Tangoganizirani, ngati mwadzidzidzi mwataya chikumbumtima chifukwa cha ngozi kapena matenda aakulu, kapena ngati muli mumkhalidwe womwe simungathe kupanga zisankho nokha... Ndani angapange zisankho zokhudzana ndi chithandizo chanu ndi nkhani zanu zachipatala panthawi yotereyi? Izi sizinthu zomwe aliyense wa ife amakonda kuganizira. Komabe, moyo ndi wosayembekezereka kwambiri. Chifukwa chake, kodi ndi phindu lanji kudziwitsidwa pasadakhale za momwe chisamaliro chathu chamankhwala chiyenera kuchitidwira ngati sitingathe kupanga zisankho tili ndi chikumbumtima?
Mwachidule, ichi ndi chimene timachitcha " chitsogozo cha pasadakhale ." Ichi si pepala lokha. Chikalatachi chimakhala mawu anu pamene simungathe kulankhula. Chimamasula banja lanu ndi madokotala ku maudindo ambiri ndipo chimawapatsa chitsogozo choti achite chilichonse mogwirizana ndi zomwe mukufuna.
Kodi mitundu ikuluikulu ya Malangizo Oyambirira ndi iti?
Popanga Malangizo Oyambirira, pali madera akuluakulu ochepa omwe tiyenera kuganizira. Nthawi zina izi zitha kukhala zikalata zosiyana. Tiyeni tiwone zomwe zili.
| Mtundu wa chikalata | Mwachidule... | Mwachitsanzo |
|---|---|---|
| Moyo udzakhala | Kulemba pasadakhale chithandizo chamankhwala chomwe muyenera kulandira kapena chomwe simuyenera kulandira ngati simungathe kupanga zisankho. | "Ngati ndikudwala matenda osachiritsika, chonde musagwiritse ntchito makina opumira kuti ndichedwetse imfa yanga." |
| Wothandizira pa Zaumoyo/ woyimira | Kupatsa mphamvu munthu amene mumamudalira kuti akupangireni zisankho zachipatala pamene inu simungathe kupanga zisankho. | Mungathe kupereka udindo umenewu kwa mnzanu, mwana, kapena mnzanu wodalirika kwambiri. Munthu ameneyu ndiye amene amalankhula ndi madokotala m'malo mwanu ndipo amavomereza kapena kukana chithandizo. |
| Mphamvu Yokhazikika ya Loya | Izi sizimangokhudza nkhani zachipatala zokha. Kulola munthu kuti azikusamalirani pa nkhani zachuma (monga kulipira ma bilu, kubanki) ngati simungathe kutero. | Pamene muli m'chipatala muli chikomokere, munthu amene mwamupatsa chilolezo adzatha kulipira ndalama zanu zapakhomo ndikusaina macheke m'dzina lanu. |
Zinthu zofunika kukumbukira pokonzekera zikalata izi
Ngakhale kupanga chikalata chonga ichi kungawoneke ngati kosavuta, pali zinthu zingapo zomwe tiyenera kuziganizira kuti zigwire ntchito bwino.
1. Kusamveka bwino kwa mawu
Kawirikawiri, mawu omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito m'makalata monga 'Living Wills' amatha kukhala ndi matanthauzo osiyanasiyana azamalamulo ndi azachipatala. Mwachitsanzo, nthawi zina pangakhale malingaliro osiyanasiyana ngakhale pakati pa madokotala pankhani ya tanthauzo la "terminal condition." Mofananamo, tikamalankhula za "artificial procedures," pakhoza kukhala mkangano wokhudza zomwe zili mkati ndi zomwe sizili mkati.
Choncho, ndikofunikira kukhala omveka bwino momwe mungathere pankhani ya zomwe mukufuna. M'malo molemba zinthu monga "Palibe chithandizo chotalikitsa moyo," ndikofunikira kwambiri kukhala omveka bwino, monga "Sindikufuna kuyikidwa chubu chodyetsera" kapena "Sindikufuna kulumikizidwa ndi chopumira mpweya."
