I fa hian thinrimna a throw em? Hemi chungchang hi han sawi ila!

Nu emaw, pa emaw i nih angin, ‘Engvangin nge ka fa hi hetiang hian a awm?’ tiin i ngaihtuah fo mai thei. I fa tê chu a tap ṭan thut a, a au ṭan a, a nih loh leh leiah a inher chhuak a nih chuan a lungchhiatthlâk hle thei a, a châng chuan a thinrim pawh a ni thei. A pangngai hle mai. Mahse, heng ‘harsatna’ te hi tibuaitu emaw, naupang nungchang tha lo emaw ang maia en ai chuan, kan fate thil engemaw zirtirna leh hriatthiamna hun remchang tha takah kan ngai a nih chuan engtin nge ni ang?

Engvangin nge naupang tête hian hetiang hian an beih? Temper Tantrums tih hi eng nge ni?

A awlsam zawngin, heng thinrimna , a nih loh leh English-a kan tih angin, naupangte’n an chhûngril lama an neih, lungngaihna, thinrimna, lungngaihna, a nih loh leh hlauhna ang chi rilru natna nasa tak an chhuah theihna tûr kawng a ni. Tlang kang te tak te ang mai a ni. A chhungah chuan a thunun thei lo va, a puak nghal vek. Chûngte chu naupang kum khat leh kum thum inkârah hmuh a ni tlangpui a, a châng chuan kum li . Hmeichhia emaw mipa emaw pawh nise, an pahnih hian he kum ah hian nungchang inang an lantir thei a ni.

Naute thenkhat chu an roll over fo thin a, ni khatah vawi tam tak pawh an roll over thin. Mi dangte chuan hetiang hi an ti tlem hle a, thla khatah vawi khat tih ang chi hi a ni. Mahse, hei hi naupang lo thanglian zel dan pangngai tak a ni tih kan hriatthiam hmasak a ngai a ni . Chumi awmzia chu, i fa chauh hi hetiang titu a ni tih ngaihtuahin rilru na lo suh. Hei hi khawvela naupang tê tê zawng zawngin eng emaw chen an tawn ṭhin thil a ni.

Engvangin nge naupangte hi an hel? A chhan thenkhat han thlir ila.

Okay, tunah chuan engvangin nge heng naupang te te hian hetiang hian an che nghal mai tih hi han en ila. Hei hi chhan pakhat chauh a awm lo va, chhan tam tak a awm thei bawk.

Hei hi an hmasawnna atan chuan thil pangngai tak a ni em?

Ni e, a dik tak zet. He thu i hriat hian mak ti suh. Kan sawi tawh ang khan, thinrimna hi naupang rilru lama hmasawnna kawng khat a ni . Khawvel hriatthiamna, an rilru put hmang hriatchhuah leh enkawl dan zir tura an zinkawngah an tel vek a ni. Thlai te tak te a lo thang lian a, a hnah te pawh a tlakbuak ang mai a ni. ‘Tunah hian ka na lutuk a, hei hi ka la thei tawh lo, min pui rawh!’ tih an tum tak zet a ni.

Revolution a awm chhan tenau te

Tunah chuan naupang tê têin revolution a ṭan theihna tûr chhan tenau dang, ni tin, eng nge awm thei tih chu i en ang u.

• Chauhna: Nilengin inkhelh, tlan kual leh thil thar zir avanga an chau chuan thil tenawm ber pawh an tan chuan lian tak niin an hria. Ni chau takah thil tenawm tak tak avanga kan thinrim ang bawkin.
• Riltam: A hun taka chaw pek a nih loh chuan naupangte riltam lai pawhin an dawhtheihna a tlahniam ang. "Diabola chu a ril a tam laiin a zai thin" tih thu hi a dik lo.
• Harsatna pakhat chu:I thawmhnaw hak chu a tight a nih chuan, emaw, diaper a hnim a nih chuan, emaw, i thawmhnaw hak a, i rilru a buai a nih chuan, chutiang harsatna tlemte pawh chu inthlak danglamna lian tak bul tanna a ni thei. Ngaihtuah teh, keini tan pawh chutiang bawk chu a ni lawm ni? Naute hian tawngkam hmanga sawi chhuah an thiam loh avangin tap chungin min hrilh thin.
• An duhzawng hmuh loh: A châng chuan naupang tê tête chuan infiamna, dawr-a an hmuh candy, a nih loh leh cartoon en tûr an duh ṭhîn. An hmuh nghal loh chuan an thinrim tan thin. An au chhuak a, ‘Chu chu ka duh! Tunah hian ka duh!'
• Ngaihven hlawh: A châng chuan, nu leh pa chu phone-a an inbiak emaw, thil dang an buaipui emaw a, an ngaihven vat a ngaih hunah, naupang tê tête chuan an che ṭan thei a ni. "Mommy, min en teh!"
• Mi dangte duhzâwng tihtîr theih loh: I unaunuin tablet chu a kutah a keng a, i unaupa pawhin tûnah hian a duh a ni tih han ngaihtuah teh. I unaunu hian a pe lovang che. Chuti chung pawh chuan i unaupa chu a thinrim thei a, meltdown a nei thei bawk. A nih loh leh, i nuin thil pakhatah ‘ni lo’ a tih a, ‘ni’ a tih tir thei lo a nih chuan hetiang hi a thleng thei a ni.

