Mwana wenyu, anogara achimhanya-mhanya achitamba kumba uye achipfuura vamwe vese nekutaura kwake, anongoerekana anyarara sechifananidzo chedombo kuchikoro, kumba kwehama, kana paanosangana nemumwe munhu mutsva here? Hazvina mhosva kuti wamukumbira kuti ataure zvakadini, anongoramba akanyarara ogara ega, sekunge ari kutya here? Vabereki vazhinji vanofunga kuti uku kunyara kana kusindimara kwemwana, asi zvinogona kunge zviri chimwe chinhu chakadzama kupfuura izvozvo. Nhasi tiri kutaura nezve 'kunyarara kwekusarudza' uku kana, mune zvehutano, Selective Mutism .
Zvichitaurwa zviri nyore, chii chinonzi Selective Mutism?
Kusagadzikana kwepfungwa (selective mutism) chirwere chekuzvidya mwoyo chinokanganisa vana. Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, mwana anogona kutaura zvakanaka, asi mune mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu evanhu (semuenzaniso, kuchikoro, pamberi pehama) vanorasikirwa zvachose nekugona kutaura.
Chinhu chakakosha ndechekuti ichi hachisi chinhu chinoitwa nemwana nemaune, uye hachisi chisimbiso chavo. Kunetseka kwakanyanya kunouya nenguva iyoyo kunoita kuti vasakwanise kutaura. Vanonzwa sekunge inzwi ravo riri kudzipwa.
Kumba, munzvimbo yavanonzwa vakajairika uye vakachengeteka (naamai, baba, vanun'una nevanun'una), vana ava vanotaura zvakanyanya. Asi pavanobuda munzvimbo iyoyo, semuenzaniso, pavanoenda kukirasi, mudzidzisi paanobvunza mubvunzo, vanonyarara zvachose. Dzimwe nguva vanogona kuzevezera zvinyoro nyoro zvekuti shamwari chete ndiyo inogona kuvanzwa.
Ndezvipi zvinhu zvikuru zvinoonekwa nemwana ane Selective Mutism?
Hunhu uhwu hunogona kusiyana kubva pamwana kuenda kumwana, asi pane zvinhu zvishoma zvinogona kuonekwa zvakafanana.
- Kutaura zvakajairika munzvimbo dzandinojaira: Kumba, ndinogona kutaura nevabereki vangu nevanin'ina vangu pasina matambudziko.
- Kusataura mune dzimwe nzvimbo dzemagariro evanhu: Kutaura kunomira zvachose munzvimbo dzakadai sechikoro, pamapati, kana pamberi pehama.
- Kuratidza zviratidzo zvekunetseka: Mwana anotya uye haagari zvakanaka kana asingagoni kutaura. Vamwe vanonamatira kuna amai kana baba vavo. Chiso chinoshanduka, chinoita sekunge chakaomarara.
- Kushandisa zvinhu pachinzvimbo chemashoko: Kunyangwe vasingakwanise kutaura, vanoedza kutaurirana nekugutsurira misoro yavo, kunongedza, kana kunyora.
- Mamiriro ezvinhu aya anogara kwenguva inopfuura mwedzi: Zvakajairika kuti mwana anyarare kwenguva yakati mumwedzi wekutanga wechikoro chitsva. Zvisinei, kana kunyarara uku kukaramba kuripo kwemwedzi inopfuura mwedzi, chinhu chekunetseka nacho.
Izvi zvinongonyadzisa here? Kana kuti pane zvimwe zvinhu zvakare?
Iri ndiro dambudziko guru rine vanhu vazhinji. Vabereki vazhinji vanofunga kuti, "Mwana wangu anonyara zvakanyanya, ndosaka asingatauri." AsiKusarura kusagadzikana (select mutism) uye kunyara zvakanyanya zvinhu zviviri zvakasiyana.