2. Kusankha Woberekera
Mwina chofunika kwambiri ndi kusankha munthu woti akupangireni zisankho. Sikokwanira kungosankha munthu amene mumamukonda kwambiri. Munthu ameneyo ayenera kukhala ndi umunthu wolimba .
Tangoganizani kuti mwalemba kale kuti simukufuna chithandizo china chake. Koma dokotala akubwera kwa woimira wanu nati, "Tiyeni tiyese chithandizo ichi, mwina chingathandize pang'ono." Pamenepo, muyenera kusankha munthu amene, ngakhale akulemekeza maganizo a dokotalayo, anganene motsimikiza kuti, "Ayi, ichi ndi chimene ankafuna. Tiyenera kulemekeza zimenezo." Ndikofunikiranso kuti munthuyo amvetse 100% ya zomwe mukufuna.
Ndiye tiyenera kuchita chiyani?
Ndi zonsezi, ngati mukufuna kupanga dongosolo la tsogolo lanu, ndikofunikira kwambiri kutsatira njira izi.
- Lankhulani ndi dokotala wanu: Ichi ndi chinthu choyamba chomwe muyenera kuchita. Yambani kukambirana ndi dokotala wanu nthawi yomweyo. Muuzeni momveka bwino zomwe mukufuna, zomwe mumaopa, komanso momwe mukufunira kukhala masiku otsiriza a moyo wanu . Kenako, nthawi ikadzakwana, iye adzamvetsetsa bwino zomwe mukufuna.
- Sankhani woimira wodalirika: Monga tafotokozera kale, sankhani munthu amene amamvetsetsadi mfundo zanu, zikhulupiriro zanu, ndi momwe mumaonera moyo, komanso amene angakutetezeni ngati pakufunika kutero. Mukasankha mmodzi, kambiranani naye mwatsatanetsatane za nkhaniyi.
- Fotokozani momveka bwino chikalatacho: Ndi bwino kupeza thandizo la loya. Gwiritsani ntchito mawu enieni momwe mungathere ndikulemba kuti muchotse kusamveka bwino kulikonse pa zomwe mukufuna.
- Uzani banja lanu: Mukamaliza kukonza chikalatachi, dziwitsani banja lanu (makamaka omwe ali pafupi nanu) za icho. Muwafotokozere mwachikondi chifukwa chake mwasankha izi. Izi zithandiza kupewa mikangano pakati pawo mtsogolo.
Ngakhale kuti nkhaniyi ndi yovuta, kukonzekera pasadakhale mwanjira imeneyi kungakupatseni inu ndi okondedwa anu mtendere wamumtima. Zili ngati kutseka zitseko ndi mawindo anu mvula yamkuntho isanayambe ndikuonetsetsa kuti muli otetezeka.
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Chitsogozo Chapatsogolo ndi chikalata chovomerezeka ndi boma chomwe chimanena zomwe mukufuna kuti mupeze chithandizo chamankhwala pasadakhale ngati simungathe kupanga zisankho.
- Mitundu ikuluikulu ndi Living Will (chifuniro cha chithandizo), Health Care Surrogate (kusankha munthu woti akupangireni zisankho), ndi Durable Power of Attorney (kupatsa mphamvu anthu pa nkhani zachuma).
- Polemba chikalata chanu, khalani omveka bwino komanso olunjika momwe mungathere. M'malo mogwiritsa ntchito mawu wamba, tchulani chithandizo chomwe mukufuna kapena chomwe simukufuna.
- Munthu amene wasankhidwa kuti akupangireni zisankho (Wolowa m'malo mwanu) ayenera kukhala munthu amene amadziwa bwino zomwe mukufuna ndipo angathe kuzilimbikitsa .
- Musanachite zonsezi, kambiranani momasuka za izi ndi dokotala wanu ndipo fotokozani momveka bwino maganizo anu ndi zomwe mukufuna.
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