Njira zitatu zowonjezerera chisangalalo chanu! (Kukulitsa Maganizo Abwino)

Tonsefe timafuna kukhala osangalala komanso omasuka tsiku lonse, sichoncho? Mukudziwa momwe chisoni pang'ono chingatikhudzire. Koma malingaliro abwino, kapena malingaliro abwino, sikuti amangotipangitsa kumva bwino, koma ndi abwino kwambiri pa thupi ndi malingaliro athu. Ndipotu, malingaliro abwinowa amachepetsa kupsinjika maganizo, amatithandiza kuganizira zinthu zatsopano, ndipo amatipatsa mphamvu zothanirana ndi mavuto. Kafukufuku wapeza kuti tili pamlingo wabwino kwambiri ndipo timagwira ntchito bwino kwambiri tikakhala ndi malingaliro abwino nthawi zambiri katatu kuposa pamene timakhala ndi malingaliro oipa. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, ngati mukumva chisoni kamodzi patsiku, muyenera kukhala ndi china chake choti chikhale chosangalatsa katatu patsiku. Ndiye, kodi mukufuna kuwonjezera chisangalalo ndi zabwino pamoyo wanu? Tiyeni tiwone njira zitatu zosavuta zomwe mungachitire.

Kodi ndi malingaliro abwino ati omwe muli nawo? Tiyeni tilembe pang'ono?

Choyamba muyenera kuzindikira malingaliro abwino omwe mumakumana nawo kale m'moyo wanu watsiku ndi tsiku. Lembani mndandanda waung'ono. Lembani malingaliro onse osangalatsa omwe mumakumbukira, malingaliro achikondi, nthawi zomwe mudadzikuza, malo omwe mudasangalala ... Ngati muli ndi malingaliro atsopano abwino, onjezani pamenepo.

Tsopano yang'anani mndandanda womwe mudapanga. Ganizirani (kapena lembani ngati mungathe) za zochita, zochitika, kapena anthu omwe mumawagwirizanitsa ndi malingaliro awa. Mwachitsanzo, ganizirani za:

• Kudzikuza komwe mumapeza mukapambana mpikisano wamasewera.
• Chisangalalo chomwe munali nacho pamene anzanu anakukumbukirani ndikukuyamikirani pa tsiku lanu lobadwa.
• Chisangalalo chomwe chinabwera pamene munaseka mbiri yanu, bwana, ndikupangitsa kalasi yonse kuseka.
• Chimwemwe chosalakwa chomwe chimabwera mumtima mwanu mwana wamng'ono akakuyang'anani ndikumwetulira.
• Chikhutiro chomwe mumamva mukathandiza wina.
• Chisangalalo chomwe chimabwera mukalandira yankho labwino chifukwa cha ntchito yanu yolimba.
• Mtendere umene umabwera m'maganizo mwanu mukaona duwa lokongola kapena kulowa kwa dzuwa.

Kusunga bwino zomwe mukumva mwanjira imeneyi kumatithandiza kuzindikira bwino zinthu zabwino zomwe tikukumana nazo kale.Komanso, tingathe kuzindikira bwino zochitika, anthu, ndi zochita zomwe zimatibweretsera malingaliro amenewo. Nthawi zina, ngati tiganizira pang'ono tisanagone usiku titapita tsiku limodzi, tingakumbukire zinthu monga, 'O... ndasangalala lero chifukwa cha chinthu chonga ichi, sichoncho?', 'Ndadzitamandira kwambiri,' ndi zina zotero. Imeneyi ndi njira yabwino yochitira izi. Tangoganizirani, kumapeto kwa tsiku, mutenga kabuku kakang'ono ndikulemba zinthu monga, 'M'mawa uno, ndamva kukondedwa pamene amayi anga amalankhula nane,' 'Madzulo ano, ndaseka kwambiri pamene ndikulankhula ndi mnzanga, zinali zosangalatsa kwambiri,' 'Ndakhala wokhutira kwambiri pamene banja langa linati chakudya chomwe ndaphika chinali chokoma.' Patapita kanthawi, mudzazindikira zinthu zambiri zomwe mungakhale osangalala nazo, mwina simunaganizirepo kwambiri za izi kale.