Fungidzira, kana mwana anonyara achienda kunzvimbo itsva, anotanga akanyarara, asi mushure mechinguva anojaira mamiriro acho ezvinhu, anotanga kutaura zvishoma nezvishoma. Asi mwana ane Selective Mutism haakwanise kuita izvozvo. Munzvimbo iyoyo, anorasikirwa zvachose nehunyanzvi hwekutaura. Chinhu chinopfuura simba rake.
| Chinzvimbo | Tsananguro |
|---|---|
| Kusarudza Mutism | Iri idambudziko rinozivikanwa rekuzvidya mwoyo. Mwana anorasikirwa nehunyanzvi hwekutaura. Anogona kuratidza hunhu huviri kumba nekunze. |
| Kunyara | Uhu hunhu hwemunhu. Hausi chirwere. Mwana anotanga akanyarara, asi mushure mechinguva, anozojaira mamiriro ezvinhu otanga kutaura. |
Iyi i autism here? Kana kuti kunonoka kutaura?
Iyi inzvimbowo inovhiringika vanhu vazhinji.
- Autism: Vamwe vana vane autism vanogona kunge vaine kunonoka kutaura kana maitiro asina kutaura. Zvisinei, autism chirwere chakakura chekukura kupfuura chirwere chekuzvidya mwoyo. Chinogonawo kusanganisira zvimwe zviratidzo, zvakaita sekuomerwa nekunzwisisa zviratidzo zvemagariro evanhu, matambudziko emanzwiro, uye maitiro anodzokororwa. Vana vane Selective Mutism vanowanzo kwanisa kunzwisisa maitiro echiso nemanzwiro evamwe.
- Kunonoka Kwemutauro: Kana mwana ane makore maviri ekuberekwa asingataure kana shoko rimwe chete, tinogona kuzviona sekunonoka kwemutauro. Asi kana mwana ane makore matanhatu ekuberekwa achitaura zvakanaka kumba asi kuchikoro chete, zvingangoita kuti ave Selective Mutism.
Sei vana vachibatwa nechirwere ichi?
Chikonzero chaicho cheizvi hachisati chawanikwa, asi vaongorori vanotenda kuti zvinhu zvinoverengeka zvinogona kukonzera izvi.
- Kuzvidya Mwoyo: Vazhinji vevana ava vanoberekwa vaine dambudziko rekuzvidya mwoyo nevanhu.
- Nhoroondo yemhuri:Mumwe munhu mumhuri, kunyanya vabereki, ane matambudziko ekuzvidya mwoyo kana kunyara zvakanyanya.
- Matambudziko ekutaura nemutauro: Vamwe vana vanogona kunge vaine dambudziko rekutaura kana mutauro, izvo zvinogona kuvaita kuti vatye kutaura pamberi pevamwe.
- Nyaya dzinonetsa: Vamwe vana vanoomerwa nekubata vanhu vakawanda uye ruzha rukuru. Munzvimbo dzakadaro, vanonyarara senzira yekuzvidzivirira.
Yeukai kuti chirwere ichi hachiwanzokonzereswa nechiitiko chinorwadza chakasangana nemwana. Kazhinji, chinokonzerwa nekuzvidya mwoyo.
Chiremba anoongorora sei chirwere ichi nemazvo?
Kana uchifungidzira kuti mwana wako ane zviratidzo izvi, chinhu chakanakisa chekuita ndechekuona chiremba wevana.
Chiremba anotora matanho akati wandei kuti aongorore chirwere ichi.
1. Kuongororwa kwemuviri: Kutanga, bvunzo dzinoitwa kuti pave nechokwadi chekuti hapana matambudziko emuviri munhengo dzekunzwa nedzekutaura dzemwana (muromo, rurimi, tambo dzenzwi).
2. Mibvunzo Yekukura: Muchabvunzwa mibvunzo yakadzama nezvekukura kwemwana wenyu, maitiro ake, uye nhoroondo yemhuri yake kubva pakuzvarwa kusvika pari zvino.
3. Kutumirwa kuMurapi weKutaura: Unogona kutumirwa kuMurapi weKutaura kuti uongorore hunyanzvi hwemwana wako hwekutaura nemutauro.
