Kukula kwa Kulankhulana kwa Mwana Wanu wa Zaka 1-2: Kodi Tikambirane Izi?

Kodi muli ndi mwana wazaka chimodzi kapena ziwiri kunyumba? Ukalamba uno ndi nthawi yodabwitsa pamene kalankhulidwe kawo ndi chilankhulo chawo zimakula mofulumira kwambiri. Monga momwe chomera chaching'ono chimakulira mofulumira chikathiriridwa ndi kufesedwa, mawu awo ndi momwe amalankhulirana ndi ena zimakula tsiku ndi tsiku, mwanjira yodabwitsa. Chifukwa chake, lero, tiyeni tikambirane za momwe luso la chilankhulo la ana awa - kutanthauza kuphunzira mawu atsopano, kunena zomwe akufuna, ndikumvetsetsa zomwe ena akunena - zimachitikira, komanso momwe inu, monga mayi kapena bambo, mungawathandizire paulendo wofunikawu.

Kodi ana aang'ono amalankhula bwanji nafe? Momwe mawu amakulirakulira m'dziko lawo laling'ono

Pa msinkhu uwu, makamaka pafupifupi zaka ziwiri, luso la ana aang'ono lolankhula likukula mofulumira. Akuyamba kukhala aluso kwambiri pakumvetsetsa zomwe timanena, ndipo akuyambanso kufotokoza zosowa zawo kudzera m'mawu ndi nthawi zina manja. Tangoganizirani chisangalalo chomwe mumakhala nacho mukauza mwana wanu kuti "atenge mpira" ndipo iye akumvetsa ndikuchita! Amakondanso kutipatsa malamulo ochepa pa msinkhu uwu.

Ulendo wawo waung'ono wophunzirira mawu

• Kawirikawiri pafupifupi miyezi 15 , makanda amayesa kunena mawu amodzi kapena awiri kuwonjezera pa mawu oti "mama" ndi "dada."
• Pofika miyezi 18 , zomwe ndi pafupifupi chaka chimodzi ndi theka, amatha kunena mawu atatu kapena anayi.
• Akafika zaka ziwiri , ana ambiri aang'ono amadziwa mawu ambiri ndipo amayamba kunena ziganizo zazifupi ("Ndikufuna mkaka," "Ndipatseni mpira").

Ndikofunika kudziwa kuti ngakhale asanayambe kulankhula , makanda amamvetsetsa zambiri zomwe timanena. Mwachitsanzo, mukanena chinthu chosavuta, monga "Bweretsani chidolecho kwa amayi," ayenera kukhala okhoza kuchimvetsa ndikuchita. Komanso, mukatchula dzina la nyama yodziwika bwino kapena chinthu chomwe mumachiwona nthawi zambiri (monga, "Galu ali kuti?"), ayenera kukhala okhoza kuchiyang'ana kapena kuchiloza.

Manja ndi chilankhulo china kwa iwo.

Monga mawu, manja ndi gawo lalikulu la kulankhulana kwawo pa msinkhu uwu. Kuyambira ndi zinthu zosavuta monga kupsompsona, kufikira chinachake, kapena kugwedeza mutu wanu kuti munene "inde," pang'onopang'ono amayamba kuchita zimenezi. Izi ndizofunikira kuti atsanzire zomwe ena amachita, kufotokoza malingaliro awo, ndi kusewera.

Musadandaule kuti mawuwo sakumveka bwino!

Ngakhale kuti mawu a mwana wanu akukula mofulumira, sitingathe kumvetsetsa bwino mawu onse omwe akunena. Zimenezo n’zachibadwa. Taganizirani izi, minofu yaing’ono m’kamwa mwawo siigwiritsidwa ntchito kutchula mawu atsopanowa bwino. Zili ngati titayamba kuphunzira chilankhulo chatsopano, timasokonezeka.Ngakhale titakhala ndi zaka ziwiri, nthawi zambiri timangomvetsa theka la zomwe mwana wamng'ono akunena. Koma musadandaule. Chofunika ndikumvetsa zomwe akunena ndikubwereza mawuwo molondola. Mwachitsanzo, mwana wanu anganene kuti 'boye' m'malo mwa 'bole'. Kenako, popanda kukwiya, mutha kunena mawu oyenera akumwetulira, "O... mwana wanga, ukufuna mpira ? Nayi mpira wokongola."

Kodi makolo angachite chiyani kuti akulitse luso lawo lolankhula?

Thandizo lathu pakukula kwa chilankhulo cha ana aang'ono ndi lofunika kwambiri. Tiyeni tiwone zinthu zosavuta zomwe tingachite.

1. Tiyeni titchule chilichonse ndi dzina lake lenileni, ndikuchepetsa "kulankhula kwa ana"

Mwana wanu akumvetsera mawu aliwonse omwe mukunena, ndipo amawakumbukira mwachangu kwambiri. Choncho, m'malo mogwiritsa ntchito "mawu aang'ono ," gwiritsani ntchito mayina oyenera a anthu, malo, ndi zinthu momwe mungathere. Lankhulani pang'onopang'ono, momveka bwino, komanso mosavuta mukamalankhula. Musamuchulukitse ndi mawu ambiri.

