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Ngaba ukhathazekile ngomntwana wakho? Masithethe nge-autism.

Creator: Dr. Priya Sammani
Published: 2026-07-15T22:50:44.000Z

Dr. Priya Sammani, MBBS, PG Dip. FMMedical Verification

Ngaba umntwana wakho omncinci udlala yedwa kwihlabathi lakhe ngaphandle kokujoyina abanye abantwana? Okanye akajongi ngasemva xa umbiza ngegama? Ngaba uqaphele ukuba ngamanye amaxesha uphinda into efanayo? Xa ubona izinto ezinje, kuqhelekile ukuba wena, njengomama okanye utata, uzive usoyika kwaye ukrokrela. Namhlanje sithetha ngesihloko abazali abaninzi abafuna ukusazi, kodwa abangaqinisekanga ngaso. Leyo yimeko ebizwa ngokuba yi-autism.

Okokuqala, masiqonde ukuba i-autism ayisosifo!

Le yinto yokuqala ekufuneka siyikhumbule sonke. I-Autism ayisosifo. Ayisiyonto ekufuneka inyangwe. Yintoni ke le?

Ngamafutshane, i-autism lutshintsho kwindlela esebenza ngayo ingqondo yomntwana wakho. Oku kunokuchaphazela indlela abona ngayo ihlabathi, asebenzisana ngayo nabanye, kwaye aziphatha ngayo. Oku sikubiza ngokuba yi -neurodivergent . Oku kuthetha ukuba ingqondo yakhe isebenza ngendlela eyahlukileyo kunengqondo yabantu abaninzi (i-neurotypical).

Cinga nje, abanye abantu babhala ngesandla sabo sasekunene, abanye babhala ngesandla sabo sasekhohlo. Ngumahluko nje, asiyompazamo okanye isifo. I-Autism injalo. Yinxalenye yobuntu bomntwana.

Kwaye i-autism ayisiyonto inye. Yahlukile njengemibala yomnyama. Siyibiza ngokuba yi-spectrum . Oko kuthetha ukuba umntwana omnye one-autism unokwahluka kakhulu komnye. Iitalente kunye nemingeni anayo umntwana omnye azifani nomnye. Ke ngoko, akukho sisombululo sinye esifanela bonke. Umntwana ngamnye kufuneka ancedwe ngendlela efanelekileyo kuye.

Ukuba ndicinga ukuba umntwana wam une-autism, zeziphi iimpawu ekufuneka ndizijonge?

Iimpawu ezinokubonwa kumntwana one-autism zinokwahlulwa zibe ziindidi ezimbini eziphambili. Ezi mpawu zinokutshintsha ngokweminyaka yomntwana. Masibone ukuba zeziphi.

1. Ubunzima kubudlelwane boluntu nonxibelelwano: Utshintsho kwindlela abantu abathetha nabasebenzisana ngayo nabanye.

2. Iindlela zokuziphatha ezilinganiselweyo neziphindaphindayo: Izinto ezifana nokwenza into enye ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ukucinga ngento enye.

Makhe sibone ukuba ezi zinto zibonakala njani ngokweminyaka yazo kwitheyibhile engasezantsi.

Iqela leminyaka	Iimpawu ezinokubonwa kubudlelwane bezentlalo
Umntwana omncinci	Ukungajongi into oyijongileyo, ukungajongi into oyijongileyo ngomnwe wakho. Akaphenduli xa ebizwa ngegama. Ukulahlekelwa ngumdla kwimidlalo efana ne "Hangy Muttan". Akanamdla wokukuzisela into ayifumeneyo. Ukujonga kude ngaphandle kokujonga ngqo emehlweni akho. Ukuthabatha isandla sakho usibambe phezu kwento ayifunayo (usebenzisa isandla sakho njengesixhobo). Umnqweno oqhubekayo wokudlala wedwa emva kweminyaka emi-2.
Umntwana okwiminyaka yesikolo	Ukuqhubeka nokuthetha ngezihloko ezimbalwa kuphela ezilinganiselweyo. Bathetha ngecala labo kuphela, kungekho ncoko phakathi kwabo bobabini. Ukulahlekelwa ngumdla wokuqalisa incoko. Ubunzima bokuvakalisa iimvakalelo zakho nokuqonda iimvakalelo zabanye abantu. Kufana nokujika xa uthetha, ungaluqondi kakuhle ulwimi lomzimba. Ukuthetha ngelizwi elinye. Ubunzima bokuqonda iimpawu zoluntu ezivela kwabanye.
Ulutsha	Ubunzima bokuqonda intsingiselo yoko kuthethwa ngabanye abantu (umzekelo, ukungaqondi ukugculela). Andizami ukuqala ubudlelwane nabantu. Zijonge emehlweni akho kaninzi okanye azijongi kwaphela. Ubunzima bokuthelekisa amagama kunye nolwimi lomzimba. Ubunzima bokwenza abahlobo noontanga, kodwa kulula ukuhlalisana nabantwana abancinci okanye abantu abadala. Kunzima ukucinga ngokwembono yomnye umntu. Ukungakwazi ukuqonda imithetho yentlalo efana nokubulisa nendawo yobuqu.

