Mukaganizira zochita ntchito zazing'ono kukhitchini ndi mwana wanu, mungaganize kuti, "O, kukhitchini kudzakhala kovuta, ntchito idzakhala yochulukirapo, ndipo idzakhala yovuta." N'zoona kuti muyenera kukhala oleza mtima pang'ono mukamagwira ntchito ndi ana aang'ono. Koma, kodi mungandikhulupirire nditakuuzani kuti ubwino wa ntchito imeneyi kwa mwana wanu umaposa mavuto ang'onoang'ono? Inde, n'zoona. Ichi ndi chinthu chomwe chimapitirira kuphika chakudya. Tiyeni tiwone izi mwatsatanetsatane, monga kulankhula ndi mnzanu.
Kodi ubwino weniweni wophikira ndi ana ndi wotani?
Khitchini ndi malo odabwitsa kwa ana aang'ono. Mtundu uliwonse, fungo lililonse, phokoso lililonse ... zonsezi ndi zinthu zatsopano kwa iwo. Chifukwa chake, kuwatengera kukhitchini ndikuwapangitsa kuti azigwira ntchito zazing'ono zophikira kungawapindulitse m'njira zambiri. Tiyeni tiwone momwe, chimodzi ndi chimodzi.
Kuchita masewera olimbitsa ubongo, momwe mungakulitsire luso loyambira
Tangoganizirani, mukamaswa mazira kuti mupange keke, mumauza mwana wanu kuti, "Mwana wanga, werengani mazira awa." Akawerenga limodzi, awiri, atatu, zimamuthandiza kukulitsa luso lake loyambira la masamu . Akachita chinthu chothandiza ngati ichi, chimamusunga bwino m'maganizo mwake kuposa kungophunzira manambala. Muthanso kunena zinthu monga "Izi ndi theka" ndi "Izi ndi theka" mukayika madzi m'chikho.
Chinthu china ndi chakuti, tikamawerenga pamodzi njira yophikira. Tikamanena zinthu monga "Tiyeni tiyike ufa poyamba", "Kenako shuga", mawu ambiri atsopano amawonjezeredwa ku mawu a mwana. Zimathandizanso kuwonjezera luso lake lolankhula komanso chidwi chake powerenga . Akamatsatira njira zomwe zili mu njira yophikirayi motsatira dongosolo, amaphunzira "kumvetsera mosamala zomwe amayi/abambo akunena". Izi zikutanthauza kuti amazoloweranso luso lomvetsera mosamala (Kumvetsera) .
Siyani chilakolako cha chakudya ndipo yang'anani kwambiri kukoma kwatsopano.
Ana ambiri aang'ono safuna kudya, eti? Nthawi zina amaona masamba ndi zipatso zina. "Sindingadye izi, sindingadye izi," ndi nyimbo yawo. Koma chodabwitsa n'chakuti, mukawatengera kukhitchini ndi kuwathandiza kupanga china chake ndi manja awoawo, amasangalala kwambiri kulawa chakudyacho.
Tangoganizani kuti mwana wanu wazaka zitatu wagwirizana nanu pakung'amba masamba a letesi ndikuwonjezera zidutswa za karoti kuti apange saladi. Mwanayo, yemwe akunena kuti sangadye saladi mwanjira ina, amadya mosangalala, nati, "Iyi ndi saladi yomwe ndapanga." Chifukwa, wathandizira pa izi. Chifukwa chake, iyi ndi mwayi wabwino wolimbikitsa mwana wanu kuyesa zosakaniza zatsopano. Kambiranani za zinthu monga, "Onani mtundu wokongola wa karoti iyi," "Kodi nkhaka iyi si yonunkhira?" ndikudzutsa chidwi chawo. Auzeni mwachidule momwe chakudya ichi chilili chabwino kwa thupi komanso momwe chimathandizira kukula.
Malo abwino oti mufufuze dziko lapansi pogwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zonse zisanu.
Ana aang'ono ali ngati ofufuza aang'ono. Amaphunzira za dziko lapansi kudzera mu mphamvu zawo zisanu.– Izi zikutanthauza kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zanu zonse zomvera – kuona, kumva, kununkhiza, kulawa, kukhudza. Khitchini ndi malo abwino kwambiri ogwiritsira ntchito mphamvu zonsezi.
- Kumva: Phokoso la chosakaniza chikuzungulira, phokoso lotentha la chinthu chokazinga mumphika wa mafuta...
- Kukhudza: Kusalala kwa mtanda wa buledi mukaukhudza, kapena kuzizira kwa madzi mukatsuka ndiwo zamasamba...