2. Yankhani manja a mwana wanu ndipo muwagwirizanitse ndi mawu.

Monga tanenera kale, manja ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri pakukula kwa chilankhulo. Mwana wanu akamalankhula, muyankheni. Mulankhuleni naye. Pangani mgwirizano pakati pa manja ake ndi mawu ogwirizana nawo.

Tangoganizani mwana wanu akutenga furiji ndi kupanga phokoso loti 'goooo'. Kodi zimenezo zikutanthauza chiyani? Zili ngati kunena kuti, 'Ndikufuna chakumwa.' Kenako mungafunse kuti, "Kodi mwana wanu akufuna madzi? Kapena mkaka?" Kenako munganene kuti, "O, mukufuna mkaka? Chabwino, tiyeni titenge mkaka." Mwanjira imeneyi mutha kulumikiza manja ake ndi mawu.

3. Nyimbo, ndakatulo, masewera - awa ndi sukulu yawo.

Imbani nyimbo, nthabwala, komanso sewerani masewera ndi mwana wanu. Amakonda masewera olimbitsa thupi monga "Ndili ndi zala zisanu m'dzanja langa ...". Komanso,

• Ziwalo za thupi (Kodi khutu lili kuti? Kodi mphuno ili kuti?)
• Kodi zithunzizo zili ndi chiyani?
• Zoseweretsa ndi zinthu zomwe zili mozungulira
• Anthu kunyumba (Amayi ali kuti? Abambo ali kuti?)

Alimbikitseni kufunsa, kufunafuna, ndi kutchula zinthu ngati izi. Funsani mafunso monga "Ndiwonetseni mpira," "Khutu lanu lili kuti?"

4. Mabuku azithunzi okongola - njira yolowera kudziko la mawu

Gulani mabuku okhala ndi zithunzi zazikulu komanso zokongola ndipo muwerenge pamodzi ndi mwana wanu wamng'ono. Athandizeni kutsegula masamba a bukuli okha, ndi zosangalatsa kwambiri kwa iwo. Lozani zithunzi zomwe zili m'bukuli ndikufunsa kuti, "Ichi ndi chiyani? Ndani uyu?" Pezani chidwi chawo mwa kunena zinthu monga, "Taonani njovu yaikulu iyi!"

Kodi tiyenera kupita kwa dokotala liti? Malo oti tisamale pang'ono

Ana ambiri amadutsa muzochitika zofunika kwambiri pakukula kwa chilankhulo panthawiyi. Komabe, nthawi zina pangakhale kuchedwa pang'ono. Komabe, ngati muli ndi kukayikira kapena mafunso okhudza izi, ndi bwino kulankhula ndi dokotala.

• Ngakhale ali ndi miyezi 15: Ngati sayesa kunena mawu amodzi kapena awiri kupatula "mama" ndi "dada." Ngati sakuyang'ana chinthu chomwe amachiwona nthawi zambiri (monga botolo la mkaka, chidole) mukatchula dzina lake.
• Pa miyezi 18 (chaka chimodzi ndi theka): Ngati simunanenebe mawu opitilira atatu. Ngati simukumvetsa ndikutsatira malamulo osavuta (monga, "khalani pampando") popanda kugwiritsa ntchito manja.
• Ngakhale mutakwanitsa zaka ziwiri: Ngati simukumvetsa chilichonse m'buku, onetsani ziwalo ziwiri za thupi (monga maso, pakamwa) mukafunsidwa, kapena nenani mawu osachepera awiri pamodzi ("Ndikufuna mkaka", "Mwana, pita").

Makolo ena amada nkhawa kuti mwana akhoza kukhala ndi autism akayamba kulankhula mochedwa. Madokotala nthawi zambiri amafufuza izi nthawi iliyonse akamayezetsa, makamaka akayezetsa miyezi 18 ndi zaka ziwiri, komwe amachita mayeso oyesa autism . Chifukwa chake, ngati muli ndi kukayikira kulikonse, musaope kulankhula ndi dokotala kapena namwino wanu. Adzakuthandizani.

Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba

Munthawi yabwinoyi pamene luso la mwana wanu wazaka 1-2 lolankhula ndi kulankhula likukula, zinthu zofunika kwambiri zomwe mungachite ndi izi:

• Khalani oleza mtima: Si ana onse omwe ali ofanana. Ena amalankhula msanga, ena mochedwa pang'ono. Zimenezo n'zachibadwa.
• Lankhulani ndi mwana wanu nthawi zambiri: Muuzeni mwachidule zomwe mukuchita komanso zomwe mukuwona. Funsani mafunso.
• Mvetserani mosamala zomwe akunena: Yesetsani kumvetsetsa zomwe akuyesera kunena.
• Werengani mabuku pamodzi, imbani nyimbo, sewerani masewera: izi ndi zinthu zomwe zimapangitsa mawu awo kukhala okongola.
• Phunzitsani mawu olondola mwachikondi: Ngati anena mawu olakwika, phunzitsani mawu olondola mwachikondi.
• Ngati mukukayika, funsani dokotala: Lankhulani ndi dokotala za chilichonse, ngakhale chaching'ono kwambiri, osachibisa.

Chikondi chanu, chilimbikitso chanu, ndi kuleza mtima kwanu ndizo zimalimbikitsa kwambiri ulendo wanu wokongola wolankhula chinenero!

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