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Ese uwo ukunda ararwaye? Dore uko wamufasha! (Gushyigikira uwo ukunda)

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Ese uwo ukunda ararwaye? Dore uko wamufasha! (Gushyigikira uwo ukunda)
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Biragoye gusobanura mu magambo icyo twumva iyo twumvise ko umwe mu bagize umuryango cyangwa inshuti magara yarwaye mu buryo butunguranye, cyane cyane indwara ikomeye nka kanseri. Ku ruhande rumwe, twumva tubabaye kandi dufite ubwoba. Ku rundi ruhande, twifuza gufasha uwo muntu, ariko hari igihe twumva tudafite icyo dukora kandi tudashobora gutekereza tuti, "Nkore iki ubu?", "Nshobora gufasha nte?" Ibi ni ibisanzwe cyane. Niba nawe wumva umeze utyo, ntukagire icyo wumva ubabaye. Icy'ingenzi ni ukumvisha uwo muntu ko turi kumwe na we muri iki gihe kigoye.
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Icyo ugomba gusobanukirwa mbere yo gutanga ubufasha

Iyo tuvuze ko turimo gufasha umuntu, bishobora gukorwa mu buryo bubiri bw'ingenzi. Bumwe ni ubufasha bufatika . Ibyo bivuze gufasha mu mirimo ya buri munsi. Ubundi ni ubufasha mu by'amarangamutima . Ibyo bivuze gufasha uwo muntu, kuba uri kumwe na we. Byombi ni ingenzi cyane. Tekereza ko inshuti yawe yanduye kanseri y'ibere . Ku ruhande rumwe, agomba kwiruka akajya kwa muganga no kwivuza. Hagati aho, agomba no kwita ku mirimo yo mu rugo n'abana. Ku rundi ruhande, arimo arwana n'amarangamutima menshi imbere muri we, nko gutinya, gutungurwa, uburakari, n'agahinda. Rero iyo dufasha, tugomba gutekereza kuri ibi bintu byombi.
Igikuru si ukuvuga gusa uti “Mbwira niba ukeneye ubufasha.” Ahubwo, ni ukugira ngo tugufashe kugira icyo dukora.

Ni gute twagufasha neza? (Ibintu byo gukora)

Iyo umuntu arwaye, ashobora kubura umwanya wo gutekereza gusaba icyo akeneye. Bityo rero ni ngombwa gutekereza ku gutanga ubufasha.

Tanga inama ku bufasha bufatika

Aho kubaza muri rusange uti "Hari icyo ukeneye?", saba ibintu byihariye nk'ibi.
  • "Uyu munsi ngiye ku iduka. Hari icyo ukeneye cyo kuzana mu rugo? "
  • "Ugomba kujya kwa muganga uyu munsi, sibyo? Njye kuza kugufata? "
  • "Uyu munsi usa n'unaniwe. Ese nkwiye kujyana abana ku ishuri? "
  • "Ukeneye kugura imiti? Ese nkwiye kujya muri farumasi nkayigura? "
  • "Ntuteke uyu munsi. Ndakuzaniye ifunguro rya nimugoroba. "
Iyo ubajije ikibazo runaka nk'iki, biroroshye ko umuntu avuga ati "yego" cyangwa "oya." Bisa nkaho umutwaro munini wakuweho.

Bareke bumve amarangamutima yabo.

Ni ibisanzwe kugira umujinya, ubwoba, gutungurwa, n'agahinda iyo umuntu asanzwe arwaye. Muri icyo gihe, tugomba kumureka akagaragaza ibyo byiyumvo.
  • Tega amatwi witonze:Umva witonze ibyo bavuga. Ntukabace mu ijambo igihe bagaragaje agahinda cyangwa uburakari bwabo, cyangwa ngo ugerageze guhita utanga ibisubizo. Bagaragarize ko wumva ibyiyumvo byabo uvuga ibintu nk'ibi, "Yego, ni byiza kumva utyo."
  • Garagaza ko umushyigikiye: Hari igihe amagambo aba adakenewe. Gufatana amaboko, gushyira umutwe ku rutugu rw'umuntu, no kumureka akarira bishobora kuguhumuriza cyane. Ohereza ubutumwa bugira buti "Ndi kumwe nawe."

Ntukigere ukora ayo makosa (ibintu udakwiye gukora)

Bimwe mu bintu dukora tugamije ibyiza bishobora kubabaza umuntu urwaye cyane kurushaho. Bityo rero witondere cyane ibi bintu.

Ntukavuge inkuru ziteye ubwoba.