Hetiang hunah hian lungngaihna an tawhte hmachhawn dan zir hi hun kal zelah an thiamna an nei chho zel a ni. Chumi awmzia chu zan khat thil thuah a thleng dawn lo tihna a ni. Chumi kawngah chuan dawhthei taka kan tanpui a ngai a ni.

An duhzawng dik tak an sawi theih loh hunah...

Hêng rilru natna, a nih loh leh thinrimna , hi naupang dam kum hnihnaah a tam ber a ni . Chu chu kum khat atanga thla engemaw zat leh kum hnih inkar vel an ni tlangpui tihna a ni. Chutih laia hetiang thil hi a thlen chhan i hria em? A chhan ber chu chutih hunlaia an tawng thiamna a lo thang chho tan tawh vang a ni. Thu tlemte an hrethiam a, thu tlemte pawh an sawi thei bawk. "Mom", "dad", "baby", "food", "water" tih ang chi thumal awlsam tak tak an hmang thei.

Mahse, an vocabulary hi a lian tawk lo va, an ngaihtuahna zawng zawng, an duh zawng zawng, leh an rilru put hmang (lungngaihna, thinrimna, hlimna, leh hlauhna ang chi rilru buaithlak tak takte) chu sentence kimchang takin an sawi chhuak thei lo. An tawng thiamna hi a la hmasa ber a ni.

Ngaihtuah teh, i ril a tam hle a, mahse ‘ka ril a tam, min chawm rawh’ tih erawh i hre lo. A nih loh leh, thil engemaw avanga lungawi lo hle mah la, chu lungngaihna chu tu hnenah mah tawngkam hmanga i sawi chhuah theih loh chuan engtin nge i awm ang? Chutiang chuan naupang tête chungah pawh a thleng ṭhin. Harsatna engemaw zat an nei a, \henkhatin mamawh an nei a, mahse midang hnena thlen dan tur, tawngkam hmanga sawi chhuah dan tur an hre lo. Chutah chuan chu rilru put hmang chu an thinlunga lungngaihna lo piang chhuak nen chuan twist angin a rawn chhuak ta a ni. Hei hi an tawng, chu nungchang ang chu a ni. An ṭawng thiamna a lo ṭhan chhoh zel chuan he twisting pawh hi a tlahniam zauh zauh dawn tih nangmah ngeiin i hmu thei ang.

"Ka duh, keimah ngeiin tih ka duh!" - Naupang tête mumang lian tak tak

Kum khat leh a chanve emaw kum hnih emaw vel an nih chuan naupang tê tê chuan mahni chauha thil engkim tih duhna nasa tak an nei (independence) . An chhehvel thunun an duh a ni. ‘Keimah ngeiin kekawr ka ha ang’, ‘Keimah ngeiin ka ei ang’, ‘Chu infiamna chu ka duh’, ‘Keimah chauhin stairs ka lawn ang’ tih te hi an ngaihtuah thin. Hei hi a takah chuan an hmasawnna chhinchhiahna tha tak a ni. Khawvel chanchin an zir zauh zauh a, an theihna an fiah chho zel bawk.

Mahse, chutih lai chuan, an tih theih tak tak aia lian zawk thil an duh a ni. Chu chu an taksa leh rilru chakna aiin beisei sang zawk an nei tihna a ni. ‘Hei hi keimah chauhin ka ti thei!’ tiin an ngaihtuah hian! tin, a ti thei lo emaw, ‘tunah chuan chu chu ka duh!’ tiin an ngaihtuah lai emaw pawhin a ti thei lo. tin, hmu lo la, an thinrim hle a, an lungawi lo hle bawk. Chutah chuan chu reversal chu a intan leh ta a ni. Anmahni leh an theihna zawng zawng inkara ' power struggle ' ang mai a ni. Khawvel hneh tumin an bei a, an duhzawng hmuh tumin an bei a, mahse an theih loh hunah chuan tap emaw, hawi let emaw hmangin hneh an tum thin.

Naupangte hian inthlak danglamna a awm hunah eng ang thil nge an tih?

Tunah chuan naupang tête hian thinrimna an neih hian eng ang thil leh nungchang nge an lantîr tih hi han sawi ila . Hei hi mi tin a inang lo thei. Naupang zawng zawng hian tantrums inang an nei vek lo. Thinrimna ṭhenkhat chu a tlem hle a, ṭhenkhat erawh chu a na hle thung.

