Ngaba wakha waziva ngathi umntwana wakho unobuchule kakhulu kwizifundo ezithile, ingakumbi izifundo azithandayo, kodwa akathandi ukuchitha ixesha nabahlobo, ukuthetha, okanye ukudlala, kwaye kunzima? Okanye ngaba uyayazi umntu onomdla kakhulu kwinto ekhethekileyo (umzekelo, oololiwe, okanye iikhompyutha), kodwa enobunzima obuncinci kubudlelwane bezentlalo? Mhlawumbi ukhe weva igama elithi 'Asperger'. Namhlanje, masithethe ngokuba yintoni kanye kanye i-Asperger's Syndrome, ithetha ukuthini ngoku, kunye noko kufuneka sikwazi ngayo.
Ngaba igama lika-Asperger lisetyenziswa ngoku?
Ngamafutshane, hayi . I-Asperger's syndrome yayiluxilongo olwalusetyenziswa ngoogqirha ngaphambi kowama-2013. Ngelo xesha, yayibonwa njengohlobo oluthile, okanye uhlobo olungelulo kakhulu lwe-autism.
Kodwa ngoku, ngenxa yokuqhubela phambili kwesayensi yezonyango, olu hlobo lolwahlulo lutshintshile. Ngoku, zombini i-Asperger kunye ne-autism ziphantsi kwesambulela esinye. Sibizwa ngokuba yi -Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) .
Oko kuthetha ukuba isifo sika-Asperger asisesona isifo esahlukileyo. Abantu abaninzi ababefunyaniswe ukuba bane-Asperger's ngaphambili ngoku babizwa ngoogqirha ngokuba "bane-autism yenqanaba lokuqala." Oku kuthetha ukuba bafuna inkxaso encinci ukuze basebenze ubomi bemihla ngemihla. Kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ayinguye wonke umntu ofana. Abanye abantu banokufuna inkxaso engaphezulu kunabanye.
Kodwa, kumntu owayekhe wafunyaniswa ukuba une-"Asperger's," elo gama lisenokuba yinxalenye yobuntu bakhe. Banokukhetha ukuzibiza ngokuba "zii-aspie." Yiloo nto bakhetha ukuyenza. Sifanele siyihloniphe loo nto.
Zithini iimpawu zesifo esasisaziwa ngokuba yi-Asperger's?
Ngokwesiqhelo, xa kuchongwa isifo sika-Asperger, kuqwalaselwe amaqela amathathu aphambili eempawu. La ngawa:
| Udidi lweempawu | Ingcaciso elula kunye nemizekelo |
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| Ubunzima kubudlelwane boluntu | Kusenokubakho imingeni emincinci xa usebenza nabanye.
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| Utshintsho kunxibelelwano | Ungabona umahluko phakathi kolwimi nendlela yokuthetha.
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| Ukuziphatha okulinganiselweyo nokuphindaphindwayo kunye nezinto onomdla kuzo | Umdla omkhulu kwizinto ezithile kunye nokukhetha ukwenza izinto ezithile ngendlela efanayo.
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Kutheni eli gama litshintshwe laba yi-"autism spectrum"?
Le yingongoma ebaluleke kakhulu. Cinga ngomnyama. Imibala ekwimnyama icwangciswe enye emva kwenye, kodwa awunakuzoba umgca ngqo apho umbala omnye uphela khona kwaye omnye uqala khona, akunjalo? Imibala ixutywe kunye.
"I-spectrum" injalo. Asinguye wonke umntu okwi-autism spectrum ofanayo. Abanye bafuna inkxaso eninzi, abanye bafuna inkxaso encinci kakhulu. Abanye abakwazi ukuthetha, abanye banokuthetha kakuhle kakhulu. Ngenxa yolu hlukahluka, kwenza kube lula kakhulu ukuqonda ukuba wonke umntu ukwi-spectrum efanayo, endaweni yokubahlula ngokwe "Asperger's" okanye "autism," kwaye banike umntu ngamnye inkxaso ayidingayo.
Zithini izizathu zale meko?
Iingcali azikakwazi ukuxela ngqo ukuba yintoni ebangela oku, kodwa zikholelwa ukuba kungenxa yokudibana kwezinto zemfuza kunye neemeko ezingqongileyo .