Ngoku makhe sibone ukuba loluphi utshintsho olunokubonwa kwiindlela zokuziphatha.

Iqela leminyaka

Iimpawu zokuziphatha

Umntwana omncinci

Ukuphinda amagama okanye izivakalisi eziviweyo kanye ngendlela eziviwa ngayo (echolalia).
Ukuphindaphinda izinto ezinje ngokushukumisa iingalo zakho, ukushukumisa umzimba wakho, okanye ukujikeleza intloko yakho kukwabizwa ngokuba 'kukuvuselela' .
Ukuqhubeka nokwenza into efanayo ngethoyi okanye inxalenye yayo (umz., ukuqhubeka ujikeleza ivili lemoto).
Nokuba utshintsho oluncinci kwimikhwa yemihla ngemihla lunokubangela ixhala elikhulu.
Ukucwangcisa izinto zokudlala okanye ezinye izinto ngokulandelelana, ungafuni mntu ukuba azitshintshe.
Ukwala ukutya iintlobo ezithile zokutya.
Ukungathandi kakhulu iintlobo ezithile zelaphu ezikhuhla emzimbeni, okanye izinto ezithile ezichukumisa umzimba.
Ukubonisa umdla omkhulu kwizinto ezingaqhelekanga, njengecephe lomthi okanye ifeni.

Umntwana ohamba isikolo/oselula

Ukuphinda amagama okanye izivakalisi ezivela kwiincwadi okanye kwiimuvi.

Ubunzima bokutshintsha ukusuka komnye umsebenzi ukuya komnye.

Ukukhetha kakhulu izinto eziqhelekileyo kunye neepateni.

Ukubonisa umdla omkhulu nonzulu kwisihloko okanye ingqokelela ethile.

Into ebalulekileyo kukuba bonke abantwana benze ezinye zezinto ezikhankanyiweyo apha ngasentla ngaxa lithile. Kodwa kwimeko ye-autism, ezi ayizizo izinto eziphela ngokuhamba kwexesha. Kwaye ezi ndlela zokuziphatha zinokubangela ukuba umntwana abe nemingeni ethile esikolweni naxa enxibelelana nabahlobo.

Ayizizo zonke izinto ezilucelomngeni! Abantwana abane-autism nabo banetalente ekhethekileyo

Njengokuba sithethe ngemingeni, kufuneka sithethe ngamandla kunye neetalente ezikhethekileyo abantwana kunye nabantu abadala abane-autism abanazo. Umntwana wakho usenokuba neetalente ezifana nezi:

Ukunyaniseka nokuthe ngqo: Ukukwazi ukuveza iingcinga zakho ngokuthe ngqo nangokunyanisekileyo.
Inkumbulo egqwesileyo: Ukukwazi ukukhumbula izinto ezithile nolwazi ngendlela emangalisayo.
Ukugxila nzulu: Ukukwazi ukugxila kwisifundo okanye umsebenzi owuthandayo kangangeeyure ezininzi uze ube yingcali kuwo.
Ingqalelo kwiinkcukacha: Ukukwazi ukubona kwaneenkcukacha ezincinci ezingabonwa ngabanye.
Amandla okwenza okulungileyo: Ukuba nengqiqo enamandla yokulungileyo nokubi kunye nokukwazi ukwenza okulungileyo nokuba akukho mntu ujongeyo.
Ukucinga ngendlela eyahlukileyo: Ukukwazi ukujonga iingxaki ngendlela eyahlukileyo nokufumana izisombululo ezintsha.

Kutheni i-autism isenzeka?

Akukho sizathu sinye sichongiweyo. Okwangoku kukholelwa ukuba yindibaniselwano yezinto zemfuza kunye nezinto ezingqongileyo ezinxulumene nokukhulelwa . Oku kuthetha ukuba ezi zinto zisebenza kunye ukuchaphazela uphuhliso lwengqondo yomntwana, nto leyo ebangela olu tshintsho.