4. Rutsigiro kubva kunyanzvi yehutano hwepfungwa: Sezvo chirwere ichi chine chekuita nekuzvidya mwoyo, zvakakosha kutumira mwana kuna chiremba wepfungwa kana chiremba wepfungwa ane ruzivo muhutano hwepfungwa hwemwana. Ndivo vanogona kusimbisa kuti chirwere ichi iSelective Mutism uye kugadzira hurongwa hwekurapa hwakakodzera mwana.
Ungabatsira sei semubereki kana mudzidzisi?
Rutsigiro rwevabereki, vadzidzisi, nemhuri rwakakosha pakurapa chirwere ichi.
Zvinogona kuitwa nevabereki:
- Kunzwisisa: Chinhu chekutanga chaunofanira kunzwisisa ndechekuti iyi haisi nyaya yekuoma musoro kwemwana, asi kuti ari kutaura chimwe chinhu chakasiyana nekuda kwekuzvidya mwoyo kusingadzoreki.
- Usamanikidza: Usambomanikidza mwana wako kuti ataure. Kuita izvi kunongowedzera kuzvidya mwoyo kwemwana. Usataure zvinhu zvakaita sekuti, "Vhura muromo wako utaure!"
- Iva nemwoyo murefu: Dambudziko iri rinotora nguva kuti ripore. Iva nemwoyo murefu nemwana wako. Rumbidza kubudirira kwake kudiki (semuenzaniso, kunyemwerera mumwe munhu, kugutsurira musoro wake).
- Tevedzera mazano ekurapa: Tevedzera mirairo yakapihwa nachiremba wemwana wako uye murapi wemapfungwa nemazvo.
Zvinogona kuitwa nevadzidzisi:
- Kusasiya mwana:Kunyangwe mwana asiri kutaura, nzwisisa kuti ari mukirasi uye ari kuteerera zvidzidzo.
- Kupa dzimwe nzira: Bvumira dzimwe nzira dzakadai sekunyora, kudhirowa, kana kugutsurira musoro kuti upindure mibvunzo.
- Kugadzira nzvimbo yakachengeteka: Gadzira nzvimbo inoita kuti mwana wako anzwe akachengeteka mukirasi. Ita kuti agare padivi peshamwari yaunovimba nayo.
- Kuziva: Tsanangura mamiriro ezvinhu aya kune vamwe vana nenzira iri nyore, uye vakurudzire kuti vabatsire mwana uyu kwete kumuparadzanisa nevamwe.
Zvinogona kuitwa nevanun'una neshamwari:
- Usazviparadzanisa nevamwe: Usazviparadzanisa nevamwe, mubatanidze mumitambo yacho. Kunyangwe kana asingataure, anogona kutamba.
- Dziviriro kubva mukushungurudzwa: Kana vamwe vana vachiseka mwana uyu nemazita akadai sekuti "benzi", taurai nezvazvo muchizivisa vadzidzisi.
- Kubatsira: Kana mwana achida kutaura chimwe chinhu, mubatsirei kuti achitaure panzvimbo yake (nemvumo yemwana).
Mharidzo Yekuenda Nayo Kumba
- Kusagadzikana kwepfungwa hakusi kungoomesa musoro kana kunyara kwemwana chete, asi chirwere chinorapika chine chekuita nekuzvidya mwoyo.
- Kana mwana wako aine zviratidzo izvi, enda kuna chiremba wevana nekukurumidza sezvinobvira. Kunonoka kurapwa kunogona kuita kuti mamiriro acho ezvinhu ave akaoma.
- Usambomanikidza, kuranga, kana kuseka mwana kuti ataure. Izvi zvinongowedzera kuzvidya mwoyo kwemwana.
- Nemwoyo murefu, rudo, uye kurapwa kwakakodzera, unogona kubatsira mwana wako kukunda dambudziko iri.











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