Tiyeni tisankhe kumverera bwino komwe mukufuna kwambiri ndikukukulitsa?

Tsopano popeza mwadziwa pang'ono za malingaliro abwino omwe mukumva, gawo lotsatira ndikusankha malingaliro abwino omwe mungafune kuwonjezera pa moyo wanu. Tangoganizani mukufuna kuwonjezera kumverera kwa 'chimwemwe'. Kapena kumverera kwa 'kuyamikira', kapena chisangalalo cha 'luso'. Sankhani chimodzi chomwe mumakonda. Kenako, choyamba ganizirani za nthawi zomwe mudamva malingaliro amenewo, ndi zomwe mudachita panthawiyo. Lembani zinthu zambiri momwe mungathere.

Siziyenera kukhala zinthu zazikulu panthawiyi. Ganizirani za zinthu zazing'ono komanso zosavuta. Mwina pali nyimbo yomwe imakusangalatsani. Nthawi iliyonse mukayimvera, imakusangalatsani pang'ono, eti? Ndi zimenezo. Nthawi iliyonse mukasangalala, ganizirani zomwe zinayambitsa, ndipo ngati n'kotheka, onjezani zimenezo pamndandanda umenewo.

Mukazindikira zomwe mukufuna kuwonjezera ndi zomwe zimayambitsa, sankhani momwe mungaphatikizire zochita zimenezo, kapena zinthu zina zofanana, m'moyo wanu watsiku ndi tsiku. Chofunika kwambiri ndikusankha zinthu zenizeni zomwe mungachite tsiku lililonse. Mwina simungathe kuyenda pagombe tsiku lililonse. Koma, mutha kumvetsera nyimbo yomwe imakukumbutsani za tchuthi ndikusangalala ndi chisangalalo chimenecho, sichoncho? Tangoganizirani, ngati mukumva mbalame yokongola ikuimba ikumwa tiyi m'mawa, zimenezo zingabweretse chisangalalo pang'ono. Kapena, zinthu monga kuphika ndi kudya chakudya chomwe mumakonda, kubzala chomera chaching'ono, kapena kuyimbira mnzanu ndikulankhula kwa mphindi zochepa. Chofunika kwambiri ndikumvetsetsa kuti uwu ndi ulendo wanu. Chomwe chimakubweretserani chisangalalo sichingabweretse chisangalalo kwa wina. Chifukwa chake, yesani kupeza chomwe chimakubweretserani chisangalalo ndi mtendere, m'malo moyang'ana zomwe anthu ena akuchita.

Izi zili ngati kunena kuti tizidya zipatso ndi ndiwo zamasamba 5 patsiku. Ndizabwino pa thanzi lathu. Kuchita chinthu chimodzi kapena ziwiri zazing'ono ngati izi patsiku ndi njira yabwino yopezera thanzi lathu la maganizo !

Sankhani chinthu chimodzi kapena zingapo za tsiku ndi tsiku zomwe zingakupangitseni kufuna zambiri pa moyo wanu ndikudzipereka kuzichita.. Patulani nthawi pang'ono patsiku lanu kuti muphunzire izi. Izi zili ngati 'vitamini' ya malingaliro anu. Pambuyo pa masiku angapo, mudzamva kusiyana.

Tiyeni tipange 'Chikwama Chanu Cha Chuma Chabwino'?

Nthawi zina timaiwala njira yobwerera kumene tili osangalala, sichoncho? Tikakhala achisoni kapena okhumudwa, timaganiza zinthu monga, 'O, kodi sindidzakhala wosangalala?' Pamenepo ndi pamene 'bokosi labwino' kapena 'bokosi labwino la chuma' lingatithandize kwambiri.

Kodi mukudziwa kuti 'bokosi losangalala' ili ndi chiyani? Ndi mndandanda wa zinthu zomwe zimatikumbutsa za zochitika zabwino komanso zosangalatsa zomwe takhala nazo. Zikumbutsozi zimatikumbutsa nthawi zabwino kwambiri m'miyoyo yathu, mphamvu zathu, chimwemwe chomwe takhala nacho, zomwe takwaniritsa, zosangalatsa zomwe takhala nazo, mabuku ndi nyimbo zomwe zakhala zofunika kwa ife, komanso anthu omwe akhala ofunika kwa ife. Zili ngati 'bokosi la chuma' komwe tingapeze chimwemwe m'mitima mwathu.