Ezinye izinto ezinyusa kancinci amathuba okuba ne-autism zezi:

Umama uneminyaka engaphezu kwama-35 ubudala.
Ukukhulelwa kwakhona kungekapheli nonyaka emva kokuba nomntwana omnye.
Isifo seswekile ngexesha lokukhulelwa (isifo seswekile sokukhulelwa).
Ukusetyenziswa kwamayeza athile (umz. i-valproate) ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
Umntwana wazalwa ngaphambi kwexesha.

Kubalulekile: Ukuba nezi zinto akuthethi ukuba umntwana wakho ngokuqinisekileyo uza kuba ne-autism. Kwaye qonda ukuba akukho nanye kwezi zinto eyimpazamo yakho.

Ungayixilonga njani le meko?

Ukuba unenkxalabo ngomntwana wakho, into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenze kukuthetha nogqirha wakho wosapho. Oku kungenziwa ngakumbi kwiikliniki zophuhliso lwabantwana.

Inkqubo yokuxilonga i-autism idla ngolu hlobo:

1. Uvavanyo: Xa ugqirha wakho wabantwana ehlola ukukhula komntwana wakho, uza kukubuza imibuzo malunga nokuziphatha komntwana wakho kunye nentetho yakhe. Ukuba kukho amathandabuzo, uza kukuthumela kwingcali.

2. Uvavanyo lweengcali: Ugqirha wezifo zengqondo oqeqeshwe ngokukodwa, ugqirha wezifo zengqondo, okanye omnye umntu ochwephesha uza kumxilonga umntwana. Oku kuya kuquka:

Siza kuthetha nawe ngokubanzi malunga nokuziphatha nokukhula komntwana wakho.
Thetha nomntwana, dlala naye, kwaye ujonge indlela aziphethe ngayo.
Ngokusebenzisa iikhrayitheriya ezamkelweyo kwihlabathi liphela ezifana neDSM-5-TR, iimpawu zomntwana ziyahlolwa ukuze kubonwe ukuba ziyahambelana na ne-autism spectrum.

Akukho nto ifana novavanyo lwegazi okanye lomchamo koku. Olu luxilongo olwenziwa kuphela ngokujonga indlela umntwana aziphethe ngayo nokukhula kwakhe.

Zeziphi iindlela zonyango nenkxaso ezinokunceda umntwana?

Uyakhumbula indlela esathi ngayo ekuqaleni ukuba esi asisosifo, ngoko ke akukho "nyango" lwaso? Kodwa kukho iindlela ezininzi zonyango ezinokunceda umntwana ukuba alawule imingeni ajongene nayo kubomi bemihla ngemihla aze aphuhlise izakhono zakhe.

Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqala ezi zinto kwangethuba .

Abanye abantwana banokuba nezinye izifo kunye ne-autism. Umzekelo:

Ingxaki Yokungakwazi Ukuqwalasela Izinto Ngokupheleleyo (ADHD)
Ixhala
Iingxaki zokulala
Isifo sokuwa

Ukuba kukho iimeko ezinjalo, ugqirha uya kubanika unyango olufunekayo kunye neengcebiso kubo. Banokuthetha nesikolo baze baphuhlise iSicwangciso seMfundo soMntu ngamnye (IEP) esifanela iimfuno zemfundo zomntwana.

Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya

I-Autism ayisosifo. Lutshintsho kwindlela esebenza ngayo ingqondo yomntwana. Ngenxa yoko, ayinakunyangwa ngamayeza. Esimele sikwenze kukuqonda umntwana size simxhase.

Asinguye wonke umntwana one-autism ofanayo. Luluhlu oluneempawu ezahlukeneyo. Umntwana wakho usenokuba neetalente kunye nemingeni eyahlukileyo.

Ukuba unamathandabuzo nokuba mancinci kangakanani malunga nokuziphatha komntwana wakho, musa ukuzibamba uze ukhathazeke ngaloo nto, kodwa bonana nogqirha ofanelekileyo ngokukhawuleza ukuze akunike ingcebiso.

Okukhona umntwana eqala kwangoko inkxaso yonyango ayidingayo, kokukhona kuya kuba ngcono kwikamva lakhe.

Awuwedwa kolu hambo. Kukho oogqirha, iingcali zonyango, kunye nabanye abazali abanokukunceda wena nomntwana wakho. Ngolwazi olufanelekileyo nenkxaso, unokunceda umntwana wakho aphile ubomi obuhle nobunempumelelo.

I-Autism, i-Autism Spectrum Disorder, ukuziphatha komntwana, impilo yengqondo yabantwana, i-neurodivergent, ubudlelwane bezentlalo, abantwana, iingxaki zophuhliso

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