan ta a ni. Heng zawng zawng hian mi dangte nena an inbiak dan leh an inpawh dan a nghawng a ni.

Engtikah nge doctor emaw specialist emaw hnen atangin tanpuina kan zawn ang?

Vawi tam tak chu naupang tawng emaw, inbiakpawhna lama harsatna emaw chu hetiang kum hma hian hriatchhuah a ni. Mahse, a châng chuan he kum lamah hian harsatna thar a lo chhuak thei a, a nih loh leh harsatna awm tawh chu a lang chhuak thei bawk.

• School zirtirtute nen inbiak reng rawh: I fate tawng thiamna leh zirlai hmasawnna chungchang zirtirtute hnenah sawipui rawh. Zirtirtuten language-based learning disability an rinhlelh chuan , chhui chian nan formal test an neih a ngai mai thei.
• Heng test-ah hian hearing test , psychoeducational assessment (naupang zir dan leh an rilru lam kalphung enfiahna test bik), leh speech-language evaluation te pawh a tel thei.
• Inbiakpawhna lama harsatna bik: 1.1.
• I fa chu a thusawi laiin a bengchheng a nih chuan sikulah speech-language pathologist (speech and language disorders lama specialist) hnenah i refer tur a ni.
• Vocal-quality lama harsatna, hoarseness, breathiness , or cracking ang chi i neih chuan otolaryngologist hmuh a tha .

"Hetiang kum hian hetiang hi a ni em? A nih loh leh thil dang a ni em?" - Engtin nge i hriat chian?

Nu leh pa kan nih angin tunlai hian kan fate biak leh thunun a harsa hlein kan hria mai thei. Dik tak chuan hetiang kum lama naupangte hian an nu leh pate tlem an dodal a, anmahni ngaihdan neih an tum a, thuneihna neitute an dodal hi thil pangngai a ni. "Tleirawl helna"-ah a tel a, chu chu ṭhalai helna nihna a ni.

Mahse, naupang nungchang chuan in chhûnga thil tih dân pangngaiah harsatna nasa tak a thlen a nih chuan , a nih loh leh insual leh inhmachhawn fo a nih chuan, tleirawlte nungchang pangngai mai ni lovin, a tam zâwk a ni thei.

I fa nena in inlaichinna chu tuar theih loh khawpin i inhriat a, engtiang pawhin bei mah la, thil a tha lo hle nia i hriat chuan , i chhungkaw doctor emaw, counselor thiam tak emaw hnenah he thu hi sawipui ngei ang che. Ṭanpuina dil hreh ngai suh.

Hriat reng tur pawimawh ber berte (Take-Home Message) .

Kan sawiho atang hian hriatthiamna i neih ka beisei. Thutawp atan chuan hei hi sawi tur ka nei a ni:

• Dawhtheihna hi a pawimawh ber a ni: Heng hun hi hun harsa tak a ni. Mahse dawhthei rawh.
• Ngaithla rawh: I fa thusawi leh a sawi lohte chu ngaithla rawh. Anmahni hriatthiam tum ang che.
• Inbiakpawhna kawngte chu hawn reng rawh:Eng harsatna pawh ni se, i biak tur a ni a, an biak theih che tih rinna i siam tur a ni.
• He hun hi kumkhuain a daih dawn lo: He hun harsa tak hi ni engemaw zat hnuah a liam dawn a ni. Mahse he hun chhunga inzawmna nghet tak i siamte hian dam chhung zawng a daih ang.
• Nangmah chauh i ni lo: Hetiang harsatna hi nangmah chauh i nei lo. A tul chuan doctor emaw, counselor emaw, i ṭhian rintlak tak emaw hnenah ṭanpuina zawng rawh.
• Hmangaihna leh hriatthiamna: A chung berah chuan i fa chu i hmangaihna, i thlawpna leh i hriatthiamna pe reng rawh. Chu chu he hun buaithlak tak an paltlang theihna tura chakna lian ber an neih chu a ni.

He thuziak hian i fa naupang tak nena in inzawmna tichak turin a puih che ka beisei!

` Naupang tê tê, inbiakpawhna, nu leh pa, ṭawng ṭhanlenna, inbiakna, tleirawl, rilru hriselna