Iri ni ikosa rikomeye abantu benshi bakora batabizi.
  • Ntukavuge inkuru nka "Masenge w'umuturanyi wacu yari afite indwara imwe, kandi ibi nibyo byamubayeho amaherezo..." . Inkuru nk'izo zizongera ubwoba bwabo. Buri murwayi aratandukanye. Uburyo bwo kuvura bwararushijeho kuba bwiza. Rero ntukamuce intege ushinja abandi ibibi bahuye na byo.
  • Nanone, ntugatange uburyo bwo kuvura wigeze wumva ahantu runaka, nko kuvuga ngo "Uwo muganga ni mwiza, umuti w'amavuta ni mwiza, igikoma ni cyiza, nibindi." Iyo bene wacu benshi baje bakavuga ibintu nk'ibyo, umurwayi ntashobora gufata icyemezo. Umurwayi ashobora no gufata icyemezo kitari cyo ahagaritse ubuvuzi burimo gukorerwa mu bitaro.

Ntugahatire "kuba umuntu mwiza."

Kuvuga amagambo nka "komeza umutima wawe," "gira icyizere," na "hari abantu benshi bahura n'ingorane kurusha wowe" bigabanya gusa amarangamutima yabo nyayo.
  • Kubwira umuntu ibi iyo ababaye cyangwa afite ubwoba bishobora gutuma yumva afite icyaha ku bw'ibyiyumvo bye. Batangira kwishinja icyaha, bakavuga bati “Kuki numva mbabaye gutya?” Ahubwo, reka bumve ibyiyumvo bye ubabwira uti “Ni ibisanzwe ko wumva ufite ubwoba kandi ubabaye muri iki gihe. Nta kibazo kirimo.”

Ntugahagarike gusura nubwo utabona telefoni.

Hari igihe umuntu urwaye ashobora kutagira imbaraga zo kwitaba umuhamagaro cyangwa no kuvuga.
  • Ntukabyirinde kuko wabahamagaye cyangwa wanditse ubutumwa bugufi ntibabwitabe. Bashobora kuba badashaka kuvugana, ariko ni uburyo bwiza bwo gutuma bumva ko uri kubakurikirana. Ndetse no kohereza ubutumwa bugufi bugira buti "Ugomba kuba ugorwa no kuvugana nawe. Niba hari icyo ukeneye, mbwire." (Ntukajye kubabuza amahwemo gusa.)
✔️ Ibyo gukora ❌ Ntugakore ibyo udakwiye gukora
Tanga ubufasha bwihariye , urugero nka "Ese nshobora kujyana abana ku ishuri?" Ntukavuge gusa ngo "Niba hari icyo ukeneye, mbwira gusa."
Emera ibyiyumvo byabo byose, nk'agahinda, uburakari, n'ubwoba, kandi ubatege amatwi witonze. Ntugapfukirane ibyiyumvo byabo uvuga uti, "Gira icyizere" cyangwa "Komeza umwuka wawe."
Garagaza ko ushyigikiye binyuze mu bikorwa, atari mu magambo gusa, mu gufatana amaboko. Ntugatere ubwoba abandi barwayi ubabwira inkuru ziteye ubwoba kandi zidashimishije .
Nubwo batakwitabye, bamenyeshe ko urimo kubatekerezaho ukoresheje ubutumwa bugufi. Irinde kuzirinda burundu kubera ko zitagusubiza.
Umva gusa icyo bashaka kuvuga ku bijyanye n'uburwayi bwabo. Ntukabatere isoni mu kubaza ibibazo bitari ngombwa ku bijyanye n'uburwayi bwabo.
Amaherezo, ibuka ko icyo uwo ukunda akeneye muri iki gihe atari intwari. Bakeneye umuntu umufata ukuboko, ugendana na we muri uru rugendo, ukumva. Kuba uriho, ijambo ryawe rimwe, ubufasha bwawe buto bishobora kuba imbaraga zikomeye kuri bo. Rero, kora ubwo bufasha nta bwoba, ariko witonze cyane, kandi ubigiranye umutima wawe.

Ubutumwa bwo kujyana mu rugo

  • Ni ibisanzwe kumva nta cyo ushoboye kandi utazi uko wafasha iyo umuntu wawe wa hafi arwaye.
  • Aho kubaza muri rusange uti "Hari icyo ukeneye?", tanga umusanzu runaka, urugero nka "Ese hari icyo nagushakira mu iduka?"
  • Emera ko bumva bafite agahinda, uburakari, ubwoba, n'ibindi. Aho kubahatira "kuba abantu beza," tega amatwi witonze.
  • Irinde kuvuga inkuru mbi kandi ziteye ubwoba ku bandi barwayi. Bigabanya imbaraga zabo zo mu mutwe.
  • Nubwo batakwitabye, kubamenyesha binyuze mu butumwa bugufi ko ubatekerezaho bizabatera inkunga ikomeye.
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