Yambani kusonkhanitsa zinthu m'moyo wanu zomwe zakubweretserani malingaliro abwino ndikukusiyirani zokumbukira zabwino. Nazi zitsanzo zina:

• Zithunzi za ulendo wokongola womwe mudatenga kapena zikumbutso zazing'ono (monga tikiti yopita ku Sigiriya, chithunzi cha ulendo womwe mudatenga ndi anzanu).
• Mphotho kapena satifiketi yomwe imakukumbutsani zomwe mwakwaniritsa.
• Khadi kapena kakalata kakang'ono kochokera kwa munthu wapadera kwambiri kwa inu (khadi la moni la Chaka Chatsopano, mawu abwino olembedwa ndi mnzanu).
• Mawu kapena mzere wochokera mu nyimbo yomwe mumakonda komanso yomwe imakulimbikitsani .
• Chinthu chomwe chimakubweretserani kukumbukira zinthu zabwino kuyambira muli mwana (monga chidole chaching'ono, buku, chinthu chomwe mnzanu anakupatsani kuchokera kusukulu).
• Chojambula, cholengedwa chomwe mudapanga kapena kujambula.
• Sizikukhudza ngati wina akupatsani mphatso , ngakhale itakhala yaying'ono, chofunika ndi kufunika kwake.
• Chithunzi cha munthu amene mumamulemekeza komanso amene mumamulemekeza.

Sungani zonsezi mufayilo, binder, kapena bokosi lokongola komwe mungapeze mosavuta. Anthu ena amaziika bwino pa bolodi komwe angathe kuziona nthawi zonse. Kapena mutha kupanga collage kapena poster kuchokera ku zinthu izi. Chofunika kwambiri ndikusankha zinthu zomwe zimakupangitsani kumva bwino ndikukubweretserani chisangalalo. Mutha kuwonjezera zinthu zatsopano nthawi iliyonse, kuchotsa zinthu, kapena kuzisintha.

Mukakhumudwa kapena kukhumudwa, tengani mphindi zochepa kuti muyang'ane 'bokosi la chuma' ili. Mukakhudza zinthu zimenezo ndikukumbukira zokumbukira zomwe zikugwirizana nazo, mudzayamba kumvanso chisangalalo, kunyada, ndi chikondi chomwe munali nacho panthawiyo. Izi zidzakuthandizani kumasula malingaliro oipa omwe muli nawo m'maganizo mwanu.Zidzakuthandizani kuti musamavutike maganizo komanso kuti mukhale ndi chiyembekezo. Ngakhale mutachita izi, kungoonera izi, mutha kuwonjezera chisangalalo pang'ono pa tsiku lanu.

Ndiye, kodi chinthu chachikulu chomwe muyenera kukumbukira kuchokera pa zomwe takambiranazi ndi chiyani?

Mukayesa kuwonjezera malingaliro abwino pa moyo wanu, kutanthauza zinthu zabwino monga chisangalalo, kukhutira, ndi chikondi, mudzapeza kuti mumakhala osangalala , amphamvu, komanso okhutira kwambiri . Kuganizira zinthu zabwino tsiku lililonse, kuchita zinthu zazing'ono kwa iwo, kuli ngati ndalama zochepa. Koma zabwino zomwe mudzapeze pa moyo wanu wonse ndi zazikulu kwambiri.

Kumbukirani, chimwemwe mumtima mwanu ndi chinthu chomwe mungathe kuchikulitsa. Zimangofunika khama pang'ono ndi kudzipereka! Njira zonse zitatuzi ndi zosavuta, ndipo mutha kuyamba lero. Yesani, mudzadabwa!

Malingaliro abwino, thanzi la maganizo, chisangalalo, maluso a moyo, kudzithandiza, kasamalidwe ka malingaliro, zamaganizo