Kua kite koe i tētahi whare kua kī tonu i ngā nūpepa tawhito, i ngā pounamu kirihou kua whakamahia, i ngā taonga pakaru, me ngā kākahu kāore anō kia mau i roto i ngā tau? He nui rawa ngā mea kua puranga, ā, kāore e taea te hikoi haere. Ki te ngana koe ki te whakakore i ēnei mea, ka tino riri, ka tino pouri rānei te tangata e noho ana i roto i taua whare. He maha ngā wā ka whakaarohia tēnei he hoha, he koretake hoki. Engari ko te mea pono, he mate hinengaro tēnei e kiia nei ko te Hoarding Disorder , e hiahia ana kia rongoatia. Me kōrero noa tātou mō tēnei i tēnei rā.
He aha te mate hopu taonga?
He mate hinengaro te Mate Pupuri Taonga. He tino uaua ki te tangata whai mate pēnei te whakakore i ngā taonga, ahakoa ngā mea kāore he uara. He nui rawa te hiahia ki te kohikohi me te pupuri i aua taonga. Ko te ngana ki te whakakore i aua taonga ka pā ki a rātou te ahotea, te pouri, me te manukanuka e kore e taea te tu atu.
He aha ēnei mea e kohia ana?
- Ngā nūpepa tawhito, ngā maheni
- Ngā pounamu kau, ngā kapu kirihou, ngā kēne
- Ngā taonga o te whare kāore i whakamahia i roto i ngā tau
- Ngā kākahu tawhito kāore anō kia mau
- Ngā taputapu hiko pakaru, ngā taonga takaro
I ētahi wā ka tae pea tēnei āhuatanga ki te kohi kararehe. Arā, ka kawea mai e rātou he tini kararehe pēnei i te kurī me te ngeru ki roto i ō rātou kāinga, engari kāore e taea e rātou te tiaki tika i a rātou, te whāngai me te whakainu i a rātou.
He pānga nui tēnei kohikohinga o ngā taonga ki ō rātou oranga noa. Ka pōrearea te whare, ka paru, ā, i ētahi wā ka puta ngā āhuatanga morearea (ahi, hinganga). Ka ara ake pea tēnei i ngā raruraru ki te whānau me ngā hoa, ā, ka ara ake pea te noho mokemoke.
He momo OCD te Mate Pupuri Taonga? He mate motuhake rānei?
He tokomaha te hunga e whakaaro ana he wāhanga tēnei o te Mate Whakararuraru-Āwangawanga (OCD). Inaa, koinei te whakarōpūtanga a ngā tākuta i ngā wā o mua. He rite te OCD me te Mate Hoarding ki ngā whanaunga e rua i roto i te whānau kotahi. He rite tonu ētahi o ngā āhuatanga o rāua.
Engari kua kitea e ngā rangahau hou he mate hinengaro motuhake te Mate Pupuri Taonga me mōhio . Ka taea e ētahi tāngata te pāngia e te Mate Pupuri Taonga me te kore he mate hinengaro kē atu. Nō reira, i roto i te whakarōpūtanga o ngā mate hinengaro o nāianei (`DSM-V`), kei roto i te whānuitanga OCD, engari e kiia ana he mate motuhake.
He aha te rerekētanga i waenga i te kohikohi me te pupuri taonga?
He pātai tino nui anō hoki tēnei. Ka kohia e ētahi ngā mea pēnei i ngā tāmati, ngā moni, me ngā pukapuka tawhito. Nō reira, he kohi taonga anō hoki tēnā? Kāore. He rerekētanga nui kei waenganui i ngā mea e rua. Me titiro tātou ki taua rerekētanga i roto i tētahi ripanga.
| Āhuatanga | Te kohikohi i ngā mea | Te Mate Pupuri Taonga |
|---|---|---|
| Ngā mea hei kohikohi | Ko te tikanga he momo taonga motuhake (he tāmene, he moni, he pukapuka). Ka whiriwhiria i roto i te tikanga raupapa. | Ngā mea whai uara/kore uara. He maha ngā wā he mea kore uara (ngā pounamu kau, pepa tawhito). |
| Whakahaere | He tino ātaahua, he ataahua te whakaaturanga, te takai rānei. He ngāwari ki te kimi. | Kāore he ota. Kua puranga katoa. He uaua ki te kimi i tetahi mea e hiahiatia ana e koe. |
| Te kare ā-roto | He harikoa, he whakahīhī hoki tōku mō taku kohinga. He pai ki ahau te whakaatu ki ētahi atu. | E whakama ana rātou, e pouri ana hoki mō te āhua o tō rātou kāinga. Kāore rātou e hiahia kia haere mai tetahi ki tō rātou kāinga. |
| Pānga ki te oranga | Kāore e whakararuraru i te oranga noa. He mahi whakangahau noa iho. | Kua ngaro te wāhi noho. Kua pakaru te hauora, te haumaru, me ngā whanaungatanga whānau. |
He whakarāpopototanga noa iho, he mahi whakangahau te kohikohi taonga, ā, he mea ātaahua hoki. Ko te kohikohi taonga he āhuatanga kāore e taea te whakahaere, ā, ka nui ake te pouri me te raruraru e pā ana ki te oranga o te tangata.