Ngamafutshane, esi sisifo sophuhliso lwemithambo-luvo . Ungakhathazeki, oku akuthethi ukuba sisifo. Kuthetha ukuba uphuhliso kunye nokusebenza kweengqondo zabo, okanye uqhagamshelwano lwengqondo, kwahlukile kancinci kuninzi lwabanye abantu. Lo mahluko wengqondo umisela indlela abalibona ngayo ihlabathi, indlela abacinga ngayo, kunye nendlela abasebenzisana ngayo nabanye.
Amaxesha amaninzi, olu tshintsho lwemfuza lunokwenzeka kwiintsapho, oko kuthetha ukuba lunokudluliselwa kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, usana olusandul’ ukuzalwa lunokuba nale meko ngaphandle kokuba nabani na kusapho abe nayo.
Ndingenza ntoni ukuba umntwana wam unezi mpawu?
Okokuqala, khumbula, musa ukuthembela kuvavanyo olukwi-intanethi ukuqinisekisa oku. Asinakuthemba ukuchaneka kwalo.
Ukuba unamathandabuzo anjalo ngomntwana wakho, eyona nto ilungileyo nekuphela kwayo onokuyenza kukubona ugqirha wosapho lwakho okanye ugqirha wabantwana .
Kwanangoku eSri Lanka, xa kuhlolwa umntwana osempilweni, oogqirha bajonga iimpawu ze-autism spectrum disorder (ASD). Bakubuza imibuzo baze bajonge umntwana wakho. Ukuba kukho amathandabuzo, bakuthumele komnye ugqirha okanye ingcali yezonyango egxile kweli candelo.
Ukuba uziva ngathi unale mpawu njengomntu omdala, akukabi lixesha lokuba uthethe ngazo. Ngokubona ugqirha nokufumana iingcebiso, unokuziqonda ngcono kwaye ufumane inkxaso oyifunayo ukuze ujongane nemingeni yobomi bemihla ngemihla.
Ngaba kukho "unyango" lwale nto?
Lo ngumbuzo abantu abaninzi abawubuzayo. Njengoko besixoxile ngaphambili, i-autism spectrum disorder (ASD) ayisosifo esinokunyangwa . Lutshintsho olusengqondweni. Ngenxa yoko, oogqirha abazami "ukuyinyanga".
Kunoko, inika inkxaso kumntu ekulawuleni imingeni ajongene nayo ebomini bakhe bemihla ngemihla kwaye icebisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo zonyango .
Umzekelo:
- Unyango lweNtetho kwiingxaki zeNtetho
- Iinkqubo zoqeqesho olukhethekileyo lokuphuhlisa izakhono zentlalo
- Unyango Lokuziphatha Ukulawula Iipateni Zokuziphatha
Konke oku kujoliswe ekuncedeni loo mntu ukuba aphile ngolonwabo nangempumelelo eluntwini kangangoko anako.
Ekugqibeleni, nokuba amagama ezonyango ahluke kangakanani na, umntu ngamnye unelungelo lokukhetha igama elifanelekileyo lokuzichaza. Wonke umntu okwi-autism spectrum wahlukile. Izakhono zakhe, imingeni yakhe, kunye nezinto azithandayo zahlukile. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba sihloniphe ubuwena bakhe kwaye sibanike inkxaso abayifunayo.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- I-Asperger's Syndrome ligama elidala elingasasetyenziswa kwisayensi yezonyango.
- Okwangoku, le meko ithathwa njengenxalenye ye-Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD).
- I-ASD ayisosifo, ngumahluko ekuphuhlisweni kwengqondo kunye nokusebenza kwayo.
- Imingeni ibonakala kakhulu kubudlelwane bezentlalo, unxibelelwano, kunye nokuziphatha okuphindaphindwayo.
- Nangona oku "kungenakunyangwa", iindlela ezahlukeneyo zonyango kunye nenkxaso zinokunceda umntu aphile ubomi obuphumelelayo nobonwabisayo.
- Ukuba wena okanye umntwana wakho ninamathandabuzo ngale nto, eyona nto ingcono kukubona ugqirha wakho ngoko nangoko nize nixoxe ngayo.
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