- Masomphenya: Ndiwo zamasamba zokongola, zipatso, mawonekedwe a buledi...
- Fungo: Fungo la keke yophikidwa mu uvuni, fungo la zonunkhira...
- Kulawa: Pomaliza, kukoma kokoma, kowawasa, ndi mchere komwe mumapeza mukalawa zomwe mwapanga ...
Zonsezi ndi zachilendo kwa mwana. Ngati chakudya chili ndi fungo labwino, chikuwoneka chokongola, komanso chosavuta kudya , adzachiyesa!
"Inenso nditha kuchita!" – Kudzidalira (`(Kudzidalira)`) pamwamba
Ana aang'ono a sukulu amakonda kusonyeza ena zomwe angathe kuchita, ndipo amaganiza kuti, "Ndine mwana wamkulu." Kugwira ntchito kukhitchini kumawapatsa lingaliro la kuchita bwino , njira yabwino yodzipangira kudzidalira.
Tangoganizani kuti anakuthandizani kupanga pizza (`(Pizza)`). Kenako, muwauze kuti, "Mwana wanga, pizza iyi yakhala yokoma komanso yokongola chifukwa cha thandizo lanu." Awapangitseni kumva kufunika kwa thandizo lawo. Mutha kulemba dzina la mwana wawo pa chakudya chomwe adapanga. Nenani kuti, "Lero tikudya Zakudya zapadera za Chamodi" kapena "Ma pancake apamwamba a Kavindu." Kenako onani momwe akusangalalira! Ngakhale chakudyacho sichinapite momwe mumayembekezera, chofunika kwambiri ndi khama lawo. Onetsetsani kuti mwayamikira.
Nenani zinthu monga, "Mwana wanga, wagwira ntchito molimbika kwambiri. Palibe vuto kukhala chete pang'ono. Tiyeni tichite bwino nthawi ina, chabwino?" Zimenezo zidzawalimbikitsa kwambiri.
Kodi ndi ntchito yanji yomwe ana aang'ono angapatsidwe kukhitchini? Pamene akuisunga bwino?
Pali ntchito zingapo zomwe ana aang'ono azaka zapakati pa 3 ndi 5 angachite kukhitchini, ndipo ndizoyenera iwo. Chofunika kwambiri apa ndikuwapatsa "ntchito" yoyenera msinkhu wawo, luso lawo, komanso yomwe amasangalala nayo. Komanso, muyenera kuganizira za chitetezo momwe mungathere. Muyenera kuwasunga kutali ndi zinthu zakuthwa, moto, ndi madzi otentha.
Nazi zinthu zosavuta zomwe zingathandize ana aang'ono:
- Kusakaniza: Sakanizani mtanda wa makeke ndi supuni yamatabwa. (Udzasungunuka pang'ono, koma zimenezo sizachilendo!)
- Kung'amba/kuswa: Aloleni ang'ambe zinthu monga masamba a letesi ndi manja kuti apange masaladi. Aloleni ang'ambe zidutswa za buledi.
- Kuonjezera: Athandizeni kuyeza zosakaniza monga ufa ndi shuga m'mbale. Aloleni awonjezere ndiwo zamasamba ndi tchizi mu pizza.
- Kusakaniza: Asiyeni anyenge zinthu monga mbatata zophikidwa ndi nthochi ndi supuni.
- Kupopera:Thirani shuga wozizira pamwamba pa keke, kapena onjezerani masamba a curry ku mtanda kuti muthandize.
- Kutembenuza masamba: Mukayang'ana buku la maphikidwe, athandizeni "kuwerenga" potembenuza masambawo. (Izi zimawonjezeranso chidwi m'mabuku.)
- Kutsuka: Tsukani ndiwo zamasamba ndi zipatso zomwe sizingasweke. (Ndikosavuta ndi madzi pang'ono!)
Kodi mumayamba bwanji ntchitoyi? Malangizo ochepa
Kuyambira kukwera njinga ya matayala atatu mpaka kuvala nsapato zawo, ana aang'ono akuphunzira kuchuluka kwa zomwe angachite okha. Kumva kuti "Ndingathe kuchita" ndikofunikira kwambiri pakukula kwawo.
Choncho, kumbukirani zinthu izi mukayamba kuphika:
- Yambani mophweka: Musayese kuphika mbale yayikulu komanso yovuta nthawi imodzi. Yambani pang'ono, monga kuyika jamu pang'ono pa biscuit kapena kuwonjezera zipatso zingapo mu yogurt.