Ko wai te mea tino pāngia e tēnei āhuatanga?
Ko te Mate Pupuri Taonga ka tīmata i te taiohinga (tata ki te 15-19 tau te pakeke) ā, ka piki haere i a koe e pakeke haere ana. Kia tae koe ki te 30 tau, ka taea e ia te noho hei raruraru nui.
Ka kitea nuitia tēnei āhuatanga i roto i:
- I roto i te hunga neke atu i te 60 tau te pakeke.
- I roto i te hunga whai raruraru hauora hinengaro kē atu, inā koa te pouri me te manukanuka .
He aha ngā tohu matua?
E mōhio ana ētahi tāngata whai mate pēnei he raruraru te kohikohi i ā rātou taonga katoa. Engari he tokomaha kāore e whakaae ana he raruraru. E whakaaro ana rātou ka whai hua ēnei mea katoa i tētahi rā.
Ko ngā āhuatanga matua ko:
- Te kore e taea te tango i tetahi mea.
- Mā te ngana ki te whakakore i tētahi mea ka puta te ahotea me te pouri e kore e taea te pupuri.
- Kei te whakaaro tonu ahau, "Ka hiahiatia tēnei e au i tētahi rā."
- Kāore e taea te whakatau me hea te whakatakoto i ngā mea.
- Kāore e hiahia kia pāngia ā rātou taonga e tetahi atu.
- Kī tonu ngā rūma, ngā kīhini me ngā rūma noho i ngā taonga, ā, kāore e taea te whakamahi.
- Mā tēnei whakama ka matara atu koe i ō hoa me ō whanaunga, ka ngana hoki ki te noho ko koe anake.
He aha rātou i hiahia ai ki te kohikohi i ngā mea pēnei?
He maha ngā take mō tēnā. Anei tā rātou whakaaro:
- "Ka whai hua tēnei nūpepa tawhito i tētahi rā." (Ko tāku tumanako ka whai hua)
- "Koinei te mea i homai e tōku kuia ki ahau. Kāore e taea e au te tango atu." (He mea tino whakamīharo)
- "Kāore koe e kite anō i tētahi pēnei." (Ki taku whakaaro he mea motuhake ake i tētahi atu mea)
- "I hokona mai tēnei e au i te utu whakaheke nui. He mea whakamā ki te whakakore atu." (He iti te utu, nō reira he mea whakamātau ki te whakakore atu)
- "Ina kite ahau i tēnei, ka maumahara mai ki taua kaupapa." (Hei whakamaumaharatanga tēnei)
- "Kāore e taea e au te whakatau mēnā ka puritia tēnei, ka whakakorea rānei." (Kei te puritia e au nā te mea he uaua ki te whakatau.)
Ngā Take me ngā Tūmomo Mōrearea mō te Mate Pupuri Taonga
Kāore anō kia mōhiotia te tino take o tēnei, engari e whakapono ana ngā kairangahau tera pea nā ngā huringa o te huarahi e tukatuka ai te roro i ngā mōhiohio. Hei tauira, tera pea he uaua ki a rātou te whakamahere, te whakaoti rapanga, me te whakarite.
Ka taea e te Mate Pupuri Taonga te puta takitahi, te puta tahi rānei me ētahi atu mate hauora hinengaro. Ko ngā mate e tino pā ana ko:
- Te Mate Whaiaro Āwangawanga-Ārai (OCPD)
- Mate Whakahāwea-Ārai (OCD)
- Mate Aro-kore/Mate Mahi-Nui (ADHD)
- Te pouri
Hei tāpiritanga, kua tautuhia ētahi atu āhuatanga mōrearea:
- Kei tētahi o te whānau tēnei āhuatanga (te awe tuku iho).
