Ngaba wakha waziva ngathi umntwana wakho omncinci wahlukile kancinci kwabanye abantwana? Ngaba akabajongi abanye emehlweni? Ngaba unengxaki ngezandi ezithile? Okanye ukhetha ukuba yedwa kwihlabathi lakhe? Kuqhelekile ukuba abazali bazive besoyika kwaye bexhalabile xa bebona izinto ezinje. Kodwa ungakhathazeki. Kukho izisombululo kuyo yonke into. Masiyiqonde kakuhle le nto.
Yintoni le 'mahluko'? Masichonge iimpawu
Xa abazali abaninzi beqala ukubona ezi zinto, bacinga ukuba, "Unjalo kanye lo mntwana" okanye "Oku kuya kuba ngcono ngokuhamba kwexesha." Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ezi ndlela zokuziphatha zinokuba zixhaphake kakhulu. Cinga ngale ndlela.
Umntwana wakho ubhalisele kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci. Kodwa uyakhala qho kusasa, engavumi ukukushiya. Akadlali nabanye abantwana. Uhlala yedwa. Uba nomsindo kakhulu xa amathoyizi akhe engabekwanga. Ngamanye amaxesha uhlala eqhwaba izandla ngaphandle kwesizathu.
Kusenokuba yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba nenye okanye ezimbini kwezi mpawu. Kodwa ukuba ezi mpawu zibonwa kunye, kusenokuba yinto esifanele siyixhalabele. Kulapho ke kufuneka sifune uncedo kugqirha. Mhlawumbi ugqirha wakho uza kudibanisa ezi mpawu aze athi le meko isenokuba yi-Asperger's Syndrome .
I-Asperger's syndrome ayisosifo. Lutshintsho kwindlela ingqondo yomntwana ekhula ngayo. Oko kuthetha ukuba 'ukudibanisa' kwabo bantwana kwahlukile kancinci.
Umahluko phakathi kwe-Asperger's Syndrome kunye ne-Autism
Abantu abaninzi babhidanisa i-Asperger syndrome kunye ne-autism. Enyanisweni, ezi zimbini ziyafana kakhulu. Namhlanje, oogqirha bajonga zombini ezi meko phantsi koluhlu olubanzi lwe-autism spectrum disorder (ASD). Oku kuthetha ukuba zombini ziimeko zosapho olunye. Kodwa ukuze kucace gca, makhe sijonge ezinye zezona zinto ziphambili phakathi kwezi zimbini.
| Uphawu | Isifo sika-Asperger | I-Autism yeKlasi |
|---|---|---|
| Ubuchule bokuthetha | Ngokwesiqhelo akukho kulibaziseka ekuthetheni. Uyazi amagama amaninzi, kodwa ulwimi lwakhe alubonisi ntsingiselo kakuhle. | Amaxesha amaninzi, ubuchule bokuthetha bunokulibaziseka kakhulu. |
| Unxibelelwano loluntu | Kunzima ukuqonda iimvakalelo zabanye abantu kunye nembonakalo yobuso (iindlela zentlalo). Yiyo loo nto kunzima ukwenza abahlobo. | Bakhetha ukwahlulwa ngokupheleleyo kwabanye nakwihlabathi labo. |
| I-Intelligence Quotient (IQ) | Idla ngokuba nobukrelekrele obuphakathi okanye obungaphezulu kobuqhelekileyo. | Ubukrelekrele bunokwahluka ukusuka kobuncinci ukuya kobunzima. Ngamanye amaxesha iingxaki zokufunda ziyabonakala. |
Ubunzima bokuqonda indlela yokuziphatha kwezentlalo
Abantwana abane-Asperger's banengxaki yokubonisa uvelwano . Oku kuthetha ukuba banengxaki yokuqonda iimvakalelo zomnye umntu, njengosizi okanye ulonwabo. Banengxaki yokufunda iimpawu zoluntu, ezifana nembonakalo yobuso kunye nendlela abathetha ngayo. Oku kwenza kube nzima kubo ukwenza abahlobo.
Unxibelelwano phakathi kwe-Asperger kunye ne-OCD
Abantwana abaninzi abane-Asperger's banokuba nomdla onzulu kwizinto ezithile. Umzekelo, umntwana unokuba nomdla kakhulu kwiilori zenkunkuma kunye nenkqubo yokuqokelela inkunkuma kangangokuba uyazi okungakumbi ngayo kunaye nabani na osebenza kuloo ntsimi.