- Ganizirani za nthawi: Ana aang'ono satha kumvetsera zinthu nthawi yayitali. Ngakhale mphindi 5 kapena 10 zitha kukhala zokwanira kwa iwo. Musawakakamize kuti apitirize mpaka atatopa.
- Choyamba zosangalatsa: Izi ziyenera kukhala zosangalatsa kwa mwana. Pangani ngati masewera. Pamenepo ndiye adzalowa nawo ndi chidwi.
- Pangani malo otetezeka: Perekani malo omwe mwana angagwire ntchito, pamalo oyenera, komanso osaterereka. Ngakhale mpando utakhala wogwiritsidwa ntchito, uyenera kukhala wolimba komanso wosagwedera.
- Khalani oleza mtima: Mukamagwira ntchito ndi ana, chilichonse sichimachitika bwino kapena mwachangu. Ufa wina umagwera pansi, madzi ena amatuluka. Musakwiye nazo. Ndi gawo la ndondomekoyi.
Pamene ana akukula, luso lawo, nthawi yoganizira zinthu, ndi zokonda zawo zimawonjezeka. Kenako amatha kuchita ntchito zovuta kwambiri, monga kufinya madzi kuchokera ku mandimu, kuyeza zosakaniza ndi makapu ndi supuni, kumenya mazira, ndi kuphwanya mbatata.
Chofunika kwambiri, nthawi zonse muyenera kukhala nawo kukhitchini, mukuyang'anira zomwe akuchita. Chifukwa chitetezo chimabwera poyamba.
Mwa kukhala ndi ana anu kukhitchini motere, mutha kuwaphunzitsa kukhala ndi chidwi chabwino pa chakudya ndi kuphika komanso zizolowezi zabwino kwa moyo wawo wonse!
Pomaliza, zinthu zofunika zomwe muyenera kukumbukira
Kotero, tsopano mwamvetsa kufunika kogwira ntchito kukhitchini ndi ana komanso kuchuluka kwa zomwe angaphunzire kuchokera pamenepo. Izi ndi zambiri kuposa kungophika!
- Iyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yophunzitsira ubongo wa mwana, masamu, ndi luso lake lolankhula. Zinthu zomwe zimachitika mwachibadwa zimasungidwa bwino m'maganizo mwake kuposa zomwe amaphunzira m'mabuku.
- Ndi mwayi wabwino kwa odya osankha kuti azolowere zakudya zatsopano. Chifukwa chodzitamandira ndi "chakudya chomwe ndidapanga," adzakopeka kudya zakudya zomwe nthawi zambiri sadya.
- Khitchini ili ngati labu ya sayansi yapamwamba kwambiri, komwe mungagwiritse ntchito mphamvu zanu kuti muphunzire ndikuyesa zinthu zatsopano.
- Kudzidalira komwe kumati, "Inenso nditha kuchita!" kumamangidwa mwa mwanayo. Ichi ndi chinthu chamtengo wapatali pa moyo wake wonse. Onetsetsani kuti mukuyamika khama lawo, ngakhale litakhala laling'ono.
- Yambani ndi ntchito zosavuta zomwe zimayenera mwanayo. Musamukakamize kuchita zinthu mpaka atatopa. Mulole azichita mosangalatsa komanso mwamasewera.
- Chitetezo chimabwera poyamba! Khalani ndi mwana wanu nthawi zonse, muyang'anireni. Musungeni kutali ndi zinthu zakuthwa, moto, ndi zinthu zotentha.
- Yamikirani khama ndi nthawi yomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito limodzi kuposa zotsatira zake. Chilichonse sichiyenera kutuluka bwino ngati kuti chili m'sitolo. Chofunika ndichakuti mukuchita izi limodzi, zomwe mwana wanu akumana nazo komanso chisangalalo chomwe adzakhala nacho.
Kugwira ntchito kukhitchini ndi ana anu mwanjira imeneyi kudzalimbitsa ubale wanu. Komanso, mutha kuwonjezera zokumbukira zabwino zomwe zidzakhalepo moyo wanu wonse mu album yanu ya banja. Chifukwa chake, mawa, tengani mwana wanu kukhitchini ndikuyesera kuphika mabisiketi kapena saladi ya zipatso! Idzakhala nthawi yosaiwalika kwa inu ndi mwana wanu!
Kuphika ndi ana, ana aang'ono, ntchito za kukhitchini, kukula kwa mwana, kudya zakudya zabwino, kudzidalira, luso loyambira











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