- He aituā, he whara rānei ki te roro.
- He āhuatanga tino kino o te ao (hei tauira, te matenga o tētahi e arohaina ana, te whakarere rānei).
- Hokonga ā-whakaaroaro.
- Te kore e taea te whakakore i ngā mea kore utu (ngā tīkitipati, ngā pepa pānui).
- Te waranga ki ngā raau taero, ki te waipiro rānei.
- Ko ētahi āhuatanga ira, pērā i te mate Prader-Willi.
Me pēhea te tātaritanga me te rongoā mō tēnei mate?
Koinei te wero nui rawa atu. He mea onge te whakaae a te tangata whai mate pupuri taonga he raruraru tāna, ā, ka tono āwhina. I te nuinga o te wā, ka rapu āwhina te whānau me ngā hoa e āwangawanga ana mō rātou.
Ki te whakapae koe kei te pāngia tētahi o tō whānau, tētahi rānei e mōhiotia ana e koe e tēnei mate, ko te mea pai ko te toro atu ki tētahi tākuta mō ētahi tohutohu. Ina koa mēnā he kino, he mōrearea rānei te āhua o te kāinga, me rapu tohutohu hauora koe.
E toru ngā mea matua e rapuhia ana e te tākuta hei tautuhi i tēnei mate:
1. Te uaua tonu o te maka atu i ngā taonga, ahakoa he uara, he kore rānei.
2. Te hiahia nui ki te pupuri i ngā mea, me te tino ahotea ina whakaaro ana ki te maka atu.
3. Kī tonu ngā wāhi noho (ngā rūma, ngā kīhini) i ngā mea maha, kāore e taea te whakamahi mō ā rātou hiahia taketake.
He aha ngā maimoatanga?
E rua ngā tikanga maimoatanga matua e whakamahia ana mō tēnei.
- Te Whakaora Hinengaro Whanoke (CBT): He whakaora kōrero tēnei. Mā te kōrero ki tētahi tohunga hinengaro, ki tētahi kaiwhakatakoto whakaaro rānei, ka taea e koe te ako i ngā mea pēnei i te take e kohia ai e koe ngā mea, me pēhea te whakahaere i te manukanuka e pā ana ki a koe ina tangohia atu, me pēhea te whakarite i ngā mea, me pēhea te whakatau. He maimoatanga tino whai hua tēnei.
- Rongoā: I ētahi wā, ka tohua pea e tō tākuta he rongoā. Ka taea e ngā Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors (SSRIs), inā koa ko ērā mō te pouri me te manukanuka, te āwhina i ētahi tāngata ki te whakahaere i ō rātou tohumate.
Ka aha mēnā ka kore e rongoatia?
Ki te kore e rongoatia, ka kino haere tēnei āhua i roto i te wā.
- Nā te kore o te wāhi i te kāinga, kāore e taea te mahi i ngā mahi o ia rā pēnei i te tunu kai, te kaukau, me te moe.
- Ka pā mai ngā raruraru hauora i te paru.
- Ka piki ake te mōrearea o ngā aituā pēnei i te ahi me te hinganga mēnā ka whakarārangihia ngā taonga.
- Ka puta ngā raruraru ki ngā mema o te whānau, ā, ka arahi pea tēnei ki te whakarere me te ngaronga o te mana tiaki tamariki.
- Te noho mokemoke , te noho motuhake hoki i roto i te ao pāpori.
Nō reira, kaua e whakahawea ki tēnei. He take hauora hinengaro tēnei , ehara i te ngoikore. Mā te tere o te whiwhi āwhina, ka pai ake tō oranga.
Karere Tangohia ki te Kāinga
- Ehara te Mate Pupuri Taonga i te mangere, i te paru rānei, he āhuatanga hauora hinengaro tūturu e hiahia ana kia maimoatia.
- He rerekē rawa ngā mea e rua o te kohikohi taonga hei mahi whakangahau me te Hoarding Disorder.
- Ka taea e tēnei āhuatanga te kino rawa atu ki te hauora, te haumaru, me ngā whanaungatanga whānau o te tangata.
- He maha ngā maimoatanga whai hua pēnei i te CBT, nō reira kaua e mutu te tumanako.
- Ki te whakapae koe kei a koe, kei tētahi atu rānei e mōhio ana koe, tēnei mate, kaua e whakamā, kaua hoki e mataku ki te rapu tohutohu i te tākuta. He mea tino nui te āwhina wawe.
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