Ngokufanayo, le meko ngamanye amaxesha inokuhambisana neempawu ze-Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), imeko ebangela iingcinga nezenzo ezingafunekiyo .
- Ukuziva ngathi kufuneka uvale iingcango rhoqo.
- Ukuziva ngathi kufuneka ndityhale izitulo ngaphakathi ndize ndizibeke ngendlela efanelekileyo.
- Ukucaphuka kakhulu nokuba nomsindo xa indlela oqhele ukwenza ngayo imihla ngemihla itshintsha kancinci.
Aba bantwana baneengxaki zokukhathazeka kunye nokulawula umsindo.Kusenokwenzeka ukuba kukho. Njengoko benditshilo ngaphambili, uyazi ukuba kutheni abanye abantwana beqhubeka beqhwaba izandla? Yindlela abayisebenzisayo ukuzilungiselela nokuzizolisa xa beziva bexhalabile okanye bekhathazekile.
Ungamnceda njani umntwana?
Musa ukoyika ukuva la magama (ka-Asperger, OCD). Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukufumanisa indlela yokunceda umntwana wethu, endaweni yala magama. Akukho sisombululo sinye koku. Kuya kufuneka uzame umxube wezinto ezahlukeneyo.
- Ukunciphisa izinto ezibangela umsindo nokukhathazeka komntwana wakho: Ukuchonga izinto ezibangela umsindo nokukhathazeka komntwana wakho nokumgcina kude naye kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
- Unyango:
- Unyango Lomsebenzi: Oku kunceda ekuphuhliseni izakhono ezifunekayo kwimisebenzi yemihla ngemihla, njengokutya ngecephe nokubopha imitya yezihlangu.
- Unyango Lomzimba: Lunceda ukuphucula ukulungelelaniswa komzimba kunye nezakhono zokunyakaza.
- Isiqhelo esiqhubekayo: Isiqhelo esiqhubekayo, esinotshintsho oluncinci kunye nesiqhelo esifanayo yonke imihla, sibaluleke kakhulu kwaba bantwana. Sibanika ukuzithemba.
- Amayeza: Abanye abantwana banokufuna ukunikwa amayeza okulawula ukuxhalaba okugqithisileyo okanye ezinye iingxaki zokuziphatha kuphela phantsi kwengcebiso yengcali . Ungaze unike umntwana wakho amayeza ngaphandle kwemvume kagqirha.
- Iimodeli Ezilungileyo: Ukuba nabahlobo abanomonde kunokuba ngumzekelo omhle kumntwana wakho.
- Izilwanyana: Ukuba nesilwanyana sasekhaya, ingakumbi inja, kunokunceda aba bantwana baphuhlise izakhono zabo zentlalo. Banokuthetha nenja, badlale nayo, baze babonise uthando. Olu luqheliselo oluhle lokwakha ubudlelwane nabantu.
I-Asperger's syndrome ayisiyonto ingenakoyiswa. Ayisosiphelo sobomi. Umntwana wakho usenokuba krelekrele kakhulu, kodwa unxibelelwano lwengqondo yakhe lwahlukile kancinci. Yiyo loo nto kuphela.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ukuba uqhubeka uqaphela naluphi na 'utshintsho' olungaqhelekanga kwindlela umntwana wakho aziphatha ngayo okanye asebenzisana ngayo nabanye abantu, musa ukuyithatha njengento 'embi' okanye 'ingxaki yempilo yengqondo', kodwa yithathele ingqalelo.
- Musa ukoyika, bonana nogqirha wabantwana okanye ugqirha wengqondo wabantwana ngokukhawuleza ukuze ufumane ingcebiso. Ukufunyanwa kwangoko kubaluleke kakhulu kumntwana.
- I-Asperger's syndrome ayisosifo, sisifo sophuhliso. Ngoncedo olufanelekileyo, ukuqonda, nothando, umntwana unokuphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo nobuphumelelayo.
- Khumbula ukuba iindlela zonyango, inkqubo eqhubekayo, kunye nendawo enothando zibalulekile ekukhuleni komntwana. Awuwedwa, fumana uncedo.
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