• Mi thenkhat chu an whining , an pull leh pull mai mai a, coma-a awm ang maiin an tap thin.
• Midangte chu an tap nasa hle a , mittui an tla zawih zawih bawk.
• Mi thenkhat chu an au chhuak , inkhelh chhung zawnga hriat theih khawpa ri nasa tak, kan bula in atang pawhin hriat theih a ni mai thei.
• A na zual chuan an nu leh pate chu an vuak thei a, an vuak , a nih loh leh an vuak pawh a ni thei a, an kuta an thil neih chu an paih thei bawk.
• Leiah a mu a, a rolling around , a kut leh ke a flailing.
• Naupang thenkhat, hei hi en a harsa deuh a, nu leh pate ti hlauhawm tak tak chu, an thawk a titawp (Breath-Holding Spells) . Vawikhatmah an thawk an chawlhsan a, a chang chuan an hmai a sen thlengin. Hun engemaw chen hnuah thaw an la tan leh a, a chang chuan hriatna an hloh bawk. Hei hi nuten an hmuh hian an hlauthawng hle. Mahse hei (Breath-Holding Spells) pawh hi naupang thenkhatin transition an neih laiin an lantir thin symptom a ni a, a bik takin an duh ang an hmuh loh hunah. Hei hi a hrana kan sawi tur a ni a, a chhan chu a danglam deuh a, a chang chuan damdawi lam thurawn lak a ngai mai thei bawk.

Chuti a nih chuan he inthlak danglamna hi engtin nge kan thlir ang?

Chuvangin, heng zawng zawng i hriat hnu hian heng naupang te te thinrimna hi naupang tha lo an nih avanga an tih a ni lo tih i hrethiam mai thei a, a nih loh leh i thinrim tir emaw, i thinrim tir emaw mai mai a ni tih i hrethiam mai thei.

Hei hi an hmasawnna kawng khat a ni. Khawvel chanchin an hriat theihna tur, an rilru put hmang an hriatthiam theihna tur, an hmachhawn theihna tur leh engtin emaw tak chuan chutiang rilru put hmang chu chhuah tir an tumna tur a ni.

Chuvangin, naupangin thil a tihsual chuan ‘chhiatna’ emaw, ‘buaina’ emaw ang maiin kan hmu tur a ni lo va, naupang chu thil engemaw zirtirna hun tha takah kan ngai tur a ni a, hriatthiamna tur leh a rilru put hmang hmachhawn tura tanpui theihna hun remchang tha takah kan ngai tur a ni A ri angin a awlsam lo va, naupang a au emaw, leiah a roll emaw hian kan tuar harsa hle. Amaherawhchu, he hriatthiamna kan neih chuan kan tan chuan thil awmdan hmachhawn a awlsam deuh ang.

Take-Home Thuchah a ni

Okay, chuvangin vawiin a kan sawi tawh atang khan i hriat reng tur pawimawh tak tak thenkhat ka rawn tarlang ang:

• Thinrimna hi naupang kum 1-3 inkar (a chang chuan kum 4) inkar te hmasawnna atana thil pangngai tak a ni. Chumi chungchangah chuan hlau lutuk leh zak lutuk suh.
• Naupang chu a chau vang te, a riltam vang te, a hlim loh vang te, a duhzawng a hmuh loh vang te, ngaihven a duh vang te, a nih loh leh lungngaihna emaw, rilru ṭha lo dang emaw chhuah chhuah nân emaw a che thei a ni .
• A bik takin an tawng thiamna a lo thanglian hma loh chuan , an duh leh hriat chu tawngkam hmanga an sawi chhuah theih loh avangin heng inthlak danglamna chi hrang hrang hi an tawng tam zawk thin.
• Naupang tê tê hian mahni chauha thil tih duhna (independence) leh an chhehvel thunun duhna nasa tak an nei (control) . Hei hian an theihna a pel a, chu beisei chu a tihchhiat chuan buaina a chhuak thin.
• Naupangin thinrimna a neih hian nungchang chi hrang hrang an lantir thei a, tap atanga au chhuah thlengin, leiah an inher a, an ke ruhte an tikehsawm a, thawk pawh an tikhawlo thei (breath-holding spells)
• A pawimawh ber chu heng inthlâk danglamnate hi naupang tâna thil ṭha lo anga ngaih ni lovin, naupang ṭanpui theihna hun remchâng anga ngaih a, hriatthiam theihna leh a rilru put hmang enkawl dân zirtîrna hun remchâng anga ngaih hi a ni

Chuvângin, a dawt leha i fate’n a tantrum a neih ṭan hunah, i thinrim hmain, ‘Ka fa hian eng nge min hrilh a tum? Tunah hian eng nge a duh?’ a ti a. Chu chu hriatthiamna chu he zinkawng harsa tak, mahse mawi takah hian a lian ber a ni. Hemi chungchanga zawhna dang i neih chuan i chhungkaw doctor emaw, naupang enkawltu emaw i biak theih a ni.

` Naupang Puar, Thinrimna, Naupang Nungchang, Nu leh Pa, Naupang Hmasawnna, Thâwk, Naupang Psychology